Kate, UK on BBC News Talking Point - Tall men: does size matter?:

I had a boyfriend who was at least a head shorter than me and while I did not care in the least, he was massively insecure about it. Obviously some women will prefer men to be taller than themselves, but everybody likes different things. The most important thing is for the man concerned to be happy within himself. When that hurdle has been overcome, everything else will fall into place.

Rolly Akinkugbe, England on BBC News Talking Point - Tall men: does size matter?:

Being a lady myself at 6'1, I would naturally prefer a guy at least 3 inches taller than myself, although it does a lot of women tend to prefer tall guys who seem much 'nicer' and 'acceptable', and stand out more. That is not to say that is the only criteria we look for in a guy, but it is very important. I have nothing against short guys, or rather guys shorter than myself, as they all perform the same 'functions' I guess, tall or short. The tall ones are more appealing and women always seek some sort of strong-towering protector. But I guess if the worse came to worst and love was really indeed blind, I wouldn't mind he had to stand on a stool, when the priest goes; 'you may now kiss the bride'!!!!!!!

Brooke Llewellyn, United States on BBC News Talking Point - Tall men: does size matter?:

Honey, Size DOES matter. I am SICK to DEATH of dating short men. NO more! Ugh, haven't they heard of bone banks, hello!? Just get a little bone implant in the old leg bone and maybe some personality as well. Short men are annoying. The only good thing is that if they look young enough, you can get them into a movie using a child's ticket!

Now she isn't a happy person, is she?

Barb, Canada on BBC News Talking Point - Tall men: does size matter?:

I have always been attracted to tall, slim men. Unfortunately, this does not mean that they are nice people. The attraction soon disappears if you find out they are a jerk. Yes being taller makes men look more attractive, but they still have to be a nice person to keep anyone attracted to them for any length of time. So all you tall guys, don't think you have it made, because a shorter, decent, honest, guy will win every time when it comes to a long term relationship.

Sally Hargreaves, England on BBC News Talking Point - Tall men: does size matter?:

I have recently fallen in love for the first time with a wonderful man who is an inch shorter then me and even more so when I wear heels. Guys you have nothing to worry about, the right women probably won't even notice.

Dee, USA on BBC News Talking Point - Tall men: does size matter?:

I'm a 6'2" woman and am engaged to a man who is much shorter than I. When I fell in love with him, it was his intelligence, wit and sensitivity that made him attractive not his height. We get along great, I consider him fit, attractive and a turn on. While I'm sure we will get plenty of stares, we are secure in ourselves and our relationship and do not find this to be a problem.

Angie, Brit in USA on BBC News Talking Point - Tall men: does size matter?:

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder! However, I think most women prefer a man who is taller than them. If she is 4' 11", probably a 5' 2" guy will suffice. Obviously, a tall man who is a prat doesn't have an advantage over a shorter man with good qualities. Short men shouldn't be intimidated because I have many tall friends who like short men. Unfortunately, really tall women don't have a lot of choice! At 5' 10" tall I have never actually dated anyone shorter than me; now that I am hitched to a bloke of 6' 4" all I can do is wonder what I missed out on.

RDV, Italy on BBC News Talking Point - Tall men: does size matter?:

I am 6 foot myself but I don't actively look for men that are my height or taller. In fact I think that really tall men (over 6 foot 4) are rather ungainly. However the majority of men have a real problem with my height (which is usually increased because I like to wear heels). Funnily enough now that I live in Italy, where the men are on average much shorter than in England, I find that men make much less of an issue about my height!! I think a lot of it has to do with how self-assured the man is.

Alexis wrote (in another guestbook):

Great, hello all! My name is Lexi and I am 19 years old and 6'2" tall. I have only ever met one woman taller than me (she was 6'2.5" tall). I have been this tall since I was 12 years old - believe it or not. I have found many dificulties in being tall in my life but ultimately it has been great. I am married to a man who is 5'7" tall and am loving every moment. It confuses me to see all of you tall women out there ignoring shorter men. I think that that is very selfish and stereotypical of you. We are all people - no matter how tall (or short) we are. I'm sure that we all got our share of negativity throughout our lives for being tall - and by discounting shorter people for friends and lovers we are doing exactly what has been done to us. I was the same way for a while when looking for relationships until I met my soulmate. All of a sudden the clouds lifted and I realized that it didn't really matter who was taller than who. Anyway - enough of the preachy stuff. I just want to say that I love being tall and all of the challenges that it has brought me. I have learned so much and have a long way to go. 

Janice (6'0") wrote:

I think what you have done with your page is great for us big girls..very clever... I wanted to share with you that when I was in grade, middle and high school I was very conscious of my height... However when I reached high school I was blessed to meet my gym-teacher who herself was no more than 5 feet... An elegant black lady who somehow managed to make me believe that my height was my greatest asset.. and get this - she even made me believe that she was envious of my stature... Imagine that.. my gym teacher, wife of a Colonel (who also taught the boys gym class), thought I was special... you can't imagine what that did to my ego...

Gloria wrote (in another guestbook):

I keep reading about tall women who won't date guys who are shorter, surely women are smarter than this. I'm 6'3" and if I automatically rule out guys under that height, it doesn't leave many options. I have learned that a man who is not intimidated by a taller woman is generally a very secure person. (O.K., maybe some have an over-active tall chick fetish-there are probably worse things) In case you haven't noticed, really secure men aren't very easy to find. I'm guessing that if someone has problems relating to another person solely due to their height, that person is not comfortable with themself!

Sybil wrote:

How nice of you to feel confident enough in yourself to appreciate tall, larger women? We ARE beautiful! And we have lots of love to give! Some men are actually missing out because they limit themselves. Oh well........ Maybe one day, I can meet a nice, confident man (locally) like yourself.

Tricia (6'1") wrote:

You don't have to be the same height to see eye to eye.

Mel wrote:

It's wonderful being tall but even more wonderful being admired. I think that I have found one of my favorite web sites, this site has everything that a tall woman would ever need. Being 6'3" I enjoy being tall and I want to say "Thank you" to the special person that designed this site, definitely a "Special" Person in my book..... :-)

Christina wrote:

I was 6'0" in 7th grade! It is hard to be the tallest, but keep your head high and have confidence in yourself. I am 6'4" now at 20 and I love being tall. Short people that will tease you only do it out of jealousy. Many short girls wish they were taller, but they are not going to admit to it! Think of yourself as being honored to be tall enough to reach things on the top shelf and still be able to reach the floor. Height is beauty!!! Just think, the taller you are, the more food you can eat without gaining weight!! :) If you want to be more "popular" play a sport, and everyone will love you. And only play a sport that you like, don't play just because you are tall!

Julie wrote:

Thanks for your email! I like your website, and forwarded it to another tall woman I know. I want to explore the links when I have more time, but thought I would tell you my favorite comeback to the question I always get asked, even though it might not translate to German very well :)

When someone asks me "Do you play basketball?" I reply with "No, do you play miniature golf?" :)

Tayah wrote:

It took me a long time to get comfortable with my height. All of the insecurity I developed from my height was no doubt caused by boys who made stupid remarks about my height simply because I intimidated them. However, being young, I had no idea that their comments stemmed from their own insecurities. I actually began to feel as if something was wrong or abnormal about me because I was so much taller than all of the other girls. Boy have I grown (no pun intended) and learned a lot since then.

Don't get me wrong I still experience men who are very intimidated by my height--(the strangest thing about this being most of it comes from men who are much taller than I am--go figure)--only now, it doesn't bother me a bit. The way I have chosen to look at it is if there are men out there who are so whimpy and insecure with themselves that a woman with height scares the heck out of them, I am very happy that these types do not approach me. Believe me, I can definitely live without that type!

Cameo wrote:

I  like being tall, othertimes I don't - I hate it when people ask me if I play basketball. It is like all tall people are supposed to be basketball players and supposed to be good at ALL sports. I can say from experience that I'm not good at most sports and I don't (!) play basketball. To me it is very insulting for someone to ask me that. The first thing I say when someone asks me "How tall are you?" is "I'm 6'4"and NO I don't play basketball."

I normally don't wear heels but today I bought my 1st pair with platforms and I love them. I love the extra height!!!! :)

Missy wrote:

Hi! Thank you so much for your website address! It's really neat! I am very proud of my height like some of the other women!  I find you look more confident and people notice you more when you have better posture. I have dated shorter men before, but for me I sometimes feel uncomfortable. I have a lot of friends who are shorter than me. That doesn't bother me. I love being with taller men because I feel safe when I am with them. They don't look down at me all. My personality doesn't allow that!  I would like to keep in touch!!   Thanks again for that website! I am sure that it will come in handy!! (I am about 6'1")

Meara wrote:

Being tall is great!
Hey, I am 16 years old, 6'1'' and I don't have a problem with shorter men, it's just that it seems kinda odd, and no one that I know who is short wants to go out with a tall girl!! But I tell people that I can see and reach things that they can't and I love it. They can't reach the peanutbutter on the top shelf without a chair, I can. I say: "Just hold your head up high and let them say things. Intimidate them, they will respect you in time. Power to being tall - tall rocks

Susan wrote:

Thanks you so much for referring me to your website!  It is just beautiful!!!!!!  I can't tell you how perfect the timing was in receiving your e-mail.  I had just returned from a "date", meeting someone who responded to my personal ad.  This guy was all flirty and fun on the phone, and asked me my measurements.  I'm a 6' tall, size 18/20 woman, who enjoys my height and my body size, but have a hard time describing myself to others.  I told him that asking for my measurements before he decided if he wanted to meet me was like me asking his penis size!  Then I was optimistic enough (or stupid enough) to meet him anyway.  I should know that if someone has an issue, and asks me "how overweight are you", they are not open enough for me to meet them. Anyway, the guy was all flirty on the phone, but then at dinner he had practically nothing to say to me.  It wasn't a total loss, I had a good Italian dinner, he was pretty cute to look at during dinner, and kinda funny, and I got home early enough to read a good book and eat some chocolates!!

I just want to tell you how much I appreciate someone like you who is open about what you prefer.  You made me rethink my personal ad, about putting "tall" in the description of the type of man I'm looking for.  Maybe I'm shortchanging myself!  (Get it? - har har)  This guy was 6"9", but I think I was just too much woman for him!

Sally wrote:

This was the most interesting site I have found so far !! I am 6'1" and often go out with shorter men... though it does sometimes bother me. This has nothing to do with them but my own self-esteem. I have met some great men but have not had a relationship purely because of height. I just hope I can get over it and be like some of the women I have read about here. I have met a great man who is a lot shorter... and it's me that has the problem with it! So thank you for you site, it has helped, just how much only time will tell.

Ashley wrote:

I need to extend my gratitude to you. Your page is the greatest tribute to tall women I've ever seen. I wish there were more men like you out there. I enjoyed all of it. You're a great man. Thanks again. Ashley (6'2")

Cassandra Rose wrote:

I am 6'3" and have been since I was 14. Now I am 17.....I think that everyone needs to stand tall. It doesn't matter how tall you actually are. The girls who stoop over need to get some confidence. Think - "Tall is pretty"....not "Tall is bad" I was, and still am, taller than all my girlfriends, and I have probably heard every tall joke in the book, but I don't let it get to me. I am the starting center for basketball, and I can see over the crowd in our school hallways. There is a positive for everthing, you just need to think about it.

"Tall" wrote:

All I can say is - WOW! You have quite a website and your strong and genuine interest in tall women is unusual, yet refreshing! Thanks for sending me the link to your website. The links to other "Tall" sites is extremely helpful. Good luck to you!

Marcia wrote:

6'3" tall and loving every minute of it. My boyfriend is 6'1" and he worships the ground I walk on and vice versa. Loved your site. Hats off to shorter men!

Suzanne wrote:

I strongly believe that it takes a genuine man with enough pride and self respect to love a taller woman. Myself being 6'2", I tend to intimidate men. I would like to commend you for being accepting of others who are different. Too bad there aren't more men like you around. ;)

Cindy wrote:

Very interesting... It almost sounds like you are doing a dissertation on relationships based on height. You hit the nail on the head w/many points you made. I found your web-page very interesting! Thanks! Cindy 6' tall

Geri wrote:

Joerg, I throughly enjoyed reading your web site on tall women. It made me feel beautiful. I used to hate my height, but I don't anymore. I stand as tall as I can. I'm sure it took you a long time to create your web site and it was very intiguing. Thank you for sharing it with me.

Margo wrote:

... I decided to check out your web site about tall women. Very interesting. You said some things I never thought about before. I was married to one of those kind of men who hated looking me in the eye or even having to look up to me (if I wore shoes with any heel). Needless to say, his insecurities made me totally insecure with my height and I vowed to NEVER date a man shorter than me again. Thanks for your site - it has made me realize that one apple may not necessarily spoil the whole barrel. You are quite good looking. Good luck with your TALL women friends. I'd consider it a privilege to correspond with you as a pen pal.

6'0" Aimee wrote (April 5th, 2014)

I'm only 14 and still growing but I love being tall! Sure, as a teenager I do feel self-conscious but people are jealous of my height! When I was walking through a shop with my mum, a little girl (about 5) said to her Mum, "Mummy, that girl is so tall!!!" her mum went to tell her off but she continued "I want to be like her when I grow up!" that made me feel good!

5'10" Anna wrote (February 11th 2014)

What really sucks, in my opinion anyways, is that I'm only ever hit on by short men and when I tell them my height their all "OHMYGOD, YOU'RE AN AMAZONIAN!" once, a guy even asked if I was an alien. I grew up with the "are you gonna play basketball when you're older?" (I was the tallest kid in my fifth grade class). Even now I'm still asked if I play basketball or if I'm going to and I'm like "why? cause I'm tall?" it's annoying. What's also annoying is when people say "Whoa! You're taller than me!" and I'm like, Oh, Sherlock, I didn't even notice. The good thing is, my best friend is also tall and we share our "tall girl problems" together. I also hate hearing the "God! You're feet are bigger than mine!" especially from men, it makes me feel bad.

At christmas my uncle (who is also VERY TALL) had brought his girlfriend home and I was talking to my twin cousins and their very short and one of them complained her feet couldn't touch the ground and I was like "I'd love to be short like that!" and she goes "I graduated with a girl who was 6ft, don't feel bad" and my uncle's girlfriend stood up and was like "What's wrong with that? I'm 6ft." and I decided I want to embrace my height like she has, I'd feel so much better. So, I am very thankful I found this site!

6'2" Dahlanee wrote (April 30th 2014)

Tall women are what men ,children, and girls look up to we are PHENOMENAL in everyway possible with are long legs to are beautiful smile we are TALL,BEAUTIFUL IN EVERYWAY 

5'11 1/2" Dasia wrote (February 24th 2014):

Hi, my name is Dasia. I am 14 and 5'11 1/2". I have been teased since I was in 7th grade because I may not have been as short as others. I have been called "Clifford, the big red dog" and "telephone pole" or a "tree". :( But I didn't let that bring me down... well maybe sometimes. My parents are tall too. My mom is 5'11" and my dad is 6'1" or 6'2". What really brings me down is when people say "oh, you're ugly and you'll never have a boyfriend", because I'm tall. I fight back and stand up for myself. It's ok to be tall.

At least tall people get to ride roller coasters. LOL, jk. But you have to love yourself or no one will. Maybe in time I will have a boyfriend and they wouldn't care if I'm tall or not. I realized that God gave me a gift and it's time that I accept it whether I like it or not. (Which I do). LOL. I am taller than all of my friends, but there are people (boys) that are way taller than me. Compared to them I look really short because they're like 6'4" or 6'5"! I do get annoyed when people, well, actually boys that are shorter than me say "dang, girl you are tall and sit there and crack jokes??? It's really annoying especially when they say you can never have a boyfriend. Yes I can. Every tall girl is beautiful - we may not be short like other girls or look as pretty as them but that doesn't mean no guy can ever like / love us. And I do get good compliments like "oh, you should be a model or basketball player". Well you know what? I don't! I want to be whoever I want to be. Everyone's beautiful! Tall Girls Rock!!!

5'11 1/2" Jewel wrote (March 26th 2014)

Joerg how are you, long time.

Anyways, when it comes to love, if it is real it puts no conditions that are shallow. I think physicality does not necessarily possess much bearing on a persons capabilities.  i.e. a tall woman is not necessarily "strong".  She may be just as strong or just as weak a your average female. I can attest to the above because just yesterday, a mechanic who is working on one of my cars surprised me beyond belief. This guy is about 5.6 and a half.  or 5.7.5 at a push. He is wiry type of thin/small - which is thin but sinewy, probably 5% body fat.  By no means "buff" or "big" or chunkily muscly built.

Anyways, the car is stuck in the mad and the tow track needs to pick it up, but it is in a complicated position - behind a building corner. You need to see how he pushed this car to the front!  The car ofcourse is off, not working so I had to steer whilst the guys pushed.  They were two in total pushing.  The other guy was no match. It was a six sitter biggish car. But he pulled and pushed - my was I shocked!

It certainly showed me that although most guys are big, they are not strong at all.  This what I had there?  - now that was a REAL man.

If a heavily pregnant woman needed picking up off the floor?  This guy demonstrated by miles that this would be a piece of cake for him.

First impressions of size tend to betray the truth as it were.  You may feel secure that he is big but is he strong.  Can he push your car to safety if it ran out of petrol?

A man's man is what is needed.  That guy yesterday?  Really did something to show that a guy doesn't have to be big to be strong. 

Tchuss Joerg.
Jewel.

5'11" Layla wrote (March 16th 2014)

Hey... I love this page. It makes me feel confident a lot... I kinda come from a tall family but I realised I'm way taller than my cousins and friends. I'm happy coz my mum really encourages me to wear heels even if I don't want to. Sometimes I feel like I could take on the world and fly but there are always those people whoz gonna be like "girl, u soo tall" but I just tell them I'm not a dwarf. LOL. I hate it when shorter guys act like they don't care and ask me out. I hate it. I want guys 6'2" and above. I love being tall cause I'm going to be a famous super model and I will be one the role models you gonna love. God is not a fool. Love who you are!

Erika wrote (August 25th 2000):

Hello, I am 6'7 and my boyfriend stands about 6'1 on a good day, we are quite a couple, and wanted to tell all, it doesn't really matter on the physical appearance attitude, "...You don't judge a book on its cover..."

Michelle wrote (in another guestbook):

To be asked the same question over and over again can get to be pretty annoying. Of course I play basketball! If you were 6' 3" and 17 wouldn't you? Another question is "Do you model? You should model...", don't you think I know that. I may get called green giant or tree but hey I'm actually starting to like my height, it may be hard to find a boyfriend but some short guys like tall girls!!!

Sharon wrote (in another guestbook):

Here is a good example of 5'8" guy and a 6'1" woman. I've dated my short guy for more than 2 years and we are completely compatible and there is no issue about the height difference. I just wish more people would keep in mind that we are either going to die young or grow old and shrink anyway!!

Monika (from St. Louis) wrote (July 12th 2000):

I am 6'4" and have dated all shapes and sizes.  All I have to say is Brooke, honey, you are missing out.  Short guys learn very early on that they need to make up for the height difference and they overcompensate in soooo many wonderful ways.  Excluding little guys that want to be eaten or stepped on or those who are not secure with themselves, shorter men tend to have better senses of humour, better communication skills, and better listening skills. Short men tend to pay attention to what you want because they know they need to provide it you with whatever they can.  This is especially nice when they pick up on all those little things they need to do to show you that you made the right choice.  Give short guys a chance.  Find a guy who's secure with his height, and yours, and make sure he isn't a fetishist...then prepare yourself for the ride of your life.  You might want to try out that cute tall guy first, though...because once you've been with the short guys, girl, you won't ever wanna go back.

CA Cowgirly wrote (in another guestbook):

Ok, WAKE UP WORLD!!!! It's ok to date whomever you want to however tall or short. After you've been married for 50 years you're gonna shrink anyway!! I'm with a fabulous man who is 5'9" and I'm 6'1" with a size 13 in women's shoes. There's nothing weird or strange or abnormal about it. It's not like he's 4' and I'm 8' tall. What is the big deal between an inch difference or 2 feet difference? There really is not that much difference. It's not freakish. It's normal. Size does not matter. Character and qualities of one's personality do matter. Dating one of a certain stature is the equivalent of dating someone with the "right" or "perfect" looks and physique. It should not matter because we are all going to grow old and looks will fade into wrinkles and white hair but if compatibility and love are there that's what is important. Unless you want to go through plastic surgery a million times you're gonna get aged. That is life. I don't think there is a way to add height to one surgically so forget the shallowness and be open minded. More people in this world need to view the big picture. By the way, is there a tall club north of Sacramento, CA? Have a great one!!

Kristy wrote (February 22nd 2000):

Hi Joerg,

I happened onto your website while looking for some clothing vendors online that might cater to taller women...Although I am on the short side of "tall," being only 5ft 9in, I wanted to weigh in with my opinion on the subject of shorter men/taller women.

I feel very strongly that the shorter man who approaches the taller woman exhibits much more confidence than the taller man who approaches the shorter woman. And even MORE confidence than the very tall man who is with a very short (child-size) woman (who seems to me to exhibit the least confidence of all!!)

Something else I have noticed: shorter men I have known have tended to be much more intellectually stimulating. And also much better listeners. My theory is that the shorter man, from an early age, learns to be more verbal, (perhaps so that he can talk his way out of bad situations?) as opposed to taller men who all their lives get by  intimidating others and commanding attention by their physical presence alone (and thus, having no need to verbalize, they don't learn to talk OR listen).

I know what I say may sound like generalizations, but I feel strongly that our environments shape us, as well as our genetics and certain body types are accepted as the "ideal" and certain other types, not being the "ideal" have to compensate in some other way. And in my experience, the sexiest short guys have been more like the ones I described above...and I much prefer the way these men "compensate" for their (supposed) shortcomings. ;-)

Ultimately, though, I must say that first and foremost, I am attracted to a man's eyes and what's between his ears. What he looks like, including how tall he is, comes  second. ;-)

Briana wrote (February 14th 2000):

Hi everyone. My name is Briana, and I'm 18. I'm also 6'1, and a BBW. I've learned over the course of my short life that the most beautiful thing a woman can be is HERSELF. Not a mirror image, but herself. Smile, relax, and listen. There are men out there that are DYING to be with women as courageous, intelligent and beautiful as we are. There is no one like us - no one even close. We are united, but we are independent. We are beautiful - and we are women.

Gillian wrote (January 17th 2000):

Hi! My name is Gillian, I'm 20 years old and 6ft tall. Firstly I would like to say to all you girls who literally tower above me - I really admire your confidence and think you're great (never realised there were so many of you!!). One day I hope to be able to say that I love my height. I used to, but since I turned 17 I've become very sensitive to the remarks and reactions I receive from people on a daily basis. Often I think they just don't realise what they're saying. Complete strangers will walk up to me and say "You're sooooo BIG!!" Now I know this is daft but for me 'big = fat' The rational side of my brain tells me I'm wrong - I wear a size 5 and weigh 133 so I can't be - but when it's been drilled into your head for the 1000th time it can impair your judgement a little. I'm afraid to say I have suffered from an eating disorder but I am recovering now and I must say that you're positive comments and stories have really helped me. Where I live people are generally pretty short so its just fantastic knowing that you are out there - somewhere!!!

Patti wrote (January 16th 2000):

Like most of you, I have dated men shorter than myself, and taller.  I was just under 6' (5'11-3/4" to be exact), but have started to shrink a little.  Anyway, the men shorter than me who were confident in themselves AND love tall women were GREAT... Those whose confidence levels were lower did in fact make me self conscience of my height.  So, I guess we all have very similar experiences.  The one problem that I face and have not been able to remedy is finding dress slacks that fit.  I wear a size 7 to 9 and have very slim hips, a VERY tiny derriere, and a 38" inseam.  It seems that the manufacturers who make slacks for tall women automatically think that we all have womanly hour glass shapes.  If any of you have a long, lean, popsicle stick shape like mine and can help me, I would be forever greatful!

Liz wrote (January 13th 2000):

THANK YOU! I just found your page, and I love it!  I've been surfing the net for 3 years, and I've never found a page like this dedicated to tall women.  I am 6'1", and I absolutely love being tall!  My ideal man would probably be 1 or 2 inches shorter than me.  I'm not exactly sure why that is, but I so totally appreciate shorter men who have the confidence to pursue a tall woman. :)

Christine wrote (January 13th 2000):

I am 5'11" and a half which is not that tall in comparison with some of the other women represented here but I have been that tall since high school and it was never a problem as far as men are concerned till I came to this state which has a predominately "short" population-male and female and truthfully I am sooooooo sick and tired of the attitudes displayed toward me here. The women are jealous and the men are full of the short man's attitude and it is very pervasive yet somewhat subtle but yet I have been painfully aware of it. I have never discriminated because of height but I would sure like to see an attractive tall man in this area. I actually yearn for that. So in summing up what I am trying to say it has not been my practice to judge anyone on the basis on height and it really has not become so but boy!-would I like to see eye-to-eye with someone-no pun intended! 

Emma wrote (November 18th 2001):

I'm seventeen and 6'1".... I've always been so self conscious because of that. It really knocks your confidence when total strangers feel compelled to stare at you in the street and remark on how tall you are. I get a lot of name-calling too, from younger kids, and that really hurts. What right do they have to shout abuse at me like that, just because I'm taller than I'm "supposed" to be? I get told a lot that I should be a model too- yes it's a compliment, I'm flattered, but doesn't it annoy you that because you're tall that's the only thing people think you can do? I'm not just a face and a pair of legs! I'm a mind, and a personality, and a sense of humour. Sometimes I feel like all that gets overlooked because everyone is so busy telling me how tall I am.. like I don't already KNOW! ;)

I feel a lot better about my height than I did a year ago, but sometimes I just wish I could be smaller. I've only ever dated one guy, and he was the same height as me.... shorter guys don't seem to be interested, I guess because they're intimidated or something. Not being able to find a guy because of my height knocks my confidence a lot, but pages like this bring it back!

I really admire everyone on here, for having the self-confidence that hopefully I'm on the way to finding. Thanks for this site, and all the others out there, and especially thanks to Julie who posted this further down the page- "When someone asks me "Do you play basketball?" I reply with "No, do you play miniature golf?" - I have to remember that one! ;)

Jennifer wrote (October 21st 2001):

Hi! I am 6'3". I prefer taller men. I have been married to a shorter one though. I am very proud of my height, wearing heels is a part of my everday life. I am always asked, why do you wear heels. Because I can! and I leave it at that. I have tried modeling. I think i am too tall for that. I work for a telephone company in the eng. dept.. There i am measured on work, not height. Love every min of it. But I must say on a professional level; My height has given me a boost of some sort. Height has always been generalized with power. Power is not associated with love. Good luck with all that have not found love. Jennifer

Christine wrote (August 11th 2001)

I was browsing the internet, looking for some pages on clothing for tall women when I stumbled across your page. I thought it was kinda unique, so I took a look. I am 6'6" myself and rarely find men - not to mention women - who are even close to my height. It took me a while to become confindent with my height but I found that I could use it to play basketball and that helped to make me a much more confident person. I have been dating a guy who is about 5'9", maybe 5'10"... but that's pushing it. I think I would prefer a taller guy but he is the kindest, sweetest man I have ever met. It bothers me that I almost overlooked him b/c of his height. But now we have been together for almost a year and a half... and I couldn't be happier. Anyways, I kinda laughed when you talked about your friends who are 6'2" and less. I guess being in the basketball world, that's the norm. To me, that isn't that tall. But, I have to admit when I saw that girl who is 7'2" (she plays in the WNBA), I said, I want to be friends with her!! I just think it would be cool to hang around someone who is taller than me, and female of course. Well, I have to go...just wanted to let you know that you site is great!!

Angel wrote (July 15th 2001):

I think your website is cool and it shows that there are tons of tall women around. My guy loves the fact that I am taller than him and loves a taller woman. He finds it very cool. I think more men should view tall women with the same respect and not be intimidated. Short guys Rule. (P.S.: I am 6'2", my guy is 5'7"!) 0:-)

Jennifer wrote (November 12th 2002):

I think this is a wonderful site. I am a really tall girl. As a freshman in high school I was the tallest girl in the school. It wasn't too bad, I got used to it. It's kind of fun to be tall, I have a few tall female friends and they are great, we have so much fun together. I've recently started dating a guy that's shorter than i am. He's great. I didn't think I could be attracted to a shorter guy but he's wonderful and it really is such an easy thing to overlook. I'm glad I'm not so hung up about height because if I were I really would have missed out on a great guy. Your site is encouraging and it makes me proud to be tall. After I sign off line i just want to go and put on a pair of high heels! Thanks!

Tess wrote (November 11th 2002):

Hi Joerg, I came across your website by accident. I'm not really tall (5'6) but my husband is shorter than me (5'2). We've been married for 8 years and I have never been conscious of my husband being shorter than I even when we're in public. He says it's the same with him. He told me this story which may be of interest to you and other women with shorter husbands or boyfriends. One day we (my husband and I) were waiting to take the elevator in a shopping mall when he found himself face to face with a well-dressed guy (business suit) with an attractive woman on his arm. What struck him was that the woman was almost a head taller than the guy and she was leaning against him (he had his body sideways to her), very relaxed, with her arms wrapped languidly around the his shoulders. The woman was also absently pecking at top of the guy's ear (an obvious display of affection) although she had her eyes on the contents of the shop window behind the guy. My husband thought: "What a lucky g! uy." It was only when the elevator door opened that my husband realized he was in fact looking at our own reflection on the highly-polished stainless steel doors of the elevator. Then he realized the "lucky" guy was him. I only remembered the incident hazily when he told me about it later. More power to you and your website! Tess

Ariane wrote (November 4th 2002):

I think sites like this one are great! I can relate to soooo much of what the women have said about people asking how tall you are and whether you play basket ball and all that crap. I've decided to answer the "How tall are you?" with "Taller than you"; the "Wow you're tall" with "Really? Oh my god you're right! I didn't notice before you kindly pointed it out to me!"; and the "Do you play basketball?" with "Do you play miniature golf?" Another good story I heard was when someone asked a tall person how the weather was "up there" they responded by taking a mouthful of water, spitting it at the person and saying "It's raining like hell!" I was 6' tall at age 12 and grew about one inch after that. I had to put up with even more crap back then like every boy running from me at school dances and comments like "Here comes the tree!" and "CN tower" and so on. People can be so cruel to each other.

Thank god I found a wonderful guy and we've been married now for seven years. He happens to be 5' 6". He is my soulmate and I wouldn't want anyone else. Interestingly enough, before I met him I always insisted that I would never date a man who was shorter than me. Here's a link to another good site which is all about tall women and shorter men: http://www.tallerwomenshortermen.com/

Tamara wrote (August 19th 2002):

Hi my name is Tamara and i'm 5'11 i love my height and i wish i was taller. but what is with the comments? here are a few i have had the misfortune to hear."your the kind of woman i like...like to climb that is","you know you really should model", "how is the air up there","did your parents feed you fertilizer?""do you play basket ball","let me guess, the truck is yours" i have met many women taller than me,perhaps its because i am above the average height for a woman, but i dont see the big deal.

Diana wrote (July 3rd 2002):

Im 26 and 6'3". I've never met another girl as tall as me so it's nice to know there are lots of girls over 6'. Like all of you, I have been approached by strangers many times who are compelled to tell me I'm so tall etc. I find it strange that they do that, it's like they think they're the first one to discover my height, people are odd in that way. I'd like to know what drives them to do it. To the girls who say they wear heels, I love them but they're inconvenient to wear, getting through door ways etc. Here in Australia - my height causes a lot of attention - not always wanted so I'm not keen to emphasise it too much although I am proud to be tall. I have found people assume many things about me, a good one is that I am powerful.This especially helps in work situations. When I was younger, I was always worried about my height,people assumed I was older and always expected me to be more mature, I would have liked to be treated like more of a kid. I liked what some of you said about short men, being more inteligent etc and not relying on their height for confidence - it will help me in seeking future partners. I have just ended a nine year relationship - height was never an issue, my partner thought my tallness was special (he was shorter than me). A good article to boost confidence for tall girls can be found at this address http://www.extratall.co.uk/news_biggest_worry_for_tall_girls_is_.htm Cheers

Holly wrote (May 25th 2002):

I've been tall my whole life and it was hardly suprising when my mum is 5ft11 and my dad is 6ft8. I am the tallest in our family with the exception of my uncle who is 6ft5 and of course my dad who towers over me like I do with the rest of my family and friends. I didn't use to like being tall but as I have gotten older people are starting to respect me and encourage me to make a carreer out of my height. I have almost beaten (although I may have by now) the Guinness World record for the longest female legs and seen as though I'm only 16 it is a great achievement. A lot of people at my school that I have just left think it's great me being as tall as I am and they all envy me and my long legs. There are also a handful of mainly lads that think I'm an inconvenience but I just say that they are jealous and they daren't say anything to my face as my height intimidates them. I have done some modelling but it became too expensive (believe it or not as I was meant to be the one that got paid) I'm now looking for another modelling agency that will take me on but it's proving difficult as most of them think that I'm too tall. I bet you've never heard that in the modelling world ???????? I am just an ordinary human being and can do the same things that other people do, just because I have an extra few couple of inches on my arms and legs doesn't mean it changes my species, have some other tallies out there thought that about the way people look at you and treat you because I have. I have horses and that's my main hobby, most people think that my horse must be massive but any hosey people out there my horse is only 14.2 hh which isnt very big and I take him everywhere and we've won many competitions. I am so glad that i was told about this website as it has been so much help to me and I love it. It's the main base for tall people all over the world and I now realise that there are many other tall people out there with a lot of people being taller than me. Stand up tall and enjoy your height at least you get noticed and can see what's going on at the front of a queue (ha ha ha) I LOVE BEING TALL AND I HOPE NOTHING CHANGES IT. To all the other tall teenagers out there: Be happy and if you are being bullied talk to someone and if anyone wants to get in touch with me - just email Joerg and ask him to forward your email to me.

Dara wrote (January 24th 2002):

I'm 30 and 6 feet tall.  Have been this height since I can remember.  My sister is the same height as well.  You would not believe the comments we get when we're together!  Everything from "what did ya'll two eat to grow so tall" to..."oh my gosh...there's two of em". I love it when people fuss at me for wearing heels.  I just say that I'm not going to not wear cool shoes just because everyone else is too short! Just have fun with it or you'll make yourself miserable.  AND Gap.com has EXTRA LONG JEANS!!!!!!!!!!!

Topaz wrote (December 26th 2003)

Hiya, I'm Topaz. My best friend is 5'11 and is so self aware of her height. I noticed your page when I was looking for a Christmas present for her (jeans, extra long) so I showed her it right away! It's helped her a lot at feeling not so odd one out and that she's 'short' compared to some! I had to write a reply and say thank you. I'm 5'4 and I get the same stick from the other side - "Shortass", blah blah and I would love to be tall. Mainly because I'd love to be a model and you have to be at least 5'7. There are loads out here who would love to be tall so please don't be like my mate (can't say her name she'd kill me! ;-) ) and let any comments get you down. She'll be visiting this site again and i hope she reads this, she'll know who I am! Bye!

Jennifer wrote (October 10th 2003)

I am in 7th grade and am 5'10. Most of the guys are shorter then me but i do not mind AT ALL! I am very proud of being tall and have been tall since the first day of kindergarten. when people (really short "cute" girls) talk about me like im not there, i sometimes think "Oh my god! Why am I so tall!" but then i think 'hold it hunny! You're tall and no one else here is like u' that's all I need!

Jodi wrote (August 24th 2003)

Hey, my name is Jodi, I'm 14 and am 5'8" and still growing quite fast! I stumbled upon this website by accident and I think it's great, I sometimes worry about my height but recently I've noticed how much it really doesn't matter! I even bought myself some heels for school. Most of my mates are shorter than me all except one and they are all great! Our heights range from about 5' to 5'9" so as you can probably guess, we don't really worry about it. Jokes do pass around and some extremely nasty comments and such, but I simply remember they aint worth no time of mine and just smile at them and say thanks and walk away. I will not stoop to their level! Thank you so much for giving me confidence in myself and helping me to be proud of who I am!!

Daniela wrote (August 22nd 2003)

I'm 15 and 5'8", though it's not as tall as some as the other women on this site...I still experience all the problems that they do. For example: In school, the desks are made for the shorter/average height people, and taller people, have trouble fitting their legs underneath the desktop.

And then there's the comments...the usual: "Do you play basketball?" "No." "You really should." Don't people realize that there's more to playing a sport than height? And the modeling comment...a man down my street always tells me that I should really think about being a model, but the way he says it...is just I don't really know how to say it...perverted?

I'm the tallest girl in my grade, if not my whole school, so therefore, all my friends are shorter than me. They always say the stupid comments that they think don't hurt, but lately I've realized that they really do.

I've dated many guys who are shorter than me, and my (so-called) friends usually have something to say about it. Makes me feel like I should really give up sometimes..but my best friend is a guy and he's about the same height as me and he made me promise to him that I would not give up. I just hope that all tall women have a friend like him.

Your site has really helped me a lot Joerg, I thank you sooo much!

And to all the tall women and teens that are picked on for their height, just remember...you can always step on those little bugs! :-D

Erin wrote (July 29th 2003):

Just wanted to say to all the Tall women out there like myself to be proud and never let the "short" minded people catagorize you just because of your stature. I'm 6ft-3 and it never fails to amaze me how people think you're public property and can say anything they want. The insensitivity at times is unbelievable!

I used to either try and ignore these people or be nice. But not anymore. If I get rudeness I point it out, or give it back!

My husband is 6ft-8 and has his owns stories about how certain things are expected of unually Tall males. For example, other usually shorter "tough" men trying to pick fights with him in bars just because hes the tallest man there.

I'm teaching my two young children, one boy and one girl to be proud of their height. And to be as accepting of others as my husband and I are. Maybe that why my children are so loving and nonjudgemental.

My experience as a tall woman could be written in a book. I've often thought of it. One of my themes would be how ultra-tall women bring out insecurity in men. Security and self confidence is within. Not based on how tall or short you are.

Robbie wrote (February 2nd 2003):

You're a strange little guy. Why must you go through so much psychobabble to justify your insecurity? We are not all the same. Deal with it shorty...

Reply from Joerg (same day):Good to know that you're one in about 500 who thinks that way so I don't actually care what you're saying. Have a great life!

Reply from Robbie (same day):

So your saying that because the (in your words) I am a minority that makes you right? I am only a minority on your wierd web site. Not to scientific. Are you only interested in perception or reality? Did you vote for Bill Clinton? Thank God I'm 6'8" and don't have to fool myself every day into thinking I am someone else.

Another reply from Joerg (same day):The reality is - even if some tall women don't subscribe to my views they still find the collection of links to clothes and other topic-specific information useful. This website is supposed to help tall women who aren't as confident about themselves as you seem to be and, as far as I can gather from the feedback I am getting, it's achieving that goal. Not everyone likes me or the motivation I had when setting up the website but they still use the information I've collected to their advantage or to simply learn about other tall women out there. What you're saying is that if you don't like Rupert Murdoch you're not going to watch Fox, if you don't like Ted Turner you're not going to watch CNN and so on. As I stated above - the website isn't about me... I just decided I put my views on there as well... You probably think the web (and women of height) would be better off without it being there? Why do I get the feeling that you're not particularly interested in the self-doubts other tall ladies have? Most women who criticise my contributions don't give a damn about others and even though I'm not a tall woman I try to be constructive... not simply destructive for the sake of it. Cheerio. 

Jackie wrote (December 7th 2004)

Hi there! My name is Jackie, and I am 37, and 6 feet. I hated it when I was in HS because I was also very thin, being called Beanpole, Dem bones, etc. But now, I LIKE being different than anyone else. Men think you are different, exotic even, especially if you have a pretty face and hold yourself upright. Slouching only makes you look insecure, plus it makes your back hurt. If a man has a problem with your height, that is HIS problem! My man is 6'2, and I like being associated with women like Gisele and other models. Why want to be 5'4 like everyone else?? Stand out as a tall beauty!!! I do!!! Take care of yourself because you DO stand out. Take care, and enjoy it!

Vanessa wrote (December 6th 2004)

I am 6'2" tall and I love every inch of it! I used to get annoyed at people's comments about my height but I've grown up and grew out of the stage of being defensive... it's not my problem they are JEALOUS! HAHA

Denise wrote (November 29th 2004)

I was trying to find the Tallgirl site and this site came up. So I started to read and I find what you (Joerg) and these other tall women say interesting. I am a tall woman 6'1 and I am a thick woman also I am a 13/14. I have never quite got used to being this height and I have been tall since 6th grade... what I do find interesting is that you said TALL WOMEN LIKE SHORT MEN!!! That is my biggest thing I don't date short men... so I guess that is why I am still single I am so picky I wear heels so I am always 6'3 or 6'4... but like you also said I am not secure with myself and how tall I am and the size I am i feel like I intimidate alot of men. I wish that I could just accept my size and be happy with it but I can't. HELP!!! Denise

Chris wrote (November 17th 2004)

I was surfing the web looking for some new clothes and found your site - talk about awesome!

I'm 33 and 6' 1 1/2" tall... and yes, I'll claim that extra half inch!  Like lots of tall women, I didn't really like being "different" in high school (and if I NEVER get asked "Do you play basketball?" again it will be too soon), but then I realized that a lot of it is in the way you carry yourself.  My mother (who was tall in her day at 5'10") used to tell me not to slouch, because that actually only made my height MORE noticable.  If you've seen the second "Spider-Man" movie and saw the thing, tall, Russian girl who has a crush on Peter, you might notice that the way she slumps makes her look even more gangly.

So stand tall!  =)

For the record, my fiance' is 5'10" and I wouldn't have it any other way.  Plus it's an excuse to not wear heels,

Chris in Texas

Tabitha wrote (October 21st 2004)

My name is Tabitha Chambers. I am 6'6" tall and am proud of it. I remember in elementary school when children would tease me and call me all sorts of mean names because of my height. I took it all in stride because I knew within the depths of my heart that God blessed me with this height for a reason. I want to thank all the positive role models that have been placed in my life over the years who encouraged me to walk tall and to keep my head held high.

Sally wrote (September 21st 2004)

Hi everyone! I am 34 and 6 feet tall and after 20 years (more or less) of being this tall, I have gotten used to it. I used to be very insecure about it and my first boyfriend, who was a few inches shorter and who had real issues with it, made me feel even more insecure (a sense of power on his part). My own mother who is 6 feet tall as well is very insecure (even though she pretends otherwise). She has even said in the past that tall people should not have childern. Not a huge surprise that I was insecure myself. I learned early on how to turn around negative comments and see that they were coming from insecure people who assume that you are too (as you should be for being tall....right?) and try to use that against you. For every negative comment I used to receive, I would get one about how elegant I am and how much people admire my height. THOSE are the ones to pay attention to. And eventually the negative comments have stop coming. I think that is because I have learned to appreciate the positive ones and really appreciate my height and therefore become more secure with myself. I have a 7 year old daughter who will be tall and I am going to do my best to make sure she loves it. My husband is my height but he slouches so I am actually taller :-) He is always telling me to buy some high heels so I can be even taller! HA! What a catch! Everyone is insecure about SOMETHING, if we tall women were shorter we would find something else to worry about! Long legs rock, and Joerg, so do you!

Tamisha wrote (September 20th 2004)

I just would like to say that I LOVE your website! You make me feel so good about myself. When I was young, I would pray to God to shrink me. When I grew past my older brother when I was in High School, I thought my life was over. Your website makes me feel like I am not alone; I love it! I also want to add that I wouldn't even give any consideration to a man that was shorter than me.Because of this, I have missed out on a lot of great men. I have only been with men who are taller than me and they have all ended up treating me like yesterdays trash. Because of your page, I think I will give short a chance!

Benetta wrote (September 19th 2004)

I'm 14 and im 5'10". People always make stupid comments like damn look at that tall ass girl and look at shaq little sister. That hurts my feelings sometimes, plus it is really hard to find a tall boyfriend all the short boys seem to be interested and the tall boys dont. I have just learned to deal with it maybe i have a purpose for being tall like modeling or basketball and at first it bothered me but now when people say damn look at that tall ass girl or something equally as stupid I just laugh and say i know right!!!

Lynne wrote (July 23rd 2004)

I came across this site when I was depressed, and wondering if there were any other tall girls like me. I'm 18, and 5'11. I am told that i am very beautiful all the time, but I get comments about my height just as often. This site showed me that there are many other women who are not the typical 5'4, and that it is O.K.. I am truly touched by the appreciation expressed for tall women. Thank you for the inspiration!!

Emma wrote (July 2nd 2004)

I just stumbled across this page by accident, and I remembered coming here a few years ago and being so encouraged from everything I had read.

Well, I'm 20 now - still 6'1, and I love it. I can walk down the street without feeling that I have to slouch to seem smaller. I'm currently single, but now when guys point out my height I take it as a compliment. People still stare at me on the street, but now I stare back and I feel proud that I'm different. It took me a long time to get to this point, but I'm happy being tall and I wouldn't change it for the world now.

Thank you Joerg, for the inspiration.
Emma

Sarah wrote (June 23rd 2004)

I was actually searching the net for information on surgery to make myself shorter (I am 6ft 2 1/2 ins). But after finding your site I realised that I wasn't as freakish as I imagined myself to be, and knowing there are so many places that do sell clothes and shoes for girls my size is a real confidence booster. You are right the problem isn't with our height, it is society and it's treatment of those who don't fit the 'norm', thank you for making this site you have done something very very worthwhile here.

Marianna wrote (April 25th 2004)

Hey everyone! Thanks soooo much for creating this site!! I just like to say I absolutely love my height!!! Everyone out there with height hang-ups should think to yourself: 'short girls wear heels to be taller and more appealing, whereas us tall girls can be on the beach and still be tall!!' I'm 5'11 and only 16 and I've never really had bad comments madetowards my height, and i always loved being taller than the boys when i was in school! Tall is beautiful, tall is associated with models, and theres always the shorter girls saying how insecure they feel when all they ever see is tall girls in magazines etc! We don't need plastic surgery to become taller which a lot of people resolve to!! So be proud, stand tall because you are all gorgeous! xxxmarianna England

Teri wrote (June 29th 2005)

What an interesting website!! I wish I had seen something like this when I was 16 or so. I am now 47 years old and 6'2" tall. I love it now, even though I struggle to find long jeans and pants that are affordable. To all the younger girls that are still struggling with their height - just hang in there and try to enjoy being able to see over everyone in a crowd and watching everyone's faces when you stand up from a chair! If you look at it the right way, it really can be rather funny!! I have been married for 25 years to a wonderful man that is 6'6", and we have 3 children - a 20 year old son that is 6'7", a 19 year old daughter that is 6'1" (and doesn't hesitate to wear 3" heels!!), and a 17 year old son that is 6'6". We create quite a stir when we are all out together!! I met my husband because of our height!! His roommate at the time saw me out with some friends, and told me that he had a perfect guy for me! About an hour later, I saw a wonderfully handsome, very tall man walk in, and I knew that he had called him! We were introduced, and the rest is history! Being tall isn't always the easiest thing to deal with, but, once you're comfortable with yourself, it's hard to beat!! For those in the United States - try to think of yourself as a "Long Stemmed American Beauty"!!!!

Ashley wrote (June 26th 2005)

Wow, I can't believe there's a site for tall women - it's so amazing... Although I wouldn't really call myself tall anymore (5'7) I know exactly what you guys are talking about. I have been the exact same height since I was in the fourth grade. That is when you are just finding yourself... which unfortunatly gave me a very low self esteem. Nicknames like jolly green giant and what not are so hurtful at that age especially when you are looking for acceptance so desperately. However I am stil taller than most guys my age and I love it. I have finally excepted my height and I have never been happier and seeing all these wonderful messages from you great women who are so much taller then me is so inspirational :)

Anna wrote (June 26th 2005)

l came across this site by accident as l was looking for sites that sold trendy clothes for taller women. l am English and am 39 years old. What really strikes me about this site is that being tall seems to produce such similar behaviour from people. l am 6ft and curvy with it, l work in an enviroment where l get to meet people from all over the world and would say that taller women and men are on the increase especially teenagers and all that is down to is diet and genetics. Sometimes when you live in small towns or cities you can feel like a freak when all your friends are regular height and people stare at you as though you ve come from outerspace,but thats because those types of people will never be different and will always look the same as each other. Basically it is height envy. I love to wear heels and have always loved fashion and make up.When people stare which they do often, l know its because l have learned to be confident in my height and it shows in the way l walk, carry my self and from the way l deal with people. Eye contact is one of our best tools. People do treat you differently - most with respect and awe and l would add that most assume your more intelligent and funnier because of our naturally higher view point on life. With regards to men and boys, l've learned that the smaller man is always envious but secretly admires you and the taller man is attracted to a partner of his own height as it's better for his whole posture. So really you are blessed with a natural talent, always try to make the best of yourself and keep a sense of humour.

Kim wrote (June 25th 2005)

My credentials: 24, 6'2"... I reached the six-foot mark when I was about thirteen and stopped growing around nineteen. Yes, I was shy & insecure while in the process of coming to terms with who I am, mind, body & spirit - but we all go through that, every last one of us! Even the shorter folks.

I'd just like to say to everyone here that when people meet you and remark on your height (innocently in almost all cases!)... it's no defect of THEIR character if YOU take offense. Yes, I used to be offended, too. But at some point you have to come to terms with it and take responsibility for your own responses. And the infamous "Do you play basketball?" is just one of countless examples of a person that's being socially less-than-tactful when caught off guard. She who is without sin, please cast the first stone! :)

As for romance: think about it - do you go out with people to whom you are simply not attracted (for whatever reason)? Nope? Then you have to accept that OTHER PEOPLE HAVE THE RIGHT TO AS WELL. If they don't want someone taller than them, that's their perogative. And again, it's no character defect of theirs - it's a preference, just like we all have. And accepting your preferences is, in my opinion, part of accepting who you are.

It's true, there are not many guys taller than us out there. And so many of them seem to prefer shorter women. But think about it, ladies... a tall man knows that tall women have less of a selection (they often, as many people do, assume that we only want a taller man.) He may be wondering if you really care about him for who he is, or if you're just after him for his height. Makes sense to me! Maybe I'm just shallow... :)

In closing, take care of yourselves, and love your fellow man. We're only here for a short time together, and we'd better make the most of it.

Lindsay wrote (June 24th 2005)

Here I was cruising the internet looking for a place that made some jeans long enough to fit my 38" inseam and I stumbled on to a website that covers a topic near and dear to me.....being tall. I'm 26 years old and 6'4" Ive been taller than everybody else my whole life  (except my baby brother who's 6'7"). And a day never passes where I dont hear about how tall I am from somebody. Now I know for most tall people that's probably really annoying and redundant but I look at it this way: If they weren't commenting on me than I wouldn't be something special, if they weren't noticing me then I wouldn't be something beautiful. Fortunately for me growing up my father was a huge support system in my life. He taught me to be strong, he taught me to believe in myself, and most importantly he taught me to love myself. Nobody else will love you until you love yourself. For all of the younger beauties who are still coming into their own I offer you this advice..... Walk tall, throw your shoulders back and your boobs forward; take on the world with your head up and your eyes focused on the prize. To those who have been given a lot, a lot is expected. Never let anyone take away what is rightfully yours...your self esteem. When you get older you will have to beat men off with a stick...promise! (I never thought it would happen but it does!)I've had all the mental battles there is when it comes to being tall, and I promise you that there are alot worse things that could be wrong with you. Men adore you and women are jealous of you....what more could you ask? Hang in there and be proud of what you are.... BEAUTIFUL!

Rosalyn wrote (June 23rd 2005)

Hey, I am a single female from NYC and I am 5'10, 180lbs and I am a size 16. I am proud to say I am on a diet to slim down a little but it is for me. Yes, I am tall and sexy with it!!!! I was intimidated but as I grew older and realized how good I look in heels... good bye insecurity, hello heels!!!!

Brittany wrote (June 21st 2005)

For all you tall girls out there like me who have the hardest time finding sexy jeans that fit the length of your legs so you can wear 3 inch heels won't have a problem anymore. Go to WWW.TALLCOUTURE.COM and look under there jeans. The Hudson Destroyed supermodel dark denim jeans and regular washed denim come in length 37 and 38. You don't have to put them in the dryer and preserve more length. Just dry them when they are a little damp and you will get that snugh fit. GOOD LUCK!

Added by Joerg: Gap.com, Buckle.com and Alloy.com have jeans with extra-long inseams.

Kati wrote (June 20th 2005)

Hello, I'm Kati from Sweden and 6ft tall. It seems so funny that you complain, because 5'9' - 5'11" is so normal around here! Tall girls are beautiful and men love them. It's never an issue for a man if a woman is taller. They look at the whole thing and what a great couple Tom and Nicole were!!

Elena wrote (June 19th 2005)

Hi, I am 5'11, 26 and living in Los Angeles. It's funny, but guys here regard tiny, petite and short girls as a status symbol. But, I've come to understand that if you like yourself (easier said than done) people will pick up on that and either leave you alone or adore you. I've always allowed men to treat me not just terrible but inhumanely and the worst part is that deep down I always felt I deserved it for being too tall or not pretty enough  until guys started telling me how they were using my insecurities and self esteem issues against me and how much of a turn off my self loathing was. I really hope that after so much pain, I have grown and come to love me. Thank you for so wonderful site. Ciao ELENA

Vanessa wrote (June 18th 2005)

Hey Guys! I live in Germany and just today I found out about this web page. I read a lot of your comments and it really makes me feel better that I'm not the only one who's that tall. By the way I'm 18 and 6 ft tall. I hate it. All of my friends are a lot shorter. They can wear whatever kind of shoes they want and they can have almost every man they want. But what about me? Almost every guy I like is shorter than me. For some boys it isn't a problem but for other ones it is. I'm attracted to tall and short guys, but I only want to have a taller boyfriend, because it makes me feel more comfortable. I dont play any sports and there is no reason to be proud to be so tall. Even though I get the same questions as you guys. Maybe modeling would make me feel better... I never waer any high shoes because that makes me just more uncomfortable. I had only one boyfriend in my life, and he was shorter than me. Everyone is like: Why are you single, you're so pretty, but I guess the reason is because I'm so tall. I have depressions sometimes that make me cry all day.

Well, I just hope it makes u feel better that you are not the only ones in the world, who are so tall. Take care

Kari wrote (June 16th 2005)

I'm 18 and 6'2". Like many of you, I have faced the standard comments "How tall are you?", "Do you play basketball?" "Do you model?" and so on. What really irks me though, is people who just meet me and the first thing they say is "Your so tall". I know!! I wish that shorter people would realise that we KNOW we're tall, and don't need it pointed out.

Anyways, I've always had a love-hate relationship with my height. Theres days that I love it, but there is also days where I feel lonely and hate it. I've used it to my advantages before... basketball, and I did a bit of modelling once upon a time..but it's really hard, especially around all these short tiny girls. So I quit those things, because the pressure placed on me...because of my height. Those are my biggest regrets, esp. quitting basketball...if there are any truly tall girls (now I'm talking 6'+, not 5'9" because 5'9" in my eyes, is the perfect height...not to short, and not to tall) who ever consider quitting something because of their height...I beg of you, reconsider because now I'd give anything to be back playing basketball...and I could have gotten a scholarship to the states...but I gave it all up.

So all in all, be proud of your height! Don't let shorter people get you down...I did, and it changed my life for the worst. xo

Sarah wrote (June 14th 2005)

I just want to encourage all of you to think highly of yourselves. God said that you are fearfully and wonderfully made (Ps 139). Do you realize that a lot of the negative comments are really hidden jealousies and insecurities. People, for some unexplainable reason view tall people as a threat and imagine that they are more competent, athletic and intelligent. That's all it really is. As a tall person you automatically stand out which intimidates those who would love to be noticed more. When you discover that you are blessed and beautiful you will notice how people will celebrate you. So don't be cast down. After all the best encourager is the one staring at you in the mirror! Chin up God loves and He's made lot's of men who love you too!! Sarah

Susan wrote (June 11th 2005)

My advice, after 30 years of being tall.. Wear heels and stand proud - and when a short guy mentions how tall you are, just smile and pat him on the head.

Tessa wrote (June 10th 2005)

I'm 21 now, and I've been 6'1" since i was 16. I just want to say to everyone out there that is in highschool and thinks they're too tall....get over it! Everyone is their most self concious and akward in highschool, so they like to point out differences in others to make themselves feel better. Just think of Tyra Banks. And remember the rude comments come from ppl that are the most insecure. I too have gotten all the "tall" comments: Do you play basketball, you should be a model, wow you're huge, how tall are your parents, do you play volleyball, do you like being tall, amazon, what nationality are you, you're actually well proportioned, you make me feel short, you're a tall glass of water.....the list goes on. It used to annoy me, but now I just laugh it off and say things like: do you play miniature golf?, you have dandruff, it's just hard to fit into cars made for midgits, Oh yeah, and my nationality is Amazonian. lol I love the way I am and wouldn't ever want to be shorter. Don't let others comments get you down. Just be proud of your height and don't let it rule your life. You'll always get more complitments and respect when you exude self confidence.

P.S.: If a boy doesn't want to date you because you're "too tall"....he's not nearly good enough for you. Look for a man that can handle all the beautiful woman that you are. ~tes

Stephanie wrote (June 9th 2005)

Some of you older tall girls (you're not really old but I'm only 15) are really depressing. Embrace your height, I mean I'm noticed a lot more for my sports (volleyball & basketball) than I would be if I was only like 5'7" or something. By the way, I'm 6'2" and I love it!! Most days at least until I look for a guy ahh! :)

Carolyn wrote (June 8th 2005)

I am 36 years old and 5'10" tall. I hate it. I have always been very self-conscious of my height. I am trying to feel good about myself and recently I have started buying shoes that are 1 1/2" to 2" (but I won't go any higher than that). I won't wear skirts because I have skinny legs and skinny long feet and I feel I look silly.

On the other hand, it does stink being tall, but there is nothing we can do about it but accept it and just be glad like another guest said that we are healthy.

Lauren wrote (June 8th 2005)

Hi! I'm sad to admit that I'm about to be 21 and just realized how lucky I am to be tall. I'm 6 feet tall if you ask guys and friends, but honestly I'm 5'11 1/2... lol. They just like to think that I must be taller. I've had such a love hate relationship with my height. I used to be a size 2/4 and was doing modeling in Miami until school became too demanding in Orlando. I honestly dont like modeling. I like to know that I can eat what I want! lol Well anyways guys always put me down for my height. I cannot tell you how many times I've heard" You're too tall to date, a guy wants to feel like the dominant one by being taller than you when you wear your heels". Honestly, I think it's a bunch of crap. It's hard though because I do love my shoes..and I'm quite stubborn and dont want to take them off. Well anyways, I hope that one day a guy can deal with it, especially since I'm really not that tall! But I must say... god bless my height.. us tall girls never have to look up to pretty much anyone:) plus we can pack on more weight and not look as bad as shorter girls.. remember that.. lol

Elisebet wrote (June 5th 2005)

Hey! I'm only a 5'10" American girl (a lot shorter than many of you), but I had always hated being tall, because guys are usually not much taller. I love wearing heels, but when I do...I tower over men! I dated a guy for 2 years that is an inch shorter than I am, and I always slouched next to him and stood on one foot to look shorter. In retrospect, I realize how silly I was. I felt like I looked like an enormous girl -when in reality, he just looked short and scrawny! I never had any reason to be concerned about my height! (if either of us should have been concerned over our heights, it should have been him over his own short height!). Anyway, if you can't be comfortable with your own height with a shorter guy - find a taller guy! They are out there (my boyfriend is a 6'5" Australian basketball player), and he has several other friends that are 6'3"-6'8". I know at least a dozen guys that are 6'3"-7'0". Try to meet some basketball players or guys with Dutch or Scandinavian backgrounds... They are out there--they are more common then we are!

Chelsea wrote (June 3rd 2005)

I am 16 and 6'3". I see that there are a lot of people in here that don't like their height...not only do I like my height, but I LOVE IT! I used to hate it and it took me a while to start loving it. Now I am a volleyball player, and because I am tall I have been being recruited since I was in 9th grade. Soon, I will be playing volleyball at a college on a full scholarship. My mom is 5'5 and my dad is 5'10". My older sister is 5'7". So where did I come from? I am adopted, and my biological mother is 5'10 and father 6'7. In family pictures, I am the tallest by far. I used to hate it, but I realize that it makes me special. I know that sounds lame. Think of it this way, the world sees tall as being a sign of beauty and power. Every time someone asks you how tall you are that are complimenting you. How many other people get noticed in a crowd for having a unique body? I'm not going to lie though, finding a taller boy is hard. Just as some women are attracted to shorter men, and I am only attracted to taller men. But for those of you like me, even when it seems like there are no tall guys out there, it is possible to find one. I just found myself a 6'9 basketball player. I know that my little blurb won't change your outlook. But next time someone says "wow, you're tall", just say thank you. Because it is a gift, and I believe that more often than not people's comments are meant to be compliments.

Jac wrote (June 3rd 2005)

Well, it seems a lot of the messages have put down the height factor. I used to hate it, seeing I am 16 and am 6"2 and still growing. This year i have learned to embrace it. I am so close to dunking and am all star of the volleyball. Im beginning to literally and metaphorically look down at the people that come up to me in the grocery stores and say "Excuse me, Miss, but how tall ARE you?" - they admire us so flaunt it.

Cresta wrote (June 2nd 2005)

Have been reading some of the quotes on here and felt that I had to put my thoughts down. I'm 6ft 2" and my height, although it has brought me some anguish from insensitive people in the past, has involved me with things I would never have done if I had been short and insignificant! I have been in the Spice Girls movie as a glamorous dancer, been on Vanessa (talking about height), Been in full page spread in The Mirror (for long legs of britain). I have been asked to model by a top model company whilst standing giving out leaflets in london (whilst as a student!). Without my height I wouldn't have had half the attention from guys! I have had much success with the opposite sex and, funnily enough, I will only go out with guys who are between 5ft 10 and 6ft 2" and no taller! I'm just not used to guys being taller I suppose lol! I have had a great 20s and now at 32 am having a great 30s! It can be hard sometimes but for the most part life is great!

Sophie wrote (May 31st 2005)

Wow...guys...i know exactly how you feel. I don't get teased or bullied but people mention to me about how tall i am (6'2''....im 15) and the repeditiveness of the comments are annoying...however....i KNOW for a fact i am beautiful! think of all those short girls who want to be like us....buahaha...keep trying girls! this is an awesome website by the way! :)

Lindsay wrote (May 29th 2005)

Hey ladies!! My name is Lindsay, 18 yrs old and I'm 6ft 1in, size 9 shoe, and I think my butt is too big. I love heels I'm a short person in a tall persons body). But you know what? I LOVE MY HEIGHT!!

I'd like to start off by saying something very important: YOUR HEIGHT IS A GIFT!!

You may not believe me right now, but later in life, you will realize that what you have is what you've got to live with, and once you accept yourself, other people will respect you and your confidence. SERIOUSLY.

Ask yourself this: "If I don't see through my small imperfections and realize my true beauty, then who will?"

-Once you realize that NOBODY will respect you until you stand up straight and stop looking at your feet; you will feel better about yourself.

Some ways to increase your confidence include:

1. Stand up straight- slouching makes you look taller
2. Don't look at the ground while you walk. Averting your eyes makes you look obviously unsure about yourself.
3. SMILE :) often. The ultimate in confidence is being able to laugh at yourself. Did some jerk just come up to you and say... "hey, you are soooo tall! i bet you play basketball!!". Instead of getting sad or mad, laugh it off. Say something dumb, like "oh yeah, and my team was top in the nation for underwater basket weaving" and laugh. People will recognize a sense of humor (which is extremely sexy), and recognize confidence (which is a huge turnon).
4. Look people in the eyes when they are talking to you, no matter where their eyes are located, height wise. Looking at people straight will inflict the animal instinct of respect and authority. When dogs first meet in the wild, they will stare themselves down. The dog that reigns supreme will be highly respected in the pack.
5. If you don't want to be noticed, don't wear wild hues or funky patterns. If you are wearing crazy leopard print hot pants, and you are very self concious, EVERYONE will look at you, because A.) you will be looking at the ground, and B.) Who really wears crazy leopard print hotpants?

Well, that is my advice for all of you self-concious ladies out there. Now it's time for a confession of my own:

I was the most self concious person on EARTH through middle school! I started laughing at the dumb things I do, and it turned around completely! Now I wear heels, and am about to start a career as a runway model! (after some excersising, of course, hahah.)

Be yourself! enjoy who you are!

Hannah wrote (May 27 2005)

Hello! I am 15 years old girl and 6'1. I totally hate it and it makes me feel horrible. There is so many mean people out there who make fun of me and don't understand what it's like to be tall. I got picked on a lot in middle school, but for now people in my school have accepted me the way I am. Although I am much taller than girls then still guys are not that far from me. Some are even same height and it makes me feel more comfortable. The one thing I enjoy is the looks from guys. Some cute guys really seem to be interested in me, but they never come to talk to me and I'm very shy. Maybe they're afraid of me, cuz I don't have that friendly look and I hardly smile. But that's because I'm very depressed and sad cuz of my height. And if they would come up to me, would it matter anyway, I feel big and unattractive next to them so yeah. I find life very painful and unfair. But this site has helped me a lot and I feel much better now.

Melina wrote (May 27th 2005)

Hi, my name is melina and I am 5'9 - 5'10. I HATE being tall. I feel like a man becuz I am so tall. I am 15 years old and I dont have many friends. I just recently moved in with my dad. I had to start at a new school. anyway, I feel like all girls are shorter then me and it makes me feel abnormal and like I don't belong with them. I would give anything to be 5'3 - I think that's the perfect height. Whenever I meet someone they always say... wow ur really tall. It really bothers me becuz I am very self concius about myself  and my feet are so big! I wear size 11. Lately I have been feeling very sad and insecure and I believe I have depression. I was surfing the net tonite and I decided to look up tall and all of your stories and stuff have made me feel a little better. It's good to know there are lots of tall, confident women out there.

Mary wrote (May 26th 2005)

I'm a tall girlfriend. I've just been searching on the web to try and console myself. I came across a science article about finding love - where it said love is found when the man is 1.09 time the height of his woman. It said the rule breaks down for very tall guys who find love in very short women (thats not much good is it!) and also very tall women who go for very short men. They showed a few 'perfect couples' and a few freaky looking couples too. Now that is not consoling.

Kate wrote (May 26th 2005)

You know when you are at a bar with your friends, and they are casually leaning up against it, you try but its too low down so your back is way arched - doesnt look good, so you try and stand tall instead and be proud.However because all your friends are casually leaning on the bar you poke out like a stick. And then theres girlie secrets, they can all hear them because their ears are all the right height, you ask 'sorry what?' and the secreat loses its intimacy because you were too far away the first time. being tall has an effect on how you feel with other people.

Amy wrote (May 26th 2005)

My boyfriend wants to marry me, he is 1 inch short of perfect. He is my best friend in every way. we chat we laugh, yet an uncomfortable feeling creeps in when we are stood looking into each others eyes, I realise my back is slumped and my neck suddenly feels crooked and things just don't match up. I long to be able to tiptoe, with one leg in the air I love it when i come home from work, I ring the door bell and he is stood on the door step and wish it could be like that always. But even when i am dolled up (in flat sparkly sandles of course)i feel big and masculine. The funny thing is that in the first 3 years we were together i didnt even notice the difference i was so in love - even wearing 2 inch heels. Perhaps its only the past few years when wondering whether he is 'the one' it has truely bothered me. Friends say life is too short to worry about such a small thing, but as many of you will know it is enough to really bring me down. The worse thing is that i probably b ring it up far to often and now because its an issue with me i wonder if ive created an issue with him that he would like a shorter girlfriend who didnt worry about her height. I think of all the other couples who have problems with their relationships and we have none! we get on fantastically..its just this one niggling thing always in the back of my mind. I'm lucky really to have found such a soul mate. I really want to be happy with it, and wonder if the feeling will go away... but its been 6 years...is there anything i can do to make me feel happier with myself?

Gloria wrote (May 25th 2005)

Like most of you I came across this site by accident.

I am 44 and wouldn't wear a heel taller than an inch. I am 5'11 but have felt like a giant and very self-conscious my entire life. My daughter is 5'4 but would always encourage me to wear heels if I liked the shoe. I would rave over a shoe at the mall but wouldn't buy it if the heel were too high.

Her encouragement finally rubbed off. I started wearing 3 inch heels to church 2 years ago and now I've mustered up the courage to wear them to work as well.

I always said I would never date a man shorter than myself. I wouldn't give a shorter man a second look... I was always looking for someone at least 6'3. But guess what? I am currently attracted to someone and he appears to be about 5'7 or 5'8. We just say hello when we see each other but I can tell he's interested also. I just think it's funny that after all these years of failed relationships with taller men, I never gave the short guy a chance. If he ever asks me out on a date I will definitely say YES!

P.S. Yes I know what year it is and it's okay to ask a guy out but that's just not me. (smile)

Alexandra wrote (May 25th 2005)

Hey there, I'm 16, and 6' tall. I'm not finding it as bad as I used to. Most of my friends are tall, and sure, they tease me for being tall, but then again, I tease them for another feature they may have. I realised that hey, my legs are sexy, and dresses always tend to look better. We are tall, we are sexy, we are ROWR! :)

Nikki wrote (May 25th 2005)

Hey everyone im Nnikki.. I'm about 5'10 1/2 and I'm 15. I HATE being tall but that's a bad thing.. I should be grateful.. but I havent found the advantages of being tall.. people always say wow your tall.. ok I know that.. tell me something I dont know... that's like telling me im a girl.. people get REALLY ignorant sometimes I hate it.. they ask why dont u play basketball or something.. just because I'm tall doesnt mean I have to play basketball. I  have 2 tall friends and I feel proud when I walk around the school with them.. 1 is a model and 1 is a basketball player if there is any teens around my height and age that want to talk about their height to me please email me at This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. these comments help me a lot.. and so does this site yay!

Kaylen wrote (May 24th 2005)

Im 6'2 and maybe sum... lol and I am the tallest girl in dodds Europe which means outta all the sports I  play, basketball, volleyball and track! And my height has gotten me on those sports. I am 16, and I am finally startin to be ok wit my height. Instead of cowardin when ppl make fun of it, I play along. I dont wear heels, but someday I hope I do.

Laura wrote (May 24th 2005)

Hey, I'm 15, and I'm 5'10. Or 11. I hate it so much. Recently I've been cutting myself over it. I look at all these short girls who look so damn good in everything they wear, I just get so jealous :(. I never wear trousers anymore, because everyone says I look really thin in them and they make my legs look longer. So now I just wear skirts which come down to my ankles. I hate it, because I used to love wearing jeans :(. Now I can't find any long enough, and because my hips are a size 12 whilst my tummy is an 8-10, I have a really weird shaped body and it's very awkward. I have had boyfriends, and been asked out quite a lot. But I just can't say yes because I feel so big and unattractive when I'm with them, because there's not many tall people in my school! I hardly ever even leave my house anymore, cause my height has lowered my self-esteem so much, I can't handle anyone looking at me without being paranoid they're gonna shout ''LANKY LAURA!'' or something. Anyways, if anyone wants to talk to another tall girl... please add me to MSN This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.... I'll be happy to speak :) thanks! Laura xxxxxxxxxx

Shannon wrote (May 20th 2005)

Hey I'm officially in love with this site it really helped me out! I'm 16, 6'1, and a size 8. I've had literally HUNDREDS of people make tall comments and I used to feel so self-concious about it but recently I started accepting it and I'm so much happier!  While some guys are really weird about girls being taller then them most are cool. I've had boyfriends who were anywhere from 6' to 6'5 and they all thought my height was cool.

Bridget wrote (May 19th 2005)

I'm 16 and 6'0 tall and i am the tallest girl in my grade. Sometimes it really sucks because most of the guys are just as tall or shorter. I really would like a guy to be taller than me, but my whole school is short! I do play basketball and I am a starting center, but thats not all I want to do in life. People exaggerate my height saying, "yea, she's 7 ft tall". "God your really tall." Um....duh! Are you blind, I know that. I hate when people remind me of my height, it bugs me soo much. I haven't had a boyfriend either, so maybe the guys are intimidated to be with a tall girl, that really does suck! But reading these quotes on here really helped. Being tall is beautiful, hopefully I'll come to my senses and realize it soon.

Heidi wrote (May 19th 2005)

Hi. I am 17 years old, and am 6'2 and 3/4 with no socks or shoes on! You know what though, for the first time in my life, I wore heels, and it was to prom! They were only 1 3/4 inch, but they made me 6'4 1/2 inches tall! I got a lot of compliments on my shoes!

Michelle wrote (May 18th 2005)

I am almost 6'2", and I am at the point that I date only men who are at least 2 or 3 inches shorter than I am. Unlike some other women that have written in, I truly love the feeling of "being in control" that I have with a shorter man!

Panklady wrote (May 16th 2005)

Ladies, I have to chuckle at some of these posts because I see so many parallels in each of your posts with regard to my life. Thanks for this website - it's truly refreshing. The heel issue (WEAR THEM PROUDLY), the voluptuousness, dating, etc. I don't think of myself as tall UNTIL I stand next to someone who is not. I'm 5'11 3/4" and am built pretty much like a "brickhouse" (not skinny & not overly fat--THICK). I love busting men out who say that they're 6 feet tall and they only come up to my forehead. Men do lie and not just about their height. *wink* Speaking of (but not really)... don'tcha hate it when they say "we're the same size lying down"? That's some hot-buttery mess, isn't it? LOL I laugh & dismiss them. Ladies, always walk tall & continue to dress like the fierce divas we are. Note: There's more of us than the average chick, be sure to dress accordingly... one size fits MOST, not all. LOL. And guess what, not every tall woman out there desires to play basketball or other sports... so don't try to force us. Take pride in your height... it's a gift!

Molly wrote (May 16th 2005)

I definetely needed to see this website about a year ago! I am sixteen and almost 6'2. While I think it will be a while before I am completely comfortable with it, I like seeing that there are tall women out there who love it.

I began cutting myself because I hate my height so much. I would look at myself in the mirror and would just burst into tears. Most girls at my school are about 5'5 at the tallest, and so walking around there really upset me too. I've never had a boyfriend either, and I often blame it on my height. I'm not really heavy, I'm rather slim and I have natural blonde hair and grey eyes... and really really pale skin. Sounds like quite the package, doesn't it? Well, apparently not, haha. I hope that one day I will be able to look in the mirror and tell myself I love me.

Marye-Ann wrote (May 14th 2005)

Okay, I'm a freshman in high school and I am 5'11... I mean it was way worse in middle school but now that I have a friend that is an inch under me and the guys aren't too far behind I am starting to enjoy it because I really want to be a model... the worst part is trying to find jeans which I never can because I'm soo skinny. I weigh about 115 and I'm 5'11 if I weren't so skinny I would probably enjoy the tallness alot more!!

Abbi wrote (May 14th 2005)

Hey, I am 15 and 5'9 That might not seem like very tall but i am pretty sure i have got a few more inches to go. Being tall up until recently did well suck. My mom is 5'11 and my dad is 6'5 so being tall in my family was just the norm. But while I was in school things got harder. You see I have a twin sister who is just as tall as I am being a twin is hard enough, but being tall and a twin is a down right obsticlae. We used get called things like 

1. The twin towers
2. The Jolly Blonde Giants.

These are just a few of the names that really shot my confidence down to ultra low. Until I had a teacher in the 8th grade who was 6'2 inches and she had blonde hair and blue eyes. She told me something that now that I am in High School really helped me cope. She told me that being a head and shoulders above everyone is is not always a bad thing. We are made just the way that God intended for us to be. And that those people who make fun you for being tall are just not worth your time. Being tall is hard when your young escpecially guys think your older than you actually are and people always expect you to play basketball. But something I dont think they get is just how much I hate getting asked those questions. Thanks for creating a web page that gives girls like me some much needed confidecnce. " the taller you are the closer to god you are" Thanks!

Andi wrote (May 13th 2005)

Six feet tall. I used to be very heavy. Lost the weight. I was slow to figure this one out: Tall and shapely, (very shapely)never understood the overt hostility received from other woman. I think perhaps this is the issue. Not really a knock over beauty by any "stretch" however, it seems no matter what I am wearing, no matter what hostility. My husband, (5'10") now does the return stare, overt glare whatever the female is sending my way. I find something beautiful about every woman I see. But if a woman does not "feel" beautiful, or does not like herself..major issues and it shows. Woman stop frowning. It is aging. A little hair over the lip and guess what the world sees?

Ashley wrote (May 13th 2005)

My name is Ashley, and I am 5'9, that isnt that tall, but I get made fun of all the time. My boyfriend is 6'4 and loves tall women, so if you feel insecure, dont! Models are tall and everyone is beautiful in thier own way. Every short girl says they want to be taller so being tall is a great think. Be happy for who you are and dont let these short people tell you differently!!!

Siera wrote (May 10th 2005)

Wow! I'm so glad I found your site. Reading the quotes, the phrase 'jolly green giant' came to mind. That was a 6th grade nickname. Yeah, school was pretty tough but you know what, now at 21, although it's still rather hard to find guys who summon enough courage to say hello, I love those that do.

Plus comments that I could be a model, don't hurt. That being said: I stumbled across this site while looking for flat dressy shoes to go out with my b/f. I was just bemoaning my height and wow, after reading the above, I feel soo much better.

Thank you!!!

Bree wrote (May 8th 2005)

I am happy to have found this site. I am 43 and 6'2. I have a "tiny" 5'11" fifteen year-old daughter who will really get a kick out of reading all of the helpful insights from all of you! I will share with you some of the things that I have shared with her over the years. Perhaps you may find some of it useful.

When people ask you if you play basketball (whether you do or not) tell them "why no, I'm an Olympic gymnast" and try to keep from laughing when their eyes almost pop out of their sockets! That one gets them everytime!

I told my daughter to always stand up tall. People can be very vocal in their quest for knowledge and they have no idea that it may hurt your feelings. If they are short, they've always wanted to be tall. People always want what they don't have. People will always wonder how tall you would be ESPECIALLY if you stood up straight.

Don't be afraid to wear heels. People will ask you "how tall are you" even when you are in flats. When you are in heels the question seems to get turned around. "You can't be that tall, how tall are you without your heels?" Then you can answer, "You're right, I'm only ---ft tall." A little psychology goes a long way. Of course you will sometimes get those foolish ones that make the embarrassing comments in high school. Just remember, those same idiots will be asking you out in a couple of years when they get their courage up. Then you can decide whether to forgive them or not!

In college I would go out dancing with a girlfriend who is 6'5" tall.(All of you tall women know what I'm about to say!For the younger girls I will prepare you)There are many short men that simply adore dancing with tall women. Is it because their heads just reach our chests? The pick up line is "Hey tall lady, do you like short men?" We heard it so often that I finally got t-shirts made up. The front side "Of course I like short men" and the back side "I ate three for breakfast." We had a blast in our walking billboards!

Don't be a bully but don't let anyone intimidate you. You are as God intended you to be and that is perfect.

Good Luck Amazon Women, and be the first on the dance floor when "Brick House" comes on the sound system!

Bree

Katharina wrote (May 8th 2005)

Wow... I really love this site. I actually typed in "tall is beautiful" in Google, because I really needed some confirmation that I was okay, but not only did I find what I needed in here, I also felt kinda short... I'm 18 and 5'9, and as far as I can see, that makes me the shortest one in here... Thank you all so much for the reassurance that I'm beautiful.

Julia wrote (May 6th 2005)

I love being tall now at 45 but at 15 I was typically annoyed I stood out! However clothes and shoes can always be found and with the internet it's now so easy!! Just love yourself for what you are.

Noralee wrote (May 4th 2005)

Hey, thank you for such a great website! I'm 17 (almost 18) and im 6'4 and 3/4 inches. I want everyone to know that they should hold their chins up high, I try to everyday even when it's hard and it keeps me going. Never pay attention to those who snicker or stare, they have no idea what true beauty is. Stay beautiful, ladies!

Chrissy wrote (May 1st 2005)

I have read a lot of the comments from other women, and I agree with almost all of it... Every tall woman has been through the same things in life and heard all of the same questions... and none of us were happy that we were tall in the beginning... but you learn to work with what you have. I'm 6'1 and believe it or not, I forget that I am tall and sometimes people have to remind me, but I enjoy it. I'm happy I'm not like everyone else! But come on girls, clothes are not that hard to find. I live a town that doesn't have a lot of tall women and I have tons of clothes and shoes, cause I know all of us tall people don't have small feet!! Haha, but hey for those younger girls that feel awkward. It does go away. It's ok to feel that way. Just give it time things do get better, besides highschool is the hardest part of life, that's my opinion... Just take pride in who you are...

Antoinette wrote (May 1st 2005)

You guys are really an inspiration to me. I am 5'10" and I hate my height. I am so tired of people and their rude comments about my height. I think I try to over do things because of my height. I won't go outside unless I have certain clothes on and I always wear flats. I really hate my height and it seems like there are no tall women in Baltimore but me (I know this is not true but my self esteem is so low thats how I feel.) Can anyone tell me how to get over this feeling I am really depressed.

Rachel wrote (April 30th 2005)

"TALL IS COOL" - I'm sick of hearing this but hey, it could be worse.

Hannah wrote (April 27th 2005)

Just remember this: 'the lovliest roses have the longest stems'

Vanessa wrote (April 27th 2005)

I'm so sick and tired of reading through these comments and hearing women say they HATE THIS ABOUT THEIR HEIGHT OR THEY HATE THAT ABOUT THEIR HEIGHT... or they can't find clothes etc etc... You can find clothes - you obviously have the internet USE IT!! There are hundreds of sites for tall juniors and tall womens clothes! and STOP HATING YOURSELVES!! You're tall accept it and move on! I'm 6'2" and I hear these 5'10" women saying they are tall and they hate it. Puhlease get over yourselves... life's too short to be so down about one aspect of your life... so you're tall - it could be a hell of a lot worse... You could be sitting in a wheelchair or you could have no legs at all or no feet... be happy you can bitch about buying clothes for those body parts alot of people don't have that opportunity! Being tall is a blessing and a curse... but don't let the comments and the stares get you down. They aren't staying because you are hideous they are staring because you are unusual and unique and being unique is BEAUTIFUL! I've been this tall since I was 12 years old and I know it's not easy believe me, I know... but ignorant people can only bother you if you let them! Stand tall, be proud of what god gave you and be thankful that being tall is your only MAJOR complaint. You could be dying of a terminal illness instead of trying to find a 37" inseam!

Gemma wrote (April 26th 2005)

Hi, I am 17 and so far about 6 foot 1, I had always been bullied when I was younger at school because of my height I lost all my confidence and it destroyed me. I ended up hating myself and left school early, but now as I grow I can honestly say I love my height and wouldn't do anything to change it now. I use it to the best of my advantage. Ok, so yes, it is a serious pain shopping for clothes but you deal with it, you get used to it, all I can say is you are who you are, don't ever let anyone bring you down over your apperance!! P.S.: Did I mention I am currently persuing in finding a career as a plus sized model? I am size 16 and like my size too so I've found the confidence to love myself. I'm just waiting for a reply from a modelling agency. Fingers crossed!!!

Sheneiza wrote (April 25th 2005)

Hi, I'm about 5'9" or 5'10 and I've always hated myself for it. I felt like being tall made me some type of mutant that stood out on top of the normal girls might height. Thanks to your site I realize I'm not alone. There are a lot tall girls out there and just because I'm tall it doesn't make me any less of a person than a person who is of average height.

Sonia wrote (April 25th 2005)

I am 5'9 and my husband is 5'4, we have been together and married in total for 20 years. I am 37 years old, we have two beautiful children, and I am the one with the hang up. I wear flat shoes and he likes to wear flat shoes I am sick of wearing flat shoes and want him to wear higher shoes, I love him very much but so wish he was taller. I think I would be happier with him and my children I know I sound very selfish and shallow, but I wish he was taller then me. It has only started to bug me the last few years, maybe it is peer pressure in a way looking at other people and feeling embarressed that people are looking at us any advice. I just wish people wouldn't comment, its like saying and it's rude "your husband is uglier then you" but I think shorter is worse. Can anyone get any sense into me?

Emily wrote (April 23rd 2005)

I am 14 and 5'9 already and still growing. I was never confident with my height, always thinking that guys would be too scared to come near me. Especially in assemblys I felt less confident. Because I go to an all girls school, when we stand up, I am surrounded by short people and feel like I'm the tallest in the school! But I have now learnt to deal with it and have realised that are guys out there that are tall. I love being tall because I feel more superior than others, just like I'm a god looking down on them.

Sue wrote (April 23rd 2005)

What a delightful discovery - here I was looking for shoes in my size (12N) and I stumbled onto the outpourings from hearts - and hurts - of tall women. I so rarely talk with women my height (I'm 5'11") that I really had no idea my experience was so common. I've been this height since I was 16 - 34 years ago (that adds up to 50 years old). Hearing you all made me realize that I've learned to ignore the "You're really tall, you know that?" remarks - but I do wonder if it ever dawns on the people who say those things how utterly foolish it makes them look. I was never the outgoing, confident (or athletic) type - I just felt like the "jolly green giant" that even my friends called me, and knew it was pretty unattractive to just about everyone. I met and married someone in college who was a lot taller than me - my late husband was 6'5" - and I guess that laid the issue to rest for awhile. I've realized though -- being widowed and single again for many years -- that except for my sons, I am as tall as or taller than most everyone I’m around. 

My two sons are ages 24 and 29, the older and shorter one being 6'5". His "baby brother" is 6'9". When we're together we turn heads, let me tell you! We all really do enjoy being tall - I had to get over my negative feelings about it so I could instill in them that being tall was a good thing. For a long time - and even now sometimes - I felt like I was lying to them, but I know I'm not. Being tall or short or anything - being who God made me to be - is exactly who I want to be. But we've all, my sons and I, also endured - and still do - those unfeeling, thoughtless remarks that people make. Not a SINGLE DAY goes by that my younger son doesn't hear these two questions, one right after another: 

1. "How tall are you, anyway?" (That's usually preceded by, "Man, you're really tall!" Duh.), then 
2. Do you play basketball? 

This has gone on 365 days a year for the last 10 years - at 14 he was 6'4" - and it's made me realize the effect those ridiculous questions and comments have on those of us who are unusually tall. He likes basketball, but not to die for - if anything, the questions drove him away from it, because they made him feel like that was the only value you could have if you were a tall guy. He knew he was so much more than that, but no one even wanted to see it. I'm hearing the same thing echoed in what all of us have heard our whole lives - regardless of what anyone meant or didn't mean, what we heard was that we're too tall to be good for anything else. 

The look that the shoe clerk gives me when I ask if a shoe comes in a 12 - that surreptitious glance down at my "freakishly" large feet, followed by an upward sweep that takes in my "gargantuan" height – can still hurt. I'm too tall to shop in that store, to fit in this car, to go with this guy, to sit at this desk, to wear cute clothes or high heels (or cute shoes at all) - the list goes on and on. But you know what I've learned? It really is their problem. I am who I was created to be. If I didn’t choose my height – and of course I didn’t – then I am the person I was meant to be, all 71 inches/180 cm of me, and I've learned to be confident in that. I can reach shelves that no one else can, I can walk faster than anyone else (actually including my 6'9" son), I can see where I’m going in any crowd, I can look anyone in the eye when I need to, and if I have to bend over to do so, that’s fine with me. And I will never be a "little" old lady! 

Ladies, people will take you more seriously as a student, employee, client or co-worker than they will your shorter colleagues – unless you carry yourself like you are ashamed of your height. Standing with your shoulders square does so much for you – you feel better because you get more oxygen into your system, you look better, slimmer, more confident, happier, more energetic – and you feel that way, too. Sometimes you have to act the part even when you don’t feel it – but if you do, the feelings will catch up to the act. And ! when you stand tall, it's way easier for ugly words to roll off you rather than soak in. We have to remember just how ridiculous this all is, that our value should be set by how many inches our chin is from the floor – as if it makes any difference in who we are as people – who we are in our heart, soul, mind and spirit. If my height is a problem for someone else, they’re only making fools of them, not me. I am who I was designed to be, and nothing can change that. So chin up!

Danielle wrote (April 20th 2005)

My best friend is tall and stands at 6'5. She is a fab dancer and singer but gets turned down for roles at school because of her height. I really hate this and you have made her a board of good things about tall people for her birthday. Thanx for the help!!!

Kayleigh wrote (April 18th 2005)

Hey everyone, I just want to say that I am 18 years old and I am 5ft 10 (well at least I think I'm that height). I hate being tall and always have, as I feel awkward. Especially as most of the people around me are shorter than me but theres nothing I can do about my height so I have just learned to get on with it. Reading this website has helped me accept my height and appreciate it so thanks.

Jennifer wrote (April 18th 2005)

I am 5'11" and a rather fit girl, so I get comments like "are you a firefighter?" and "you're the biggest woman I've ever seen". Things like that. It sucks. Even my boyfriend says I'm "big". That's the word I hear often. I used to be proud to be tall, but now I know that if you're not a model or athlete that it is a liability. Finding shoes and finding clothes that fit is just a chore. Everything I buy has to be a large or I don't buy it. I am curvy too, which doesn't help me one bit. I feel like Hulk Hogan in drag.

Ama wrote (April 17th 2005)

Hi everyone, I'm 21 and I'm 5'10. You may think that this is not very tall but I feel like im 6'5. I use to have a big problem with my height but now i've eased down. The problem I do have is that my long term boyfriend (5 years)claims hes 5'12 (I dont believe him) but I look taller than him! I dont wear heels when i'm with him and i still feel insecure. We are getting engaged next year but what shoes am i gonna wear? To tell you the truth, I love him to bits but every time I see him I think to myself why cant he be taller. I feel bad for feeling this way and feel that it is affecting our relationship. p.s I luv this website, its making me feel at home knowing that im not the only girl with a height problem.

Amelia wrote (April 17th 2005)

Hi, Im 18 years old and 5'11 tall. I have always loved my height as it came in very handy for netball. At age 12 I was 5'9 tall and after games people would come up and say "Can I take a measurement of your arms?". I chose to take those things as a compliment. I think the most annoying thing about being on the tall side is that shoes never fit - I have size 12 feet. But apart from that I love it, and I think other tall girls should stand tall and be proud. Tall women have presence, and hey, who do they use in the modelling world? Tallies!

Gwen wrote (April 16th 2005)

I love all your letters it makes me feel good to hear them. I am 33 years old and have a big hang up on my height. I am 5"10 or maybe taller I think I am still growing (lol). I am slender and  don't have a weight problem - I am 135lbs. People say how lucky I am to be tall - they don't understand at all. I am hearing this from people who are like 5'5 and you guys don't know what I'm talkin about! They complain to me about their weight, how they love to be tall and thin. But I say to them you can always lose weight but I am ALWAYS going to be STUCK being TALL! That shuts them up pretty good. I don't think people who are short really grab this concept. I thought at this age I might grow out of it cause I REALLY hated in school but look i am 33 years old and I still hate it with a passion! Everyone in my family and friends think I am crazy but you amazon women (lol) - no i am not!

Electra wrote (April 15th 2005)

Hey, im 5'9 and a 1/4 feet tall at 17 years old and i have always been kinda self-conscious of my height. Growing up i have always been the tallest girl of my class and it really bothered me because i felt like i was different from everybody else. When i came across this site, however, i have never realized that there are so many great women out there that are as tall and taller than me! This site is totally awesome, and has really contributed to my confidence boost and for that i am TRULY thankful. I am actually starting to appreciate and accept my height, and i am so happy. Thank you so much for putting up this site Joerg, you are amazing!! Keep up the good work!

Nichole wrote (April 14th 2005)

Hi my name is Nichole. Being tall never was a problem for me in grade school, because i was kind of a tom boy. When i reached the Jr. High stage I got made fun of and the guys that i used to play with in grade school wouldn't hang out with me. I think because they didn't know how to act around me any more. I am 5'10'' and play basketball and vollyball really good. This guy that i like now is really cute and he has never minded my height. Even though he is about a 1/2 in. shorter. I know that it bugs him a little when we hang out around the guys because they tease him about me dominating him if we ever get in a fight. But to tell you the truth i don't think that i could beat him. He is a wrestler and he's pretty strong. Thanks sooo much for making this website and giving my self esteem a big boost. Tall and lovin it! Nichole

Sugar wrote (April 13th 2005)

I'm 25, female and live in Singapore which is in Asia and stand at 6'. That sounds like quite an achievement to be Asian and taller than most men! Well I have the usual problems I read about here as well, finding a pair of pants to fit me is like winning the lottery! Shoes are almost extinct - I have to go overseas to buy them or wear men's shoes. But the biggest problem I had was finding a guy tall enuff for me. In the end I met my dream guy, he's 5'3" and people always gawk at us walking together. He doesnt mind.

Kate wrote (April 12th 2005)

I think this site is great, being able to read peoples' experiences who are as tall as you makes you feel 'normal' again!!! I'm lucky, I've never been ridiculed because of my height, infact most people are quite amazed and don't believe me when i say that I'm just about 6ft 1! I do find being tall a pain sometimes - finding a boyfriend is so difficult and when you're 15 and all you're friends have one it can be quite tough! But I've learnt to love my height - why worry about it? theres nothing i can do to change it. There are some inconsiderate people out there who do gawp but i just smile and walk away - they're just jealous!!! I just want to say to all the people who read this - be proud of you're height - it's nothing to be ashamed of! Stand up straight with you're head held high!

Emily wrote (April 12th 2005)

I love this site. I'm 14 and 5'11 and still growing, I'm taller than most of the people I know and taller than all the people at my school minus a couple of lads in year eleven.

I have lots of friends but they just don't understand what it's like to walk past someone then hear them say something really cruel about your height. I don't have that much confidence with my height, but this website has helped me to see that I should be proud of my height and not try to hide it.

Zoe wrote (April 12th 2005)

I love this page! I've always been self-conscious about my height. I'm always finding myself looking down when I talk to people. This website tells me to appericiate my height, and think of all the things I'm better at than shorter people. 

1. Basketball (Because of my height, I made the best basketball team for my school.)
2. Volleyball (I play intense volleyball, and thanks to my height, I can block the ball easier.) 
3. Running (the long length of my legs helps me to take bigger steps.) 

Practically all sports are easier if you're tall. What if you don't play sports? Well, modeling is an option. See? Us, tall people can do so much more than short people! I don't know why we don't like it! If you really hate your height, just hang around a really tall person, that's taller than you! Then you have to look up. But choose your friends wisely... Well I love you all, tall people! BYE!

Sarah wrote (April 11th 2005)

Wow. I love this site, I'm 14 and 5' 10 1/2" and I suspect I have another couple inches in me at lest. I always thought I was really tall, and then I came to this website, and I see I'm not really. It has really inspired me, I've started crossing my fingers for 6 feet again. Most my friends at school are pretty short, I have one who's not even 5 feet, and they're great friends and all, but they just don't understand about being tall. Also I'm strong, I throw shot put so I lift some pretty serious weights, and I have been told randomly in the hall by someone I've never met that I look like a guy. It's kinda of annoying, cuz suddenly when I was 12 I got these huge boobs, that I'm still kind of embarassed of. What bothers me most is that they don't sell a single strapless bra big enough at the lingerie section of J.C. Penney's. Erm... not that this really has much to do with height, but just in the general theme of large women. I don't get teased too much to my face, I think people are afraid I'd beat them up... but I know they talk behind my back, which is worse. I wish they'd just tell me to my face and face me like a woman.

Leticia wrote (April 10th 2005)

Hi, I want to thank you for this site, because it made me feel better hearing all these quotes. I'm turning 16 on the 26th of April and live in Belgium, I think I'm a little shorter than 6'0" and I'm rather big too. I've been bullied on from my 6 years till my 12 years, but as I got older it became less. Now, there are some people who some times say these comments to my face and there are a lot who talk behind my back. I've been bullied on every thing they could find. In the first place because I was big, but also because I was tall and because I was not like most children I didn't hid my true self. When I was older I got remarks like" I can see right in your nose." and because most guys where smaller like me some said "when they want to kiss each other he needs to climb a ladder". Then when I was 13 years old I went on a diet and lost 12 kg, by then I already changed my true self from when I was smaller into something that fitted in with the rest, but I still got remarks like 'she's a bear of a woman' saying that is used here mostly for a guy instead of a woman, and this is a guy who's really big and tall. So I started to gain weight again.

Now I know I'm different like other people on lots of things. I've become more secure of myself because of my favourite actor who thinks it's really important to stay true to the real you. Because a lot of things have happened to me the last years I've become more depressed and also in school things aren't going very well, my points are getting worse .I'm know again trying to lose weight and I try to keep my back straight but I'm having troubles with it because I've been trying to hide myself from when I was 6. If anyone knows a trick to help keep my back straight it would be very useful. I have one dream and that's to become an actress, I had doubts on this because I thought that when I was taller than a male actor they wouldn't want you in a movie. But because of this site and all the quotes and information on tall people I've gotten more hope again. I would like to thank you for this!

I never found myself beautiful, and I still don't think I am but I find this is a great site, I found it by accident searching information on acting and actresses. I hope that a lot of tall woman find this site and that it has the same effect on them as it had on me. I think it's also good that tall woman keep wearing high heels, because I think it's stupid that it's expected of tall woman that they won't wear high heels, I can't see why we should not wear them. Thanks, because of this site I finally see things lighting up a bit after all that is happened.

Emily wrote (April 7th 2005)

Hello... As I read this quotes, I realized that there are other women who are the same height as me, or even taller... I'm 17 years old and I'm 5'8 1/2... I always felt upset due to my height, because to be honest, "I don't like been tall".. In high school, I've been teased by many students, and that has made me feel very disappointed.... But you know what?... After reading all these quotes, I realized that I should accept myself the way I am, and enjoy my life.... Thank you for your site Joerg. Love you Emily

Erin wrote (April 7th 2005)

Hi! My name is Erin, i am from Australia, I am 23 and stand just shy of 6'1. I guess I was always destined to be tall, my dad is 6'5. My mum and sister on the other hand are 5'8. My dad lives in a different state and always has so I have always felt (and been) head and shoulders taller than everyone in my family (incuding my step father and his three sons). The feelings you get being a tall female are hard to explain - there are some things that I love about it and just as many that I hate. I hate that I am taller than most men, but I love the ones brave enough to come and talk to me. My ex-boyfriend was 6'7 and when we went places together I could see people poke eachother and say 'look at those two people, they are so tall - like giants!'. I am fairly comfortable in my height and even though I say i don't like it sometimes I think I would hate to be short... There is absolutely no doubt that people notice me when I walk into a room. I always wear high heels and when I d o I sometimes stand at almost 6'4. If I am comfortable in my surroundings and feel confident in how I look, then I feel like a million dollars and enjoy standing out. If you take me out of that environment I am a complete wall flower which is not like me at all. Sometimes, I dont want to stand out, I dont want people to notice me and I don't want to know that people are talking about me.

If I get a good reaction to my height, it just makes me more confident. I was out the other night and a very gorgeous young man walked up to me and said 'how are you tonight my Amazonian princess?' That definitely worked for me!

If I get a bad reaction, I try to brush it off, but if I know someone else is uncomfortable about my height then I inevitably am too. I would say 90% of the people I meet ask me how tall I am or tell me that I am tall. Really? I had never noticed!

I am still not totally comfortable about my height and it really does depend on the situation but I always walk tall and I always wear high heels. Just because I am tall shouldn't mean that I can't be feminine. Sometimes it is a big test for me on the inside, but the biggest lesson I have ever learnt (and I think it is due to my height) is to walk with your head held high and NEVER EVER slouch and people will automatically assume you are a confident person - and confidence is attractive.

I hate making it sound like a burden, but a lot of the time people don't understand how it feels to be an exceptionally tall woman and people close to me, who forget how tall i am, like my family tell me to stop worrying about and get over it. That is easier said than done and they are not the people being criticised or made fun of on a very frequent basis!

I have never left a message on one of these things before, but your site inspired me, Joerg. Thank you, and you are doing a wonderful job... Writing this was very therapeutic actually, I might do another one one day ;)

Cheers, Erin xx

Anita wrote (April 5th 2005)

Hello there. Just wanted to say that I enjoyed perusing your site. It's a nice compliment to women to create a clean "tall" site that we can enjoy w/o the pressure of porn slush popping up to greet us.

As you've no doubt heard, being tall is no picnic in school. Mean things are said, and if you have "gullible" written across your forehead like I did, you believed them. Thus you end up with a tall, painfully shy girl without any real confidence. Is "ugly duckling syndrome" ringing any bells? Fortunately I realized that I had to be something, so I decided to be the best at being tall. I managed to cultivate an altitude-embracing act which worked very well for me. I did not slouch and I wore any heels I could reasonably balance in. The best compliment I ever accepted was "you carry yourself well".

I say "the best compliment I ever accepted", because those hurtful things said to me so long ago do not disappear easily. Being made fun of because you are tall doesn't stop at hurting your feeling in that one aspect: it hurts you to the core because your mind carries it on...now you are tall, stringy, plain, and god-forbid, ugly. I can't accept "you are beautiful", "you should be a model", and the like, because a part of me still does not believe it.

In my small world of experience, and yes, it is a very small world for me, the men that I respond to better are self assured, hard working, honest to a fault and not afraid to approach me. Men without confidence make me self conscious about myself, because, of course, the fault must lie with me, right? (Yeah, that's really how I see it...and I know it's dumb, but that's the truth.)

Self-analysis getting to you yet? I don't really have a point, just want to get something off my chest, and maybe some other tall chick has this same problem that I now have:

Extremely handsome, accomplished men, are terrifying to me. Currently I had been set up by a family friend to go out with his devastatingly handsome, tall, dark, Marine (Special Forces to boot) son who is just back from Iraq. He is my ultimate "no, please go away and let me hide" nightmare, and he is either delusional or near-sighted, because he wants to persue a relationship…with me. yikes.

And I want to deserve him. God how I want to.

So now, while I wait two months before he becomes a civilian again, I'm on a task to boost the old ego a few notches and convince myself that I deserve him. To make a long story longer, that's why I'm searching out your site and others like it to read about tall, pretty-but-sure-as-hell-didn't-used-to-be people and how they got over their own negative self image.

Thanks for creating TallWomen.org.

Kari wrote (March 24th 2005)

I love reading other tall womens comments on this site, it helps me feel so much better! I'm almost 15 years old and I'm 5'9. I've always been the tallest girl in my school and when I was in Grade School I got teased about it all the time. I got called everything from "Granny Long Legs" to "Skyscraper." But now I know that they were just jealous! Now that I'm in High School, the insults about my height have stopped and the guy that I like told me he really liked my long legs! That made me feel great! I have guys talking about how much they love my height all the time and lots of people tell me to model. And all my life I have avoided wearing heels and my favorite black boots because I was afraid it would make me look taller but now, I think I just might wear them! Next time I go to the mall, I'm gonna try on every pair of heels they got! Shopping for jeans is still weird though, because no store has jeans long enough to fit me...but my mom found a great magazine that has lots of l ong jeans, so its no big deal! Thanks soo much!

Patty wrote (March 16th 2005)

My name is Patty. Being 5'9" I always considered myself to be tall until my daughter passed me. She is now 5'11" and only 14. I've had a good laugh reading some of the quotes on your website. The questions short people ask tall people are so funny. The best one I've been asked about my daughter is "How does she like being tall?" I tell then she likes it just fine, especially since she doesn't have a choice but to be tall. Thanks for the website and the encouragement passed on to tall women.

Deeonna wrote (March 12th 2005)

Wow I wasn't going to write but after I saw Deborah's post I had to contribute. I am 6ft tall and I also live in the DC area and I know exactly how you feel. I am always been the tallest kid in class and I'm been this height since I was 14 (I'm 25 now). I understand exactly how you feel I've been tall for so long that it's not a big deal to me. I'm so used to being taller than most people. Now it is harder to find clothes and shoes but it's part of who I am. One thing that I will tell you Deborah is that DC people are short and stupid. I live in the DC area but I'm originally from New York City and I don't anywhere near the amount of attention I get for being tall in DC in New York City. People in DC are a lot shorter and true despite the huge international population in the city they do seem to not be used to seeing tall women. And the funniest part is that I've seen more woman taller than me in DC that I have in New York City. So you're not alone Deborah but if you ever feel down you can always take a weekend trip to New York City where everyone will just assume your a model or socialite. One more thing I thing it would be great if all tall women did this, it brightened my day when it was done to me and I do it every chance a get. If you ever pass by a woman around your height or taller just tell her "I love your height", she'll definitely appreciate it.

Lottie wrote (March 4th 2005)

I was a bit sad reading the quotes from the tall women who visit your site, I have to say. I cannot believe one girl was considering surgery to alter her height! Of course I know being tall can make you feel shy and self conscious (I'm - 6ft and a redhead to go with it!) but it's not a disability. One of my best friends is 4'11", we'd walk around together at Sixth form, her in flats, me in heels and we'd get some funny looks but it's not an insult, it's actually quite amusing! When we go out my friends and I note how long it takes for someone to point out my stature - blokes are oddly keen on telling me I'm tall, as if I've never noticed - and we all have a good laugh at it. I almost got all the way home one night when some little guy ran after me down the street to ask me my height - that's the record - 2.30am! In a club about a month ago someone asked me how tall I am, refused to believe me and demanded to see my shoes! How rude! Would you go up to an obese person and ask how much they weigh, call them a liar and demand to see their clothes labels? Err no, it's bad mannered! I've realised that, when you're tall, you've got to stand proud and enjoy the attention. No one means to do you any harm by noticing your height, they're just interested. Being different is a good thing, it doesn't mean you have to feel like a freak =)

All my best wishes to you and your lovely girlfriend Joerg,

Love Lottie x

Deborah wrote (February 18th 2005)

I just want to say thank you!!!! for this awesome Web site. I am 5'10 1/2" and will be 35 on my next birthday. I relay that fact because at almost 35, I STILL have not gotten to the point where I am comfortable with my height. I think that is so ridiculous, yet the feeling persists. I think it's because, living near D.C., I'm constantly on the subway, where I have to stand quite often, and I am amazed, that even on days when I wear flats, I'm still taller than like, 75% of the men on the train. I don't think 5'10 1/2" is really that tall for a man, yet most of them don't even reach this height. And when I end up standing next to them, I can almost feel their discomfort. Heaven forbid I wear heels! Which I love! Then I'm 6' 0", 6'1", and they're really messed up then. Fortunately I married a super guy who is 5' 11", which means I'm taller than him when I wear heels, but he could care less and doesn't see it as an issue.

I think for me the issue has always been the reaction from other people. While I know some admire my stature, some act like they have never seen a tall woman in their lives, and I KNOW this cannot be the case. These stupid looks stop me from wearing heels and dressing the way I want to dress a lot of the time. I hate how society has been brainwashed to believe that all women have to be "little" to be "normal" or "acceptable." What it really seems to be is that these women don't intimidate others. I know I intimidate. But there's nothing I can do except learn to enjoy it I guess.

Again, I thank you so much for putting this site together. It has lifted me out of plenty of bad moods when I see all the names of these beautiful women who are my height, or even taller. I really appreciate how you work to help taller women appreciate and love themselves. That is awesome. Please keep the site going; I know it has and will continue to help taller girls and women like me who have to deal with an ignorant (or again, intimidated) society that has no clue how to deal with us marvelous creatures.

You rock!!!!

Danae' wrote (January 9th 2005)

Hey, i found your website pretty inspirational. Growing up i was always the tallest girl when it came to everything compared to guys. I still feel in many cases that way to day. I'm 19 and they say supposedly i'm done growing. If this is true i have stopped growing at 5'10. After seeing your webpage i quickly realized i really wasnt that tall and there definatly were more weomen who were the same heigth as me. I'm really impressed with all the research you have done with your additional links to stores. Being tall is getting more common and you have helped make being tall easier. Being tall was never to much of a deal as having huge feet though for me. I opend your home page and like right away you had super cute boots on there and they managed to even get to sizes i can wear, i found it completely amazing. Usually when your tall the cloths you can find are well either really big and baggy or just plain ugly and all your links are pretty much fashionable clothing which ! i would wear. Thanks for taking the time out for women and doing something in dedication to us.

Amy wrote (December 30th 2005)

I'm 14 and I'm 5'11. Most of the time I don't like it but I know when I am older I will be proud of my height. I try not to be embarrassed but it's really hard not to be when you are with a group of people who all average around 5'6. I wish I could be like that height sometimes, but then I know when I am older I will stand out from the crowd. I have 2 major problems with being tall:

1. I can't wear high heels which is a real shame as they flatter your legs! and
2. all boys (my age AND older) are short, or at least the tall ones aren't interested in me in the slightest.

It's easy enough for everyone to say 'stand up straight and be proud of your height, most people would die to be as tall as you' but in reality it's a lot more difficult than that. Please could I have any advice? And also, is it true that guys are intimidated by tall women and they prefer shorter ones?

Liz wrote (December 27th 2005)

Hey! I'm 6 feet tall, thin, athletic and 20. My boyfriend is only 5'9"! He loves it though and is always telling me how my "good genes" are going to help his family out. I've always been taller than everyone else (except a member of my family who is 6'11"). I love being tall. To all the younger girls who may feel embarrassed: Never fear, everyone is secretly jealous of your gracious figure!

Kemi wrote (December 24th 2005)

Personally, I find that being tall has extremely affected my life in every sense of the word and I often wonder if my life would have been different if I wasn't so tall. Ironically, I'm only 5"10 1/2 but everywhere I go I get asked how tall I am, the first of the questions being: "How tall are you?", "You must be 6 feet something?" or "Do you play basketball?", "Why don't you model?". The worst thing is that everywhere I go I seem to be the tallest and always get a comment about my height, even in my work place the comments never stop! I used to love wearing heels and dressing up but completely let myself go due to the constant remarks I get about my height. All I wanted to do was be like everyone else and not be noticed.

However, recently, I realised that I didn't want to be like everyone else, it was just too boring! So I went on the internet and found a wonderful shop for tall women in London, UK: longtallsally.com. I went there and was so happy to see other tall ladies even taller than myself shopping there and everything I tried on fitted and looked fabulous on me!

The only problem I'm experiencing at present is to do with wearing heels. I find myself extremely self-conscious when I do wear anything with heels and tend to wear flat shoes only. I'd like to meet other tall women who are confident with themselves and can share their experiences as I know that this will help me.

P.S.: I find that guys rarely approach me, let alone ask me out! I don't know if they find me intimidating or if it's because of my height. I do get loads of compliments, but no one's really asked me out, that I liked.

Suzi wrote (December 23rd 2005)

I am 6 feet tall and I dont have any complaints about my life . I get asked about basketball and modelling et al but I dont think people ask these to irritate us, they are just plain curious. I had my share of nasty comments in my high school but who hasn't. It is a part of every teenager's life and blaming it on height to the brink of paranoia is just ridiculous. And if somebody says something bad I dont think he is worthy of any attention - about this topic of boyfriends: I never saw height as an impediment. I have friends of all heights and they behave just the same way as with others. Yes, boys have always felt a bit awkward to ask me out because they think that I will refuse them because they are short and trust me, boys are very much afraid of rejection. Just try to be nice to them and do that extra bit to show them they are special and their height is no consideration and they will pamper you just like any other girl. And i hope you all will start enjoying life.

Brooke wrote (December 22nd 2005)

Oh wow, I'm soo happy to see that there are other tall women like me out there. It's so nice to hear that other people went through the same thing I did growing up. I'm 15 and 6'3". I always get asked how tall I am, or if I play basketball and volleyball... but I'm glad I don't play those sports. To me it just seems like it's a stereotype that tall girls must play those sports. But I must admit at times it can be tough being this tall but it gets better. It took me a long time to get where I am though, to love the way I am. I use to HATE shopping... especially when it came to pants and shoes. I just eventually gave up. But now I love shopping. I love going to look for pants that will be long enough for me. I love tallgirlshop.com and Alloy.com. Those are my favorite places to shop. Thanks soo much you girls for the inspiration and all. It's soo nice to read that other people are my height too. So thanks again!

Brooke

Kelsey wrote (December 20th 2005)

Hello All. So, I'm 20 and 6'1". I have not played basketball or volleyball since I was in junior high, but like many of you, I've been asked if I do many times. Throughout grade 9 and 10, I was hounded by gym teachers to play sports, but I was too busy with my other interests. I am obsessed with the performing arts. I dance, act, sing, and play the trombone. Musicals are my passion, but finding roles for a talented, yet extremely tall women like myself is a challenge. I am currently rehearsing for a production of Chicago, which is a show in which it can be an asset to be tall. I feel awkward at times when I have to be lifted while dancing with guys who are smaller than me, but I get over it. For me, performing and dance have been my way of learning to be comfortable with my body. I would strongly recommend that tall women who feel insecure with their height take dance classes, because they help you to carry yourself in a confident way, and to overcome the feeling of over-exposure that many tall girls feel. As far as finding guys, I do feel like the person who posted a few down from me about being told that I'm pretty, and should be a model, etc., and yet not ever being given the time of day by guys. I'd like to know what goes on in their heads when they see me. As far as a recommendation for clothes goes, I would recommend Ricki's, because they have "long" sized dress pants, and I get most of my pants there. I think that it might only be a Canadian store though. I think that learning how to sew is also an asset for any tall person. I think that being tall has affected the person who I am today in a lot of ways. I often try to think about how my life would be different if I hadn't always been tall for my age. It is part of my identity, and it is something that I enjoy and am proud of.

Jenna wrote (December 16th 2005)

Hello! I am only 14 years old, and I am 6 feet tall. Yes, it can be rather awkward at times, especially since I can never find pants the right length (by the way, if you have any clothing store suggestions for tall women, let me know! :P ) but for the most part, I enjoy being tall. I know that one of the first things my father noticed about my mother (who is 5'11) is how striking her hight was. I've never had any mean comments made about my height, but i don't go a single day without, "why are you so tall??" or "do you play basketball?" and it can get rather old, but i always remember that as I grow older, my height will be more of a blessing, and I will be much more grateful for it instead of just feeling different.

Candice wrote (December 15th 2005)

Hey Ladies, your comments are very helpful. I am 5'11 and have been fortunate to find clothes and shoes that actually fit. My problem is with men. People always tell me that I am very pretty and that I should model but men never talk to me. Instead I get the comments of "how big I am" Do any of you get that comment and if so how do you deal with it? Thanks Candice

Brittany wrote (December 11th 2005)

Hi, my name is Brittany and I'm 6'2 and 19 years old with a very athletic build. I wear a size 14 shoe, and about a size 11 pants. It's really hard for me to find clothes, shoes, and even shirts that fit me right. I was feeling down at first, and then I looked up "tall girl quotes" and I came across this website. I was 5'10 when I was in 6th grade and I didnt have any girlfriends, I only hung out with the boys (the only people that accepted me). Well then I fell in love with sports, I worked hard for over 5 years and I am now on a FULL RIDE AT CENTRAL MISSOURI STATE UNIVERSITY playing volleyball. Girls, I know it can be tough, but the people that say stuff about us, just wish they WERE us, models are tall, athletes are tall -  who wants to be normal anyways. We can look over the crowd of "regulars" and realize that WE are the ones closer to the stars. CHIN UP GIRLS! LOVE YOURSELVES!!!!

Sarah wrote (December 8th 2005)

Hey! I truly know what it is like to be tall. I am 13 and in the 8th grade and I am 6-feet tall and I wear a size 12(mens) shoe. I can never find shoes that are my size in women's. I wear a 14 in women's shoe. I also have A LOT of trouble finding jeans... Oh ya and dont forget finding a boyfriend. I am taller than all of the boys at my school, but that will soon change! I use my height to my advantage. I am the tallest basktball player in my district. I am very proud to be tall. I thank you for having this website. I would probably feel different if I had not found this site. Thanks again!! I hope all the tall girls out there are confident!

Nancy wrote (December 7th 2005)

WHOA! I HAD NO IDEA SO MANY TALL GIRLS EXISTED!!! I didn't know that you girls have all been threw the: ''you should model/u play basket-ball? / how tall are you? / no you're taller/etc...'' Phase. I am 16 and I'm about 5ft 10 and 1/2. Whenever people talk about my height, it doesn't bother me unless it's strangers. I used to hate being tall so much that I'd cry about it. Now I am so confident about my height. I DO hate having to pay more money to get longer pants but PARASUCO & GARAGE have long pants and I love their styles. Besides, we look great on the beach with our long legs. I find some short women (no offense) who have beautiful bodies look like kids with boobs because they are not long and lean like we are! I wear the smallest heels because of guys. I don't want to be taller then them but most guys are tall and besides: everybody knows that a tall man is good :D!!! I have tall friends too but I am the tallest of my friends and to be honest I love the fact that I can wear flats and feel tall and beautiful and not have any pain in my feet. I am a size 9 in shoes but for those who want bigger sizes try going on google.com and entering shoes size: (your number)... Anyhow... Keep smilling and be proud of who u are! Guys who dont ''like tall women'' only say that because they have low self esteem! Who cares if we're 8 ft tall or 1 ft. Every height has its advantages.

Ashley wrote (December 5th 2005)

Hey, I have never written on this website before but I am 16 and I am 6'1 and I have been having a really hard time dealing with my height. People always say really mean things everytime I walk by and they tease me. I guess people think that you can take it when you are a tall girl but I really hate it. I am so sick of being treated differently just because I'm tall - it really shouldn't change anything. People call me giant dinosaur and just guys in general from my school always are mean about it. I don't understand why people can't just accept me and it makes it a lot harder on me when they don't.

Joerg says: I guess you have read all the uplifting quotes from other tall girls / women who have had similar experiences. All I can say is "Don't let these little idiots get you down. You're better than them. Maybe they're just intimidated by you because you kick butt (as they say in the US)... Well, I'm virtually smiling up to you. Stand tall and proud - you'll feel great and sexy very soon. Trust me."

Dominique wrote (December 2nd 2005)

I STAND 5'11, 19 AND THIN. i have had up and down fellings about it. My family has helped me to embrace it as genetics, the media especially modeling has made me embrace it as beauty, and common average people have tried to belittle my stature as a flaw. I have embraced all of the above because I have been geneticlly enhanced with a beautiful trait that is my tall stature and something that a common person knows nothing about or at least won't find out until they meet me. I believe I have a lot of things going for me and my height is simply a plus. Of course, during highschool, peers and anyone else w/insecurities has tried to degrade and alienate me but I never would let them, it only made me stronger.

Carrie wrote (December 1st 2005)

This site is EXCELLENT!! Very helpful to a 6' and still growing 17-year-old. I have never been ashamed of my height-my dad is 6'8" and I'm the tallest in my family after him. Yes, I get the jokes, the comments, the stares.

I sing in a mixed choir where all the girls stand in front of the boys on risers. I feel bad for the boys who have to see the director around me, but that doesn't stop me from putting my heels on for our concerts!

I have some really good, short, cute female friends, and they've told me many times that I get so much more male attention than they ever have.

So thanks for the awesome website, and thank the good Lord for making tall men for us tall women's dating pleasure!!:)

Caty wrote (November 24th 2005)

Hi. I'm 16 years old and about 6 foot 2 inches. When I was younger all the kids would call me a giant or something of that nature. I spent alot of time feeling sorry for myself during those years. However, I learned that people do mature and the name calling pretty much came to a halt. I would just like to say that I love being tall now. I don't wear heels because I fear if I fall it might be a long way down but I all in all im really comfortable with myself. And if you ever need a pair of good long jeans just go to Gap.com. They have tall sizes and they are gorgeous!

Samantha wrote (November 24th 2005)

I am 23 and almost 6'1". I have never posted something on a site before, but I have found all these statements so inspiring and they hit close to home. I was 5'10" at the age of 12. Being tall always makes you different, it makes you stand out, but my mum always told me to walk straight and be proud. Confidence always shines through. It is not easy though. It is not easy with men, or ever with friends at times. I am also overweight, but at the same time, this allowed be to be a plus size model wth a big New York Agency. Just last week I got called fat by a small small man and it hurt me like nothing else. Reading what all you women have posted here has made me feel so much better about myself. Everyone has their moments of doubt and weakness, but finding a forum such as this makes those moments shorter and shorter. Thank you all!!!

Alisha wrote (November 22nd 2005)

Hey.. I'm 19 years old and I'm 6'3. Growing as a child I really wasn't teased that much. I really didn't get teased until middle school. The kids would call me names and laugh. High School wasn't too bad by that time I had done got use to it and it didn't bother me that much. Now as a woman its hard to find clothes and shoes that fit. I'm glad that I found this website. I feel that I could relate to everyone on here. I haven't had trouble finding a boyfriend being that... I guess you can say that some tall people are attracted to tall people. That is not always true in some cases. I just want all the tall teens and women that we are SEXY. Some dudes like women with long legs!! We have alot more for the men to LOVE.. and more for the short people to hate!!! Love yourself, be sexy and Girl you better work it!!!!

Melissa wrote (November 21st 2005)

Hi, beautiful girls! I am 21 years old and 5'11. I hated being tall in middle school, and to make it worse, I weighed maybe 125lbs. I was teased pretty bad. That's o.k. though because men do like taller women (they think they are with a model!). Short women don't like us because our clothes look real nice on us. I love to wear high heels also (I just started to when I was 20). Just be happy to be tall. People envy us!!

Rebekah wrote (November 20th 2005)

Hi, I'm Bex. I'm 17 years old and I'm over 6ft tall. I have a message for the younger teens on this site: Don't worry! I promise you, it will get less of a big deal as the years progress. I used to worry I'd never get a boyfriend (now I do - not that it's the be all and end all of life!) and I simply adore being tall. Many people have said they're jealous of my height!! Stick with it girls! xxox

Kat wrote (November 18th 2005)

Hi! I'm 15 and I'm 6ft2 and 1/2. I used to hate being tall, but now it's great. Yea, A LOT of people comment on my height, but they are usually amazed at how amazing it looks to be so beautifully tall! My family and I went to a pub for lunch and we sat outside. I had to walk through the pub to go and find my Dad and I walked past a group of middle aged people who were blatantly drunk. I heard them laugh at me and whisper stuff like "oooo, she's tall". Anyway, after finding my Dad i walked past the group of people and a short man got up and said "you're huuuge" so I replied "only because you're short". The whole pub were clapping and cheering and I had a big grin on my face. Just remember to enjoy being who you are. It is hard to always be the head sticking out of a crowd, but that means you will always be recognised :D. Where can i can a pair of LADIES Timberlands in a size 9??? P.S. When I find trousers long enough, they're too wide!!!

Taneak wrote (November 18th 2005)

I am 30 years old (6'1)... some days I love being tall but I also have my bad days. The bad days are not as often now that I am older. But I understand the pain of going shopping and not being able to find anything to fit you like you want. Or just having people especially kids look at you like you are an alien. Sometimes I just want to fit into the crowd and not be seen. And of course their is the issue of dating. It's still hard for me to find guys that I do not intimidate. The really tall guys like the shorter women and the shorter guys love the taller women... I am still trying to figure that one out.

Katy wrote (November 18th 2005)

It frustrates me when people think just because you're tall that you're automatically outgoing and funny or something. I think this causes people to feel it's alright to approach tall people with questions or comments. They just think we can take it. After all, the only reason you wouldn't go up to an obese person and tell them they're fat or ask them how much they weighed is because you know they'd be hurt by it. People just need to discover that sometimes asking about OUR physical appearance gets old and it hurts. Ok, and by the way, 5'5'' is the average height, right? So where's all the crap for the 5'2'' people, or the 5'0'' people. It's always us big 6' and over girls who get the comments. MAKES ME MAD!

Melissa wrote (November 17th 2005)

Hi, Ladies - it's me again. This will be my third time writing. I have read some of your quotes. I love the ladies that are proud of their Height. Ladies, I love my height. I am 5'11 1/2. If you round that off I am 6'0. And yes, I do wear heels. I've never had a problem with getting a man. (Maybe a good man) I have had men taller than me and shorter than me. Tall ladies please stand up tall do not slouch, we look better in our clothes. By the way Make sure you dress nice. Look @ all the tall models aren't they gorgeous just to name a few. Tyra Banks, Naomi Campbell, Brooke Shields, Kimora Lee and there are so many more - I just can't think of their names. I think all the tall ladies should start a club ex. We should encourage one another. I think the girls that are more confident should help the girls that are not so confident. If any of you ladies are interested please email me This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.

Shameka wrote (November 17th 2005)

Hello , I am 29 years old and I am 6'4. I wear a size 12 shoe. I know this may sound weird but there are times when I forget just how tall I am. It is only when I see someone who is my height that I get reminded of how tall I really am. I must admit there are times when I wish I would have stopped growing at 5'11 (usually when I'm shopping) and then there are times when I love my height (at concerts or any crowded event). My boyfriend is 6'3 which makes me an inch taller than him and he loves it. I wear heels occasionally and I have to say that it makes you feel sexy when you have on a nice dress with heels. Here are some web sites that may help you when looking for tall clothes and shoes: www.tallandall.com, www.tallgirls.co.uk, www.longtallsally.com, www.designershoes.com, www.tallwomensclothes.com, www.aerosoles.com (up to size 12 shoes) www.ninewest.com (up to size 12 shoes)

I hope some of these web sites will help you especially the ultra tall girls.

Laura wrote (November 17th 2005)

Hello everyone. I am 14 years old and about 6'1". Of course I'm pretty self-conscious about my height, but reading all of your comments helps a lot. One thing that had bugged me a lot was finding clothes that fit well, but I FINALLY found some good sites! www.tallwomensclothes.com is wonderful for everything from shirts to shoes. Alloy.com is where I buy all of my jeans. 37" inseams & very cute too :)

Lauren wrote (November 16th 2005)

I've always been back and center in school pictures. I can't even begin to count how many times my height has been commented on. And I really wish companies would start making pants that were longer. I'm 17 and 6' tall. I love being tall most of the time, like for sports, and also I love being tall because it makes me look taller and thinner. My only problem is that I have a really hard time finding guys, who are my age, who aren't intimidated by my height. A lot of guys at my high school are a significant amount shorter than I am. I'm hoping that next year, at University, the guys will either be taller or more accepting of a slight height difference.

Melissa wrote (November 15th 2005)

Hi, my name is Melissa and I am 5'11 1/2". I am 30 years old. When I was in grade school I was nevered teased about my height - other things but never height. I always loved my height. Tall woman, we look better in our clothes. Stand up tall, don't slouch. Even if you don't have confidence pretend you have it. Make time for yourself, tall woman, remember we stand out. Get your clothes out at night make sure they look right on you. Please, tall girls - wear your heels they look better on us anyway. Remember don't slouch, stand up straight. Look your best!

Gwen wrote (November 14th 2005)

It is so nice to hear all the positive things that people are saying about being tall. I will not deny that it can be a challenge to find clothes that fit the way you want them to, but they are making that more and more possible. I have to think that the industry is finally catching up with the taller members of society. My grandmother always told me and my sister that we needed to stand up and walk proud because we were so beautiful. I am 6'4 and my sister is 6'5 and could not be more happy with our image. There are so many more things in this world for people to worry about, those who make comments or judge have got way too much time on their hands and are more than likely not happy with who they are. GOD made you the way HE wanted you. Be proud of that and stand tall.

Truddie wrote (November 13th 2005)

Wow! I have been feeling pretty down a little lately and self conscious about my body, height, and other things. Reading the testimonials by all these great women and teens who are still growing who have yet to experience things in life I have is unbelievable. I'm 5'11 and an African American female. I am a dark woman so I've been dealing with maybe I'm too dark and definitely too tall. I met a man that I really like that is very confident and we get along so well. He is barely 5'7 and treats me great. I'm 31 and you would think by now I would be over the self esteem bit but unfortunately I'm not. Seeing that there are as many women like myself out there is a big relief. I've always wanted to be a little shorter just a couple of inches is all. I wear heels all the time, I wouldn't dare of wearing flats out with my friends. Definitely a fashion no-no in my book. Thanks to this site here's to walking tall and being proud of it. Thanks for a great site to boost my self esteem!!

Rochelle wrote (November 11th 2005)

HEY, my name is Rochelle. I'm 16 and I'm 6'2! I love it soo much because I get people saying "you should become a model and "do you play basketball". It's so awesome, I reckon all you out there should be proud of your height... think of those short girls that say "I wish I was your height".

Deena wrote (November 10th 2005)

I accidentally found this site & wanted to say a few words to the younger women who are still in the 'I hate my height' phase. I'm 6ft tall barefoot, 130lbs & stopped growing at 15. My nickname in H.S. was Bean as in stringbean. Don't ever let somebody's rude remarks bring you down. The only people, male or female who make jokes are the ones who wish they had what you have! GOD gave you what most people would wish for if they could change one thing about themselves - their height! I've been told this by many women & men alike who have made that wish!

Jacoba wrote (November 10th 2005)

Being tall and having an unusual name was always a double-whammy for me growing up, but it always intrigued people and was a great conversation starter! The best thing about being tall is going anywhere with my family - people stare in wonderment! My brother is 6'8", my dad 6'6", my sister 6'3", my other sister 6'0", my mom 5'9" (who used to be considered tall until we came along!), and I'm 6'1". All of us girls wear heels with pride! Who says you have to wear unfashionable shoes when you're tall??

Jessa wrote (November 9th 2005)

I was working on an essay that I was writing on being tall. Somehow I came across this website. As a matter of fact the person whose quote is directly below mine here on this page, Jane, is a good friend of mine and teammate. I am six foot one and I also have the same feelings about my tallness as Jane. We are both going to play Divison I Volleyball next year and without our size, we probably wouldn't have been recruited. All of the years of being teased in elementary school has finally paid off! Go tall people!!!!!

Jane wrote (November 9th 2005)

I am a whoppin' 6'3" and i have learned to be proud of it. One good thing about being extremely tall is that no one dares mess with me. I was the tallest girl in my school as a freshman! I am recognized wherever I go, and having bright blonde hair doesn't help my situation. People stare at me constantly, but I have learned to kind of like it. And yes, I get a MILLION comments a day, the worst being "Do you know that you're really tall?" I usually look back at them with a surprised expression on my face like I really didn't know, and say, "Really?" The best is when people ask me how tall I am and I reply with "190.5 centimeters." I leave them there doing the math. Once they realize that I deal with my height lightly, they start to treat my height like it is no big deal. I buy jeans at alloy.com, which not only has really cheep jeans, but also extremely long ones. In the end, I am happy for being so tall because I am now going to college on a full ride to play Division I Volleyball and I know that I would not be doing so if I were 5 inches shorter. Sometimes it is fun to take my heels out of the closet and wear them just to see the astonished look on peoples' faces :)

Laura wrote (November 8th 2005)

Wow. It's good to finally find out that there are so many more people that feel the same way as I do. I am 19, 6'2", and am fairly skinny. I have found that my whole life I was ashamed of my height and wanted to change it. However, just recently I have become more and more accepting of my height. I actually bought my first pair of heels this past summer. I have had so many of the usual questions such as "do you model" or "do you play basketball?" And yes, it does get annoying as many of you know. I have never had a boyfriend and I have been told that guys are intimidated by my height. Oh well... that's their loss, not mine. God has an amazing boy in store for me and I just have to wait for God to reveal him to me. Anyways... embrace your height, it is a gift from God. Stand tall. Your height makes you who you are. God Bless.

Heather wrote (November 8th 2005)

I'm 14 and 5'11" and still growing. It is kind of weird being around other people because they are all shorter than me. All guys are shorter than me also. My mom and me have to wash normal sized jeans and we cant dry them, then we have to stretch them. I'm also really skinny and lots of people say that i should be a model. They call me "toothpick" or "don't turn sideways or you'll vanish!", "Tree girl". All those comments get annoying after a while. My mom says that when tall people walk into a room they get noticed very easy, and they walk gracefully, very elegant. My mom is tall also, but I'm taller then her. Warehouse One just came out with LONGER JEANS and im sooooooooooo excited to go and get some.

Suzane wrote (November 6th 2005)

Wut up, girlz... I totally know how all of you feel... I'm 16 yearz old, Egyptian reppin 5'11 1/2". I always get the occasional "Damn, she's really tall along" with a whole other variety of unique/but hurtful nicknames. This is somethin I already know I mean, dang, I have been 5'11" since the fifth grade. There's days where I hate my height 'n days where I love it... But, hey - I'd rather be tall and slim than short and stumpy any day!! (no offense to small girls)

Twyla wrote (November 6th 2005)

Hi, I am 25 years old and I am 6 feet tall. Like most of you I used to hate my height. Actually, to be completely honest, just these past few months I suddenly developed major confidence and self esteem. I used to cry myself to sleep at night. Now I love my life and love myself so much. What happened? I found God in my life. He has blessed me so much with confidence and I am so grateful. Yesterday I spent $200 for high heeled shoes. No more flats for me!! Whenever I wear flats now I can hardly walk, but when I wear my 3 inches I feel barefoot! Keep your head up, tall chicks, everyone is special in this world (seriously) - don't let other people bother you! Obviously they feel insecure or they wouldn't have to make comments. Secure people don't, do they?

Jennifer wrote (November 6th 2005)

I find it so very frustrating to be tall. (6'5 1/2"!) I have never had a boyfriend and just about every day I get gawked at and called horrible names. I have been publically humilliated so many times I have lost count. I hate to be so negative when evrything I have read here is positive, but very rarely do I have positive experiences where my height is concerned. Most days I would rather just stay inside and avoid it all. I am also a 100lbs overweight, so I feel like a freak of nature (I have been told that I am many times). This web site is the only glimmer of hope I have. I see that other women (even though the average is aprox. 6'1) are happy with themselves. I would love to be happy with myself, but it is hard when daily in some way by men, women and children alike I am made to feel that I am not ok, usually by a look, a stare, a gawk or some comment, innocent or not- and when I get mistaken for a man. I know it's got to get better. Thanks for this site and its positivity!

Becca wrote (November 6th 2005)

Holy crap! I'm so glad I found this site it was kind of a relief when I did. Anyhow I am 5'10 and I have ALWAYS dated the tall 6 ft and above guys who I thought were drop dead georgous! Anyhow recently I have been digging this shorter guy who is probably 5'7. The first thought that came to my head was "No way! He's way too short" but after reading all of this I'm thinking different. The only reason why I couldn't date him (in my eyes) is because he's shorter than me! Again I sound like another vain girl! Ok, so I'm going to overcome my fear and just go with it. I really like him, ya never know it might work out for me. We'll see! Wish me luck!

Aimee wrote (November 5th 2005)

Hey everyone. My name's Aimee and I'm 14 years old and 6'1. I hate my height and reading all of your comments really makes me feel good about growing up and maybe liking my height. Everyone calls me lurch because I'm 6'1 and I weigh 120 pounds. I put my height to good use - I play volleyball and basketball at my highschool.

Sara wrote (November 1st 2005)

Hello, ladies! I am 21 and I am proud of my 6'2'"! There are many things that make my day miserable from time to time (shopping), but... BEING TALL MEANS YOU COULD NEVER BE AN AVERAGE PERSON! How many times people would forget who you are, what is your name... But they will always remember 'that tall girl'... And men would go crazy when you wear high heels - trust me :) There is nothing better than wearing high heels and knee-length skirt! I am not a model-like tall girl, but it is easier to hide some extra weight if you are tall. Ok, there is only a problem when it comes to guys... I kinda do not like smaller guys for being my partners. However, they are my good friends. And they respect me. And this matters.

Orlandrea wrote (October 24th 2005)

Hi ladies, I am 22 years old and I am 6'4" - 6'5". When I was younger I used to get teased a lot because I was different from everyone else. I grew up with 6 brothers so just imagine the tall jokes. Now that I am older I have grown to love my height. It has taken me so many places and allowed me to accomplish so many of my dreams and goals. I am now in college and I do play basketball. My height as well as talent has opened so many doors for me, that now it doesnt bother me when everyone stares and asks questions. I must admit that I have a hard time finding cute clothing that fit me. I am very tall but I wear a size 7/8 so it can be tough finding jeans. If anyone has any tips then please help but other than that remember, God created each and everyone one of us; so no matter if you're tall, short, skinny,thick,or in between, God doesnt make no JUNK!!!!!!!!!!! Continue to love yourselves as well as each other.

Jastrid wrote (October 24th 2005)

Hiya ! My name is Jastrid and I am 6ft1". I stopped growing when I was 11 years old. At one stage I was growing an inch a week which was VERY painful. I felt like a circus freak when the doctors would talk about my "condition" and I didn't particularly like being taller then my junior school teachers, let alone my peers! But now I am at college and feel ok with myself, I get strangers coming up to me and saying how much they wish they were as tall as me!!! One last thing, I had real problems with confidence and self esteem, but DON'T! Stand straight, stand tall and remember that more people think that you're beautiful than you know!!! And longer dresses ALWAYS look better on us don't they girls? 

xxx Jastrid, 16, England

P.S.: I STILL wish I was taller!

www.monsoon.co.uk I find has STUNNING dresses which most of the time fit me. It is not a specialist tall shop but the occasionwear dresses are real head turners! Worth the prices.

Ellen wrote (October 24th 2005)

I love this website. I am 14 years old and 5'10 or maybe even 5'11. I have always hated my height, people always describe me as "the really tall girl". I'm pretty skinny too.. people tell me I look perfect... I don't think so. I wear size nine shoe and size 5 pants and I always have to buy a large in the tops I like because they are too short on me! Even though I'm skinny enough for a small. My mom is 5'9, my dad is 6', my brother is 6'5! I mean I don't usually FEEL tall either until someone points it out to me. It really bothers me when people tell me I'm really tall - I'm like "oh really?" "duh". I mean if I get to 6 feet tall I'm gonna cry but this site is really awesome. I know I'm not alone now. Any tall girlie wanna chat? This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. so he can forward your emails to me. This site is awesome!!! :)

Melissa wrote (October 24th 2005)

Hi, my Name is Melissa and I am 5'11 1/2" and I love my height. And yes I do wear my heels. People are so rude they ask me question like why do you wear heels. I don't care what people say I am going to wear my heels. I think this web site is great I think all tall woman should get together and compare heights. I think we should encourage one another.

Danna wrote (October 23rd 2005)

This is so neat to have a website of girls I can totally relate to!!! I am 15 and 6'1". Everytime I meet someone for the first time, their first question is the "Do you play basketball?" NO I DON'T PLAY BASKETBALL PEOPLE! But it just irks me so much how people just assume for us tall girls to play basketball. They almost get mad at me for it!! Ahh its annoying. Yeah I also get the all time famous "You're tall" or "Did you know you're tall?" Ummm...DUH. I get that question at least twice a day no kidding. And you know another thing that bugs me? When people don't realize that if you are tall, you weigh more. Like if I ever told a short girl that I weigh 170 lbs, she would be like "NO WAY!!!" and probably think that's a "fat" weight. Short people do not understand this and it makes me so irritated. You all can probably relate. Okay, I am done with venting. But I wouldn't trade my height for the world. I absolutely LOVE it. And it REALLY helps with my spikes in volleyball! :-)

La Tonya wrote (October 17th 2005)

My name is La Tonya. I am 15 yrs old and 6'1 -6'2 ft. tall. It has been really hard for me dealing with my height issues my whole life. Every day I am constantly teased about being "big" - the name calling is constant... everything from gorilla, shaq, godzilla, giant, and even being called ugly. Shorter people really dont understand how this can effect a taller person! Even though I am over six feet I am still very shy and sensitive about my body image and I have never had a boyfriend in my life and i guess I start to say what's wrong with me? Am I ugly...? Even the taller boys turn the other cheek because they want a small, short and thin girlfriend... everything I'm not. There has not been a day when I wish I was shorter or would just die

Had wrote (October 17th 2005)

Hi! First let me start by saying that I am 6'3" and as many of you, I can relate to the fact that it is hard at times to find pants have long inseams. I just moved from NY to London, and the other day my friend who is very petite took me to a store called TOP SHOP, she wanted to go to the petite section, and she told me that they had a tall section. I am thinking to myself, I know what they are all about at the tall sections (usually their jeans are still too short). But Ladies let me tell you, the tall section at TOP SHOP is tall with capital T, they have inseams up to 38 and they got all kinds of stuff, dress pants everything that you can imagine tall so check out www.topshop.com. For shoes... I am not gonna lie, I love Payless, especially online. They often do have the latest fashions and trends in big sizes: Payless ShoeSource©. Friedman's Shoes located in Atlanta is another one, expensive, but they got some nice shoes. Hope that I've been some help. To all the tall ladies out there, we are gorgeous. So be proud!

Danni wrote (October 16th 2005)

Wow, this site is amazing! I always thought I was the only tall woman out there, but now I feel differently because I know there are other women my height who think in the similar way. Well, I'm 21 and 6'1. I think I stopped growing when I was 16. I used to live in Europe and I never really thought much of my height. People sometimes told me how tall I am and stuff like that, but it wasn't a big deal. Then I moved to Canada. My whole life changed. Whenever I went, people stared at me and told me how tall I was. I have to admit that this could be contributed to the fact that my new home had only population of 60.000, but I still didn't understand what's the big deal. One time, this girl started taking pictures of me. It was bizarre. For the longest time, I felt like an outcast just because I was taller than most of the girls. But as I grew older, I started to realize how great it is to be different. And I love it! I even wear high heels. :)

Nicole wrote (October 16th 2005)

Hi everybody. I'm 13 years old and I'm 6 feet 4 inches and the doctors tell me I could grow another foot. I love being tall. Everyone my age and even some older people have to look up just to see my face. It's wonderful. I wish I could be 9 feet tall. I can just imagine walking through the halls of my school and having everyone come up to my waist or lower. Ha.

Rach wrote (October 15th 2005)

I'm 16 and 6'2". For the longest time I always felt that it was bad being tall. But now, I'm so proud of my height, and not a lot of people are tall like me. It's cool that I found this site though because I always thought I was the only tall person out there. Now I know I was wrong. :) I'm glad to see that there are other females out there that go through the same problems I do, like being taller than all the guys and not finding pants long enough. It's good to know I'm not alone.

Jenny wrote (October 13th 2005)

I am 20 yrs. old and 6 foot 2 and I have learned to love it! Like many others I have been asked "Do you play basketball?" I have to reply I did but not anymore. At college I think everyday I get asked to question how's the team going". People definetely can pick us out of a crowd, but learn to like it! People actually notice us! Tall is good, and my 6'4'' boyfriend loves it too!

Eileen wrote (October 10th 2005)

I am 38 years old and 5'10 1/2. Growing up I also hated being tall.  In grammer school I heard all the comments about being tall and skinny. My mother always told me how wonderful it is to be tall and that I should hold my head high and be proud. By the time I was 16 I realized she was right. When you are tall and you walk into a room confidently you stand out in a wonderful way. To top it off I usually where heels. As for all of you out there that won't date men shorter, my first husband was 5'8. My present husband is 5'6 and the man of my dreams. He is also confident and secure otherwise I don't think we would have ever gotten together. To all of you: Stand tall and be proud!!

Star wrote (October 10th 2005)

Wow, I love all these comments. I am 16 and 5'11. I have always been tall ever since like...the 3rd grade. I do get made fun of sometimes, but I have that kind of relationship with alot of people where we just make fun of each other out of fun. They will always be like "Okay Giant!" For some reason it doesnt make me mad anymore, like you know you have your ups and downs. But recently I have been feeling real good about myself, and I have talked to a couple guy friends and some are just intiminated by tall girls. I'm sure you heard that before. And a lot a girls say to me You're so tall and pretty. I mean would you rather be short and fat? Just look at it like it could always be worse. Before I used to be tall thick and ugly lol. Just keep your head up and walk like your proud of being tall. And girls will envy you. And I do play basketball as a matter of fact, I've played on and off. Its an advantage in my school because we dont have to many tall girls, and I automatically make the Varsity basketball team because I'm tall. I dont even have to be good. lol. The guy I also love and is my best friend, is 5'7.  Im still self concience about that. lol. I havent gotten use to it. I want a tall guy but you can't have everything right?

Renee wrote (October 8th 2005)

I'm 25 and 6'0" and have grown to like my height.  I really think it is what makes me special.  My husband is barely 5'10" and I have always been a little self conscience of it but I don't think anyone else thinks anything of it.  In middle and high school people would make rude comments and call me big bird and ask me if I played basketball but I would also recieve comments from strangers who asked me if I was a model.  I still occasionally get a rude comment but the nice compliments out-weigh the rude ones.  For all the girls still in school, just be patient...once you get to college you won't have ANY problem finding a date.  I had both short and tall guys ask me out in college.  Just remember to stand straight and look like you are proud even if you don't feel that way.  There are so many beautiful celebrities that are tall (Tyra Banks, Uma Thurman and Brook Shields just to name a few).  If you have trouble finding long pants, try New York & Company or Lerner's.  They have really long jeans and dress pants. I buy all my clothes there.

Shannon wrote (October 7th 2005)

Hi, I'm 27 and have been 6'2" since 7th grade. When I was growing up, I quickly outstriped my brothers and stood taller than my dad at my sweet 16! I used to beat myself up a lot over my height, especially while in school as I was taller than all of the boy. The "big-bird" remarks and others really hurt... But now all these years later, I'm much more content with my height. I'm blessed with very comforting parents and a great man who loves me. My husband says I'm the most gorgeous woman to have walked to earth, and now-a-days, I'm just inclined to agree with him. :)

Leslie wrote (October 7th 2005)

Hey girls! I was 5'8'' in the 5th grade! Can u beat that? lol.. but now i am 6'1" and 16 years old. I am loving it too! I constantly get comments and looks from the guys, haha. Of course it wasn't always like this. I went through my awkward stages where i had glasses, braces, was very tall for my age, and was just plain awkward. Now, i've definitely developed and grown into my height. So, since most of us here are tall ladies, i was wondering how many times you have all heard the questions, "How tall are you?", or "Do you play basketball?", or "wow, you're really tall"... it would be interesting to see the numbers you'll come up with. In fact, i dont play basketball. I am a devoted volleyball player. :) oh yeah, if you're looking for tall jeans or pants, look at oldnavy.com, Gap.com, Metro Park, or Victoria's Secret catalogs. I hope I was of help to at least one person. BYE! :)

Renee wrote (October 6th 2005)

Came across this site while attempting to find a formal dress for my daughter. She is 6'1" and a few months from her 15th birthday. All my children are tall, but the others are boys. Since she started school my girl has endured the "oh my gosh!!" comments too. It always annoyed me only because they stated it like she was some kind of freak. I, too, taught her to simply say "why thank you" in reply. She has become such a beautiful and confident young lady. Being in high school helps because people are typically taller there. Middle school is hard because most boys haven't reached that all important growth spurt. I was delighted to find this site. Our family enjoys our height.... just wish the women's clothes industry would catch up. Blessings to you.

Vicki wrote (October 6th 2005)

Hi guys! I'm really glad that I found this site! It's so nice to see so many positive tall women out there! I'm 23 and stand proudly at 6ft2, I've been this height since I was 14 and have only finally got used to the staring and comments! It does niggle me when people think they can just come up to me and make comments about my appearance, you know normal "my god you're tall!" I normally just respond with "my god you're tiny!" and see how they like it!! I think it's important that we all learn to love our tallness because we can't ignore it and hide away! I just wish there was a wider variety of clothes and shoes etc... does anyone know of any decent shops in London, u.k. that don't charge the earth for rubbish clothes???

Setsunna wrote (October 6th 2005)

Hi all, its good to know that there are women out there going through the same thing but for me personally it's hard. By the way, I'm about to be 22 Oct 16 and I'm around 5'11" and wear a US size 12 shoe and I do not like having big feet, no matter how well I take care of them and make them look pretty, they are big and I feel so OUT when I see my friends and other women wearing the sandals and sneakers I wanted to buy and can't either because they don't have 'em in 12 or I looked like a skier when I tried them on. I live in Orlando, Florida and I've been here for about 8 years and never met any women in my situation and it gets hard because the girlfriends I have are all average sizes in clothes and shoes... It's great to see a website wear other women like me exist but where are you women in person?.. I love what God has given me but the main gripe I have like some of you is clothes and shoes.... Most stores in my area carry up to size 10 in shoes so I'm stuck shopping at Payless and rarely having what's "in". And jeans go to size 11 and I am a 13 Long (long legs) in jeans so when an easter egg size 13 comes along I get it because I know it will fit despite the fact that the bottoms will be flapping above my ankels drawing even more attention to my feet. I know it's complaining but I love myself bottom line and I would like to know some women in real life going through this so I can shop with them and talk with them about it also because where I am in orlando, it feels like I'm a freak among petite women that where size 7 shoes and size 1 or 2 jeans.... And that is the size of my best friend by the way. I love my friends anyway and I love this site.. Thanks for giving me a place to vent where other people can understand... Love you all!

~setsunna

Caitlin wrote (October 2nd 2005)

Hey, I'm Caitlin. I'm 15.5 years old and I'm 5'9.5 (five-foot nine and a half.) My dad is 6'4 and my mom is 5'8, so I'll probably be about 5'10. I love my height so much! I'm hoping to be a model in about 3 years. Enjoy your height, there's nothing you can do to change it. The taller, the curvier, the sexier. Adios! -- Caitlin

Georgia wrote (September 30th 2005)

Hi there! I am 1,78m (5'10") and I have been dating a guy for the past 3 years who is 5 cm (about 3 inches) shorter than me. It's true I have been very self-conscious about the height difference especially when we walk down the street. We never hold hands, I feel that people are watching us. Unfortunately, I have been brought up this way by my family and this has created this psychological problem. I am now 29 years old. When I first met him, I didn't even consider doing anything with him - we were just friends. But, as fate has it, I got to know him & he is so great. Fun-loving, bright, sensitive, loyal. I have tried to get past MY insecurity (he is really comfortable with our difference & he even enjoys it) but I have my parents TOTALLY against our relationship. Actually, the whole family is really sad that I am with this person. I have been under a lot of pressure and I am now considering breaking up with him (while he's thinking of marriage!!) although I really don't want to. My parents threaten not to come to the wedding (if & when we get married), they don't want to have anything to do with us & INSIST that IF i were to go ahead with this, they PREDICT my marriage would result in divorce anyway (but would also drag a couple of children into this situation) because I would not be able to handle the social pressure & condescending remarks. I don't know what to do. All I know is that my guy does not deserve this kind of behavior from my family, nor my indecisiveness. He should be welcomed with open arms in any family he enters... Any comments to help me out of this would be greatly appreciated. Thanks for this website, it helps to know I am not the only one out there.

Maty wrote (September 28th 2005)

Hello, I am from Africa as well, I am 23 and i am 6'2. Wow, I didn't know there were so many tall women out there. Does some good to my heart! :) My biggest problem is finding jeans, or boots, cute boots, with high heels and everything. I wear a size 12 so you guys imagine the trouble I go through, thanks though for the website, hopefully we will be able to share some tips.

Maggie wrote (September 27th 2005)

Hey everyone. I'm Maggie and I'm 15 and 6'0. I'm also still growing. It really doesn't often bother me but only that fact that I am stiff growing does. It's so annoying when people come up to you and say "you're tall", but I usually shoot one back and say "hey, really buddy, I thought I was short". Then they just laugh and you can learn to also. But anyway it still stinks because I can never find cloths, everyone's shorter than me and I'm really lanky. But LOVE LIFE!

Kristy wrote (September 27th 2005)

Hi Ladies! I am 23 and 6'2". I was 6' by the time I reached 6th grade and I have always been tall. My sister (who's 13 mos. younger than I and 5'7") have a picture when I was 4 and she 3 and I am already towering over her! I used to DESPISE my height, but have found several tall friends (does it help that I live in Iowa?!) to share in the tallness. For many years I was the tallest in my district for basketball, but now I notice that more and more women are growing! It's fantasitc! Now I enjoy wearing heels and walking into bars, restaraunts, etc. just to watch people's reactions. Yes, I still get the obnoxious comments, "What, are you like 7 feet tall or something?!" I think what makes life even better is the fact that my best friend is 4'11"! We get stares, but we are amused. (She gets the same crap...imagine if people patted your head all the time!) I am grateful to have a loving mom who has always told me to keep my chin up and back straight! You do the same ladies.

Joanna wrote (September 26th 2005)

I just want to encourage all of the tall women out there who feel frustrated with their stature. I have definitely gone through my ups and downs concerning my height... (I am 6'1"1/2 and will be turning 19 soon) I had no idea there were so many other women out there who deal with this same issue... and for those who get asked "Do you play basketball" you can respond by saying "no, do you play miniature golf." I would advise you to say this as only a joke :) (I haven't used this before, but I read it somewhere and it has always humored me ;) Remember, Jesus has given you this gift - so stand up, roll those shoulders back and let your beautiful light shine.

Khady wrote (September 26th 2005)

I am a tall 30 years young african lady (6'3"). I have been living in the United States for 12 years now. When I was a teenager I was shy and I used to get teased a lot. What bothered me a lot was when people heard my accent they asked me if everybody in my country is that tall!!! Like if i come from a strange alien place... I've been maried for 4 years and my husband is 6'6". We get stared at a lot and quite frankly we don't care. I do wear high heels and one day I kinda bumped into the metro door and it was kinda funny. Everybody stared at me and I looked at them one by one to try to intimidate them so that they would stop the staring. I am also lucky in a way because I wear size 10 shoes which is unsual for my height. I like this website and will be visiting more. I wished it existed when I was a teenager. Thanks for the initiative

Kamilah wrote (September 20th 2005)

I am 15 years old 5 foot 10.5 (still growing) and a size 14 (US 12). I was looking on your web site for clothes and came across this one. From just reading the first comment it made me feel so much better about myself. When I was little I used to get left out of games because I was too tall, but as I have grown up I have slowly but surely learned to accept my height. I have never had a boyfriend but am frequently told that I am pretty. I think a lot of boys (in my school anway) are put off by my height. The tall boys I have known always seem to go for the short girls which always annoys me. Anyway, I just want to say thank you to all the other people who have submitted their quotes - it's nice to hear that other tall people go through the same things that I do!!!

Brandy wrote (September 16th 2005)

Hi all! Wow this site is awesome. I am 32 and 6ft tall. I live in New Mexico or as I like to call it the land of the little people. I hate bathrooms. It's so friggen uncomfortable to have to lean back and bend your legs and huch your shoulders and then HOLD that position while trying to rinse your hair. When my husband and I bought our first house we put a detachable shower head in, but I still have this fantasy of standing under YES UNDER the water. I would really like to take a hot bath without getting in the fetal position. I have heard every stupid comment in the world. My personal favorites are Sasquatch and the Jolly blonde giant. Oh ha ha ha ha. I have had people look behind my desk when I stand up and ask If I am standing on anything. Complete strangers like to comment on my height and then ask me questions about my genetics. I tell them that cigarettes and coffee stunted my growth. And women always always say they wish they were taller, like somehow saying that makes it o'kay to have verbally accosted a complete stranger in a public place. BUT...Everyone offers me the front seat in vehichles (leg room). THat's something.....right? Thank you for this website I laughed everytime I read something I had experienced before, it was nice. Take care everyone and remember you can always whistle that short people song by Randy Newman if you get too discouraged.

Aryn wrote (September 16th 2005)

I'm 16 years old and am currently 5'11" whether or not I'm still growing is debatable. Luckily I've never been seriously made fun of for my height which to me was never a big deal. I understand that 5'11" is tall but compared with some of you girls it's nothing! I am little bit different from the majority because I have always wanted to be taller. Weird huh? For me the biggest problem is shoes. I wear a size 14 women's and 13 men's. Try finding prom shoes in that size! It can be really frustrating when you have to wear men's tennis shoes every day. On the whole I'm extremely proud of my height. Looking around this site makes me realize how extremely lucky we are all! I hope this will make someone's day a little brighter! Always Aryn

Rebel wrote (September 15th 2005)

Helllloooo everybody, good grief I feel like the oldie here but it's ok. I'm 6'1" and I'm 43. I felt like I was the only tall girl in the world when I was in my teens. But we didn't have the lovely internet back then. Nice to meet you all!

Carey wrote (September 14th 2005)

I'm almost 16 and 6'1 and slender. Highschool is uncomfortable, whenever I meet anyone new they say the same thing... a remark about my height. After those remarks over and over again it gets tiring. But I would say that my biggest insecurity is finding a guy to date, I still haven't found anyone and it continually depresses me to see couple in the hallway with the guys being taller. Basically Im going through what, I never realized, many other tall girls go through. Slowly I think I'm dealing and this site has helped imensily. Thanks for all the wonderful advice!

Rachel wrote (September 7th 2005)

I am thirteen years old and 6'1". I feel very awkward especially since I'm taller than all the guys in my middle school. It is very difficult to be this tall, but this height makes me who I am. I am proud to be a tall woman!

Nicola wrote (September 6th 2005)

I'm nicola and I'm 6'3", just about to turn 18 and just coming to terms with the fact that I'M BEAUTIFUL! Being 6"3 isn't a burden, it's a blessing. Sure there are times of desperation when no one makes trousers with a 38" inside leg and just no one seems to understand the 'should I or shouldn't I' high heels situation. But no matter how many unkind comments i have received and will receive, I have learnt to live with them. It's striking to meet someone tall and I suppose we should be glad that it's an acceptable thing to comment on, unlike other body 'issues' which people would avoid talking to you because of. Be proud of who you are, love the looks given by 'shorties' (a term I discovered today!) and when you're sat on that cramped bus sidesaddle or with your legs stuck behind the seat in front, just remember, we're not too tall, the world is jus too small for women and girls like us! Stay beautiful, and NEVER hunch over!

Joyce wrote (September 5th 2005)

Oh my gosh! I totally understand the feeling of being tall. Im a Asian (Spore) and being 5'11" ain't that easy. I really do get loads of stares from people everyday when I board the train. Especially in an Asian country it is so much more prominent to be so tall. But hey, that's what makes me special! :) I used to loathe it but grew to love it. All tall girls out there, embrace this special gift God gave you! Take care God bless :)

Nicole wrote (September 5th 2005)

Thanks for bringing up this website. I am 5'10" and while that may not be as tall as 6'3", I still have trouble meeting men, but I always meet short men. Sometimes I wish I could date taller men. I want that secure feeling, like wearing his clothes or having him carry me. but I can't do that. It can get annoying, especially when the really tall guys date the really short girls.

Angie wrote (September 5th 2005)

Hi girlies! I'm 13 - (I'll be 14 in a few weeks) and I'm 6 feet tall.

Sometimes people call me rude names about my height, but I know that they're just jealous. When someone comes up to you and says "woooow... you're tall..." just smile and say "thank you", because it is a compliment, and if the person didn't think so when they said it, they will after you take it as one!

I'll be going to high school in a few days, and I wanted to say thanks to everyone who posted on this site. It really makes me feel better about my height, and I feel really self-confident now!!! YAY!

love you all!!!!

Jenny wrote (September 4th 2005)

Hey guys, my name is Jenny and I'm 6'6". I live in australia and my height is who i am. I've come to except it and I love it. Soo many people always ask me "do you play basketball" etc and "wow ur really tall". Well, DAAA I'm 6 foot 6 - anyways I think this site is great. Keep it running for us tall people. Jenny xoxo

Catherine wrote (September 4th 2005)

Hi gorgeous tall girls!! I'm 37 now and have been tall since time began!! which was very unusual in those days - I'm now six foot and have been head and shoulders above all my peers my entire life. It has been uncomfortable being different is never easy - but now I realise I'm lucky to be tall. It's what gets me noticed and makes me different. I believe all the shorties now who tell me "I'd love to be tall" who wouldn't! Especially now when finally clothing and shoe manufacturers are beginning to realise we exists and make lovely things for us to wear. tallgirls.co.uk make a T-shirt with "No I DON'T play basketball" on it - and yes I've got one, isn't it funny that shorties can't think of another thing to ask us. I too now allow myself to wear heels, although to be honest I'd rather not - and does anybody else experience what I often do the dreaded everybody else is tiny/short night out - I hate that. Love your height ladies, everybody else does.

Heather wrote (August 31st 2005)

I'm writing from the perspective of a tall (5'11") woman who is 69 years old. The bliss of being tall when you are an "old one" is incredible. I hate it when today's tall--over 6'-- young women look down at me! Just kidding. Had to sew all my own clothes, especially when we lived in Europe. Now when it isn't all that important to me--I buy all of my clothes and am so thankful I don't have to stuff myself into men's jeans. I had a terrific career in basketball and now am writing a book about my adventures. Only tips I can pass on from my many years of height is: dress yourself from the shoes up - your feet will haunt you later if you don't fit them perfectly, never dress to disguise your height (that's impossible) and that being tall separates the men from the boys. My daughter is my height and my grandaughter at 12 is stretching for the stars and playing cool basketball.

Royalty wrote (August 25th 2005)

Finally, a site created just for me! I'm a 6'2" very feminine and attractive African American Fashion Model, Size 10 with a Coke bottle shape (stats: 35-26-40). As a teen, I didn't like being tall because of the constant teasing, hard to find clothes, didn't have friends, the stares and stupid comments from others. I used to slouch to avoid annoying comments and rude stares and would purposely wear too little shoes to make my feet look smaller (I don't recommend doing this, trust me bunions are not cute). NOW at 39, I love my height and I love the skin that I'm in. I wear a size 11 shoe, I own 182 pairs of 3-4 inch heels (all styles) and I let nothing stop me from wearing them. In my experiences with dating, a few of my dates stated that they were intimated with my height combined with brains and beauty, so they chosed not to date me... LOOSERS! I'm extremely confident (not conceited) and I'm happy with the person that I've become. I had a beautiful wedding, my husband is 6'6" and we have a 18 year old son, who is 6'5" and a 13 year old daughter who is 5'7" (we think she's short compared to us). I don't care what people think of me anymore. It's their problem, not mine.... "don't hate on me because I was chosen for this special assignment by the Creator." I've come to realize that it takes a strong women to wear this height and I must say "I wear it very well." I LOVE MY HEIGHT and if I could do it all over again... I WOULDN'T CHANGE IT FOR THE WORLD!!

Marisha wrote (August 25th 2005)

I'm 16 years old and already 5'11"! But I love me height although it does have its disadvantages at times like finding a guy thats taller than you because most of them like the little short girls. When I was younger I often felt embarrassed and ashamed of my height but now I realize my height is beautiful and believe it or not alot of guys love tall chicks!!

Barbara wrote (August 22nd 2005)

Hello, beautiful tall people. I just stumbled upon this web site and read with so much interest all the comments you made about being tall. At my age 54 I should be well and truly used to people commenting on my height but it never ceases to amaze me that strangers think they have a right to make comments to you. When someone says makes a remark to me, usually something like 'God, you are tall' I reply 'your powers of observation are astounding'! which usually shuts them up and makes them look extremely stupid. I really doubt if anyone would think us sane if we went around saying 'God you are ugly, or fat, or thin or whatever'. My lovely Dad who was 6'8" used to tell me to stand up tall and be proud of your height, don't slouch(nothing looks worse)I was 6ft at 14 and I was unusual in those days, but nobody ever forgot me!!! I became a model and my height was only ever an advantage, nobody in this world is perfect even if some people think they are! Be proud of who you are and dont' let the b...... get you down!

Michelle wrote (August 21st 2005)

Yeah, I know exactly where you're coming from everyone. I just turned 15 a month ago and I'm 6 ft. I hate it sooo much - luckily for my grade 9 prom I found a beautiful blue dress that was the perfect length... but the only jeans I can buy are mavi and their SO expensive and they don't even fit me the way I want! All my friends that are really short say they hate it but I know they love it cause there's all cute and stuff... and even if I did have a pretty face sometimes I feel my height is just soo ugly, but the thing is other girls that are tall - if they look confident it looks gorgeous. But I just don't have that self-confidence. I wish I did... So try your best, girlies and this site helped me lot. I know I'm not the only one with this burden :)

Jamie wrote (August 16th 2005)

I just found this website for the first time and I think it's amazing. I'm 24 years old and 6"2 and in the UK that makes me stand out. Just like some of you have said, I used to be very conscious of it too, however now I embrace it. It is difficult to get jeans and most of all shoes! but you shouldn't let it bother you.... if you want to wear heels DO IT! Go with the "who cares?" attitude. My friends know me as a person not as a "giant" and if others make nasty comments you should pity them, just look at them, smile and walk away.

Love to all the tall girls out there! We are not alone, just read some of these comments and check out some of the websites for clothes, I've just ordered loads!

Dawn wrote (August 16th 2005)

Hi there, this is a great site, Just knowing there are people out there with the same problems as me!! I am 6'1" and wear a size 9 shoe, but most of the size 9's that I find are too wide as I have narrow feet. Why is is that most shops that actually sell a real size 9 (43) only do so in a wide fitting? I am lucky that the Marks & Spencers Per Una range do a long which is 33" but if I want to wear heels, even they are too short! I have always towered my friends and was known as bigbird at school and hated it, but don't mind it now. I used to feel like the odd one out, until I went to a sale at Long Tall Sally and for once in my life, I actually felt short! Some of the Next range of shoes have come up big lately and I have managed to wear a size 8 and the 9 is more like a 10, so this may be of interest to some of you, also if your lucky you may find these in Choice the ex Next shop if you have one near you. I just wish more shops catered for us taller ladies as whilst in London today, my feet were hurting me and I couldn't find any shoes to fit me yet my mother had no trouble finding a size 8 and came home with 3 pairs! If only the shop assistants wouldn't treat us like freaks! Oh well, that's enough moaning from me, your probably thinking by now "doesn't she go on and on etc"!

Remember you maybe tall, and they may say that all good things come in small packages, but then so does poison!!

Be proud of your height, average is so Boring.

Lina wrote (August 16th 2005)

Like all the below comments I can relate. I saw the site and I was like holy moly. I'm 15 and 6'1 ahhhh. I've read the comments about how I should embrace my height. I have been tall since I was born and I was the lanky kid. I get people who say I look like a giraffe and "how's the weather up there", "do u play basketball?" BLAH. I don't wear heels but I never really had to. Now I'm not so lanky and trying to fix my bad posture as I always used to slouch. I stride through malls etc. proud of my height so all those talls girls out there that are 15 or whatever that are tall ingore the short and keep walking.

Steph wrote (August 16th 2005)

Hey, I'm Steph... this is pretty awesome... like I didn't realize how many tall people felt the way I did... this is an awesome site. I'm 15 years old and I'm almost 6 feet tall... it always bothered me because I'm, taller than all my friends and I would always get comments like "Ur a giant" or "Ur a beast", "You're huge" - things that would make me feel like this fat towering monster but I figured that if I stayed athletic and skinny my height would be attractive. I still feel insecure about my height now and then but I  just got invited to Philly to do get checked out by some modeling agencies. I'm real excited and it kinda makes me feel better about my height. Modeling is a great way to feel good about ur height. Feel free to comment me back. I'd love to hear what you have to say.

Amanda wrote (August 15th 2005)

Hello all! I'm 22 years old, and 5'11''. I absolutely LOVE being tall! Clothes always look great on me (although finding the ones that fit just right sometimes proves to be a little difficult) I was always super self concious of my height during school, but all those silly little comments people made don't bother me anymore. I've always been super thin as well, so people always thought that I was fragile and delicate... Hah! Not so! I joined the U.S. Air Force (believe me, basic is no cake walk!)and I couldnt be more proud of myself! Funny... seems like after high school, guys suddenly dont mind that you're taller! Never had a date until after high school... now I've lost count!

Tina wrote (August 12th 2005)

Hello everybody =) I'm from Norway and I am 6'0" . When I read about all the comments many of you have gotten because you're tall I can only say that I have been lucky. Yes, of course people comment it alot. But I have never been called stupid things because of my height. I don't know why, but maybe because I have always been hanging out with the "right" people at school? But whatever, all my girlfriends are short and I am taller than most of the boys. If a guy likes me, I pull away because I am unsecure. I can't count how many times I have been up all night crying over my height.

But now I`m going to try to be proud of my height and if people say something to me about it. Screw them!!!!!!! When I'm out shopping, and I'm taller then everybody else in streets I am going to butt one a smile and be happy. =)

Okay, I know my English is not so good but hopefully you can understand some of it ;)

lots of love

Carolyn wrote (August 11th 2005)

I'm 5'11" and never thought of myself as tall until I entered university. My mother is 6'0", father is 6'5", 'little' (read: younger) sister is 6'2", and 'little' brother is 6'4" and growing! They call me the "little one". I've never been self-conscious about my height, but love it! I sew, so I let out my own hems or add trimmings to pants so they're long enough. Also, Gap.com recently added an 'extra-long' option on pants on their website which feature inseams of 36-38" on jeans, cords, and dress pants.

Cariel wrote (August 10th 2005)

I've had similiar experiences to many of the women here. I've been just over 6ft since I was 16 (now in my early twenties) and even today people ask me almost every day of my life "How tall are you?" "Do you play basketball?" "Do you model?" It's creepy when people you don't know come up and ask you things like that. I wonder if there's a t-shirt somewhere that reads 'I'm not Tall. You're short.' Honestly! The next time someone asks me, I'll ask them: "How tall are you? How much do you weigh? What's your ethnicity? What religion do you practice?"

I don't want to be short. I like my height, but I don't enjoy constantly being asked about it. It also stinks that it's difficult finding trousers long enough and shoes big enough. Why do they make such high-heeled shoes for the larger sizes?

Becky wrote (August 10th 2005)

I am 21 and 6'1" - I have never really had a problem with my height although I do find it slightly wearing when people make constant comments about it... Strangers in the street will stop me and ask how tall I am!! I find it strange that noone would ever ask a really short person " My god! How SHORT are YOU!?!" I guess this just goes to show that people think of height as a positive attribute..Girls, we are fabulous!! Forget those haters (who are generally, it's got to be said, short men who are intimidated by tall women!) and enjoy being different.

Rachel wrote (August 8th 2005)

Hey guys. I'm Rachel. I'm 6'1... and I feel like I'm at some type of AA meeting... hehe. Anyways I just wanted to say that the next time I walk past a group of people and, after several doubletakes, hear "Oh, she's tall!" I think I am going to say "but not deaf!" and give them a pointed stare.

I'm so bad. =)

Alexia wrote (August 6th 2005)

Hi I've always been taller than most of my friends and I Hate it. I have a friend that's 5'2' and acts like she's so cute she constantly talking about how cute shorts girls are and how men love short women. I'm 6'1" so it's a big difference. I know I shouldn't care what she thinks but I hate being tall. I hate when shorter people ask me to get them things down for them because they can't reach. I hate going to clubs and Men are shorter than me. I hate not being able to wear cute high heel shoes because I'll be even taller. I hate being tall help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Lakshmi wrote (August 5th 2005)

I stumbled upon this site today.Wow! I never realised there were so many people with the same experiences as me. I'm Malaysian Indian ,32 and 5'11 1/2" which is ,I suppose, highly unusual in Asia. I hated being tall when I was younger.Yes, I received all the usual comments about the weather up there and how I would be a great basketball player. I do not play basketball.Hate it, in fact. I only started appreciating my height after I went to University and started getting to know other students from around the world who really admired me for who I am. I still get comments every now and then,sometimes really annoying ones but i couldn't care less. I'm a doctor,doing my Masters' in Anaesthesia and wear 2 to 3" heels every day and absolutely love my height. It's what makes me special! They're just jealous 'cos they can't be me!

Tynia wrote (August 4th 2005)

Hi, my name is Tynia and I'm 14 soon to be fifteen (Aug. 14th) and I'm 5'10. I LOVE IT!!! Most of the time because I get ALL the attention at the mall and on the streets and whereever I go. I'm no Tyra Banks but I have confidence when I'm in public. Sure I dont like it when people ask me "So do you play b-ball?" or "Why don't you model?" It's annoying, no lie, but I love the idea that people think I can do all these things just because I'm tall. I wear heels to church and outings and banquets but that's it because, well... I'm only 14. LOL - But it's okay to all those peps that think tall is "weird", ITS NOT!! I LOVE IT AND YOU SHOULD TOO!!! Think about it... why would you want to go unnoticed? Not be the center of attention? And not special? That's so boring so be happy and be TALL! LOL - it's a real BLESSING! Well enjoy life and your legz. Cuz I'm a happy black tall princezz and proud of it!!!! LOL

*sM00chEz* Tynia

Kay wrote (August 3rd 2005)

Well I cant begin to explain how much my height controls my life. I am 5ft 10/11, nearly 6 ft, very slim and so sometimes I can appear lanky if I don't wear the right clothes. The thing that gets me the most about my height is other people's comments, such as "do you live in a growth bag?", "you're really tall", "giraffe girl", "eiffel tower" etc. - they are endless. These comments are so hurtful and I think this is the reason why I am so conscious about my height. It is true people do not think before they speak and they really should. Somedays you'll wake up with a smile on your face and go out with a smile until one comment about your height ruins the whole day and brings you down. I know I should rise above these comments but it really is easier said than done. I will never accept my height but at least I can take comfort from others through reading this website and for a few minutes I can be proud of my height.

Jen wrote (August 3rd 2005)

Hello all...I just turned 26 and I am 5'11" and I have been hit with all of the stereotypical remarks...you must be awesome at basketball and I was even told I look like one of those chics that would play softball...so whatever that meant, that guy got slapped with a how's the weather down there... In high school it was really hard, because I never wanted to be the protector, so I never ever dated boys that were shorter than me and if I did it lasted from homeroom until the last bell rang for the day. I have stopped trying to find a man who is decent and over 6 feet...any that I ever did find where just not attractive to me or they were too lanky or just what I like to term as being "off." My current boyfriend is a little over 5'9" but he is stocky and lifts, so most people think that we are the same height. My sister who is 1/2 an inch shorter than I am, is with a man who is a little over 5'6" and thinner & you would never know the difference. I give them so much credit, beca use they walk around affectionate and without a care about what people around them say. Funny thing is the ONLY people who make remarks are single...so in reality what the heck do they know.

I think that the hardest thing that I run into being a tall attractive woman is being taken seriously...I am not one for compliments, and I don't like when men think that I am a body. I don't appreciate being drooled on because I am tall or because I dropped a couple of pounds, I don't dress for attention, I dress for me...I don't flirt with men that I don't know and I don't draw attention to myself in any way...so why is it that men think that when you drop a few pounds or have a slimming shirt on....that you are doing it for them? that you are shouting out to hear how they feel about it? I don't look at men and say hey baby, you on a diet?!?!? hey baby, I like that shirt!!! My new term is "WHY?" I know that I am tall, and I know that I am half decent...I also have a BRAIN...so how do I walk around, content with myself and how I look and remain proud of who I am...when men have such an issue accepting that tall, attractive women can also be smart.

Di wrote (August 2nd 2005)

I am 5'10. I only minded being tall in junior high when the boys were shorter. As a kid I loved looking older. I could get into bars when I was 15! I have always had good posture and people often say that they have seen me somewhere before. That's only because I stand out. I once wore platform shoes and turned down a tall guy to dance with a little guy because he had the guts to ask me. Being taller works in your favour. Someone said to me that I 'look like a somebody'. I haven't had trouble finding clothes for years. I am a slim person so I can wear anything. I get lots of compliments. As for people's comments, most just don't think, admire you or go around making comments about people who use wheelchairs, etc. Forget about it! I know its tough for young girls, but hang in there because when you leave those immature idiots behind you'll love being tall!

Haloe wrote (August 2nd 2005)

Howdy, being tall can be a wonderful thing depending on where you live. I have lived all over the US and being tall has always been good other than when I'm in the northwest. Aside from being a minority I'm also 6'3". I know being tall is a great thing to be, but I am really haveing a hard time seeing that at the moment. Perhaps I will pack up my things and move out of this one horse town, even though I love the mountains I think they are the only thing here that is taller than me. I do love my height. wouldn't have it any other way, but it can get a little lonely up here sometimes.

Kristen wrote (August 1st 2005)

You know what I use to hate being tall (5'11) as well because I was never interested in dating shorter guys and I am taller than most. I felt that way b/c I felt like I would be the one to protect a shorter guy. I know it sounds kind of funny, but oh well... however, I did wait and found a taller guy, that I absolutely adore. But I too have been approached by several people and asked if I play basketball. I mean that's a cool remark to make if you are in that sport, but it's quite annoying when they generalize just because you are tall. So next time someone approaches one of you and says "You're really tall, do you play basketball?" Say back to them "You're really short, do you play miniature golf!?" And add in "Don't ya love the stereotypes?" and then walk away! Trust me that will be the last time they make that remark, trust me I have used it and it works.

Sonya wrote (July 31st 2005)

Hello everyone! I am 6'3 and 24 yrs old. I used to have trouble finding jeans, but there is an answer: Please visit alloy.com - they have inseams up to 38" and a ton of sizes, from 1 to 25. You will love it! (look under 'shop' and 'denim')

Alex wrote (July 30th 2005)

Hey everyone. I'm still in high school, but I have the most wonderful guy ever. He is shorter than me, but who cares. I know a lot of people at our school get a good laugh out of us, but neither one of us cares. Being tall use to bother me, but oddly enough, since we started dating I just don't care. I'm almost 6 foot and he's like 5'6". He's wonderful, and I'm glad I didn't close myself off just because I'm taller than him.

Maiko wrote (July 29th 2005)

I'm 15, and I don't really keep track of my height. All I know is that I am very tall. When I started highschool, I was the tallest in out batch. That remained unchanged until I reached 3rd year highschool. Now, three guys from our batch are taller than me. I am proud of my height. Although it is quite abnormal to be about 6' at the age of 15, it's quite fun. I tower over almost all the people. I see over their heads. The best thing about being tall is that I can reach higher than anybody else. But then there are also some disadvantages to being tall. Like once when I was strolling around the mall then suddenly a guy approched me if I played basketball. I've been through very many encounters like that. I've been interviewed by several cashiers at the counters, sales ladies and sales men, and very many unknown people. But still, I love my height...even if I'm taller than almost all of the guys in our school.

Jess wrote (July 28th 2005)

It's July 28 and I just found this site. I'm 6' and 17. After reading Vanessa's quote who's 6'0" and 18, I almost cried because I relate to you in every way! I also hear that I'm pretty: "why don't you have a boyfriend?". I feel obligated to play basketball b/c of my height even though I'm not that interested. I am a military brat and I never really had a problem with my height until my family was stationed in a small town in AL. I am a senior in high-school and my peers definetely don't think tall is a good thing and I never hear the end of the jokes. Lately my insecurities have been the only thing on my mind. I even start crying because I am getting so ashamed of myself. This site is the exactly what i needed!!! My dad always told me that shame never creates change and after reading this site I finally understand. Although it's going to be a long process. With the help of this site I think I can learn to be proud of the skin I'm in!!!!

Caitlin wrote (July 27th 2005)

Hey I am one of those tall girls that got lucky. I started to model but I gave it up for basketball because I wanted to do something fun in life and in high school... I am 6'3" without shoes and I am 17 but I wear only a 11 shoe! just like the other girl that posted a little bit under me and I am going to get my college paid for to go to a D1 college because I play basketball...all because I am tall and I am good!!! I cant say I get down on my self for being tall because I know that I cant change it and to the people that dont appreciate me for how I am I pay them no attention becaue if I worried about all the people who worried about me enough to talk about me I wouldnt have time for all the good things in my life! I am so glad there are sites like this p.s. my best friend is 6'5" so try seeing us together in public...you cant even count the amount of stares and whispers!!!

Diane wrote (July 26th 2005)

To all you tall ladies who are looking for a man: just keep looking, he will show up! I was single until I was almost 39 - really down, living in a small Southern town and hadn't dated anyone for a long time. One day I met my husband - in the city library of all places! We're dead even in height (both 5'10") and I love that we can exchange clothing, even shoes (I wear a size 12 in womens). It took me about a year before I would wear high heels, but he told me he really loved being with a taller woman. The only thing I dislike about being tall is finding shoes - a size 12 shoe is not easy to find when you live in the sticks. Thank goodness for the internet. Several have said it here and I'll say it again: just wait, you may not appreciate your height now, but you will! Walk with pride, you're in mighty good company.

Heidz wrote (July 22nd 2005)

Hey. I have been so insecure about me height, until I started to play volleyball. I am now being looked at by Div. 1 and Div. 2 colleges!!! I guess being tall can have its advantages. But for those of you that don't play sports, maybe think about joining a pilates or yoga class, which will make your long lanky legs and arms and make them toned and sexy. (I think that those classes really helped me tone up, because I was otherwise very skinny and lanky. I guess I still wish I were shorter, but there could be a lot worse things than being tall. Like........ you could be 4'10 LOL By the way, I'm 6'3 without my shoes on and am 17 years old.

Malisha wrote (July 21st 2005)

Hi, I am 17 years old and I am extremly tall I am not sure how tall I am but I would guess about between 5'11 and 6'0! I have my good and bad days one day I hate the fact that I am tall and then another day I feel strong and beautiful. Your website is an inspiration and comforting to know that I am not alone. So keep it up THANKS!!!!

Emily wrote (July 15th 2005)

Hey! I just found the website and I really like it. I haven't been tall for all of my life. I think Jr. High was the start of it all. I went from being 5'4 in 6th grade to being 5'9 in 7th. The next year in 8th grade I grew to be 6'. I know that I'm not as tall as some on you... but for 8th grade I'd say thats pretty tall. Let me tell you that I absolutely HATED my height. I was taller than all of the guys I liked (Some things never change).I did play basketball, but I lacked coordenation. I felt like I was always letting people down. I decided to just keep playing because I was having fun, and freshman year I suited for varsity at my high school. I am now going into my Sophomore year in highschool, I'm 6'2, and I guess I'm still growing. Don't slouch because you're tall. If anything you should stand taller. And all the short ones that make fun of you are just jealous that they're not as tall as you. Just remember that and never let anyone get you down because of your height. Emily

Rachel wrote (July 15th 2005)

It can be hard to get a good sense of self when tall women examine themselves through the "lense" of short people. I say this because I often get digital pics sent to me taken by friends where I feel all my height insecurities creep up. Please remember tall women, that a good picture of yourself should also be taken by a tall person! Seriously, I think so many tall women are ripped off by being photographed by short people!!!! I say this becase how often do you begin to accept your height and then think you look "bad" in a photograph. For me, my height is intimidating and exciting at the same time. I am 5"10 and usually wear 3inch heels when I go "out" or to work. Tall = sexy....ohhhhhh yes it does.

Michelle wrote (July 14th 2005)

Are any of you aware of how much men like tall women? I can see it being hard in high school but everything seems to be hard in high school. I don't think this site is very helpful. It seems to be making tall stranger than it is. Some people are tall. Some people are short. That is all there is to it. Here is something that might interest you:

http://www.askmen.com/dating/doclove_100/144_relationship_expert.html

Linda wrote (July 13th 2005)

I'm 19 and 6'5. My dad is 6'11 so I was destined to be tall but I'm still learning to deal with it. I own one pair of jeans in a 38" inseam size 12 waist and a couple pair of heels that I've never worn outside my room. I'm a manager at a movie theatre and I can't find one pair of black dress pants, or a bussiness jacket that actually fits so I'm forced to wear skirts everyday. IT SUCKS! I love this website but I wish I could embrace my height like you strong women out there. I will definetely be returning to this website, and hopefully over time I will be able to overcome my self concious issues. Thanks for all your support.

Qiana wrote (July 12th 2005)

Hi everyone, I am a statuesque woman also and I am eager to see and hear from everyone of you. My business partner and I have started a few fashion ventures. We can be reached by email at This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. for further information, our website will be up soon.  We are looking for design houses who outfit the statuesque. I do understand that some women custom make their clothing, but why not have boutiques to shop also.  We are in our late twenties and we LOVE fashion, like all women. So, no more sob stories ladies, lets embrace what God has blessed us with and let us make changes in this "war of clothes". We will be reaching women nationally and internationally. We are not here to bash the designers for not catering to us, we just want to make it known that women are growing taller each generation and we just want the love too. Please feel free to contact us by email anytime, again look out for the website very soon.

Shani wrote (July 12th 2005)

I was raised in the DC-area, and I never really got teased in school about being tall, but I did get teased about being thin. Like some of the posts said, some people don't even realize how hurtful or redundant the comments that they make are. I am 5'10, and everyone in my immediate family are about the same height, but everyone seems to notice my height the most, I guess because I'm a female who happens to be tall as well as thin.

Growing up comments about my height didn't seem to bother me; it was just the comments that people in my extended family made that hurt the most. There are worst things than being tall. I am just grateful for my health, and believe it or not, the older you get, the comments may lessen, but they don't seem to stop.

Just have confidence, because shorter people can be self-conscious about their height too, some short people may wish they were tall (that might be why comments are made to those of us who are taller, in some cases call it "height envy").

Jewel wrote (July 9th 2005)

Hi everybody. It's strange to see how many of you have the same problems as I have. I too have heard all the tall jokes: Being the 1st to know when it rains, being related to a giraffe, tall glass of water, Amazon women. And why do all tall women have to play basketball? You wouldn't want me on a court. I'm 30 now and around 5 ft 10. The only thing I hate is that the cheaper cute jeans are too short. I don't want to pay for 3 inches of pant. I love wearing heels when I'm by myself or with someone taller, but I hate wearing them when I'm with my shorter friends. Over the years, I've grown very fond of my long legs. I realize that I just didn't want to be tall, I wanted to be fine. So, I put on a little weight. I got some hips, and a butt. So, I think I'm fine! :) You can't do anything about your height, but you can accentuate what you have. If you are overweight slim down. IF you are underweight eat a little more. Be proud of who you are........A beatiful woman who was blessed with long legs. And, for all you short people out there....don't keep reminding us that we're tall.

Tammy wrote (July 5th 2005)

Hey, I'm 18 and I'm 5'6". I wish I was taller. All of you women on this site are sooo lucky. Short people want to be tall and tall people want to be short. But tall people should really wanna be tall, because when I look at someone short, I just see a person, but when i see a tall person, I see a bold, gracefull, beautiful woman. Be happy you're tall!!! *Tammy
P.S.: I constantly wear heels so I can be tall like you all!!

Rene wrote (July 5th 2005)

Unbelievable. I cannot believe I stumbled upon this site! I am close to 6'0" and have been that way since 6th grade. Middle school and high school were hell when it came to my height, and some of the very same problems have continued to present themselves even now that I am in college. It wasn't until this past year that I said, "screw it. I like my height". I now allow myself to wear heels. My biggest insecurity had been with guys and being taller than the majority of them. I am slowly learning to embrace my height instead of view it as an outcast trait. I am so glad to see that there are others out there that feel the same way.

Kenisha wrote (December 30th 2006)

Hi, everyone! Just wanted to say "Happy New Year" to all the tall ladies out there just to let you know that you have to always keep confident about yourself all the time. I'm 6" flat and have size 12 feet and I grow to absolutely loving it. Shorter people are just out there to intimidate tall women about their height just to make you feel bad about yourself. But tall women look so elegant and nice you just have to know how to embrace it to actually get to love it. I really don't have time to let shorter people get me upset about my height and the same goes to you all. If shorter people are upset with me being this tall that suggests they're carrying a grudge for my height. Well, that's their problem and also Joerg - I'm absolutely loving your site. I hope you and your fiancee have a Happy New Year.

Erin wrote (December 26th 2006)

I'm 19 and 6'1" and have basically accepted my height. I'm over the guy issue because I love super tall guys anyway and I know I'll find one for me! The weird thing is I have small feet for my height, size 7, which look like stubs at the end of long poles! lol... My best friend is 6'0" and we go on hunts for long pants allll the time, but when it comes right down to it, people are always saying our height suits us and that we look great! When I was younger, people used to say rude things but I found that went away as I got older! My dad is 6'7" and he's always being positive about it, saying it's great, and my brother is 6'4" and he's only 16, so at least I'm surrounded by tall people too!! Anyway, point is, accept your height and think of all the good stuff that comes with it!!! You look long and lean, it helps in a lot of sports, modeling... and hey... how many people are going to jump you in the alley if you're huge?? Not very many!! :D:D

Nastassja wrote (December 22nd 2006)

I'm 27, 6ft tall and weigh about 147 lb. I used to get teased when I was younger, but I got over it. I actually love being this tall minus a couple of exceptions. For one, when you walk into a room, you demand everyones attention without demanding it. All eyes will be on you. The women will look at you with envy and the men will look simply out of admiration. There are many men who love tall women but some of them WILL be intimidated by a womans height. I am dating a wonderful man who loves tall women. I am the tallest woman he's dated yet and unfortunately he doesn't like me to wear heels that make me taller than him (he's 6'1, go figure) so Joerg if you have any tips on cute but short heels - say 2 inches, feel free - (I like how I walk in them and how they make my legs look) - I only wear a size 9.5. Another problem is finding pants that are the right length. Regular department stores rarely carry the correct length and I just went through hell trying to find some good tall and reasonably priced gym pants (local ASU book store).

Anyway to the ladies: "Stand tall and confident and walk into the room like you own the place - you will get a lot of admirers that way."

Joerg says: So your man loves tall(er) women but doesn't like them wearing heels? Interesting and strange at the same time. As far as flats are concerned: I'm pretty sure (in fact I know) most of the shoe companies listed on the Shoes USA (and the Shoes International) pages sell shoes with a low heel in your size. Give it a try and let me know if you can't find any.

Chrissy wrote (December 21st 2006)

Hey everyone, I was having a particularly bad day with height issues when I came across this forum! I'm 17 and 6'5, which is, to say the least, pretty tall. lol.

In many ways it's a blessing being tall, (basketball, tennis, netball, you name it - lol) and there's never a dull moment when I'm out shopping and some poor lass can't reach her favourite jumper off the top shelf.

However, the only real issue I've struggled with is boys and clothes and, with boys anyways I wonder if it's my height. I do think a lot of guys are intimidated by my height and the fact that I am taller than them... I've been called so many names it does start to get to you... but honestly, at the end of the day it's not you with the problem - it's others who are low enough to slash out at others for petty differences.

Just posting this to say reading all of your comments has really put me on a high again (hehe..) and that being tall really is a blessing. :)

Aga wrote (December 20th 2006)

I am 6'1", tall enough for a Greek (woman). The problem is one and only FINDING CLOTHES-especially pants and jeans. In Greece there are no shops that are selling clothes for people taller than 1.80cm. Through internet it is a little bit risky, mostly with the different sizes from country to country. It is really sad trying to get dressed, but nothing suits you... I will check all the links from your site, and maybe I will order something.

Joerg says: You are right. Sadly there are no (online) stores for tall women in Greece yet. Hopefully this is going to change in the near future.

Victoria wrote (December 18th 2006)

I live in England and I'm 18 and 6ft2 1/2 inches. I was really happy when I saw these comments and I too got called some horrible things and to tell the truth I never took the shit. I'd say in my primary class of 30 students I fought about 25 of them for dissing my height and at the end of the day I was the funniest and most liked girl. At first I hated being tall but now I don't care cos I love it now. I never played basketball cos I didn't feel that I had to play it nor did I want to model. Instead in Sep I'im going 2 uni to study Law. I also feel that men r sometimes intimidated by my height but for all I care they can stick their heads further up their crummy ass. Luv the height God gave us.

Danna wrote (December 17th 2006)

Hey everyone. I'm 6'2" and 16 years old. Let me tell ya, it's been a total blessing being tall. God's blessed me soo much and used my height in so many ways (volleyball, cough cough). However, the only real issue I've struggled with, being the height that I am, is the boy issue. I haven't had a boyfriend before... and I wonder if it's my height. I do think a lot of guys are intimidated by my height and the fact that I am taller than them, even though I'm the last thing you'll ever consider as intimidating once you get to know me. But then I think if a guy doesn't like me JUST because I'm taller than him, than he is NOT worth my time. I've been called everything, from tree to goliath...but honestly, it's okay because the people who call me those names are just jealous. SO HOLD THOSE SHOULDER'S BACK GIRLS! because everyone wishes they were us.

Krystle wrote (December 16th 2006)

Hi, I'm Krystle and I'm 15 years old and 5'10. I've always had a problem with my height because I felt different and left out from the girls that were like 5'6. There always seems to be a problem with shoes for me because I'm a 12 and wide and that also made me feel a little discouraged. But each day I learn to live with my height and embrace it because you only have one life, so live it to the fullest!

Ashley wrote (December 13th 2006)

I'm Ashley. I'm 5'11" and I guess I like being tall but not really... The main reason I hate it is because my pants are always short and I can't wear heels b/c I always over-power people... I want to find a pair of awesome shoes that aren't just flats for once. My friend jessica has these lace-up shoes that are like converse but they're 5 inch heels. I would love to wear them but I can't... I know I can't change my height but I'd love to have a perfect pair of pants and awesome shoes.

Joerg says: You don't specify your required inseam or your shoe size so it's hard for me to suggest anything.

Kayla wrote (December 12th 2006)

I'm 13 and 6'2". I've always been the tallest and sometimes it can get it the way, but overall I love it and it has given me more convidence. However the scary part is the doctor said that I'm not done growing yet!! I also have size 15 women's shoe and that is really hard, expecally since I have 8th grade graduation this year!

Wish Me Luck! And remember being tall is a good thing and never take it for granted!

Kayla

Monica wrote (December 10th 2006)

Hi, my name is Monica and I'm really tall for a 14 year old (5'10"). I'm like the tallest of my class... and I am a freshman now in middle-school. Noone really noticed till I started 9th grade. Then ppl at parties were always like "how tall are you?". It really gets to you and worrying if I am going to still grow is always on my mind. It worries me a lot. I just hope that everyone else catches up with me sumtime soon.

Andrea wrote (December 10th 2006)

I'm 5'11 and 21 years old. I've always been insecure about my height and was called some mean things in highschool but it has made me the strong, compassionate, and beautiful person that I am today and I now feel so grateful to be unique. :) It has taught me to not feel sorry for myself for being "different", because what is really important is being healthy, free, and kind=happiness.. Life is so incredible!!! :) Everyone is beautiful in every way! :) !!!

Elizabeth wrote (December 9th 2006)

As a tall woman (6'3.5"), I have experienced a great deal of difficulty in mixed sports. I do fencing, in which training is often mixed, and like earlier in my life, often I am the "standard" that men feel they must beat - it is quite common to have most of the guys in a club cheering on whoever is fencing me to "not let the side down" - which to me is idiotic because at tournaments I fence only women - but this is similar to mixed PE classes of high school where even if guys didn't win, at least they "beat Elizabeth" - of course, when fencing young girls in the club, who may be 5'3" and size 4 it is often implied that I am a "bully" or "taking unfair advantage" because I do physically loom over them (I always take excessive care). I get along fine with all the women, it is just the guys who seem to have such a strong reaction - sometimes getting very angry, sometimes with me, if they can't win against me. I really don't understand why my height is such a personal challenge to them and though I am often bruised, injuried or even cut or bleeding due to thier attacks - it is assumed because of my size that I can "take it" while if any of the small and "dainty" girls get bruised, everyone rushes in concern. I really don't understand why it is assumed that because I am big and tall, that I am brutal or lumbering or used to pain. This type of behavoir over the years has had me stop several sports (particularly if they are mixed) as well as many tears - it seems the concept that someone my height might be sensitive is unthinkable - I had a male friend, 6'8" who was probably more sensitive than I, and was constantly hurt by the assumptions people would make about him based on his height - he committed suicide 4 years ago. I have no intention of going that way, I just don't understand why so often I feel that there is "them" (humanity) and me.

Also, to all my employers: Just because I am tall doesn't mean I have a natural love of moving boxes.

Eleanor wrote (December 9th 2006)

To be honest I've never thought that I was tall, average height as anyone else, just never placed so much emphasis on my height. Comming from the Caribbean no 1 pays attention to your height until I came to Taiwan to study BIG MISTAKE it has been a year and 3months and I am hearing the same comments from the first day set foot into this country " you're so tall", even bold facely being stared at from head to toe right infront of me...even the people who I me on campus it's like the first time they are seeing me and to make matters worse speaking chinese in my present about my height with the belief that I cannot understand the language good grief..., but they do have tall people here and I still donot understand what's the problem but you know about 90% of the guys are afraid of me and that's a good thing...reduce the questions being asked :), the guys here would never date taller women NEVER confidence issues... I love my height and I walk like I am on the runway when I know I am gossiped. When people asked how's the weather up there I say cleaner and 100% better :). It's great to be tall (I'm 6'3")

One more thing:

I cannot remember what illness I suffer from... it started when my mom noticed in my 3rd year in high school that I was leaning literally leaning by not standing straight. Apparantly they said that one of leg is growing faster than the other and it's causing my spine to bend which in return results of the leaning, some say that it could be treated by an operation of placing a block in the longer leg by the knee area to slow its growth for a while and let the other grow to the same lenght, but my parents was afraid to try to such, I was also told that I would experience pain in my old age. Now I am 21yrs and I off and on have pain in my left knee which is the shorter leg and I am lost in what to do, I started taking treatments from a chiropractor but stopped, they said there was nothing my mother could have done to prevent it or caused this defect. I am wondering if anyone share similar to inform me of anything they know that may better the situation.

Toshiba wrote (December 6th 2006)

Hello my name is Toshiba. I'm 6'2" and I love my height, and when i go out I love to wear 3 inch heels. For so many years when I was younger guys would come near me because I was so tall. I was the tallest woman in my graduating class. Once I was in my 20's I began to love myself and the beautiful gift God gave me. I wouldn't trade my height for nothing in the world. I always stand up with pride. I am 210lbs and I'm considerd plus size. I wear a size 14 in jeans. I am going to follow my dream to become a model. I love hair and fashion. I have a wonderful insight on fashion.

Andrea wrote (December 1st 2006)

I agree with some of the quotes about how people hate their height. But it's scientifically proven that all things being equal if a tall woman and a short woman are being considered for the same job, the taller woman will get it. The only thing that I do not like about being tall is that all the tall guys date the little short girls. It's annoying but you know what some of the shorter guys are so incredibly sweet and absolutely love the exoticness of an amazon woman. I use to hate being tall, at 13 I was nearly 6 ft. but now I'm 6'4" 21 and I wear 4" heels to the bars and have yet to need to buy myself a drink when I wear them. Men LOVE LOVE LOVE a tall woman. If they can't get over the fact that you will be taller than them that's their issue and aren't worth the trouble. But the all the younger woman out there stand up straight, I can't stand it when I see a really tall skinny gorgeous woman slouching to make herself feel more like everyone else. It looks sloppy and just makes you stick out even more than if you were standing up straight and looking radiant. I absolutely love being tall and wouldn't give it up for anything. You can get the last thing of pop in the very back of the bin and when the top shelf at the supermarket saying "Ask for assistance", screw it I'll reach up flat footed and grab what I want. There is always something on the top shelf that you want and can get beacuse the short people can't reach it. Love it don't hate it. The height was given to you for a reason all you have to do is experiment and find out why?

Suzana wrote (December 1st 2006)

Hello, I am so glad I came across this site. It is soo wonderful to know that there are so many women as tall or taller than me. I'm 14 and am 184 cm (6'0) tall. I'm soon going to be doing modeling and I used to play basketball. I never go through a day where people don't comment on how tall I am. I have learned to love it and am proud of my height, just like all you girls should be. So stand up straight and keep ur head high, YOU'RE BEAUTIFUL =]

Laura wrote (November 28th 2006)

Did anyone ever tell you that you are tall?" - a recent comment by the cashier at my local Dunkin Donuts. I chose to ignore it but really I wanted to say "NO, omg are you serious, I did not know that. But thank you so much for pointing it out, now I can go on with my day!" I am 21, 6 feet 1 1/2 inches barefoot: I love flats and flip flops, and I never wear heels. Although I have come to embrace my height, I do not feel like "growing" any more. I agree with the person that said "I am tall, not deaf." - I find that children and adults of all ages find it necessary to whisper, quite loudly, that "she is tall". As if everyone else does not have eyes... Anyway, for the past two years, I have been dating (and plan to marry) a man who is 5'10" and couldn't care less about our height difference. However, I still sometimes feel uneasy and tell him to stand up straighter... not that it could add the approx. 4 inches. Haha. It has taken years for me to be at the place that I am now, on the outside I have always seemed secure with everything that I have done, but inside I still struggle w/ my insecurities. I now feel more confident with my height and all that it brings... people hardly ever forget you!! (which can be good and bad).

This site is great. It's refreshing to see we all get the same obnoxious comments and we can still laugh and share our stories. Thanks.

Isabel wrote (November 27th 2006)

I'm writing you from Spain, I'm 6'1 and I'm 36 now. I desired all my life to have a place like this, to feel that I'm not the only one with these problems. Can you imagine being that tall in... Spain? It was very hard to be tall when I was 15-18 years old (I was ALWAYS the tallest person, at school, parties,... everywhere!), but fortunately I gained self confidence when I got older and I married a 6'6 guy who does appreciate my height. We have two little girls who are going to be tall... for sure! I'll try to teach them to be proud of their height and not to care about stupid comments of people who use their envy like a weapon you can't defend against unless you want to be considered an arrogant inconsiderate person!

DaCota wrote (November 26th 2006)

It's addicting reading all these posts, but the most disturbing ones are by the girls and women who say they are (or were) "bullied" in high school. I always used to think it was the other way around, that SHORT kids got bullied and picked on. Over my dead body would I have ever let some 5-2 pipsqueak push me around. I have only one thing to say to all the victims of bullies and ridicule: Kids didn't make fun of you BECAUSE OF YOUR HEIGHT. They made fun of your height BECAUSE OF YOU. Get it? I've noticed that not one... NOT ONE woman, who claims that she's always loved her height through school, claims to have been bullied or harassed. Hmmmm. Interesting, isn't it? Kids are the same wherever you go. So how come some really tall girls never get bullied or picked on? And others do? It's not because the kids at school are different. Kids are the same everywhere. The difference is that the girls who never get (or got) bullied were always proud of their height. Nobody picks on a proud girl. I'm 5-11 and 43, and when I was in ninth grade, I was 5-10. So take my words seriously if you're still in school and having a nightmarish time of it. YOU are the only one who has the power to change this.

Suzanne wrote (November 26th 2006)

I'm 5'10", 26 yo, and I've always loved being a tall woman! I've been this height since I was 12, and I used to wish that I was at least 6'6" like my brother. I am the tallest woman in our family by a couple of inches, but I've never been made to feel bad about my height. My weight... now that's another story! :) I used to diet and workout 5 hours a day to 'keep my figure,' but now I try to do everything in moderation. It feels good to have a full-figured body though! I met a wonderful 5'3" tall man six years ago, and we've been happy together ever since. It does help that we're both confident and well-educated (PhD candidates), but that's something that we have developed along the way. I hear you, Sherrie! Often, strangers will stop us and say that we make a lovely couple! Of course, you always have a few ignorant ones, but they tend to be few and far between. And to Adriana, honey, please don't underestimate a shorter man!:) It may be something that you come to regret. Live, laugh, love and rejoice!

"Success is loving life and daring to live it." Maya Angelou

Annie wrote (November 26th 2006)

I used to be intimidated in middle school because of my height but now I'm proud to be 6'4". Height is just height and it really shouldn't matter but it tends to anyway. I frequently wear heels in high school but the remarks I hear sometimes are really annoying and mean. For you rude commentors out there WE'RE TALL - NOT DEAF. Being this tall at 15 sometimes is a pain but I think being tall is beautiful and I am very sad when I hear about how taller people have been picked on. Some of the most beautiful women in the world are tall (i.e. MODELS hello) but people still are cruel. You're left with two options you either love yourself and your height and ignore people or you listen to everything and cry inside. I choose to ignore it.

Christian wrote (November 26th 2006)

I love my height and would be taller if I had a choice. Guys love it and though it was a struggle when I was younger being 22 and standing at 6'2'' im used to the air up here now. All I have to say is to every woman and girl embrace your height because its a wonderful thing for God to endow us with such a great characteristic!

Sarah wrote (November 24th 2006)

I am 16 and 6'1. I used to be bullied in middle school, but it kind of ended in 8th grade and now I'm in high school. I don't get bullied at all and I don't get much recognized cuz of my height, but this constant bullying in middle school made me very shy and my self-confidence is zero. Now when I went to new school, I thought things would get better, but I was too shy to communicate people and now the girls don't like me and talk behind my back. Overall I feel I'm invisible, no one really bothers to talk to me in school. I know everything gets better when I finish school, but that's 2 years away, it's really tough. I constantly feel very depressed. Oh well, but this site gives me strength, cuz I know I'm not the only one who's so tall.

Katelyn wrote (November 21st 2006)

Ha. I am sitting up straight in my chair right now. My new goal is to have great posture and be confident. This site makes me feel better about being tall.

The hardest part, for me, is the awkward feeling I get when I stand around short people. I'm 15, and I go to a lot of football games at my high school. This is dumb, but I always feel bad standing up on the seats because.. Well, I just feel tall, and in the way.

I'm sure as I get older my height will be easier to deal with. If the comments on here are any indication, I know it will. Thanks, commenters.

Joerg says: I've been in touch with a lot of tall teens over the years. A lot of them were insecure when they were your age but most of them are enjoying their height now they're older. I guess they feel empowered because successful and powerful women are not a rarity these days and height's not an obstacle for success. It's not always bad to be intimidating - especially if you have to deal with rude guys (or tiny chicks who are bitchy!)...

Suzy wrote (November 21st 2006)

Well, I am on my first "shorter" guy experience. I met him when we were both sitting down, we connected so well but I was baffled when he stood up and I was a few inches taller. (and I was in my flats.) Anyhow... I think I intimidated him at first... but it is the beginning of something good. I am just curious about one thing.... someone tell me if it is going to be awkward during sex... I don't want to feel like Im BIG compared to him. lol

Joerg says: Erm, no comment...

Lauren wrote (November 21st 2006)

Hey yall... I'm 14 and 5'11' and sometimes it gets annoying but I guess there could be worse things. I live in the Albuquerque, NM area and it is pretty much impossible to find really long pants. I see all the websites and stuff but I have to try on stuff b4 i buy it cuz i am annoyingly thin and even some of the rare long pants don't really fit.

Selen wrote (November 20th 2006)

I've been bullied throughout high school because of my height (By the time I turned 15, I was already 5'10 - now I'm 20 yrs. old and 6'), especially by shorter boys. I was the tallest girl in the whole campus. I remember going home and crying on my mother's shoulder (She's 5'10, btw), asking her why everyone was so obsessed about my height. I always tried to disguise myself and felt like a freak or a monster. Thankfully, I slowly gained confidence after graduating and now I don't feel ashamed at all. When you're a tall woman, it's impossible to walk through a room/bar/club/etc. without being noticed. However, I'm beginning to understand the advantages of being tall. Many women tell me they'd kill to be 6', because it's easier for men to notice you. Plus, most clothes look better on tall girls. I guess we should all be proud; if tall people were unattractive, then supermodels would all be around 5'4", right? P.S: Why do shorter people always assume all tall women are basketball or volleyball players? It's such a stupid cliche - can't they think of something else?

Jenny wrote (November 19th 2006)

I never imagined myself with a shorter guy. All my life I have been known as the girl who looks for height FIRST. It used to be one of the most important features for a man to have. I have since started dating a guy who is an entire 6 inches shorter than me. He has a great sense of humor, great communication skills, and great listening skills. He has so much confidence and was the first to tell me that he has no problem with the height difference. I am still a little hesitant about it even though he treats me so well, takes care of me wonderfully, has so many goals and will be extremely successful. I also feel horrible about being ashamed about being so much taller... and bigger... cause he is small guy for sure and I am pretty average. I am still trying to get over it and just let everyone know we are dating but for some reason I feel like people will judge us prematurely. It shouldn't bother me but it does. I just wanted to say that short guys really are great. I completely agree with Monika.

Chrissy wrote (November 16th 2006)

I'm only 14 and I'm 5'10. At school no one treats me any different, as a matter of fact I have many friends. All my friends don't care that Im tall at all. But the thing is that I myself don't feel comfortable in my own skin yet, and I don't know how. When me and my mom go to look for jeans to buy, I can never find any, they always fit great at the waist area and the thighs but they always end up being to short for me and i HATE IT. When I buy my jeans I have to buy expensive jeans for like 90 bucks that don't even fit me for that long. The only places I find jeans are Express and Tellos. Do u know where I could find really long jeans because this is a real serious problem for me. Thank you very much, Joerg.

Chrissy

Erin wrote (November 9th 2006)

I had all these guys coming up to me asking me how tall I was and when I said 6'1'' they said nuh uh I'm 6'1'' and you're taller than me. So I went to the docs and got measured and lo and behold I had grown an inch. I was so proud that after high school I grew an inch. I love being tall. Being tall is cool, and I have a very extreme way of dressing. i tell people I dress flashy cuz people are gonna look at me anyways so I might as well entertain them. My Dad is 6'7'' and my Mom is 5'11'' and a half. They've always told me to stand up tall and proud and I have and always will!

Victoria wrote (November 6th 2006)

Hello, tall and confident ladies! I am 21 years old, and 6'3. I wouldn't have it any other way!! The best thing about being tall is being REMEMBERED! I am comfortable in my skin, and love love love my height. I am so glad to have found this site because when people are cruel (oh and you know how cruel they can be) you need to be reminded what tall women are - GODDESSES!!

Sophie wrote (November 5th 2006)

Wow, there are so many of us out there but we never really seem to be in the same place together do we? I struggled to accept my height for a really long time and actually did not manage to come to terms with standing out in the crowd until I went to University. Tall is supposed to be beautiful and glamorous but why then did all the boys at school shy away from me so much? I never truely understood the male ego over this issue until I was in my twenties. Young men I liked were even more uncomfortable with themselves than I was. Now, it takes me some confidence to walk into a room full of people but I do it. I wear high heels whenever I want to because, hey, who am I actually trying to kid? Everyone already knows I'm taller than everyone else. I'll still only be the same amount taller than before. Why should I be tall and drab? The only problem there is finding shoes to fit! So to all you tall girls - you are tall, hold your head up high, stop thinking you can hide away cos you can't. You shouldn't. Tall is every short person's dream! (P.S.: I'm 6'1")

Theresa wrote (November 3rd 2006)

I have to admit, I'm taking strength from reading some of these entries. The reason I'm here today is because I'm 5'10" tall and am finding myself very attracted to a man who is only 5'3". In the past I would have never even considered this relationship but I'm older (38) now and hopefully wiser. I've realized that the size of the man is not my "issue". What's bothering me is my own size. Not only am I tall, but I'm overweight as well. Well...that I can change! I don't know what will happen...but I do know this.... I need to start loving myself the WAY I AM!

Sherrie wrote (November 3rd 2006)

My husband is 7 inches shorter than me (I'm 5'11"). We get smiles everywhere we go. I have never in my life met a man who is as sweet, caring, and who loves me with his heart and soul like my Sweetie Pie Man. In my eyes, he's 10 feet tall.

Diane wrote (October 29th 2006)

My mother, who is 5'2", always was proud of my height, which was 6'1" when I was in high school, many years ago. She always threatened to use the belt on me if she caught me slouching, so I had perfect posture. So, when it was time to graduate, I wore 6" shoes so I stood even with the tallest boy. You should have seen the jaws drop in the audience when I walked across the stage to get my diploma! Be proud of your tall selves, you tall young women!

Melissa wrote (October 21st 2006)

Hey all! I am 6'1" and honestly, I haven't always been comfortable with my height. I am 'growing' into it (hah!) and I recently wore two inch heels out to a club *while wearing a very sexy denim skirt*. I felt fabulous :) Being tall is something that all girls and women should be proud of, especially because it makes you stand out in a crowd. Fortunately, my personality matches my height. I am loud and opinionated :) I am slowly learning to deal with the comments directed towards my height, and this feels totally empowering. In the past, I had a guy tell me that he was so attracted to my height and 'what was wrong with me?' because I didn't totally love being tall (I felt akward that he kept bringing it up... like it was the only reason he thought I was sexy). I thought this guy was a wierdo, I guess because he made me feel like a freak for not appreciating my height as much as I should. I guess my point is, don't ever let anyone make you feel strange, either for being tall or for not believing it is the only sexy quality about you! There are many beautiful qualities about every woman, and being tall should be just ONE of them!! Love what you've got and enjoy it ladies!

Elizabeth wrote (October 17th 2006)

I can empathize with you, Shannon! I used to be 6'1 and half inches. A couple of years ago, I was measured in the doctor's office and they said 6'1" even. I was upset! What happened to my "and a half inch"!? I said "I'm too young to start losing inches...aren't I?" The answer was, no, I wasn't. So, I was older and shorter! A great start to my day, rats! Just hang on to those inches!

Shannon wrote (October 16th 2006)

I've been 6'1" since I was 14 years old. I am now 57 years old and am being measured at 5"11 3/4". That made me cry, in fact, I'm now fibbing and say I'm 6'. Interesting, don't you think?

Joerg says: Shannon, that's one of the best contributions I've read in ages. I keep looking back at the time when I was in my mid to late 20s because back then I was "lean and mean". Nowadays I'm just "and" ;-)

Beth wrote (October 15th 2006)

I am 17 and 5'10. I hope I have stopped growing! During my 9th grade summer I grew like 2 inches so throughout my highschool years I have been really insecure about my height. Plus, both of my best friends are 5'3. Lol. I always wore sandals and not tennis shoes or high heels so I won't be taller. But I decided it's my senior year and I figured "you know what, you're not going to get any shorter so you might as well accept it and be happy with yourself" so now I wear tennis shoes and regular shoes. I guess 5'10 isn't that tall but I live in a city with a lot of hispanics so I feel really tall. And I am really happy mom constantly badgered me to stand up straight, because I see people slouched and it just doesn't look good. Bless all!!

Simone wrote (October 15th 2006)

I'm 17 and 5'10" and it's so annoying when people say I should be a model because I'm tall... THERE ARE OTHER PROFESSIONS IN THE WORLD YOU KNOW!!! I think people's minds are so limited to what a tall woman could do, I don't want to be a model and people are so shocked to hear this they think I'm wasting my gift... WHATEVER!!! I've never had a problem getting guys - it's just a problem of getting jeans that are long enough... When people ask you dumb questions like... "Why Are You So Tall?" Just smile and say, "God Had More Time For Me!!"

Sarah wrote (October 14th 2006)

Tall woman are fabulous, beautiful, and more evolved. We should all stand up straight and proud! Do not be afraid to wear heels if you want to. I've NEVER ONCE been ashamed of my height. I forget I'm so tall until someone points it out, and then I feel proud of it. I have never wanted to be shorter. There are MANY advantages to being tall - people respect you, fear you, ask for your help, and literally look up to you!! I hate regret, but I do wish I'd applied myself more in athletics. All tall girls should try out for sports in school... we are the natural choice for volleyball and basketball scholarships! Tall women are lovely to look at.. I love seeing other tall women when I'm out on the town! Tall ladies of the world - you make me smile!

Rikki wrote (October 13th 2006)

God! I get why women who are like 6'5" complain because it can be hard finding a man taller than you. But those of you that are my height, come on! All runway models are around 180 cm (5'11")! I love being this tall and it's not like I'm bigger than my friends, I just have longer legs! gsh! Love beeing tall! It's beautiful! So stop complaining!

Lakshmi wrote (October 12th 2006)

Hi, nice to read this site... My boyfriend is 5 ft 4 inches and I am 5 ft 11 1/2 inches which is tall for an asian woman and indeed I have been working as a model for 6 years. I must say it's been the first time a I dated a shorter man. But it's not all that exciting as everyone above makes it out to be. My man loves me but there have been many embarrassing momments incl. once where he wanted to whisper into my ears in the elevator which was full of people and he just couldn't reach up. Similarly when we go out dancing it's so difficult to match our steps. He wears a 39 size shoe and I wear 41 and sometimes it's embarrassing leaving our footwear at the door (a common practice in Asia when u enter people's homes)... and since my ears and nape are the most sensitve parts of my body I really wish he could reach up to there when he kisses me. But all I can say is inspite of all this I can never trade him for anyother man in the world - no matter what.

Lakshmi

Jamie wrote (October 11th 2006)

When people ask me, "How tall ARE you?” -- I smile and with confidence say, "I am 5'12""...you would be surprised how many people simply nod in amazement! :)

Natalie wrote (October 11th 2006)

Hello, I'm only 15 and I'm 6ft1. Even though I love being tall I always wish I was shorter - the main reason for this is that shorter people can't get over the fact that a woman can be over 5ft5. I can't remember going to a party without hearing "how tall are you?" or "you could be a model". Anyways, thank you for a site like this. It's nice to know there are people my age who are just as tall and can understand what I'm going through.

Adrian wrote (October 10th 2006)

I'm 23 years old, and 6'4 - and I have never wanted to be an inch shorter! (although I wouldn't mind being 20 pounds lighter!) Yeah, I wish it were easier to find pant and shirts and shoes (size 14) but when it comes down to - I like my height.

People always ask me how I got so tall, so I used to tell them that when I was growing up I slept with the lights on, 'because it stimulates cell growth'

Most people believed it. Of course its genetic! I've never dated a guy taller than me - not by choice mind you! But it doesn't bother me if a guy is shorter than me as long as he's comfortable with who he is... And yes, I wear heels. As long as you're comfortable wearing them (and they aren't 5 inch heels) you can pull it off no matter your height.

Joerg says: I love your comeback. That's why I highlighted it. Great stuff, kiddo!

Elizabeth wrote (October 9th 2006)

Here is a nice way to respond when people say "Wow, you're tall!" Just smile and say "Well, you know what they say, the most beautiful roses have the longest stems." This is not an ugly response, and it takes what could make you feel bad and turns it into a lovely way to view oneself. (Remember...stand up straight!) :)

Jennifer wrote (October 9th 2006)

I've been tall all my life and I just stumbled on this site and Im mad happy about this site and everything it offers. Ever problem that some of these tall women have went thru have happened to me. Thank yall for making me feel alittle better bout myself.

Diana wrote (October 8th 2006)

Hi Joerg, this is actually a message to a girl I've seen on the RED ARROW bus bound to Edmonton from Fort Mac on Saturday night. Here it goes... "Hi, you don't me but I saw you and it was very reassuring to see you. I was watching on the bus (not like a stalker either) because you reminded me of myself so it was like looking at me only a few inches taller. I thought you looked beautiful, and wondered if people who saw me thought the same thing. Since it seemed like everyone in Fort Mac was so damn short, even the men, seeing you was good for me, since I spent the week there and felt like a freak, I am not exaggerating either... Well, thank you tall pretty stranger it was nice to know I am not the only tall girl around here." I am pretty sure she might visit this site as she herself was like six one!

Kirsty wrote (October 8th 2006)

In general, I don't mind being tall. Infact, I often thrive on the fact that it can annoy short men with attitude problems! I was recently at a gig with a friend (also 6'0) and the guys behind us were saying things like "I can't see a thing... well I can see two THINGS". My friend threw her arm back, pretending that it was an accident and he said "Oh, attack of the giants". Knowing the owner of the place I was in, I stated that I would get them thrown out if they didn't shut their mouth. They soon shut-up. Why are people like this? I never get this problem from other females, only men. This proves that men still see women as lesser beings. Tall women are seen as complete freaks because they aren't small and dainty.... like a woman "should" be. I find this offensive, idiotic and vile. I cannot believe people like this actually exist. I have nothing against shorter people at all (I must make this clear) but a lot of them come across as jealous. I fear that most men maybe jealous because they cannot reach the top shelf to purchase their pornographic magazines, lol. That's my theory anyway :). Most people tell me that I'm lucky to be tall. I sometimes can't feel lucky about this due to the fact I was seriously bullied through my teenage years. I'm 22 now and I still suffer from depression now and again. That said, I generally couldn't care what people think. I'm only human at the end of the day though. Things will take their toll on me.

Joerg says: Stay away from destructive characters who focus on the negatives. Surround yourself with people who appreciate and cherish who and what you are. Life's much easier when you're around people with a positive attitude. Virtually looking up to you, Kirsty

Olivia wrote (October 6th 2006)

Hi, I'm Olivia and I'm 5'10" at 14. I love it so much! My whole presence is stunning. Everyone who sees me thinks im 20-22 years old. I'm proud to say I'm tall or an amazon (when people make fun of me I say "thank you", or "that doesnt offend me") so hold your heads up, ladies!

Kat wrote (September 30th 2006)

Hello, it has been lovely to read everyone's quotes. I am 21, I am 6ft, possibly 6ft 1, I dont like to measure! I seem to be at that lovely age, where insecurity of height id rather hitting me and reducing my confidence a little bit. Mainly because I just had a boyfriend who was also my exact height for 3 years, but then we broke up, so now I am single and tall! Also recently I started liking someone who was 5 ft 8, but we both didn't seem very comfortable with the height difference, whereby I was less confident in myself being with him. Like all the other women's comments, I too like being tall somedays as it does get you attention, but then on other days when I look around, even at my work place, where all the men there seem to be smaller, a rare one taller, I know that I do not have half as much chance as all the smaller girls at attracting guys there, as most do seem to like to feel taller than you it is a man thing.

Us tall girls need to stick together and be proud of our height, as it is a gorgeous trait, that should be taken with pride! Instead of walking around shoulders slumped, we should stand tall and proud.

Kristen wrote (September 27th 2006)

Hi, I looove this site! It makes me feel so much better to see that there are other girls like me out there. I personally hate being tall, the only upside is playing volleyball. I get stares and comments. I try to hide it as much as possible but I always end up feeling upset later. I have even hurt myself and thought about suicide. One guy wouldn't even dance with me because I am tall. I just wish there was some way all this can go away. Help!

Elizabeth wrote (September 27th 2006)

Looking back on my quote I left on September 26, I realized that I forgot to put in my height! You could figure it out from my husband's height, but I am 6'1". I was 6 feet tall by age 13 and grew one more inch in high school. There was a time in my life when I would have gladly given away inches to shorter women, but not anymore. Afer many years of insecurity, I have embraced my height and enjoy my femininity, even though I am taller than most men. We are graceful, elegant creatures--we tall women. And remember...stand up straight! :)

Linddzie wrote (September 26th 2006)

Hey, I found this site by accident and I spent a lot of time reading these quotes. I'm six feet even and 20-something. A lot of quotes are about trouble getting dates or finding boyfriends. I have the same "problem" and had it since high school (I was six feet by age 15). But I don't see my height as a curse. It's a blessing because it's an automatic screener for all the duds out there! My shorter friends get lots of dates, but they end up breaking up sooner or later anyways. My height is a filtering device. A guy who wouldn't approach me because I'm six feet is a guy I wouldn't want to date anyways if I was 5'6" or 5'3" tall! If I was short I wouldn't want to date a man who feels insecure next to a tall woman. While my short friends have to sift through all the duds and jerks in order to find Mr. Right, I'll just sit back and wait for him to spot me across a room and if he approaches me, I know this is one secure guy. So, I'm dateless. But it means I won't have to go through a lot of heart-breaking jerks to get to Mr. Right! I thank God for my natural screening device! If I want to find out very quick who the REAL men are, I just slip on my three-inch heels and walk into the room. "Normal" height women have to find out the hard way: by dating a bunch of frogs! Look at the big picture in that what difference does it make if you have to kiss 100 frogs to get to Mr. Right or if you kissed only two frogs to find him? Well, it DOES make a difference in that I'd rather have to kiss two frogs than 100!

Elizabeth wrote (September 26th 2006)

I am 37 years old and am married to a wonderful man who is 5'8". He adores me and is my best friend. What a sad and stupid thing it would be to have missed out on this great guy because of him being only about 5 inches shorter! Also, if you are tall, or even if you are not, stand up straight!!! That is a big pet peeve of mine. Girls with postures that make them look like "S's" are not doing themselves any favors. If you are tall, having bad posture won't make you any shorter. You'll just be a tall girl with bad posture (to quote my mother) People are going to look at you, give them something beautiful to look at!

Cia wrote (September 26th 2006)

Hi everyone, I'm 5'11" and 19 years old. It's been a little hard sometimes, growing up and dealing privately with little insecurities here and there, like the fact that I was 5'10" in the 5th grade (I haven't grown since the 7th grade). Everyone thought I'd grow to about 6'2," but I love my height as it is. I have to admit, it does cut the choices on clothes down, especially in women's shoes (and pants). I've been mostly trying to avoid heels - I recently came to college and didn't even bring shoes from home that weren't flat, a choice which I kinda regret. It's crazy because I already get stares all the time (with my usual flats), so I know if I had on heels that were 3" I'd be mad at all the attention. I love being around tall people, though, so I believe it'd be easier to wear those heels around around them. With pants, though, my greatest complaint is that in those department stores, the tall sizes are usually a boring blue color folded away on the shelf at the back of the store, while the normal sizes have many beautiful designs. And I don't even go pant-shopping in the mall stores - there's almost no use. I don't think I'd change being tall if I had the choice - I've thought about how it'd be different - because this is all I know. I may not realize right now how much of an advantage I have, reaching things from the top shelf or in pursuing a modeling career, for example. I do have a preference for men, though. If there were two men of equal good looks standing side by side on the street, I'd automatically go for the taller one, hands down. I usually like my men to be 6'2" and over. I just like that notion of the man being taller and stronger and all that jazz. I want that fairy tale relationship too, but I guess so much emphasis really shouldn't be placed on height. Nevertheless, my current boyfriend is 6'6", and I couldn't be happier about it. I'm glad I found this website with those of you who understand being "out of the norm" (what or who is normal , anyways?). God Bless Y'all.

Brenda wrote (September 25th 2006)

Hi! I just happened to stumble across your wonderful website as I was looking for some good comebacks to all the bazillion 'tall' comments I've gotten all throughout life. It's so comforting to hear others stories. I'm 53 yrs old, 6'2' & 160 lbs., medium boned & not too skinny. I've always hated being tall, have spent many a moment crying over my fate, but I became a born again Christian 34 yrs. ago. When I became one, I realized God does not make mistakes, not one. I've often wondered what His purpose was in creating me this way but if nothing else, its made me a compassionate person for anyone that hurts. Thats worth it all. I've continually had all the questions in growing up & school was difficult, being tall made me extremely self-conscience because people just wont let you forget you're 'different' & often inflect that its a negative thing to be tall. My father was 6'6" 1/2 & mother is 5'9". If you're like me & basically dislike being tall, you can do a variety of things t o make yourself attractive like working on your weight - (if you want to loose some) OR - learning to wear the kind of clothes that compliment your body type - OR - wear makeup that enhances your beauty and/or discover a wonderful hair style. Any of these things will help bring your self esteem up, they have for me & has brought mine up. A beautiful smile catches people off guard too & a beautiful spirit. In a world of uncaring & rude people, it just might help change THEM. For fear of sounding conceited, which is far from the way I am, I AM thankful to God that He's given me a pretty face. I've gotten many a compliment on being beautiful with beautiful blue eyes. I wear 2 inch heels & my husband is 6'4". We get many an admiring & shocked looks but he is proud of it & somewhat amused. Our 2 sons are both 6'5". All the years of growing up my father told me to hold back my shoulders & stick out my chest & be proud. I actually got sick of hearing that, its easy for a man to say that, but now I find myself standing tall with a 'if you don't like me this way, tough! attitude'...haha

God bless all you wonderfully tall women out there. Brenda :)

Diana wrote (September 25th 2006)

You know its true right, alot of my tall male friends will treat me as less feminine than the shorter women? Why is that? Seriously I want an answer. Im already five ten and I dont need to feel any more like a man than I already do. I hate that, the short women get treated like ladies and I dont. They must think that since Im tall, I have a penis or something. Im not a dude, Im tired of feeling less womanly because of men, even men who are over six feet that i know treat me less like a women. Love that part about short women being bitchy!

Margaret wrote (September 22nd 2006)

I was inspired by some of the comments, but here in Canada I am an oddity. I grew up in England - Princess Diana was 5'10". I try not to slouch and be proud of my height, but being around so many shorter women I am constantly having to apologize for my height and find men here attribute my height to masculinity. I am contemplating moving back to England just to fit in, I never felt that different there.

Ellen wrote (September 22nd 2006)

Hi everyone... I am 6'2" and I weigh 227 lbs. I am 26 yrs. old and I am just now beginning to feel confident about my height. I grew up in the Carolinas and my uniqueness is very rare in this area. I wear heels that are 1/2 to an inch, but now I notice myself buying taller heels. I have realize that my height is different, and yes I stand out... But now I take that attention and run with it! As for dating height is really not an issue for me as long as he treats me like a lady, and respects me. I constantly receive compliments on my looks, because people say that I am beautiful, and "different looking." I have been asked have I always lived in the States (the US)?

Oh yeah, I really get aggrevated when people, men especially, treat me like I am not as feminine as smaller ladies because of my height. Just because I am tall does not mean that I am any less feminine.

Joerg says: The last part is very true... my sentiments exactly. Most of my tall lady friends are more feminine than a lot of shorter women - mainly because they're not as bitchy.

Charli wrote (September 20th 2006)

I was always tall, but when I was 13, I went from 5"8 to 6" in a year, and my parents were worried that I'd keep on going. When I was 14, I went to the doctor who predicted I was going to be in the realm of 192-194cm by the time I had finished growing. I liked being tall, but I did not want to get as tall as my dad, so we proceeded in attempting to stunt my growth. I am now 23 years old and on the greater side of 188cm tall, and although at times I wish I could just blend into a crowd, it's not all bad. I don't mind being mistaken for a model at times by the shorter people who think all models are tall, or a basketballer because I am one, and I have a great boyfriend who always makes me feel good about myself. I never really got teased in high school because I suppose I stood tall, and acted with confidence as if my height never bothered me, so people never saw it as a weakness. That's good advice to all the tall people out there acually, STAND TALL, do not hunch as it just makes you look even taller, and while you may think it doesn't draw attention, it just draws even more attention. There have been times that I have been really down about my height, and it has taken me a while to realise that life is an attitude, and most people who come up to you and comment on your height are in awe of you, I mean, if you were overweight, do you think they'd come up to you and comment on how fat you are? No, because they see that as an insult. And the ones that do mean in as an insult, who cares, it just means they are even more insecure.

Cindy wrote (September 18th 2006)

I'm 6'1", and I just want to respond to Kourtni's comment. I think it really makes sense what you said. Whether you're very tall, very short, too skinny, too fat, black, white, blond, redhead... People are people, they will unfortunately always find something to comment on. And yeah, tall girls might have problems finding shoes, pants that are long enough and whatever else, but I have friends with big boobs and a small frame that have problems finding bras that fit, and have to have that made for them too.... They feel they can't wear low cut shirts because of the fact it attracts too much attention!! Why? who knows... And tall girls feel they can't wear high heels.. Why? Who knows... I believe no one feels 100% confident about themselves, no one is perfect. The models you see on magazine covers sure as hell don't look like that when they wake up in the morning whithout their make up on and behind a special camera "perfection" glass... I find it such a shame the way society puts so much pressure on women and how they should look. Women are just people, at the end of the day, we all have our insecurities, we all ask ourselves what are we doing here, why am I the way I am, and not like somebody else... Do men like me the way I am??? Some men like tall, others like short, others like skinny, others like well built... You can't please everyone! I think the secret is to stop analyzing what men like and what people like, and whether men prefer tall women over average or short or any issue of that sort. If you like the way you are, be proud of it, wear whatever you feel like and walk tall (wether you are short or tall). It's all in the mind. And besides we will all get old some day, and the looks issue will get less and less important. Enjoy it while you have it.

God bless.

Joerg says: Interesting comments. I hope my efforts to bring you the best choice in long clothes and large size shoes help you feel more attractive...

Christy wrote (September 18th 2006)

Hey tall gurlz :-D I live in Holland, and I must say I'm quite surprised with all the comments I'm reading here on this site. Here the average woman is about 5'9' and it's really very common to be above 6' So here tall women have no reason for feeling uncomfy or insecure, especially cuz there are loads of men around 6'6!!! I'm 5'10 and I love my height, it's not extremely tall to the point I look silly wearing high heels, but it's definetly tall enough to attract attention!!! I would not date a shorter man, almost all my boyfriends have been 6'5 or over... I believe no matter how tall a woman is, next to a man she still wants to feel that he has some power over her, and how can she feel that way if he is a head shorter???

So for the gurlz that have problems in finding guyz who are taller... Maybe you should try a new country?!?! ;-)

Patti wrote (September 17th 2006)

Hi I'm 6'0 1/4" tall and I'm almost 45 years old. I'm dating a man that is shorter then me - he's only 5'8" and he receives envious looks from other men. Lol. My 4 children are also tall - 2 sons and 2 daughters - my 17 year old son is 6'6" and wears a size 18 shoe!! My youngest daughter is only 15 and she is 5'10" and growing. Sometimes it's a pain but what can you do about. Accept it and enjoy life.

Erin wrote (September 16th 2006)

Hey! I am 14, 5'10" and still growing! Yes I deal with all of those tall comments like "You should play basketball." and "How tall are you?" It can get pretty annoying answering the same questions over and over again. My aunts and uncles are always astonished to see my height even though I see a lot of them every other weekend! :P I have to really try to keep my posture up since I grew so fast. I love being tall though, I hope I get to be 5'11" at least. I just wish I could go to the shoe stores, pick up a shoe and actually have it come in my size. I found your website and I now have access to more shoes than I've ever dreamed of. Also, thank you for all of the positive comments and the Scandanavian and Russian clues. This explains a lot! Mom!!!! Thank you!

Jasmine wrote (September 15th 2006)

I'm a 36 yr old woman that's 5'10, who's attracted to a man 5'6. Yes, he finds me extremely sexy (especially in heels) and treats me like a Princess. Even though I have nothing really to complain about him, I'm slightly uncomfortable with the height difference. Is this just vanity?

Joerg says: You don't sound vain to me. I guess it's probably a lack of self-confidence. Stop worrying about what others might think. If you like the guy he's probably going to grow on you even further (no pun intended!)

Tammy wrote (September 8th 2006)

I am 6'1" and love being tall! I really believe it helps me in business. Although when I was younger I did not. My jeans were always in the "floods". Now I enjoy lots of sources for clothes. Although I still wish I had access to things like regular heightened women. I dream of finding a boot that fits me! A pair of beautiful black boots that aren't for sex show, that goes all the way to my knee and doesnt have a 6 inch heel. I would like to know what it's like to buy off the rack instead of ordering my clothing. Also, I am dying to wear those beautiful strappy shoes that are 3 inch heels. I don't wear them because I am tall but because they hurt my back. I heard you can get them cut down. Is that possible? That opens up a ton more possibilites for shoes. Although I am tall I only wear a size 9 still so size isnt a problem just finding a sexy shoe that is below 2 inches.

Charlene wrote (September 8th 2006)

I have to say that I'm 24 and I have been 6 foot for a long time and I love it!! In fact I wish I was taller. But I have to say I have never felt out of place or wished I was shorter... being taller ALWAYS has its advantages. Just remember when 1 of your short friends needs something on that top shelf you're the 1 they will come to. Keep growin girls!

Jennifer wrote (September 7th 2006)

I am a conservative 6'. In school I always felt as if stood out like a sore thumb. I excelled in sports and until I had kids, I never had to worry about weight. Clothes have always and still are the biggest headache. When I was in high school and college, they didn't make girls or jrs Tall clothes and nothing ever fit right. Now I have to wear plus sizes, but they cuts are all wrong and everything fits like a moo moo - I need the clothes to be cut like normal clothes, just everything bigger...... does that make any sense?

Carol wrote (September 6th 2006)

WOW... What a site! I came across this accidentally, but find it very interesting. I have mixed feelings about being tall... some days I love the attention... but other days I would love to be able to walk down the street and not have people always staring. At times I think they are just pointing and laughing. I am thin and people say very attractive, but self-esteem issues stemming from being teased as a child prevents me from seeing this at times. Right now my problem is I really like someone who is 5'8" but I have never felt comfortable with someone shorter than me (I was married to someone who is 5'10" for 12 years) but I so want to date someone taller now. I want to have someone as "protector" I suppose - I am very old fashioned. It was useful reading the comments from so many who are happily married to shorter men...I have never had a problem meeting shorter men, the problem has always been me! Maybe time for me to change!

Justine wrote (September 6th 2006)

Hey, I am 16 years old and 5'11 1/2-3/4". When I was younger I never liked being tall and being taller than my mom (5'7"). I still dont really like being tall but I learn to live with it. And I have a few friends that are my height or taller so it's all good. I dont let being tall stop me from doing things that I want to do like dance. Even though I am the tallest one in dance class I really dont care what other people think of me and I just think of how much fun I am having.

Baiden wrote (September 4th 2006)

Ok, I'm 12 and I'm 5'8". I know that I'm not 5'10" or anything now, but my doctor said that my expected height is around 5'10" and 6'0". Before I used to feel horrible about my height but my mom told me that all the supermodels, and alot of actresses are tall. I take pride in my height because I'm (on average) a head taller than girls my age. Just recently I was asked to be in a abercrombie ad, all my friends r soo jealous. Lol. Sure, it might be harder to get a bf in the future, but aren't tall guys hotter?

Lucy wrote (September 3rd 2006)

Hey! I am 6'2" and only 15 years old. All my friends are shorter than me - obviously - and while I do feel uncomfortable sometimes and a little self-conscious I don't see a problem with being tall. I mean, sure you can't wear heels but they're bad for your feet anyway. All the comments and attention does get annoying but you just have to take it in your stride. Girls, DO NOT let all those stupid tall jokes get to you. If your friends make fun of you  - I am sorry to tell you this - but they are not your friends. Trust me, people only ever tease when they are jealous. Hey, I am only 15 and I am the tallest in my school. Trust me, girls - take up a sport where being tall is a virtue (not that it isn't anyway): basketball, netball, golf. I am a rower and trust me, it is definetely a good thing. It is not a weird thing to be tall when you are a rower because everyone is tall. Anyway girls, be confident hold your head high and enjoy being tall.

Lynn wrote (August 29th 2006)

Hey, I'm Lynn. I'm 14 and between 5'11.5" and 6'0". Sometimes I absolutely despise being tall. I can't wear heels (I'm a shoe fanatic at heart, so this is especially hard). I have size 11 feet and I have always been taller than everyone else. I hate that everyone calls me 'the big girl'. I am very insecure about my weight anyways and this only makes it worse. But some days I am content with being tall. I have really really long legs and strangers come up to me everyday and say 'you could be a model' and 'you're very beautiful'. Sometimes statuesque is a good thing.

Rachael wrote (August 27th 2006)

I am only 23 and 5'11" - my experience is that tall is becoming quite chic. I hated being tall as a young child. My dad is only 5'11" and my mom is 5'8" so I guess I ate my wheaties. My now husband was 5'6" when we started dating in 8th grade... he is now 6'3." Just look at all the positives... you can gain a few pounds and it doesn't show, you can see from the back of a crowd, and what do men like better than legs. I only wear a size 9 shoe so that has never been a problem and most stores carry tall pants... my one complaint is that noone makes tall shirts. :)

Karen wrote (August 26th 2006)

I am 5'10" and I am 31 years old. I have struggled with my height issues my whole life. The hardest part for me is shoe shopping!!! It's awful! It's torture! I would love to be able to wear all those fabulous shoes out there - high heels, wedge shoes etc. I spend hours and hours in the shoe department "measuring my height with one shoe on and one shoe off" in front of the mirrors. Finally, I leave feeling completely overwhelmed, frustrated and sad. How do you girls deal with the shoe dilema? Thanks

Sarah wrote (August 26th 2006)

Ok, first of all I would like to say that I'm annoyed that you start your height at 5'10". I'm 5"8 1/2 and still have issues with my height, so I think its unfair to cut anyone off who isn't 5"10 +. But what I really wanna say is this whole high heels thing really annoys me. I love high heels but always feel self-conscious in them so I bought a gorgeous pair of shoes with a massive heel and after wearing them about a bit I didn't feel so tall in normal sized 2-4 inch heels. I know it may seem easier for me as I never really reach above 6ft in heels but still, as someone who is alreayd 5"8 I still feel very tall in heels!! Just wear them! Just wear them, if you want justdo it, don't worry about anyone else, theonly looks you'll be getting are lustful ones! Why do ya think Nicole Kidman is so popular?

Joerg says: There has to be a cut-off and, I'm sorry to say, 5'8" or 5'9" doesn't strike me as being tall. I've had 5'6" women writing to me complaining they were too tall but that does sound like a bit of a joke to a woman who's 6'5" or 6'6". The average height of women visiting this website is about 6'3", by the way.

Yasmin wrote (August 26th 2006)

Hey! I'm 17 (from Europe) and 6'0". I never liked being tall but now I have to say the older I get the less I care about my height (I can't change it anyway). I know it's not easy growing up being tall and always hear comments about your height (good and bad ones), but ladies just try to love yourself and be proud of what you are TALL AND BEAUTIFUL. Thank you for this website it helped me a lot. P.S.: Why do some of you complain about being 5'9" ??????? That's the perfect height!!!

Robin wrote (August 25th 2006)

I'm 48 years old and 5'10". When I grew up there was only one girl taller (or anywhere near my height). She was Scandanavian and at 13 was 6'7". I was always the tallest person, male or female, right up until the nineties, of any group I was with socially. I suffered all the 'stretch' names, and as I was very thin, I got 'match stick' and one I hate, 'lucky legs'. The worst time I had was when I was harassed by this guy (found out he was 21), a jockey, to go out with him. I was always sitting in a car when he was picked up (my height is in my legs), so when we went on this drive as a 'date' doubled with friends and I had to go to the ladies, he finally saw how tall I was and boy did he flip. He spread this gossip around and did a real number just because I was tall. Carried on as if I grew just to spite him. What I find these days, however, is that girls are taller and I am feeling quite small. I didn't realize how I liked the empowerment of being tall until I realized I was now quite small.

Sherelle wrote (August 24th 2006)

If anyone knows of a site with a pink background (not this) with shoes of different styles across the page based in the US please tell me!!! It was the best site and had the best shoes and I don't remember it.

Joerg says: If anyone knows the website send me an This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.. I will forward it to Sherelle. Thanks, ladies!

Dannii wrote (August 21st 2006)

In the past I have both hated and embraced my height of 6'0". My girlfriends have always been shorter than me and told me how much they envied my legs and my height. I have always looked amazing in mini skirts and attracted alot of male attention. But comments of referal to 'looking like a model' cause me to feel as if I cant eat as its acceptable to be tall only if your thin. All the negative comments that have disempowered me have come from males, who I believe are intimidated by tall women. It is good to know that I am not alone and of late I have met other women my height and being able to have a forum to discus these issues of pain and empowerment is the best way for people to embrase their differences.

I am glad I found this website as I am currently studying women's studies and I plan to write my final essay on the empowerments and disempowerments of being a tall women and how the disempowerment comes from gender bias in our society. My brother is 6'4" and yet no one bats an eye at his height. The comments on this site have given me a lot to think about.

Karen wrote (August 16th 2006)

I'm a 39 year old woman who stands 6'0. I'm loving my life now that society (and the men) have caught up. I'm very impressed by this site to know that there are very positive, tall, even taller, way taller women then me. For the younger girls, keep your head up (smile) the clothing and over all awareness with the more blessed women as ourself is much better now than it was when I was younger. Fashion alone is geared towards us. Don't let the negative, cruel comments being made toward you in school or anywhere get to you. I feel we are a very special class of people and if all they can comment on is our lovely height I say thank you. Finally as you get a little older trust me it gets a lot better.

Abby wrote (August 15th 2006)

I'm 19 and I'm taller than everybody around me. When I was 12 i was 5'6. I was considered like a weird creature for my hispanic family. I'm mostly taller than hispanic boys which is a big deal for my race. They used to called me nicknames, specially my brothers. They told me that by the time I turned 15 I would reach the ceiling. I used to run crying because I wanted to be short. I was so depressed because of this. But now I look at it as a blessing. All of my friends are extremely short and wish they were tall like me. Why do you think short people always wear high heel shoes? Because they want to be like us....

Veronica wrote (August 12th 2006)

Hey, good site! I have been tall all my life - lol! I grew taller than my older sister by the age of two. I have had all the usual names like Stork, What's the weather like up there, asked to kneel down for prayer and I was kneeling already!!! Men seem to be afraid of tall women. I am 181cm (5'11 1/4") and my daughter is 183cm (6'0"). I don't have (or didn't have) the confidence my daughter has. Everyone loves her and she loves everyone! Well, most people anyhow. She has the confidence I wish I had. I had a marriage that lasted 22 years till he died of cancer and have just been through my first relationship. He was not a nice man at all although he accepted me for my height. He was 185cm (6'1") and a big 135 kilo's. I accept people for who they are but would like to have a man that was as tall or taller because most men are around the 5ft 11ins and below. The smaller men seem to want to get to know me. I don't see any point in it as I feel having a 5ft 3in man is quiet silly. I know they are as good as anyone else but I just want to be able to look him in the eye and have him cuddle me!!! I don't think that is too much to ask.

I have a curiosity about why people appear to be afraid of tall women. I think that it may be an inferiority complex as it is mainly men who shy away and feel that tall women 'overpower' them! You know! The man is supposed to be the protector and I think that old traditional values come in there. If a woman is tall then she is 'strong'! I have had that as well. Expected to lift things that would normaly be left up to the male. Although why did I have small men chasing me? Maybe it is their curiosity as well.

Amy wrote (August 12th 2006)

Hey, I'm impressed that you all love your height!!...But i personally don't like it at all, its really hard. The comments, the jokes, the staring (im 6'2.5 and just turned 16) and I'm a naturally very shy person, and being tall just makes it worse. I hope one day I will be confident with my height. I was also wondering if any of you could give me advice on coping with the comments and staring... thx... bye

Alexandra wrote (August 12th 2006)

I must say, when I discovered this site and read all the wonderful comments from tall girls saying all sorts of encouraging things my posture just seemed to straighten right in front of my computer! I'm 16 and the tallest girl in my school (I live in a short-people country- Peru- so it's especially hard sometimes), and I've been the tallest girl since the 8th grade. I'm one of the tallest in my family, and all those comments "Do you play basketball?" (I don't even like basketball!), "I would never date a girl that tall" and so on just gave me a complex, I must admit. But now I see that there are many other beautiful women in my position and honestly, it's given me strength. Tallness gives you a whole new view of the world and I see now that us tall girls should keep our heads high.

Arlene wrote (August 8th 2006)

To all those girls who hate their height... Don't! I'm 25 now, and though I've always been tall (my mother maintains my body just went on and on and on during labor!) I haven't always been quite "at home" with being it (due in no small part to the teasing and bullying on the playground, where, let's face it, anything different = weird!) until one day my 6'7" father said "Why should it bother you? It's just one part of what makes you, you! And you are a wonderful, smart and beautiful woman! Now stand up straight and be proud of yourself AND your height!" From that day to this I've never looked back. Being tall is a fabulous part of my life.... things are different to the school yard! I'm tall and slim and quite attractive - even if I do say so myself! Long gone are those laughing looks - they're all replaced by envy! (Fantastic!) Look at it this way - the World over people are trying to express their individuality in one way or another. WE don't have to! We're different in the most marvellous way! Also girls, I live my life by one motto: "If I'm going to be head & shoulders above everyone anyway, I may as well have nice shoes in the process!" GOD BLESS THE HIGH HEEL :-)

Sara wrote (August 7th 2006)

Hi, I'm Sara! I am 14 and 5'11'' which can suck big time because... well, you know - the insecurity deal. I feel so singled out at school but by accidentally coming to this website I don't feel alone anymore. You can't change being tall, so better get used to it and be confident, right? Thanks for writing comments, I know they make more tall people than just us feel better!!

Beverley wrote (August 6th 2006)

When I was young, I felt that my height was a social disadvantage. I was shy and hated the fact that my height made me conspicuous. I was 61 when I bought the first pait of pants that actually "puddled" on me, a pair of Gap low-rise extra-long khaki flares that, after heavy bidding, I "won" on EBay for 37 bucks. I went out and bought a couple of pairs of 3 inch heels so I could wear them, but was pleased to find after a couple of washings that I could wear my lower heels with them. Before that pair, all my tall and long slacks looked "highwater", sometimes grazing but never quite meeting the tops of my shoes. Besides discovering Gap's extra long, only this year did I discover the existence of Petite Long in a pair of knit flares from Nordstrom's Rack that fit even after washing. I now feel like replacing all my pairs of so-called "long" or "tall" slacks with ones that are actually long enough. In the past I have shopped in stores rather than catalogs, but now that I know my size is extra long, I am ready to switch. It's rather a sad commentary that before turning sixty the only pants I could find that were proportionately long enough to truly fit me were Levi's. All I can say is, better late than never.

Rhea wrote (August 4th 2006)

I just want to say appreciate your height. It makes you unique. I have been over 6 feet since grade nine... and I remember how much I used to hate it. The boys were so short, my girlfriends all came up to my shoulders. I would slouch and wear baggy clothes... anything to help hide it. I was clumsy and awkward and shy. Then one day it hit me, everyone always remembered who I was. I stood out. I have comments everywhere I go now about how well I hold my posture, how nice it must be to be my height, and ofcourse by the men about how great my legs look in that skirt. Tall women they say are more likely to get jobs due to the fact at interviews we can stand and look people in the eye, showing confidence. If someone bugs you about your height... just ignore it. You are beautiful and you will be remembered by all you meet. Show off your height, show off those legs, show off your smile and your inner beauty and you will see the results. Oh, and don't worry, the boys are ge tting taller! I swear!! Just be happy you have a reason to stand out in the crowd. Trust me on this!

Petra wrote (August 4th 2006)

I was at Payless the other day just looking around and I sow these nice 2 inch sandals (I'm 6'0"). They were a beauty! So I put them on and did the model walk through the empty isle. As I'm coming back to where I left my own shoes the short guy that was working there walked by and just looked at me with a smile on.... I laughed and said that wierd "hi" cuz I seriously had the model walk on and the isle was my runway! Well, ladies have fun with your height! Remember that height is just a number! Peace

Kathy wrote (August 3rd 2006)

Hey, I am telling you there is nothing wrong with being a tall woman. I am 35 and 6'4 - yes I got all the jokes and "you should be a model" and "do you play basketball?" and now I just grin and make a joke back at them men do not like it when you ask them back if you play putt putt golf when they are short though. But I am married to the most wonderful man and he is only 5'9 it does not bother us because we have learned to be secure with ourselves. And I am tall enough that he does not need to put me on a pedastal lol. To the tall women I salute you. You rock!

Diana wrote (August 2nd 2006)

I can honestly say that I dont like being tall. Normally I'm about five ten/eleven. But I slipped a disk in my back and now I'm five nine, it's painful as hell, but I don't want to get it fixed because I will be taller again. Plus why do shoe companies put like a 2 or 4 inch sole on their shoes?????? That pisses me off, not all women are midgets!

Adriana wrote (August 2nd 2006)

I am 20 years old and just under six feet and plus-sized. I never used to have a problem with my height, but as I grow older it is starting to bother me. Because I am tall and very shapely, I look like a giant in comparison to others. I have now met a guy who I am attracted to, and who is attracted to me... he's 5'7" with a small frame. It literally looks like I spat him out. I hate to admit it, but I am very insecure with the size difference and am afraid that it will ruin a potentially great relationship. Am I really wrong for wanting to hold out for a taller man with all the other qualities I love about this short guy?

Joerg says: A lot of cuddly (plus-size) women who are shorter than you have skinny boyfriends (I guess that's the opposites attract thingy again) so why do you worry about being taller and bigger. Some guys - including myself - prefer cuddly ladies to skinny dolls... :-)

Samantha wrote (August 1st 2006)

I was searching for something inspirational as I was just regected yet again by a short boy who is too insecure to be seen with someone my height. I am 18 and have never had a boyfriend... lots of boy friends though. Because of my serious lack of a bf I feel unattractive and find myself wishing to be shorter like all of the other girls... then I thought this is like my weeding system... I dont have to search through guy after guy like the short girls. I can stand tall and confident and wait for the guy that adores all of my attributes will find me. Life usually has a way of working itself out like that. We were made tall for a reason so carry it like you want it cause there are a lot of short girls that wished they had legs like yours!

Claire wrote (July 30th 2006)

I'm 17 and 6ft 4 and still growing. I live in New Zealand and it is virtually impossible to find clothes that fit. I have tried men's jeans and they are also too short!!!! I am trying to embrace my height but it's taking a while. I am taller than everybody in my family. I am extremely polite but sometimes the tall questions get to me like, "Did you know your tall?". I love this site just wish there was a tall clothing store in New Zealand!!!!!!!!

Amanda wrote (July 28th 2006)

I've always been the tallest kid in the class. I hated being tall. I never played basketball and always felt self conscious about my height. Now that I'm older I don't mind, I like standing out. I love wearing high heels, and my husband is shorter than me (he's 5'9"). I'm still frustrated that I can't always find the shoes I want when I go out shopping (I don't ALWAYS want to shop online). My advice to the young ladies not confortable being tall... you can't change it so embrace it.

Ula wrote (July 27th 2006)

First of all I love this website. Every time I go here I like my height more and more. Even though I wish I could be a tad shorter. Right now I am 17 and 6'5 and I really don't like it. The stuff that makes me even sadder is I cant find a guy because all of them that I know like that short stuff, they all want to be taller than the girl, now I don't understand why can't a guy be shorter than a girl - what is the difference? Well, like others I hate all of those stupid questions I get asked all around. If I would get a nickle for every time someone asked me how tall are you or do u play basketball man would I be rich right now!!!

Kathy wrote (July 24th 2006)

You can find it all on the Net! I was surprised and pleased to run into this site and hope I can find it again.

I have been 6'2" since I was 14 - I'm now 60. I will be an old lady but not a "little" old lady. Most of the time I hate being tall--I think how you get along with something like this depends on the people who were around you when you were growing up. I had some doozies around me when I was growing up and up. My father was the worst--and it was his fault I was so tall. I won't even repeat what he had to say about it! I suppose I should say soemthing inspirational to all those other poor slugs out there, so I'll say being different gives you a different slant on things and this can lead to a unique and sometimes very rewarding life. I've met some other different people and they are very true and interesting friends. A lot goes unspoken between us, but is always understood. I am a published poet and try to live a poet's life. Being tall can be very zen. Life isn't all getting married and reproducing, remember, and there ARE worse things than being alone. I've seen some married hells and am glad I wam not a part of them. Good luck and best wishes to all!

Alicia wrote (July 23rd 2006)

I'm 6 ft tall, and 14 yrs old. I've only been tall for about two yrs, and I'm already seeing how hard it is to live like this. I cant find a b/f tall enough; (I've always wanted a guy taller than me.) I'm guilted into playing basketball by my mom, teachers, and coaches. So much is expected of me in sports now. Plus, I wish people would quit telling me to be a model, cuz they r just giving me false hope. What's worse, I've never been a confident person. I'm extremely shy and it doesnt help when I walk into a room and stick out like a sore thumb. I hope that someday I will learn to like my height, but until then, I'm just tryin to find clothes that fit.

Priya wrote (July 23rd 2006)

Hi! I'm so glad all of you love your height, I was just going to say that I never had the same love of my height as you all have. I'm Indian, and only 16 years old, and every time one of my relatives calls up the first thing they say is "has she grown any taller? We're not going to be able to find her a husband!". It is apparently said in jest, but it hurts me very deeply, and my mum doesn't realise this and encourages the jokes. But I am determined to get on with my life regardless of this, and I am in my final year at school currently and I want to become a doctor. Thank you all so very much for inspiring me to believe that I am not ugly and undesirable because of my height. We need more people like you in the world. God bless you all :)

Joerg says: I'm well aware that tall women in the West have it a lot easier than tall ladies in other countries. Hopefully the attitude towards women like you will change (in India and elsewhere). You should still try and stand tall - you look a lot better that way. Keep your chin, up!

Julie wrote (July 22nd 2006)

I'm Julie (6ft2). Just wanted to say I have found this website tonight and what a refreshing webpage this is! Girls who actually love and enjoy their height! I have to be honest and admit that I do have a slight complex over my height. I feel less comfortable to date shorter men and I often shed a tear. But I am doing everything I can to change my mindset. It's just a slower process for me - you're the lucky ones! You can walk confidently and make the most of your wicked asset! I am fine with my height most of the time. You really can reach most things! Jobs are easier! And when I chat to men I always convince them I'm worth the climb! I like to tease! My problem is that most tall men fancy short women. Ew! But I'll have to see what I can do about that!! I really could pour my heart out and say all the negs, but from now on I really need to focus positively. I feel that your comments have made me see a light at the end of the tunnel because you have proven once and for all that being a tall girl can be enjoyable and I have something to work towards. Thank you.

Michelle wrote (July 22nd 2006)

I LOVE BEING TALL!!! I pity all short women! I am 16 and I'm 5'10", and I feel beautiful! Guys just love my super-long, lean legs and tell me that my confident stride is one of my sexiest attributes! I have just been approached to become a model and all of my short friends are so super jealous... ;) I also have very little trouble finding tall guys (I'm from South Africa) - I think height is one of the sexiest things a man can have (that and a great smile)! So come on tall girls - work it and LOVE it! xxx

Brandi wrote (July 19th 2006)

I grew up being the tallest out of everyone in my school. I was 5'9" in 5th grade... I dont think I liked it so much growing up but then I started getting older and I think it's a huge turn on for men - they love tall women! I love being tall. I'm 5'10" and 25 years old... I now wish I was taller... I think being tall is soooo beautiful. In all my family the girls are all over 6' so I'm kind of short in my family! But I'm a tall girl in the real world!

Lindsey wrote (July 14th 2006)

Hey, I'm 14 and 6'2". I was just amazed at how many girls there are that are as tall or taller then me. I love bein tall - I'm not bothered by it at all. It's great when it comes to basketball!

Megan wrote (July 8th 2006)

I often have tall days where I feel like I am a giant but normally I feel like I don't really stand out in the crowd UNTIL some rude person feels the need to say 'you're a big girl'. I am not big, I am tall. I also get sick of men telling me I am intimidating. I am the biggest softy in the world. I cry at TV commercials. Fortunately I am settled in my life so what others thinks no longer matters. Being a tall teenager was hell. The world needs to be nicer to tall girls!!! (I'm 6'1").

Renee wrote (July 8th 2006)

I am 6'4" and enjoy my height very much. I get a kick out of the question "Do you play basketball?" I return with a smile and a prompt answer: "Yes, do you play MINIATURE golf?"

Ashley wrote (July 7th 2006)

I'm 5'10 and everyday I get commented on or asked about my height. Normally cause I'm the tallest one in the room. But sometimes I get insecure about myself. I must remember you're always getting noticed, you can never be forgotten plus when you're tall people take you seriously (if a police officer pulled you over and was half your size, you would laugh).

Christina wrote (July 3rd 2006)

In general, I enjoy being tall(I'm 28 and 6'0" tall - My mum is 5'7", my father 6'1", brother 6'1,5, for those who are interested). But when I was younger I sometimes really wished to be a little shorter. I guess that was mainly because I hated the comments about my height e.g. from relatives who expressed their estonishment everytime they saw me (they still do, although I was already as tall when I was 14). It even happened that total strangers on the street asked me how tall I was, and I am always asked if I am Scandinavian or Russian... But I can honestly say I never had problems to find a guy because of my height, but I didn't mind if a man was shorter than me, if he's cute, who cares?!). However, I ended up with a tall man (he is 6'3" and he comes from a tallish family so my height was never a big deal for him and I guess I like that). The older I get the less I care about my height. I'm quite happy with myself and I think it is much better to be really tall than to be really short.

Shoshana wrote (April 30th 2007)

Well, Susan, I live in NYC actually, and I had a chance to ask my co-worker why she seems to be so fascinated with my height and she was shocked that I asked her in the first place. Her response was that she wasn't trying to offend me and would actually like to be taller herself. I call it "short man's envy syndrome". In all honesty I like being tall and I have learned that once you accept yourself everyone else accepts you. If you feel bad about yourself and focus on your height in a negative way then everyone else will focus on it... and since I'm not shrinking and my height is here to stay, I embrace it. Thanks for your comment, Susan.

Joerg says: You may wanna call it "Short woman's envy syndrome"... I don't envy you for your height as I'm happy with my 5'8" but I'm mightily pleased that you're as tall as you are. You go, girl!

Sian wrote (April 29th 2007)

Thanks Joerg. I think it's great what you do here. You're such a cool guy! Yeah, I think if you are real tall then I guess you totally have to accept it. When you're kinda on the verge or in between, it's like you're close to both and want to be one or the other if you know what I mean! Anyone know where I can buy some confidence? U see, I'm easy at pretending I have confidence but those who really know me, know I haven't tho x

Sian wrote (April 28th 2007)

I'm really coming to hate my height. I'm 5 foot ten, and I'd never put heels on. I'm self-conscious as it is! I think guys are intimidated by tall women, and most real tall men want a really short woman. I always see that. Guys who are like 6 foot 4 with a girl of 5 foot 4 ! They don't seem to want to go for tall women. I just wish I could chop my legs off half the time to be honest. Sorry I can't be more positive, but it's honestly how I feel. I starve myself half the time to be skinny because I couldn't handle being 'big' as well as being tall. I'm a size 8 (American 4 ) and I still feel massive. I think I'll always feel massive because of my height. I thought havin' a nose job would also make me feel better, and it hasn't! I just wish I could be the same as everyone else and not stand out. I don't wanna stand out. I really hate it. I dont think I'll ever be happy :(

Joerg says: I don't want to be devil's advocate here but this proves to me that women who are on the fringe of being "tall" seem to have a much harder time than women who are really tall (6'4" and above). I wonder why that is... I've always found that a lot of 5'10" or 5'11" women consider me to be too short whereas I've been around several ladies who were 6'3", 6'4", 6'5" and even 6'7" and they thought I was "tall enough" for them. Weird? It probably is. I think you need to work on the deeper lying issues, Sian. You seem to lack confidence big time and dating a tall guy won't help you feel better. You need to start appreciating yourself and your body more... as soon as possible!

Susan wrote (April 27th 2007)

Hi all - especially Shoshana

I wanted to put my two cents in in the co-worker making the "you're really tall" comment. Actually, the last time I heard 5'6" was the average height in the USA(not sure where you live). So, you were correct she is really short. Why she felt the need to point out that you are tall is another issue. What does she think that maybe you didn't know that you are tall? Anyway, I will get off my soap box.

Take care
Susan

Susan wrote (April 22nd 2007)

Hi all - especially Kate

First, my take on your situation, you are in that awkward time, not you specifically, but, many times boys at that age dont know who they are let alone who or what they want. It is really comical, but, as soon as you graduate from high school usually the guys start growing up and appreciating beauty of all sizes. I went through the same thing in high school I had crushes, but, the guys were not interested. Men approached me, but, at 14-18 was not interested in a guy 20's and up.

Second, you think guys think you sister is more attractive, but, it probably is a case that they are less intimidated by her(nothing against your sister). I have heard that time and time again.

Third, in general my take on people that act like idiots in trying to make us feel bad about being tall. It is all about insecurity, for whatever reason. Instead of getting to know a person for who they are inside-the outside is judged as whatever and those people that act with ignorance could miss out on meeting a great person.

Take care
Susan

Shoshana wrote (April 22nd 2007)

Growing up I was always the tallest in school and at home my dad is 5ft11 and my mom is 5ft7. I was 6ft in 8 grade and now that I am 26 I'm 6ft3. I swear I grew after 23, I think I'm done now. I can honestly say that it has taken me years to get comfortable with my height. Recently one of my associates at work was walking next to me and was like "Shoshana, you are so tall" and I looked at her - she is 5ft3 and about 250 pounds - and responded "No, you are just short" and she got offended and replied "No, I'm average". It was then that I realized that she was self-conscious about her own height and I felt even better about my height than before. So now more then ever before I walk with my head up high and remember ladies there is nothing wrong with dating a man shorter than u. My boyfriend is 6ft0 allegedly and I love him to death. He has often told me that if I were short I would just be a regular pretty girl but my height sets me apart from all the rest! So ladies: don't let the man of your dreams pass you by because you are living for other people.

Leslie wrote (April 22nd 2007)

Hi, my name is Leslie, I'm 6'1'', and im working on my confidence. I'm so glad I found this site. I agree with all of the quotes above! It's really hard to find a guy when you're really tall. I feel uncomfortable dating guys that are shorter than me because I feel like I'm the guy! LOL! At times I even take crap from taller guys because I'm afraid he might be my only chance of getting a guy. Well, if anyone out there is doing the same, trust me it's not worth it. Guys are like a good pair of shoes, it would be nice to have them but it's not necessary!

Much love to all!

Sandy wrote (April 22nd 2007)

I don't understand why tall women complain and feel uncomfortable about their height. It's not like it's the end of the world. Face it - that's the way God made you and you have no control over how tall you will be so just accept it and be optimistic. It may be a little hard to find clothes and shoes that fit but there are many advantages to being tall also. I'm 5'11" and 16 y/o. My boyfriend is 5'7". I was 5'6" when we met but I grew 5 inches during the last two years and I'm not complaining. In fact I like my height and so does my boyfriend. He even likes the idea of me wearing high-heels or platform shoes. And who knows I may even grow taller. I'm only 16.

Salon wrote (April 21st 2007)

Hi, I love your page I am a 6'3" African American female, even though I did a runway show and was married 1 time it is soooo hard to meet guys. It's like pulling teeth. I am aware some guys find me intimadating but gimme a break. I haven't had a decent guy approach me for a date in over a year what's up with that? I you have any advice please let me know thanks, Salon

Mimi wrote (April 21st 2007)

I really like this message board! I am 5'11, 31 yrs old and still find it difficult to be comfortable in my own skin. I finally have found a place where I can get nice length jeans and pants (Victoria's Secret, 36") but cute shirts, skirts and dresses are a different story. Anyone have any ideas of where I can find nice clothing for a leggy and arm lengthy person in the U.S.?

Charisse wrote (April 21st 2007)

This is a message to Kate:
Honey, most often times, shorter women must wear heels to gain height... or at least to reach the height close to yours that you have naturally. Do you know how many women if you ask them, they would tell you that they would not mind being tall if for one moment. We possess power that shorter women will never understand. Your sister is merely expressing envy...pure unfiltered envy!!!! Warning.... Tall women that wear heels will be notice much quicker than most in the room!!! What you need to do is not worry or concentrate on you sister's comments about your height. Your sister will be your sister and that's that. Remember, she has to wear heels to be tall and to be noticed. You on the other hand have multiple choices. You have options. You are beautiful no matter what anyone says and that includes family. As long as you feel good about yourself and you are comfortable in your skin, then everyone else is going to have to play catch up. Keep y our head up, dearheart. After while, you will be fighting the men off with a stick!!!! I know!!!! I've been there...!!!!

This is for Susan:
You are most welcome. I just feel like it's time for us to take a stand and be noticed for the beauties that we are!!!! We are geninue and the world just need to wake up and realize that we exist!!!! And we are not going anywhere!!!! Thanks for the vote of confidence!!

Madeline wrote (April 19th 2007)

Being tall can be hard sometimes. You get comments and looks but you also get attention and not the bad kind. Carry yourself well and keep your poise - I've learned this. Dont hunch because you are showing that you are uncomfortable with yourself. Hold your head high. Be proud. Im 13 and struggle with being 6'0" tall because I am already a very unique outgoing person and dont want to be entirely different. And being taller than guys is also a struggle just remember they want your height and they are the ones who feel self-conscious. EMBRACE YOUR Height.

Liz wrote (April 19th 2007)

I am 13 years old and am six feet. When I'm in public people first look at my face then my feet to see if I'm wearing tall shoes. I'm also taller than the guys in my class, but when we play basketball they wish they could reach the basket as well as me.

Kate wrote (April 19th 2007)

Hi, tall people! After reading everyone's messages I do feel a bit better about my height - I thought I was alone in the world. I still can't help feeling like I stick out like a sore thumb. I'm 15 yrs old and 6ft. I am very pretty as I've been scouted numerous times to be a model but I've never, ever had a boyfriend. I guess I come across as intimidating! I wish I could shrink to get a boyfriend! My older sister (she's 20) is a lot shorter than me and guys find her so much sexier. She is comfortable in her gorgeous body and teases me about my height. Help!

Joerg says: If your sister were a real (older) sister she'd support you, not make fun of you. Maybe she's jealous and if she's not she's going to be very soon. Remember who keeps who on the toes and who has to wear heels in order to look tall. A lot of short women would kill to be in your shoes.

Susan wrote (April 19th 2007)

YEAH for Charisse!!! Thank you!!! Love it, love it, love it!!! You are absolutely right!!! That is right, it is a gift and we should embrace it.

Thank you and love ya...

Becca wrote (April 18th 2007)

In comparison to most of you I am a "small" person, I stand at about 5ft 10, however I am only 14. To all you gorgeous girls I just want to say that I'm bigger than most people and I envy you, so think how envious really small people are of you. ALWAYS use your height to your advantage and always be confident you are GORGEOUS. The average height in the UK is around 5ft4 at the moment so yes there will be people who tease you but remember there are always comebacks, and besides you can do anything a small person can (even be a jockey!) and do a lot more too! I would love to be at least 5"11 so I am really hoping that I grow some more. I often wear 6 inch+ heels so I can clear well over 6ft! I really make some heads turn! and if people make any snide comments I just turn to friends and say "Hey, can u hear a noise a bit like a mouse squeaking? Strange, it's coming from right near the floor!"

Stand up straight for yourself and all the other tall girls out there to try and give them co nfidence too. Yes, I will agree the only difficulty when you are a teen is boys will be smaller than you, however they grow when there 16-17 so you can always go for an older model! And remember never to forget that there will be some tall guys at your age (and that they make the best rugby players!). I find lots of people think I'm taller (and thinner) than I am because I'm quite slim with long legs, and because of this I'm often called anorexic even though I'm a largish size 8 and eat 3 good meals a day! Don't worry about it - they obviously have a inferiority complex if they can't stand you looking good! STAND UP STRAIGHT, DONT BE AFRAID TO WEAR HEELS AND MAKE THOSE SHORTIES GREEN WITH JEALOUSY! xxx

Kirsty wrote (April 17th 2007)

Hiya, it's the Scottish one again. This is for Rebecca: Long Tall Sally is really good, you can get a catalogue, but there are loads of stores around the UK. They also do a nice range of shoes in sizes 7-11. Dorothy Perkins and Top Shop have a tall range as well, but I haven't been in for ages, I think their leg lengths are about 36" - slightly too long for me. Happy shopping!!!

Charisse wrote (April 16th 2007)

ATTENTION TO ALL TALL WOMEN OF THE WORLD!!!!!
IT’S TIME THAT WE STAND UP AND BE HEARD!!!!!
WE ARE ALL BEAUTIFUL NO MATTER HOW TALL WE ARE!!!!!
BE PROUD THAT YOU ARE UNIQUE!!!

"I'm an individual. I'm into individuality. Can't nobody be me. Can't nobody be you." Rachel Ferrell

We are unique individuals that were blessed to be given this package to prove that we are special and here is our way of demonstrating our power!!

United, we can make the world take noticed that you don't have to be any where between 5'0" to 5'9" to be glamorous!!!! I'd figured that we were created to bring spice and variety to this world!!!!!

I stand at 6'0" without heels, but trust me ladies. When the time comes for it… I do not hesitate to go into my closet to retrieve my heels, put those bad boys on and make it my duty and business to sashay!!!! Most often times I have had shorter women ask me why I wear them given that I am already tall. I simply reply, "I am a lady and I love to look like it… not just act like it. And since that requires heels, then so be it." It took years for me to get to this point in my life where I can truly say that I am proud to be tall and I will not hesitate to proclaim it!!! Everywhere I go, whenever I see a tall young woman that looks as though she is having a struggle dealing with her height or her weight….I let them know that no matter what anyone that stands underneath one’s nose says that may not have anything constructively encouraging to say….I would let them know….you are beautifully and wonderfully made to stand out….to let the world know that beauty may be in the eye of the beholder… and it may be skin deep… but your height only defines your beauty!!!!! Embrace it!!!!

So my message to all of the tall women in the world… open up your closets!!!! Find a dress or and outfit that will compliment the best of what you already have, find those heels (being either flats or higher), and celebrate your height to the fullest degree!!!! Strut like you have it going on!!!! Because you do have it going on!!!!

Now if the fashion world can do their part in starting or continuing to create looks in both clothing and shoes that will complete the look, not the package, then we would finally be vindicated. But let everyday be a day to celebrate your height!!! You wear it well!!!

We are all gorgeous!!!! Let’s stand up and let’s be proud of who we are!!!!!

TALL WOMEN RULE!!!!! FOREVER!!!!!

With warmest regards from one tall woman to another,
Charisse

Rebecca wrote (April 16th 2007)

Hey, I didnt even know tall women chat forums existed! I'm six foot three and live in the UK. Most of the time I don't mind being tall... It's just when people make comments all the time it's like you're ugly but you don't hear me complaining! Have you guys got any clothing/ shoe tips? I found out that New Look now does tall which is fab! Cheers guys x

P.S.: This to Summer... I'm 16. When I was your age I was about your height and I think I've stopped growing now. People always make comments like "What do you do... live in a grow bag?", but you just have to be comfortable with yourself. I knwo it's taken ages not to care what people think and everyone has their off days when it gets to them... you have to be happy to be you... at least you're not small so people don't overlook you. Keep smiling :)

Katrinah wrote (April 15th 2007)

Hey everyone how are we today? I just wanted to comment on your site along with every other woman :) It's really awesome to know that there's other women out there that enjoy being tall like myself. I'm 18 and im 6'2. I have 6 other siblings in my family and I just happen to be the tallest out of the other 3 girls :P It's really great when we have family photos :D Everyone tends to spot me first hehe. I think it's really nice when I go out to a club (which is a usual thing :D) I ALWAYS wear heels, so I probably end up being around 6'3-6'4, it's fantastic!!! I get alot of people look at me in the clubs and all I do is smile at them, the majority of the time they all wish they were as tall as me hehe :-) I have to say that lately in EVERY SINGLE club I go to, at least 3 ladies will ask me if I'm a model! It's hilarious (because im not :-P) So all you women out there who are uncomfortable with your height, please don't be :) It's such a beautiful blessing, so be proud and stand tall! If people stare or comment in a rude manner, they are only doing it because they're jealous :P So do what I do and smile at them :-D It shows that you have feelings too.

Thanx heaps and have a gorgeous day!

Katrinah

Kirsty wrote (April 12th 2007)

Hi all, I'm 6ft Scottish lass and I used to HATE my height too. Everyone else in my family is a "normal" height: my mum is only 5ft tall! My family are great and I'd have been fine had it not been for the comments of strangers or cruel peers. I've had it all: "is that a boy or a girl?", "Is it cold up there?" (ha ha), "Did they put you in a grow bag?". Often these came from short people and especially little men - jealousy?? Anyway, my turning point came when I became a primary school teacher and little kids said things like "Miss, are you a giant?". The thing is they don't mean it in a nasty way, they may genuinely never have seen a lady as tall as their daddy. I found it quite cute. That made me realise that some of the adults who make similar comments are not being intentionally mean. They may just be interested. Ever since then I don't care what anyone else thinks and funnily enough there have been far fewer negative comments. I think it's because I feel confident and stand up straight. I have a fantastic boyfriend who is a bit shorter than me (something I would've felt much more self-concious about in the past) and I actually BELIEVE people when they tell me how great I look. So my message is: have confidence in yourself (not just your looks, but everything) and other people will be drawn to you. It's TRUE!

Leanne wrote (April 11th 2007)

Hi! This is to Summer: I can totally relate to what you are saying. I feel exactly the same. The difference with me is that I'm 17 but 6'3". I do sometimes feel bad about myself but u will learn to live with it. And don't worry, the guy situation will sort itself - you have yet to grow up into a woman and when you do you will be fighting the men off. Trust me.

Summer wrote (April 5th 2007)

I am only 13 and 6'1". I don't care about the now. The question is "What is the age I am going to stop growing?" or "How tall am I going to be?". I hate how tall I am I can't date guys cuz they're top short. I don't want to be the person to bend down to kiss a guy. Sometimes tall can be good cuz I stand out. I just have to find me some tall friends and live life to the fullest because I am tall and I will always be tall till the day I die.

Joerg says: I'm not quite sure if you should worry about the "day that you die"... You're still a baby and you've got plenty of time to learn how to make your height work for you.

Natosha wrote (April 2nd 2007)

I’m shocked at all the responses! I didn’t know how many, if any, would respond. Now I feel like I don’t deserve all the feedback. My intention was not to get people to feel sorry for me; I only wanted to see if anyone could relate to my situation and what I’ve been through. My aunt, as well as a few other people, has told me the very same things: God created us all the way we are for reason and that we’re beautiful no matter what others say. I don’t know why it won’t just stick in my head. I have seen quite a few counselors over the years, kept journals and talked about what I’m going through, but nothing has worked. Sometimes I think I’m just too lazy to make the effort to change what’s going on in my head. Apparently, most of you did not grow up in an unstable environment. Of course that has impacted me and still does to this day. I think I also give up too soon. If I use some positive affirmation or read some positive self-help books and no change happens quickly, I throw in the towel. I realize my height isn’t the issue but it sure can make it seem worse! Louise, I will try your affirmation. I’m going to print it out and tape it to my mirror. Sometimes I really think something is just wrong in my head because I hear you all so accepting of your bodies and I’m thinking “what’s wrong with me, why can’t I have that?” I’d like to walk around feeling good in my own flesh, not worrying about what others are thinking or saying as I walk by. I want to go into shoe stores or clothing shops and find what fits without getting frustrated and leaving. Thank you all so much for your responses. Too bad I’m not surrounded by all of you in my daily life where I can experience some kind of relief for being around females my size.

Jaemi, when you said I’d be just as miserable if I were average height that really stuck out to me! I never even thought about that and I am so sure that would be true.

Debbie wrote (April 2nd 2007)

When I was younger, I was insecure about my height and everything else. So were all my friends who were short! I am 6'3" and I didn't stop growing until I was 25. I learned that if I felt uncomfortable in my skin, people felt sorry for me, but if I walked with confidence (often in high heels), I was envied. I dated men of all heights and never went long without a boyfriend. However, I married a man that is 6'8" and I look forward to seeing our two kids become towering leaders!

Candice wrote (March 31st 2007)

I can completely related to Natosha. I am 25 and 6ft and have been in the work place for a couple of years now and although it is hard to find work clothes that are cute, like the others girls, it is possible. Try Express and Tall Etc. Usually I find ways to mix and match things to make them work. I too often wonder why I am sooo tall and why it seems everyone else is soo short. But then I think... you know what... we are what we are, and I think that what we all want is for others to just accept us as we are and get over it!! We live in a society that glamorizes the tall models yet ostracizes the tall women in their day to day lives... weird. Maybe everyone is just jealous... they should be!! Hold your heads up high girls!!

Louise wrote (March 31st 2007)

My heart goes out to Natosha. I understand how you feel, but let me say this... First of all, don't beat yourself up for feeling the way you do. Your feelings are real. If you didn't have feelings, you'd be a robot! Now comes the fun part... you CAN change the way you feel about yourself, but it does take time. One simple thing you can do each day can start you on the road to recovery: look in a full length mirror and say "I love me" (as you're looking right at yourself); "everything about me is wonderfully unique; there is no other person exactly like me, and that makes me VERY special. I love these long arms that can reach high things, I love these feet that have carried this beautiful body around, I love these legs that support my beautiful torso." Do this EVERY day. It may be hard at first, but it will become easier and easier. Let me know the results! Now as for finding clothes and shoes that fit, it is very difficult, which makes no sense to me, considering the tall (6 ft.+) rail thin models that where all this stuff we're supposed to want to buy! Guess it will be up to us tall women to open up shops that cater to our beautiful selves! I'm 5'10", by the way.

Velma wrote (March 30th 2007)

Hey everyone, this is Velma. I am 5'10". When I was younger, I noticed that I was gettin taller and taller, and I hated it, but now that I am older, I really enjoy it. I like the fact that I stand out more than others do and I get alot of attention.

Janice wrote (March 28th 2007)

I'm 5'11" and have pretty much enjoyed being taller than most. Okay, finding pants that are long enough is a chore, but I love the fact that I stand out. My husband is 4" shorter then me and keeps telling me he will dump me for a taller woman (no, I don't believe him). Actually, I have some fond memories from being tall!

When people telll me I'm really tall, I just look at them liek they haven't a clue. Sometimes I just smile and say I didn't realize I was tall.

I like to think of myself as statuesque... (BTW, I'm 50 years old, and no, I never played basket ball. So much height wasted)

Terri wrote (March 28th 2007)

This is a great site! I want women who aren't comfortable with being tall to remember that EVERY woman in the world has at least ONE thing they would change about themselves. I say height is a blessing. I am 6 ft tall, 44 years old and FAR from skinny. I am still an attractive, interesting woman that people notice, probably more so because I am confident in myself and at peace with my height. My 5'7" husband adores me and there is no self-consciousness when we are out in public. I feel that if someone wants to comment about how 'strange' we look together, at least they are leaving someone else alone for a minute! The only person's opinion that can hurt you is your own!

Jaemi wrote (March 28th 2007)

Natosha's post is heart-wrenching. It's obvious that height is the least of your problems, Natosha. Your problems stem from the alcoholic, chaotic childhood you said you suffered through. If you grew up in my home, you would have grown up to love yourself and everything about your body. I suggest counseling to find out what's really eating at you. It's too easy to blame all your sadness and hopelessness on extra-long legs. It goes much deeper than that. It's from parents who didn't make you feel valued. You refer to yourself as a freak and frankenstein and monster. This doesn't come from being six inches taller than the AVERAGE woman. It comes from growing up in an alcoholic, chaotic environment. You'd be just as miserable if you were average height. Please seek counseling or a support group for adults who grew up in abusive, loveless homes. You will accept your height only after you learn to like yourself. I'm 6'0", by the way...

Laura wrote (March 28th 2007)

Hello, my name is Laura, I'm 6'1". This is in response to the message by Natosha. God has made each one of us tall for a reason. I used to think of myself as someone who stuck out like a sore thumb. I know it's hard to accept being tall when everyone else around you is short. I went through that as well. However, I have now realized that God has made each and every person unique and we are all beautiful in God's eyes no matter what the world tries to tell us. God has created us and each and every time we beat down on ourselves He cries because He has made a wonderful creation. Try not to let the lies of the rest of the world beat you down. Stand tall - you were made to be tall for a reason. I hope this helps all you girls out. God Bless!!

Tia wrote (March 27th 2007)

My name is Tia. I'm only 13 and I'm already 5'9". I'm taller than everybody in my skool (exept for some of the guys). I hate being tall and that's why I'm writing this. I hate being tall but I still have friends and people that care about me and so "Ya, no worries about being tall."

Erin wrote (March 25th 2007)

I am single and 5'11, and I must say I have had better relationships and I am more physically attracted to shorter, muscular men. I dont try to hide my height, I often wear 3 inch, heals and creative ensembles to accentuate it (i.e., vertically striped tights, shorter skirts), I also keep my hair short to draw attention to my long neck. In my case I have found short guys, like between 5'7 and 5'9, to be much more forthcoming and genuine - I find that sexy

Natosha wrote (March 25th 2007)

Where in the world do I begin? I’m 24 years old and 5'11". I hate it! I’ve been tall all my life and people were more than happy to remind me. I’ve been teased about it. I hear comments like "Is that a guy or a girl?", "Damn, she’s tall.", "Why are you so tall?" and "Frankenstein". It has beaten my self-esteem into the ground. I don't think I've ever had self-esteem really. I grew up in a chaotic alcoholic home where there was no support and then had to go to school and out in public where others looked at me like I was some kind of monster. To say the least, I've taken on that mentality. I have a few people in my life that tell me to be proud that I'm tall but I don't feel proud. It has done nothing but cause me so much pain. I don't understand how to accept it. How do you accept something that others have put down for so many years, something that has made others not know what gender you are? I have long legs, long arms and big feet. I wear 11 ½ in women's shoes and half the time they don't fit me right. Size 12 can be too big. I truly feel like a freak and I don’t know how to get passed that. I've wanted to stay hidden. I don't want people to know I'm there because the words they say often send me into a mad rage in my head. I don't know how to respond but just keep walking and cry about it when I am alone. It isn't about feeling sorry for myself, it's about not knowing how to like the skin/body I am in. Sorry this is so long, but I hope that most of you know how this feels. I'm surrounded by short girls and looking for cute clothes is just a nightmare. It's funny how they have a petite section in stores but no tall section. Anyway, does anyone know what I can do? I'm skinny as well. Size A breasts and no butt to speak off. I'm just a stick with semi-wide hips. This world can be so unforgiving but I can't do anything about my height. My 5'9 boyfriend loves it but I don't. I just do not know what to do with myself anymore. It's either figure out how to love myself or continue down this road of absolute misery. To make matters worse, I'm about to graduate college and need some dressier work clothes. I'm already beyond frustrated trying to find some dressy shoes. I just give up at the first sign of no success. I think I'll stop with that. I could go on forever seriously. Help!

Shanshisha wrote (March 23rd 2007)

Umm, hey. Well I noticed that I was tall in fifth grade when we got the class pics back. And I thought WOW I'm a little taller than everyone. Then in highschool I used to try and hide anything that would draw attention to me. So I dressed like a boy. Then I got over it in 11th grade when everyone loved the fact that I was tall, considering my school is not that tall. So I wear 6" heels if I want.

I want to be taller but doesn't look like that is happening but I love it anyway

Michele wrote (March 23rd 2007)

Hi Joerg,

I have just finished reading this message board for the first time. I am 38 years old and 6'2", and how I wish I would have had something like this for support as I was growing up! It was very hard for me as a teenager and even throughout most of my twenties. Aside from being very tall, I was also underweight, even though I ate day and night like a pig. It was just my metabolism to be long and skinny. People used to be so rude! I can remember getting introduced to someone new and they would just blurt out, "Oh my God, you're so tall! You're so skinny!" I would just respond by saying, "And its nice to meet you too." and act like they greeted me as they should have. I can remember having a lot of rough times gowing up. Being made fun of on a daily basis can really wreck havoc on one's self esteem. All my friends starting dating and going through the normal phases of life, but not me. Young guys are usually very insecure about tall girls, or girls being taller than they. I hated it. I felt like a freak looking through a glass wall at what 'normal' life should be like. EVERY little thing offended me, right down to some well-meaner asking me how tall I was. I so longed to move through society anonymously! Fast foward to my late twenties and I gave birth to twins, which somehow caused my body to go through a kind of 'second puberty'. I gained weight, and finally filled out into womanly proportions. Suddenly I was being told I was 'hot' by men every which way I turned. I didn't know what to do w/ this 180 degree turn around in how men related to me, but I learned quick. I also learned that my height was an attribute. That people remembered me after meeting me only once. That strangers who made comments regarding my height were not always trying to make fun of me, but mostly were fascinated or acting out of admiration, or merely trying to strike up a conversation. Anyway, fast foward to present day. I have a wonderful relationship with a man 3 inches shorter than myself. It has never phased me once. I guess being tall has also subconsciously taught me to think outside the box, and not to be bound by societal conventions. For this open-mindedness I am very grateful. Life is much more exciting that way. Actually, I have never really felt comfortable being with a man taller than me. My height or shorter ok, but not taller... I am used to being the 'big' one, and when I am not it throws off my sense of reality, hah! Now I am finally at a point where I have completely accepted myself, and could not picture my life any other way. I have twin daughters who are 9 years old and are VERY tall for their age. (Their dad was 6'3", my dad is 6'5"). But luckily for them, there is so much more out there for them than there ever was for me, ie clothing availability, great web pages like this one and just people being taller and more informed as a whole. Plus they have a mother with all kinds of great advice and experiences to guide them through life. Power to all you amazons, young & old! God has chosen a special path for you through life. Embrace it with all you have, for you have insight and experience only someone of your stature is privy to. Good Luck!

Katy wrote (March 21st 2007)

Hi everyone! My name is Katy, I'm 6'1" and from Mexico! Can u believe that! It's more usual maybe for u guys to live in a country where u can find clothes and shoes for your size and maybe even when u are tall there are many tall men there also, here since I was a kid I was called names and always bothered but then I became the star of the basketball team and known for that. I visited many places and made a lot of friends. Now I'm about to get married with a guy who's shorter than me and even when people look at you weird I'm very happy. XoXo to all and have a great day

Nancy wrote (March 15th 2007)

Hi everyone! I am 6'2" and have been tall all of my life. My whole family is tall. My father always made sure that my tallness was an asset from a very early age. I never had boy issues in school or man issues as an adult. 95% of comments were positive and I had fun with them. My height was always an ice breaker because people want to talk to you about it and it is a great way to make new friends. When I was a teenager, my parents sent me a "charm school" so that I could learn "the confidence of height" that I would need in life. I did some modeling and I participated in the Miss Tall Florida Pageant when I was in college. I sought out and joined the Miami Skyliners Club. I strongly suggest these Clubs to the beautifully tall women of this site. There is probably a Club in every State now.

Don't worry about wearing heels. The higher the heel, the more I love them. You just cannot imagine what it feels like to walk through the door at a restaurant, a wedding, a party, anywhere when you are tall and wearing 4" heels. The attention you get is amazing! I have a Sister-In-Law who is about 5'4" and it bothers her so much when I walk in and all of the eyes are on me. It drives her crazy. The family went to a wedding one time and she got so upset that she started to cry. I think she has other problems than height.

I have dated both TALL men and shorter men. I never really gave it much thought as it did'nt really have anything to do with anything. As long as the both of you are confidant, it really just doesn't matter, does it?

When I was younger, I did have some problems finding shoes in my size but now it is alot different. I can find shoes almost anywhere. And the same goes for clothes. There are so many stores and websites carrying the longer lengths now, it is a non-issue.

I really just want to express to everyone that tallness is such an asset. A beautiful asset at that. There is nothing better than a "long, cool, woman." You just need confidance. Feel beautiful and you are beautiful. Stand up straight and TALL...shoulders back...head held high. Embrace it! Flaunt it! Just remember, when you get those stares and comments, it comes from people who are envious and lack their own self-confidence. They feel like they are invisible when they are in your presence.

Andrea wrote (March 14th 2007)

I'm currently 13 and 1/2 years old, 5'10" and luvin it even though I'm the tallest gurl at my school. My friend, the second tallest gurl, she currently stands at 5'9". Even though my mother is 5'4" I look identical to her. They always asked us if we were sisters. People at my school are always asking me why I dont play basketball -  it gets on my nerves sumtimes. I love my height and I'm proud about it even though when I wear heels I look about 6 feet.

Amanda wrote (March 9th 2007)

Hey guys!!

Oh my gosh... I honestly never knew that there were other women like like me who had the same thoughts and feelings as I do about being tall!! I only recently learned that guys dig long legs. I have a 36" inside leg and finding jeans and trousers to fit is an absolute nightmare. But after reading some of these quotes, I think i might finally start learning to love them!

Susan added (March 4th 2007)

Hi Everyone,

I loved Madaleine's and Paula's comments. To the women/girls that have not come to terms in loving themselves. Stop it!!! There is nothing wrong with being tall. I reached my full height of 6'2" at 13 yrs of age and yes it was not easy, but, I started getting involved in sports basketball, volleyball and softball. The sports helped alot. This might seem like a strange comparision, but, I was watching a program on TLC called "Little People Big World" and it is a series about a married couple that are both "little people" and really put alot in perspective. It showed their struggles, but, how they both said they would not change anything about their appearance if given a choice. I thought more power to them!!! With all their medical problems, they have four healthy children and live on a huge farm in Oregon, which was beautiful and for the most part really enjoyed their lives. Both the wife and husband talked about the teasing, prejudice they endured while growing up and even as adults. I thought after watching the program it just refortified my happiness on being who I am, etc. I am healthy, my family is healthy. Really, dont let other people make you feel bad because of their hang ups. They need to get over it!!! As far as the clothes, there are some really good mail order places that I deal with on a regular basis. I have a 36" inseam and I really dont have a problem. I usually can not just walk into a store and buy off the rack for pants. Eddie Bauer, Lands' End, JCPenney, Lane Bryant, Roamans, Inc. (all carry various lengths in talls)

Hope that helps

Susan wrote (March 4th 2007)

I enjoy this message board. I need to briefly address Shelle's comment on being rude. I will only speak for myself. I am a very friendly person and it takes me a long time before I get really upset. Unfortunately, there are some people that need to be called out when making ignorant comments i.e. the minature golf or horse jockey. There has been a time or two when I have used that type of a comment. The way the scenario goes is that usually the individual will get a bugged look on his/her face, but, usually will not say something like that to me again (at least not too my face). I dont have a problem if someone is curious about whatever if it is appropriate and most people know what falls in the realm of appropriateness. Basically, would you want that comment directed at you? I have a little girl that is in Kindergarten, who will be somewhere between 6'2"-6'5" -she loves to dress in girly girl outfits i.e. dresses, skirts, etc. Which could change, but, I have gotten comments from people asking her how come she is not in school when she goes to half-day kinder. My point is I am going to do everything possible to instill self pride and to stand up for herself. Her personality is that she is very friendly, but, she has a strong sense of self. I will do whatever I can to keep that in her. Because from my experience there are some really great people out there, but, there are some not so great people out there. Sometimes, those comments need to be addressed head on.

Take care.

Claire wrote (March 4th 2007)

I'm 5'10 and hate it. I was never the tallest in my class, always normal height until I was in year 10 when I began to grow. My mum is only 5'0 which always upsets me because I feel that I should be smaller to. I also feel so ashamed of wearing heels. What should I do?

Madaleine wrote (March 4th 2007)

So I'm 5'10 and I'm 20. I HATED it for so so so long. I never wore pretty shoes. I never bought heels. Kust stuck to the reliable flats. I'm the tallest of all my friends and I stand out like a sore thumb. However I've just met some great girls who are my height and taller and they have finally talked me into wearing heels and now I LOVE them. I can't get enough. With the heels I'm about 6ft tall and loving it. I look tall and slender and stand out from the crowd for all the right reasons. I can't believe I wore flats for so long!

So go for it girls. Tall is beautiful.

Paula wrote (March 3rd 2007)

Hello to all my long legged sisters! I am 27 and stand 6'0 feet tall. When asked how tall I am I usually say 72 inches (it keeps them guessing). I do get tired of the sexual comments but I usually just use sarcasm and say you couldn’t handle this amazon woman. Ladies keep your heads up and always walk tall. I watched a show recently and it said that the average height of a Dutch women is 6’0 feet. I would love to go for a visit. They have adjusted their doors, countertops, etc…How great what that be? Anyway, for those of you that have a hard time finding clothes I have had luck with some of these online stores. Tall Etc., J. Crew, Saks, Victoria’s Secret, etc… They all have 34 inch inseams and up and once you buy they are always sending you a coupon. Good Luck to all of you!

Hannah wrote (February 28th 2007)

I'm 5'11" and always the tallest in my class. I mean it's not that bad but when I look down I see the tops of people's heads. By the way I'm only twelve. It's good being tall because u r usually skinny because all your food stretches out.

Soleil wrote (February 21st 2007)

Hi, I'm from Curacao. I thought that I'm the only one but looking at this website I'm not. I was ashamed of being tall but now I like being tall but there are a couple of times I wish not to be tall because the kids like to make coments about it and I don't like that... But now I know they're just jealous! What should I do about finding shoes? Because my foot is big - size 11 or 12!

Jackie wrote (February 21st 2007)

I'm 6'0" and I have a daughter who is 5'11" at age 14 and finding the remarks people say upsetting. I try to ignore them but after reading the funny comebacks I will definetely use some, and hopefully give some confidence back to my daughter. Jackie

Lizz wrote (February 20th 2007)

I'm 6' and for all my life I swore I would never marry a guy shorter than me and I wouldn't even consider dating shorter guys. Lo and behold the most wonderful man in the world came out of nowhere and swept me off my feet - and he is 5'10" (5'11" with shoes). I am ashamed of myself that I was so into guy height - I could have totally lost my chance of being married to my soulmate and having a beautiful baby boy! Sometimes I still feel self conscience when we stand next to each other, but I have gotten to the point of wearing heels around him and standing proud! Now when I see other couples where the guy is shorter I think it's really cute... and kinda hot!! Girls, be proud of your height, God gave it to you for a reason and it is a gift! And try to keep an open mind when it comes to guys - the height of his character is sooo much more important than the height of his body.

Amy wrote (February 18th 2007)

Hi EVERYONE! My name is Amy, I am 6'3", and I am 25 years old. I live in Buffalo, New York and I work in a local hospital. I enjoy reading everyone's blurbs about their height partly because it helps me to realize that I am not the only one that goes through these things. It seems we all have the same problems, from finding clothes to boyfriends. I don't understand how people aren't more open to us because I know we aren't so few and far between. I did not play sports in high school in part to a knee injury and I did not model because my mom wouldn't allow me to do so. I am currently single because I have raised my standards of what I am looking for in a man because short or tall I haven't found a good one so now I am definetely looking for a tall one. Ha ha! Finding clothes has gotten easier for me since I found Tall Girl which has stores in US and Canada. I don't have the shoe problem though because I wear a 9-10. I have a lot of funny stories about being tall and I also have days where I just want to throttle someone for bothering me about my height. I want to thank everyone that reads my message and thank those for leaving messages for me to read.

Pearl wrote (February 18th 2007)

I don't see anything wrong with a tall girl going with a shorter guy. It evens out the genes when you have kids.

Nelly wrote (February 13th 2007)

Hello, Ladies. I am 6'2" and in love with my height. I just learnt about this website recently & know I can't stay away from my computer. At least I know am not the only one. I'm from Kenya and at times people look at me like I'm from planet Mars coz of my height but I also get a lot of compliments. But some just say, "Hey gal, ur tall." I really don't know how I am supposed to respond to that, but you know one thing: I say we tall people are GOD's gift to planet Earth. Men are so jealous. So go gals - it doesn't matter how tall you are. Just have fun

Michelle wrote (February 12th 2007)

I'm 27 and 5'10 1/2 (135lbs). I have struggled with my height for years, and have recently been more aware of it since my fiancé is slightly shorter than me...if he wears his New Balance shoes it gives him a bit of a lift ;-). I tend to wear ballerina flats or sandals; this makes me feel more petite. I want to feel small and petite with him, and I find that the only time I feel this way is when I'm very thin. In some weird way I feel that when I’m thinner, my height is less of a concern to me. But, God forbid I gain any weight, or become pregnant, I'll feel like a whale around him. This has been so upsetting to me that I have even thought about calling off the wedding. The only thing is, this man is the most wonderful man I've ever met. We have everything in common, he’s handsome, fit, very smart...everybody loves him. To give him up for an inch is absolutely absurd. He has no problem with my height, it's all me, and the way I see myself. We could have a wonderful life together, but I'm scared that I will have bouts of resentment and frustration b/c he is a little bit shorter than me. He recently told me that he's scared he will lose me b/c he's not tall enough for me. I feel terrible about the way I've been acting towards him lately. Does anybody have any suggestions about how I can overcome these feelings?

Joerg says: I still find it strange that most women who are 5'10" or 5'11" have problems dating a guy who's an inch or so shorter while a lot of women who are 6'6" or 6'7" don't mind if the man is a head shorter than them. Maybe someone can clear that up for me...

Kelsey wrote (February 5th 2007)

Hi, I'm so happy I'm not alone. It sure feels like it. I am 13 and 6'3 and do lots of sports. I love it!! But it is hard because only older guys like me. And I get alot of crap! I made the varsity volleyball and basketball team and people said it was because of my heigth. I hope I learn to love my height!

Joerg says: You go, girl!

Anna wrote (February 4th 2007)

It is really hard being so tall for me because I am Indian and do not know a SINGLE indian girl that is taller than me. Even worse, I am taller than most Indian boys... the perennial joke is, "Where are you going to find a boy tall enough?" continually irks me, but at least now I have a few comebacks to that comment :)

Karen wrote (February 2nd 2007)

I always get comments you are so, tall. I love wearing shoes with heels I think they are sexy. My boyfriend is 5'8". He says he doesn't mind what I wear as long as I'm happy. Sometimes I feel funny but, I think why do I have to wear flat shoes to make other people happy. I love to look sexy and wear dresses with heels. God gave me these legs. I say show them. It's not my fault other people are shorter than me.

Julie wrote (February 1st 2007)

When people ask if I played basketball, I smile and say no I am a race horse jockey. Ir gets a laugh every time and breaks the ice.

Becky wrote (January 30th 2007)

I am 18, 6'6" and I absolutely love being tall! I have played sports my whole life and now that I am in college I love it even more! I have found that even if you feel that you may not date a lot because you are tall - let me just tell you that almost every man I met LOVES TALL WOMEN!!!!

Nathy wrote (January 29th 2007)

Hi, im Alice, I'm 16 years old and Í'm from Dominican Republic. In my country people are normally pretty short, of course you find lots of guys taller than you, but that's not enough. I'm often told how beautiful I am, and skinny, and that I should be a model. But sometimes I'm intimidated by the fact that I'm too tall for this country and God knows I'd give anything to be smaller. Guys are attracted to me, but for just the fact that I'm too tall for them they don't flirt with me! I've always wanted to know if there's an exercise or anything I could do to be smaller?... I really wish I werent this way!

Whizzy wrote (January 27th 2007)

I just ran across this website for the first time and look forward to reviewing more of it. I'm 6'3" and my husband is 5'10". The height difference was never a factor and still isn't and we've been married for 25 years. I remember one boy when I was 15 that made me walk in the street while he walked on the curb... what a joke! I actually do not feel tall unless I see myself in a picture next to someone shorter. I'm the short one in my family with brothers 6'8" and 6'10". We had friends growing up that would tell their parents they were in the Land of the Giants when they'd ask where they were. A lot of kids will mention how tall I am and I just turn and smile... I'm in no way offended. I get the "did you play basketball" question a lot and only respond with "no, but did you play miniature golf" ONLY if I think they have a sense of humor because I'm only joking with them and we have a good laugh. I used to love wear high heals, before I had heal spurs, because I think flats just make a tall person look taller...just as I think slumping does. The only thing I don't like about being tall is finding clothes at a reasonable price. I sew, but sometimes I just want to buy something and the tall stores are so expensive. I wouldn't trade being tall for anything in the world and I'm actually a little bummed to find out that I'm only average on this website...ha!

Can someone tell me why all the tall clubs around the nation only allow singles (i.e. Towering Texans and Timberline Club)? Sometimes it would just be fun to get together with tall people. They say they are a social club, but I feel like they're just a dating service.

Joerg says: I wasn't aware that these clubs are open to singles only! Interesting...

Lauren wrote (January 27th 2007)

The thing that bothers me the most is that people are so rude about some genetic thing about us. It's not our fault that we are so tall. When I see ugly people it's not like I'm going to go up to them and be like you're really ugly, because its not their fault so why do people think it is okay to make rude comments to tall people because it's not like we chose to be this tall. I'm almost 6'4" and I'm 16 [I've been this tall since I was 13!] and I have a boyfriend thats not even an inch shorter and people in my school are like I can't believe you and Matt and going out because he's shorter then you and could get someone a better height! I'm always like well he chose my not based on my height and likes me for me. I always get the you should model thing, and my reply is always I am too tall. How many 6'4" models do you know? I think people say it because I'm so skinny and they just assume all skinny girls should be models. Well anyways keep your heads up and embrace your height because it's not like you can change it!

Dominique wrote (January 26th 2007)

Hey there. I love this website! I didn't know there were so many women out there who have similar thoughts as me. I'm 6'1". The last guy I dated was 5'10". At first it was kinda odd me being taller than him but unfortunately broke up for other reasons. I'm not dating anyone now but often people think my brother is my boyfriend because we go out together often. I outgrew him. He's 5'9". I often wear heels so I appear even taller. People don't realize we're brother and sister I guess because most women are shorter than their brothers. I'm one of the few exceptions. Despite my height I find that alot of guys don't hesitate to ask me out. There are many out there who actually prefer tall women. I kinda prefer shorter guys myself. Their personalities I find to be more appealing than tall guys. It's as if a person's height can influence their personality.

Shelle wrote (January 26th 2007)

Being tall is no excuse for rudeness. I wonder how many of us are actually ruder than shorter people with their questions and comments. I just got done reading that huge list of come-backs to when people ask about our height. Are any of you actually this obnoxious? I can understand if someone has the nerve to ask, "Do you ever get mistaken for a man?" That's an obnoxious question that deserves a response like, "No, do YOU?"

But hey, when someone just asks your height or says, "Gee, you are tall!" Come on, ladies, lighten up. It's human nature to make a comment about what is very obvious. Do any of you have big dogs? Hasn't anyone ever said, "My, what a big dog you have!" How do you respond? I have a 110-pound dog and all the time people tell me the obvious. Duh, I KNOW the dog is big! Duh! But I'd never be rude to these people any more than I would if they said, "My, you sure are tall!" Same thing with my daughter's curly hair. All the time I get, "Wow, your daughter's hair is so curly!" What kind of obnoxion would I be to be snippy and say, "Gee, you must've taken your smart pills today!"

"Wow, your house is big!" "Hey, your car is so bright red." It's time to grow up, stop sulking like children, and learn to live with comments about the obvious. "Wow, you have such long hair! It must've taken years to grow! How did you get it so long?" WELL GEE, EINSTEIN, My daddy left me out in the rain when I was growing up." People skills, anyone?

Sisters, if you want to leave a real bad impression on people, just continue acting like schnooks when well-meaning folk marvel at your height. I'm six-feet and dang proud, and every time someone comments, I smile and say, "I'm six feet in my bare feet." I get a rush when I walk past a couple of six-two or six-three men and I'm wearing my three-inch heels.

Dunrie wrote (January 21st 2007)

Joerg,

I just wanted to say thanks for an informative and positive resource. I have visited your website many times over the last few years and appreciated the links and stories. I am 6'2" and my husband is maybe 5'10 or 5'11. Before we dated, I was attracted to him but thought he was too short. I really wanted someone to make me feel more "normal". But, he didn't mind at all, and I do think it is related to what you write about self-confidence. I wasn't confident, so I was looking at external things to make me feel OK. He was confident, and so the difference in height made no difference to him. Anyway, now I pick out couples where the woman is taller and I feel a lot of affection for them, even before meeting them.

Anyway, thanks again for a nice site. Best of luck to you.

Dunrie

Leanne wrote (January 18th 2007)

Hello girls, I have been reading these quotes for a few weekz now and they get me thinking that I'm not the only one. I am really tall but really beautiful as well (not being big headed - lol). Some people look at me like I'm a freak but then some men can't take their eyes off me... I really don't know what men think about tall girls... I mean I'm only tall bcoz I have got LONG legs which men love. I have long hair as well which men love 2. As I have got older I am comin 2 terms with my height, sumtymz I still fink "why do I have 2 b different 2 everyone else" but girls, honest, men loooove long legs so keep ur head high and know that u r beautiful... Spk soon. Bye. BTW, I'm 17 years old and 6'1"

Kellie wrote (January 17th 2007)

Hi, my name is Kellie, I'm 5'11". These aren't my quotes but I thought what these cool chicks said was funny! These are the comebacks for all thoes rude comments people make about our height. Enjoy x

Lizi wrote (January 14th 2007)

I'm 6'2 and am seing a collegaue who is 5'1 which looks and sounds ridiculous to everyone but us. At the end of the day we are all the same when we r laying down and he is the sweetest cutest guy I've ever met!! Don't worry about what people say - I get it all the time in my profession as a barmaid "Oh, you're a big girl". It used to annoy me but at the end of the day they are all just jealous that they don't have the presence and statuesque figure that we do!!!

Joerg says: Hear, hear... great attitude. It's your choice who you're dating and it's good that you're not listening to others. Keep going, girl.

Bethany wrote (January 9th 2007)

My name is Bethany and I am merely fifteen years old. I have always been the largest and heightiest person in my school years, but when the summer of '05 struck, the top of my head peaked above 6 foot! I really like this boy, and feel I always will, but height strikes as a problem to me. He is 5'6" and I am 6'1". He comes up to my shoulders, and I can't get the humiliation out of my head; when he reached up for a kiss. I sunk my neck and he stood upon toes, and there was still a difference. Please help me overcome my fear of the small - please! Yours BFGly, Bethany.

Tia wrote (January 3rd 2007)

I am 6'3" and my husband is 5'7" and I love my husband with all that's within me. My husband asked me to be his girl a few years ago, and I had no problem saying yes. It doesn't matter if a woman is taller - all that truly matters is the way you and that person feels. Yes, people are going to look and make comments but that's ok. Most men wish they could have this tall glass of water because I'm good to the last drop.

Jeannette wrote (August 31st 2007)

I'm 6'1". I never expected to be this tall. My dad is 5'10" and my mom is 5'6". My brother is 5'10" like my dad. I was 5'5" at age 13 and then I started a growth spurt and outgrew everyone. In addition to that I've grown fond of high heels and I own several pairs. I stand about 6'5" in my highest pair and I feel like a giant over my family and my boyfriend who is 6'1" too. It took a bit getting used to. It was awkward at first being taller than everyone but now I like it. I think tall women should look on the brighter side and see the advantages of being tall. Most short women are jealous of us and would love to be our height. And there are plenty of guys who don't mind dating taller women!

Patricia wrote (August 31st 2007)

Ok, I'm back. Yesterday I got really upset. I went online and came across this question asking who was the tallest girl youve ever seen? And this one person posted "in catholic school there was this tall *** girl - she was like 5'3", her name was Patricia. Def a giant in our school". I didn't think it was me but then her name sounded familiar and that was my height when I went to a catholic school...

Carol wrote (August 29th 2007)

To Patricia: You are so sweet. I know exactly what you are going through. I took a growth height one summer in jr hi. I was more bothered by the mean things the kids said then being tall myself. I had long beautiful legs and the girls were just jealous... I am 5'10" and I got a leading part in a musical called Lil Abner. I played Moombeam McSwine, a singing, acting and dancing part I never forgot. One day back-stage one of the dorky guys in the play said that they felt bad in jr hi that they used to call me an Amazon. I was so crushed I walked home crying all the way home, they did not know they had made me cry. Well, anyway... I was 17 then and now I am 53, and boy, I sure wish we had a web-site like this. We didn't even have computers or the internet then. So Patricia: just keep posting and tell us some situations and we can all help you get thru getting hurt by ignorant people. Hugs from Carol

Simona wrote (August 29th 2007)

Hello! I'm from Serbia too... I'm 6'0" tall like Sandra... But I feel really good... I sometimes wear heels. I also sometimes feel insecure about my height but when I look at myself in the mirror I feel great. And when I see men on street checking me out I feel great. And Patricia, don't worry... Those people are just jealous, believe me! Ever since 1st grade I was very tall and there were always people who were making fun of my height... And of course, you can become a model if you want - way easier than all these jealous girls!!! Trust me... Kiss

Patricia wrote (August 28th 2007)

Okay, in the height box it only said that shortest was 5'10 so I'll go with that... My real height is 5'9" and the thing is, I'm only 11. I try to embrace my height and sometimes I feel good about it until someone happens to say "Hey, King Kong!". That problem got so bad that I had to switch to a school that had 6th grade in a middle school. I felt better since at least I wasn't the tallest one but I've always been tall. I remember when I was in 3rd grade I was 5'3. I was always taller than most of the teachers. I'm proud of my height but I just dont understand why people have to make fun of me.

Diane wrote (August 28th 2007)

I'm 45 and 6ft tall. I also hated it in HS, but my mom who was 5'8" always told me I would be glad when I got older. She was right, I love being tall and woudn't change that for anything. Tall women look sooo much better in their clothing than short women. And I think men in general prefer tall women. My husband is the same height as me... works great!!

Hannelore wrote (August 28th 2007)

Hi tall girls/women out there! I'm an 18year old 6ft tall girl from Belgium and I started checking out tall women websites for a few years now, since I realised I was quite tall... Anyway, this is my favorite tall-site of all! Sometimes when I feel bad about my height (which used to happen pretty frequently), I need to read these quotes to boost my confidence a bit, and it helps! I just wanted to thank all of you for helping me through some tough times. I've always been the tallest girl in high school, which made me very uncomfortable about my 6ft (or 1m83) so I used to be amazed by how many women here, who were a lot taller than me, were proud of their height. Tanks to you I can finally say "I'm proud too!!". I'm not scared to wear heels anymore, I realised my boyfriend doesn't HAVE to be taller than me, but most of all, being tall didn't kill me, so it made me stronger! I'm proud of who I am, and if someone else doesn't like it, that's his problem! Thank you!!

Joerg says: Great, I'm pleased to hear it!

Jewel wrote (August 27th 2007)

Wow Christine, take a chill pill! It's ok to say 5'12". It's just a humerous joke cause it gets people confused for a lil while! That's its intended purpose. I dont think it makes people sound ashamed! When u can joke it shows you're not that sensitive. If ur ashamed of your height u don't wear heels at all which I do, cause I have just one rule for wearing heels: LOOK IMMACULATE

Joerg says: I believe every (tall) woman who's confident has got her own way of reacting. You should say whatever works for you as long as it makes you feel better.

Sandra wrote (August 26th 2007)

Hi there... I'm 17 years old and I live in Serbia. While I was younger I loved my height (I was always the tallest girl in class), but when I wanted to wear heels everyone was like: "Are you crazy? You are too tall!!!" I played volleyball for 3 years and I stopped because I was scared that I would keep growing. When I found tallwomen.org I was so happy. Before I used to think:"I'm too tall" - especially when I'm around shorter people (by that I mean 5'6" and shorter). I still sometimes feel bad about my height and because of that I don't have confidence...

Joerg says: You probably don't know that some of the most attractive tall ladies come from Serbia. My good "old" friend Branka is 6'6", Danijela Utvic (Basketball player and Tall Woman of the Month for October 2007) is 6'5".

Christine wrote (August 26th 2007)

Hi again gals :)

I just want to add my 2 cents worth :> For some reason, and granted, this is just MY opinion, I DISLIKE it STRONGLY when a woman of 6 feet says that she's 5'12", to me that seems she's ashamed of her height and trying to "appear" shorter, and we SHOULD NOT be ashamed! God made us tall, dunno why He did, but He did, and I dunno why tall people are a minority (but we are); Well, apparently not in some parts of the world. I'm Canadian, and here it's not too common... Anyhoo, LOL... please don't say 5'12", say 6 feet! Man, that bothers me!!!! But then again that's me :> Think about it! It makes a woman sound ashamed and we're here to support each other. And, yeah to the girls that are 5 foot 10, you're really not that tall. Maybe 25 years ago it was considered super tall for a woman, but NOT today! I know... I'm in my early 40's and the whole height issue regarding tall women has changed DRAMATICALLY in 25 years! Most of the women on this site seem around my height - 6 feet plus - which is cool :> Blessings, Christine (who's 6'2") :>

Jheri wrote (August 25th 2007)

I was asked by another tall lady where I get my jeans. I had to confess that the ones I was wearing were cheating because they were custom. I do have real problems trying to buy from the rack because most of my height is leg.

I found this in my notes from a few months ago. I have an old roommate from my NYC days who is pretty short who has as much trouble getting jeans that fit as I do. She is a little less of a tomboy than me and would save up to go into some of the custom clothing makers. A few months ago she sent a letter and I finally found it.

I don't know how good this place is, but she is pretty reliable - has anyone had any experience?

Joerg says: Because the email from your friend is pretty long I'm not going to quote all of it. She's referring to www.makeyourownjeans.com - it's a company listed on the Clothes USA page and comes recommended. I've been in touch with the owner and he's working hard to provide a good service.

Sade wrote (August 25th 2007)

Hello everyone. This is my first time on here and I think it's great. I love my height except when it's time to wear heels. I love heels but when i wear them I feel like a giant. I ask people all the time but most of them were short. (So it really does not count) - I would like to hear from some women with a little height. I try to just ignore the stares of ignorant people, but I want to hear what some of you think.

Jewel wrote (August 25th 2007)

MORE COMEBACKS? Try, "I was supposed to be twins". If people ask you do you play basketball say "No, im lazy and I smoke" or if they say how tall r u say "I am 5ft 12inches". tee hee:)

Jheri wrote (August 25th 2007)

On comebacks... I gave up on trying to come up with snappy things. Most people just aren't used to seeing tallish women, so I try to take it as a complement and return one.

So if I hear... my god you're tall... I might answer... "Hey, thanks! And I really love your suit."

I've had some very nice conversations with people I would not have otherwise met and a few that have led to good friendships. Sure there are some jerks who say nasty things, but I think more people are just startled and don't know what to say.

Sara wrote (August 25th 2007)

I just wanted to give a hug to all the young ladies still fitting into their height. I am 29 years old and was 6' by age 12 (I'm 6'2" now). Being tall is a beautiful thing. It just takes some getting used to in this non-tall friendly world.

Susan wrote (August 24th 2007)

I feel compelled to respond to Laycie's comment. I appreciate your comments and perspective as far as your thoughts on why you ask the height of tall women. However, like I said before not everyone's motive is the same. I have encountered some well-meaning people and I handle that accordingly. I can appreciate that some people are just curious and don't mean any malice. There are some people who do not have just curiosity, but, I believe are insecure about themselves or whatever their issues are and want to test the waters to see how a tall woman feels about herself. Unfortunately, just like there are some people who are hateful enough to make fun at people who have disabilities. Speaking only for myself, I handle each situation differently. If someone were being complimentary of course I would not be put off. Again, if someone were being a jerk then more than likely I would say something.

Jewel wrote (August 24th 2007)

Carol - some comebacks?

"God stretched me out when I was a baby".

I FIND IT'S GENTLE AND DOESN'T SHOW PEOPLE YOU ARE INSECURE. IN FACT IT ATTRACTS THEM SOMEHOW! :)

P.S.: Guess you can't argue with what God has done cause it's always good :) !

Laycie wrote (August 24th 2007)

This site is full of feelings from the perspective of the tall woman who always gets asked how tall she is. Well, have you ever wondered what REALLY goes through the minds of those people who ask you your height? I am one of those people. And I will tell you exactly why I used to ask tall women all the time, "How tall are you?"

The more I reflect on this, the more I realize I did this pretty often, beginning in college. I can't speak for why men ask women their height. I can only speak for myself. I am just a hair under 5'8", and I've always wanted to be taller. So when I'd see a woman who is taller than me (which is not the norm, since 5'8" is taller than most women), I'd invariably ask how tall she is - but only if we were already chatting or I already somehow knew her. I'd never just go up to strangers. I did not ask for heights to be mean or to offend them. This was akin to asking a woman where she got a great-looking pair of earrings, or where she got her hair done, or where she got her outfit from. Even if a woman seemed to be only two inches taller than me, I'd ask. I did this out of sheer envy. If the woman was close to my height, like 5'9" or 5'10", I'd ask also because I'd first estimate her height, and make a visual note of how tall she appeared. Then, if it turned out she was only one or two inches taller than me, I'd realize that, hey, if she looks tall, and she's only one or two inches taller than me, then I MYSELF must look tall, too! I'd want that confirmation.

Other women I've asked were usually 5'11", and some six feet and over. None ever reacted as though they were offended, except for just one (I found out later she was 6'1"). Another woman responded, "I'm six feet and I love it!" I always have followed up my question with something like, "You are so lucky! I wish I had your height!" Sometimes they'd say, "No you don't!" Then I'd tell them why I did. I've run into quite a few tall women through my volleyball playing. The tallest one I ever asked (not a volleyball player, but... well, okay, I confess, she was a complete stranger, but we were in line for something), was 6'5"! I complimented her after she answered. So when someone, at least a woman, asks you your height, it IS a compliment. I'd never go up to a fat person and ask how much they weigh, because I don't want to be fat. This is a poor comparison. I'd never ask a short girl how short she is, because heaven forbid, I'd never want to be short.

My message is: Stop being so $#%$ overly sensitive. So what if someone comments on your height. How many of you, yourselves, have NEVER commented on someone's physical appearance, be it skin tone, hair color, shape of eyebrows, fingernails, shoulders, whatever ??? Nobody on this board is perfect. I wonder how many of the women here, who despise their height, would be changed instantly if they got in a car wreck and had to use a wheel-chair.

P.S.: Joerg, I had to put in 5'10" in the "Your Height" box to allow the site to accept my posting.

Joerg says: There is no 5'8" or 5'9" in the "height box" because the target audience is women who are 5'10" and over. I have decided to use your quotes though because you make a few good points.

Carol wrote (August 23rd 2007)

Hi guys, it's Carol again. I love to read this web-site so much, I was wondering if some of you could give some phases that you have used as a comeback when someone asks you how tall you are or the great saying gee you are tall, as if I dont know that already. If I could have some good comebacks that would not sound mean, I am so sensitive that even a mention of my height can somewhat ruin my day. I know it sounds lame, but I need some good comebacks that can help me feel better about these comments and then help me feel more like the tall beautiful girl I am. I am 5'10" and I do feel good about being how I am. Thanks so much! Hugs, Carol

Joerg says: There is sort of a "comebacks page" admittedly it is somewhat hidden away though.

Jewel wrote (August 22nd 2007)

Dear Joerg, I am considered tall at 6'0", and even then, I have never looked at it like I am weird or something. Sure, some people will look at me but usually they are not so tall people in the first place. I kind of lament girls who are like 5'10" - 6'0" feeling terrible about themselves! If only they knew how gorgeous they are.

I tell you Joerg, on a given day at work, I will get my hair done, do my make up, dress in my lil outfits and put my heels on. And when I walk through town, I have this attitude that says "better get out of my way". It's attractive, when a woman is tall, looks beautiful and confident.

The only reason I won't wear heels sometimes is on a day like this: I am just feeling "blurrghh" and I don't really wanna talk to everybody a lot. Maybe just a bit, I wanna keep in my own corner.

Bottom line: at 5'0" - 6'0" a woman sticks out. I have seen women this height dressed up - and it's made me want this bad. I really want these gurls to take a breather. Cause when you look attractive, you feel attractive, and you become attractive - to others.

Girls do what you can to feel good. paint your nails. you are beautiful. ok?

Joerg says: Hear, hear... I'm not going to argue with that!

Kyra wrote (August 22nd 2007)

I'm sorry, maybe it's just me but I find it rather offensive when people think all I can do as a tall woman is model and play basketball! (The fact I love playing basketball has got nothing to do with it!). You wouldn't go up to a short person and say "WOW, you must love pot-holeing!" or something.... I know it sounds bitter and I'm not. I love every inch of my height! I'm the only 6ft1 18yr old I know!! It just annoys me when I tell people I'm about to do a degree and they say "Well, it's alright for u. U can pay ur student fees by modeling". EXCUSE ME! But maybe I'll just get a job like everyone else on my course. All I'm saying is: There's more to me than my height like there's more to everyone on here! I wish people would recognise my other gifts not just the vertical one! xx

Joerg says: Being tall helps being successful though so why not embrace it?

Lea wrote (August 21st 2007)

If someone comes up to you and says something about you're height or tells you you're soo tall... take it like a compliment cause nobody would go to a small person and comment about her height... that would just be mean!... The most important thing is the confidence. If you just stand up straight you'll own the place!

Carol wrote (August 20th 2007)

I am so glad I found this website. I have stuggled with the comments on how tall I am at 5'10". It's been tough. I don't feel tall but when it is pointed out to me now that I am 53 I feel so uncool again... like I felt at age 15. Kids were cruel then. Thanks, guys for being there, so glad to talk to other gals who are going through the same thing, being supportive makes all the difference to me. Thanks! Carol

Alley wrote (August 15th 2007)

I am 25, 6'0", about 200 lbs and I LOVE it. I have always wanted to date a man taller than me, but when I did it never worked out. Here I am dating a guy that is 5'8 1/2" and he is wonderful. So I don't see anything wrong with dating someone shorter than you. It's their personality and the way they make u feel that should matter the most.

Emma wrote (August 14th 2007)

I think some people here are a little over-sensitive about their height. I'm 5'10" but don't see myself as that tall. Sure I was one of the taller girls at school but I'll see hundreds of girls around my height on any saturday afternoon trip to the mall. All stores seem to have clothes that fit OK, and I can count on the fingers of one hand the times that people have mentioned my height. I can understand the problems when you're 6ft plus, but not really below this. Anyway just my 2c....

Daniela wrote (August 14th 2007)

Hey, I was trying to find soem long pants online and came across this website - it's interesting to read all the other girls comments. I know exactly how they feel - now at 30 - I love being tall. Thank God!

Stephanie wrote (August 12th 2007)

Hi, I'm 6'2 and only 16. I'm always one of the tallest people in class. I always hear about how tall I am from the girls but the guys usually don't say anything to me about my height, maybe they like it, I don't know. The last couple years I wasn't satisfied with my height, I always wanted to be a few inches shorter so I wouldn't stand out in the crowd. But now I couldn't care less. Being tall is beautiful and a gift. So be proud to be tall!

Katie wrote (August 10th 2007)

It's me again. I guess you're right, Joerg. I am among the shortest women in here. I shouldn't be complaining. I do like being tall sometimes. It makes me feel sexy and unique.

To Danielle:

Hey, did you go to that "Pete Newell's Basketball Camp For Tall Women" this summer in Oregon City? Sorry, but there was a girl there who was 6'4", 14, and her name was Danielle. Just curious. Was that you?

Wow. Now I know I really shouldn't be complaining now that I know of a girl who is younger than me and 6'4"! Wow! I think extreme height is awsome! I have recently learned to accept, embrace, and love my height. Anyone who makes fun of tall, sexy, confident women is just plain JEALOUS!!

TALL WOMEN ARE BEAUTIFUL!!!

Joerg says: There you go... that's kind of attitude I was referring to. You're tall enough to rule but not tall enough to hit your head on the door-frame. I think you can consider yourself very lucky because you're getting the best of both worlds. By the way: Danielle is from the UK so it probably wasn't her at the Basketball Camp for Tall Women.

Katie wrote (August 9th 2007)

My whole life, I have been tall. Sometimes I feel insecure, sometimes I feel confident and sexy. I usually feel confident though because I always seem to get attention and get comments on how gorgeous I am, and how I have a cute butt, before comments on height. I am 15 years old, 5'10", blonde, green eyes, tannish skin-tone, and extremely athletic (but I have a slender build - not muscular). It seems like I can't get through one single day without at least one person commenting on how tall I am! That gets annoying after a while!

I also have a reputation at my school for being very smart and following the rules (which I do). I have a 4.0 . I have a tall family, but not extremely tall (and I have a lot of people in my family). But what sucks, is that I am the tallest of the girls in my family. I am very close to my girl cousins, but I sometimes get jealous of how petite they are! They are like 5'6" or 5'4". My mom and dad are tall. Mom: 5'11, Dad: 6'3". My mom has 3 brothers and my dad has one sister. My mom is the only girl in her family, and she was the tallest child (except for my uncle Tony, who is like 6'2" or 6'3")!!! It's not fair! Why did she have to be the tall one?! I have 10 cousins altogether, and my brother Jacob (18yrs. old and 6'4") and I are by FAR the tallest out of all of them!

Joerg says: It's the same old story... You may only be 15 but you're very much among the shortest girls on here. I will never understand why a woman who's 5'10" complains about her height while a lady who is, say, 6'4" or 6'5", loves it. Maybe you want to be average? On here you're well below average. Think about it!

While I'm at it: I plan on visiting Sandy Allen when I'm in the US in October / November. In case anyone wants to send her a card get in touch with me. I will make sure she gets it.

Jheri wrote (August 7th 2007)

To Danielle:

How true. I took a look through their online catalogs and would peg the youngest stuff at closer to 20, but there isn't much there.

The problem is volume. There is no way a clothing manufacturer can get the required volume to justify a size. I went through the same thing and, shudder, had an aunt who was an excellent seamstress with really old fashioned tastes. She would make wonderfully crafted things for me that were - well - twenty years out of date.

The trick is to customize things. If you can sew all the better. Look around in the magazines and racks at what you really like and see if you can find trends that might go back. Maybe the way some old jeans fit 10, the color of a shirt, things like that. Get out the scissors, throw things together - just be creative.

I model for a living and some of the designers will tell you that a great place to trendspot in among new models showing up in NYC, Paris etc. They are usually from really small towns and didn't have enough money to have custom clothing made. Most of them are a bit too tall for rack clothing (although nothing like my 6'3 or your 6'4 plus) and they started their own designs.

Someone has to start trends and it isn't the designers (they are followers - trust me :-) Find some friends who are really interested in this and put together things together.

I'm not terribly stylish, but remember finding some really tight old jeans that were way too short in a thrift store when I was about 15. I turned them into shorts, put some cute pockets on them, built my own belt out of old leather and chain from a hardware store and had all of the girls my age (and older) asking where I bought them. I also had more than a few disasters, but it was a lot of fun.

Remember - thrift stores can be your friend :-)

Here are a few more hints (These might be out of date - they probably are, but they give a place to start):

• You can make a denim miniskirt by finding some very high waisted jeans from the 80s (goodwill or other places will have these for almost nothing. I used to buy them for 50 cents each). Buy them a couple of sizes too big. Don't worry about the legs being the right length. Get some chalk and mark a very straight line across them just *above* the crotch. Cut on the line -- a mini! you can now customize it to your heart's content.
• You can make distressed jean by ripping open seams with a seam ripper. Open up the inside leg & crotch seam. Now seam-rip the seam starting at the bottom of the fly, going down to the front hem. Depending on the thickness of the denim, either lay the curved seam over the other side and sew or fold the curved seam under to form a straight seam and sew. If needed, trim shorter for an even final hem.
• Cut off the waistband on your jeans. Seam-rip the belt loops first.
• Go to a hardware store and find stuff to make belts, belt loops etc with. Tall gals look great with lots of metal.
• You can "age" denim dramatically with a cheese grater. It pretty much destroys it for cheese or carrots, but it works pretty well.

I just built my iPod shuffle into a belt buckle. It looks like it belongs there.

I'm really thin and never had boobs (still) there are things you can do that will get attention to things other than your height. I found some old model rocket nose cones that were about 2" wide and as long. duct tape and my AA bra gave a different effect under a somewhat loose top (you wouldn't do this with anything tight:-)

If you need crazy ideas just write to This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. - he will forward your email to me.

P.S.: Danielle - I've walked things for major designers you've probably heard of that had lots of stuff from hardware stories and hobby shops in them. Use your imagination!! Tall is a wonderful canvas to paint on.

Haddy wrote (August 7th 2007)

I just had to add this quote:

"There comes a time when you have to stand up and shout: This is me damn it! I look the way I look, think the way I think, feel the way I feel, love the way I love! I am a whole complex package. Take me... or leave me. Accept me - or walk away! Do not try to make me feel like less of a person, just because I don't fit your idea of who I should be and don't try to change me to fit your mold. If I need to change.

When you are strong enough to love yourself 100%, good and bad - you will be amazed at the opportunities that life presents you."

"Stacey Charter"

Danielle wrote (August 6th 2007)

Hi there. I am 6ft 4 and 14 years old, and I am still growing. I find it very difficult to find modern clothes that 14 year old people wear. I have gone to shops like Dorothy Perkins, Top Shop and NEXT and although they have a Miss Tall section, it's definetely for ages 30 plus.

Joerg says: I always thought TopShop catered for the young(er) generation. Hm.

Beatrice wrote (August 4th 2007)

Hello, my name is Beatrice Bofia and I am 6'7". I mean it's a great feeling to be tall and beautiful as well. When I was a little girl it was so uncomfortable because I was the tallest kid in my school. So imagine how students would look at me during break!!!!! I didn't hate that but it was so uncomfortable to be the only tall girl around, I got teased all the time. However having a twin sister who is (just) one inch shorter than me felt so great. Always walking together me and my twin sister Suzy are used to answer a lot of question in the street. I mean the only time I regret being tall is when I go shopping for jeans and shoes. U can imagine how difficult it is to find a size 13-14. Playing basketball make it easier to take advantage of this gift (height) God gave me.

Elizabeth wrote (July 29 2007)

Growing up I always felt self-conscious about my height. I thought I was monsterous even though I have been always been very trim and fit. I wanted to be like the small 'dainty' girls. I would try to look shorter by wearing flats, stand with one leg out- basically stooping. I even became unhealthily skinny so I wouldn't weigh more than my friends. But for the past 5 years (I am 30 now) or so, I have begun to embrace my height after realizing that I can't make myself shorter and most of that it is beautiful. Now I stand tall and even wear heels often, which I would never have dreamt of doing before. I hated my big feet but now I wear all the latest fashions and don't care - some shoe makers are now making great shoes in bigger sizes (look for Sacco Shoes in NYC - very fashionable well-made shoes). It's empowering to know that many people would love to be as tall as I am and also find me attractive partly because of my height. I have been asked many times if I am a model and get envious comments for women who think I look better in clothes and am elegant. Self-confidence is very attractive at any height! Dancing is an amazing way to gain confidence about your body. Since I began to take modern and jazz dance lessons a few years, I have been very happy with with my body: my height, my curves, my strength. When I have a tall daughter, I will encourage her to dance so she gains the self-confidence I never had as a young adult. I also wish I had had such supportive resources growing up like this website. Thank you for helping me reinforce the realization that I am a beautiful tall woman something I will never try to negate or hide again!

Jheri wrote (July 27th 2007)

A note to Kati and others:

The "right" weight is another thing women of all heights struggle with. Usually the body mass index is used. If you have a BMI less than 18.5, you're underweight, if more than 25.0, you're overweight (not that the divisions mean much). But women who are muscular can have pretty large BMIs and not look overweight at all.

I have a problem with being very thin. Flat - almost no curves at all. I'm 190cm and 54kg .. so my BMI is 15.0. The problem is I model and some of the EU countries are talking about banning models with BMIs less than 18.5. I don't diet or take other measures to loose weight - I keep trying to gain weight. So I had to get a doctor to examine me and certify that I'm healthy at my height and weight and it is natural for me. He said it was very unlikely that I could gain and keep more than a couple of kg.

But healthy is the right word. I don't do english units very well, but 5'10" and 175 may be perfect for you. The doctor (who specialized in weight issues) says people seem to have weights they regulate to. They can try to eat a lot and gain weight or starve and loose it, but their body will try to push back to its own range.

So the healthy thing is to get comfortable with your own weight. And to ignore things people might say - I get called flag pole and bean pole a lot.

Oh, and just because models tend to be thin, that doesn't mean guys don't like curves. Models exist to sell clothes to women - not to get guys excited. My experience is most guys prefer curves (but fortunately I found one who doesn't mind thin).

Leslie wrote (July 27th 2007)

My Goodness, Ladies... I can not believe that none of you know of Tall Girl... they have amazing fashions for the all tall girls... teens to my mom... they even carry great branded denim... Silver, Mavi, Parasuco, Dish, Neva, Foxy, Buffalo all in 37" inseams, some even a little longer!! Your seach is over - check them out at www.tallgirlshop.com. They have many stores in Canada and the US. Those of you who can't find footwear,they have great brands from size 10-13!!! Have all of you ladies been living under a rock!!! I can't beleive you can't find clothes, I spend all my paychecks at Tall Girl!!! Anyway I'm so glad to have found this site... STAND TALL ALL YOU BEAUTIFUL WOMEN!!!!

I'm 5'10" and feel very tall as I grow older (41). My height did not bother me much when I younger and I grew to love it as I matured. I always felt strong, healtly, and attractive. I have had many dates and relationships. My current husband loves my height very much, he says he loves the attention tall women command when they walk into a room. He is 5'11" by the way. I could not really stand to date men shorter than me. Not to say I have not been attracted to them, but I found I would not go anywhere in public with them (so you know what that leads to...when you stay in all the time :)) Anyway, my point is that now I'm getting older, I find myself very self-conscious about my height. I think it has to do with my weight which at 175, I am at my most heaviest. I feel like a football player. So I don't know what I'm really putting out there to the young and older woman with exceptional height, except that, stay in shape as much as you can. I hope that is not too vanity conscious, its just what I feel for myself. I loved my height when I was thin and now that I am overweight, I want to hide instead of shine.

Joerg says: 175 lbs at 5'10" still sounds rather skinny to me.

Christine wrote (July 25th 2007)

Shumani,

Great attitude!!!!!!! Keep it up :) Cheers :) may you be an inspiration to young (and not so young) tall women everywhere !!!!

Linda wrote (July 25th 2007)

I would like to comment on what Susan said. You are absolutely right about how rude some people can be. You just have to consider the source though. These people are IDIOTS, and they act that way because they themselves are so insecure about their own height. Next time someone says "wow you are tall", put the ball back in their corner and say "is that bad"? I guarantee they will say something positive.

Wannie wrote (July 25th 2007)

I never liked when people just look at me and say "you are tall" like I dont know that, but now I like the height and I really wish that I hadn't spent all these years wishing I was shorter. Now I wish I'd just enjoyed it because the truth is a lot of women would kill to be our height!

Lucy wrote (July 24th 2007)

Sometimes I hate it and I feel so awkward stood all around my friends who are short. And I get SO sick of people constantly commenting... what am I supposed to say back? It's not like I would go up to a fat man and make him stand next to me so we could measure our waists like they make me stand up next to them. And then comment about it and stare. But then sometimes I just think how average I would be without being tall and tall people are elegant and lovely!

Susan wrote (July 23rd 2007)

I want to reply on Linda's comment about people being curious. It is all in the delivery and what is being said. I dont have a problem in general with people being curious, if in fact, that is what it is i.e. someone asking about stats; How tall are your parents, grandparents? What I do have a problem with is rudeness and will confront, if someone is obivious enough. I was brought up to be curious, but, think about what you say before you say it. When people are ignorant enough not to think about the obivious i.e. this person can no more control how tall they are anymore than I could control how short I am. I guess alot of times, it boils down too appreciating the beauty in all shapes, sizes and colors. I get really irritated when people say just relax... Because it is not always about relaxing sometimes ignorance needs to be educated.

P.S.: I am not referring to people geniunely being curious because sometimes I am curious too. I am referring to people just being out and out rude, ignorant and/or insecure.

Linda wrote (July 23rd 2007)

The other day I was getting my nails done and the technician was a really tiny young woman.(from Italy) Without even realizing it, I was asking her the same questions that I sometimes get asked about being tall. I asked her if her mother was tiny like her, and I asked if her sister was small too. I definitely wasn't in any way being mean spirited. I was just curious! So, don't get upset if someone asks you about your height. They are just curious and want to start a conversation! So everyone should lighten up. It's not a big deal! Someone in this forum said it best. When a person sees you walking a big dog, they will comment on how big the dog is. It's just human nature to comment on what is obvious!

Joerg says: You may be right, Linda. I keep noticing tall women (obviously!) and I try not to stare. Am I always successul? To be honest I hope so but I don't know for sure.

Shumani wrote (July 23rd 2007)

I am 20 years, 6'3" and taller than everybody at my home, even my dad. At first I felt so embarrassed but now I am starting to enjoy my tallness, and people around me are starting to accept me for who I am. And it's real cooooooooooo!!!!!!!!

Lea wrote (July 22nd 2007)

Hey! It really makes me feel good after reading all your quotes..My real problem is that I LOVE HEELS but I just think I would look scary because I'm 5'11...

Joerg says: I don't think you need to worry about wearing heels. Most of the women I know are taller than you and a high percentage of them wear heels.

Katy wrote (July 19th 2007)

Hi!!! My name is Katarina, come from Croatia and I am 17 years old :) I must say I really love this website! I am 5'10'' and I am the tallest one between my female friends. I have always been the tallest girl in the class. At the age at 14- 16 it bothered me so much, cuz all I was hearing was: Oh my gosh, u are so tall! It was so annoying! Guys didn't bother about me being tall, yet they were always saying I have great body :) The ones who "made fun of me" were those REALLY short petite girls. Now when they do it again, I just say: "Shut up or I'll squash you!!!" :) Today I love being tall. It feels so superior. I have so may female friends who wish to be taller. I also became a model. Every single item of clothing they put on me looks fantastic and I get more jobs then other shorter models. Tall woman rock! We are goddesses! Most of my friends are guys and it feels sooo good to be as tall as them. I also asked them if they prefer short or tall girls. 90% of them said they prefer tall ones!!!! Be proud of your gorgeous height! Kisses for all of you

Xaria wrote (July 17th 2007)

Hey, this message is for JHERI: I am intrigued by how you've started marketing yourself for modeling. I was wondering if you could share any tips with me or any advice about getting started. Thanks. I am still self conscious about being tall but am quickly reading the posts and quotes on the websites. You are all truly an inspiration. ;)

Jheri wrote (July 16th 2007)

Someone said "what doesn't kill you, makes you stronger..."

I model for a living and had a terrible time for the first few years. Agencies couldn't or wouldn't place me and most of my income came from waiting tables. Then I started marketing myself and talking with potential clients directly. I would tell them that since I get attention on the street, I can help their product get attention.

I still use some non-exclusive agencies for contacts, but most of my work comes from me - my little one person company. Some of the companies like my approach and I've started branching out doing the creative piece and subcontracting photographers. So by sticking with it and making it work, I found something that works specifically for me.

If my height was that of an average model I would have given up. Hearing "you're too tall" six times a day while people still stare lit a fire under me. If there is a moral here, it may be that being what society considers a misfit can make you a lot stronger if you choose to work at it.

Nicole wrote (July 16th 2007)

I am 34 years old and 6'1". I was reading through the comments and found a few things troubling. Regarding the comments of the woman from Switzerland, she was upset about tall models being featured on this site. This site features all different types of women. Some models, some not, many shapes and sizes, but all tall and wonderful. Why is it that some women feel the need to tear apart others as a manifestation of their own insecurities? We should be embracing each other. Let's face it some of us would be considered "model" types and some of us are not, but we all face the same looks, comments and inconveniences of trying to fit into a 5'6" world. That doesn't make us abnormal it makes us unique and since when is unique something to feel self-conscience or ashamed of? Our individuality should be relished and celebrated. A cookie cutter world would be a pretty boring place to live.

Secondly, to all the young girls that are struggling with their height and all that comes with it... hang in there. It can definitely be tough when you are the one that is different from all of your friends, but down the road, you will come to appreciate your height and the strength your struggles have built. I was the tall gangly girl in the back of all of the school photos. I didn't have as many dates in school as my friends, but all of that changed. I met the man who would be my husband when I was 21. He is shorter than me and it doesn't matter. He is a wonderful husband and father. Height has no bearing on the qualities that matter. If you get hung up on a potential partner's height that makes you just like those that look at us like the freak show oddity. Love has no height requirement!

I parlayed my height into a wonderful business. I opened a clothing store exclusively for tall women called Simply Tall. Who knows where I would be now if I wouldn't have had the blessing and occasional curse of being tall. I have two small daughters that I hope will grow to be tall like me. They will undoubtedly face challenges, but that will help them to become strong, confident women and who can ask for more than that?

Joerg says: Definetely a tall success story. Nicole's website Simply Tall is listed on the Clothes USA page, by the way and comes highly recommended.

Angelika wrote (July 15th 2007)

I'm 5'10 and 18 years old. My dad is 5'8 and my mom is 5'4. I'm actually the tallest person in my family. I've pretty much always been the tallest girl in my class, especially when I was younger. I have learned to accept my body the way it is and the way I think I did that is with time. Just lately I have come to accept it to the point where I didn't pay any attention to it. I know where to look for clothes in the stores I like in the mall and shoes aren't a problem for me, since my feet are size 8. After coming across this site though, it has reminded me that I am on the tall end of normal height. I love to wear high shoes to the club though, and I love the way 4 inch heels make my feet look. I am pretty thin, I weigh 120 lbs and I do try to work out a little to keep my body in good condition. I have only dated guys taller than me in the past. It does seem like only they give me attention though. I have a guy co-worker who is about 5'8 and he has commented to me that the reason I have so many problems in love is because the tall guys I date are jerks and I should find a nice guy no matter what height he is, but with the way I look the nice guys are intimidated by me. I used to get the "wow you're tall" comment alot, and the "do u play basketball". I've grown through that phase in my life, and somehow those comments have stopped, yet I am still the same height. I think once I found who I am inside, I gained alot of confidence. Tall confident girls are beautiful. We do stand out, and it is in a good way. Can't really get that much shorter anyways haha no matter how hard one may try.

Rebecca wrote (July 13th 2007)

I've just read the author of this site's home page; his interest in promoting the idea that tall women should stop rejecting shorter men on the grounds of their height and his constant assertions that tall men prefer short women is dishonest and self serving. Tall boys who are hung up about their own height will sometimes only chase short girls but secure tall men will not prefer short women just because they are short, they will choose women according to how attracted they are to them regardless of height as they have their pick - sorry jorge; blame men for this as it is a product of western male culture and facts such as the taller the man the more successful he is in the work place etc mean tall men have an advantage in their quest for alpha male status. Tall women do not enjoy quite the same advantages in our culture that tall men do but neither do short /average height women and I don't think it is healthy to encourage tall women to believe that they are at a disadvantage sexually just because they are tall.

Joerg says: You seem to know more about me than I do. Where did you get that "alpha male status" crap from? A biology book or a "progressive" school / college in the UK? I was hoping we had climbed down from the trees and were looking at each other on a different, more intimate level. I might have been wrong. Where did I ever "constantly assert" that all tall men generally prefer short girls? And when did I state that being a tall woman means you've got a sexual disadvantage? I can only speak for myself but the women I know are sexy as hell and generally have a fulfilled sex-life (as far as I'm aware). Oh, I forgot... you're one of these women / girls who are 5'11" and desperately need an "alpha male" to show them the ropes. You sound like you're about 18 and should therefore not try to lecture someone who's old enough to be your daddy!

Sorry, ladies but even I get pissed off sometimes.

Claire wrote (July 13th 2007)

I'm 6 feet tall, and care far too much about what people think of it! All my friends I talk to who are shorter than me complain they want to be taller, sure I get a few nasty comments but everyone has something about them that will be commented on. I was at a a party once and my male friend started making fun of me going on about me being a giant. At first it upset me but then I overheard him calling my 5 foot 5 friend a midget! You can never be right no matter what your height is... to top it off I ended up with him at the end of the night. What was that about height being a turn-off :P

Vicky wrote (July 12th 2007)

I'm 6'1, and 19 years old. It was only when I was around 16 that I gained confidence in my height. I like to stand tall, but I'm still learning to fully 'love' it.

Rebecca wrote (July 12th 2007)

Hi, I'm 37 and have never seen my height as anything other than part of who I am. I was called the usual names by boys in my teens which I think was actually quite good for me as I had to develop quite a thick skin. A few of my shorter friends have told me that as far as men are concerned I am lucky that I don't attract the 'protecters' as they are often treat women with less respect. Studies have shown that the best chance of a lasting relationship is where the man and woman are of similar heights so I have taken from that that I am actually very lucky, my partner is my height and we have been together for 15 years. I have finally realised that since my teens the sex that has made me feel somehow inadequate because of my height has been female; my partner tells me that only insecure men will object to it and that really has been my experience. I have met women who blame their height on their failure to attract men, but these women have always been at least 3 inches shorter than me (I am 5ft11)and as they tell me how hard it is for them I just think yeah yeah you are so tall thats obviously what it is. I'm not sure why they tell me. As to why it is that women of around 5'10", 5'11" are the more likely to be hung up about their height, I think this is because we are at the extreme end of 'normal' and maybe it is easier to feel out and proudabout some aspect of our physical selves when there is just no getting away from it?

Leonor wrote (July 10th 2007)

High heels you said? Easy: I wear them with skirts and sexy dresses, and walk like I own the place. Guys? They drool.

Joerg says: As long as they don't put any undue pressure on your feet / ankles heels are fine (yes, they look very sexy and it's great to see women in high heels). Just don't wear them if you have problems with your feet. It's not worth it.

Susana wrote (July 9th 2007)

I'm 5'11" and love heels! In fact, I don't really feel comfortable in outfits without them, unless we're talking flip-flops. My favorite casual work outfit is black jeans, wedge heels, and a classic blouse.

When I was younger, I was very self-conscious about my height. But after high school, that changed.

There are always going to be people -- including total strangers -- who have strong opinions about other people's heights. But that is their business. Like others have said, do what's comfortable.

Bravo to the tall girls out there, stand tall! :)

Louise wrote (July 7th 2007)

Girls, do not let one day go by not liking yourself. Time is too precious! The older you get, the faster time passes, and it's scary. We cannot afford to let one day, or even one hour, go by during which we are not content with ourselves. Don't focus on your physical attributes... instead, focus on the calm within you and the beauty of nature. Those are two things that no one can take away from us! We all need some constants in our lives. As for being uncomfortable with heels, or shorter guys, or whatever... just go with your gut. If something's uncomfortable for you, avoid it. Do what feels right; just don't overanalyze it, and you'll be fine. Hope everyone has a beautiful summer!

Candice wrote (July 5th 2007)

I am 5'11 and I wear 3" wedge heels all the time. Who cares. People comment on my height everyday of my life regardless of whether I wear heels or not. Screw people. If you want to wear them, wear them and smile. You will be braver than most people and there is great freedom in simply not caring :)

Susan wrote (July 5th 2007)

YEAH, BEVERLY AND SARA!!!!!!

Beverly wrote (July 5th 2007)

When I was in High School, I was teased about being tall and thin being in a small town where everyone were not aware of the world events, I felt somewhat left out but did not know those people were jealous of me even family members, I was cute and they tried to put into my head that I was unattractive. From that I have done some modeling because this was my dream when I was younger. These people were threatening my dreams. To this day I look back at these people and say how could somebody be so mean and evil, when a person want to excel in a dream. The bottom line was - they had no goals to elevate themselves to so they did not like me because of this. So now I am happy with myself and people do find me very attractive even at the age of 56. I'm 5'10", by the way...

Pam wrote (July 5th 2007)

I'm 5'11". Yesterday I bought a pair of beautiful wedges heels were about two and a half inches. Why do I feel I really really want to wear them on the one hand and on the other think will I look like a freak???

Sara wrote (July 3rd 2007)

I love being tall (I'm 6'4")! :)

Joerg says: That's one of the most powerful statements I've ever heard. Can't argue with that! :-)

Alison wrote (July 3rd 2007)

Hi, just wanted to let you know that after many, many phone calls, I have finally managed to get my refund from tallandall.com. I will never use them again: the products were poor quality, and the customer service was atrocious. However, for those people who haven't managed to get their refunds, all I'd say is keep calling (e-mail gets no response). I have literally called more than 10 times, but finally victory! I have NO idea how those people stay in business.

Anyway, thanks for your advice.

Alison

Andrea wrote (July 3rd 2007)

I'm 5'11" and I've never felt comfortable with my height because all my friends are barely over 5 feet and and all the guys I've dated are shorter then me. I wanna wear heels but don't want to tower everyone but I've found out that people are jealous of my height and that I like even though I don't always like that... others do!

Ana Lilian wrote (July 2nd 2007)

Hi, I am a Latina amazon and I love it! I really stand out in Puerto Rico, because generally latin women are not tall (think Salma Hayek, Eva Longoria) When I was younger I would usually get teased, but as soon as I matured and filled up in the right places, things began to change. I have a teen daughter who is also a budding Latina amazon, and I make sure she is proud of being tall and beautiful!!! I'm 5'11", by the way.

Gabbie wrote (June 30th 2007)

I am 15 years old and 6'0" tall and damn proud of it.When people comment on how tall I am I take it as a compliment because I am damn cute. Being tall is not a curse, it's a blessing. I like being the center of attention so my height is a good thing. I stand out...

Louise wrote (June 30th 2007)

Thanks, Liz and Christine and all the women on this site who posted similar comments about having shorter partners. My boyfriend is about 3" shortner than me. I'll admit, it does take some getting used to, especially when every man in your past has been taller than you. But it's true, shorter guys seem to have learned to be comfortable with themselves out of necessity, since they don't have the physical 'bigness' to hide behind. It makes sense, then, that shorter men are comfortable with a woman regardless of her physical size: they don't need to prove anything, and they can appreciate our outstanding beauty. Tall men that choose shorter partners are most likely insecure with themselves, so they need the height difference to prove their strength as a person. Sad, but that's human nature when someone's never had a reason to rise above it. We should be thankful when we get genuinely good, confident men who aren't trying to be something they're not. Appreciate your shorte r partner the way he appreciates you. Hope everyone feels as inspired as I do after reading these great comments!

Christine wrote (June 29th 2007)

Right on Liz! That's a very mature attitude to have, (not just with young women like yourself but for EVERY age-group of tall gals). Congrats on finding someone so special :), and he is obviously very cool with tall gals; shows great taste lol :> Funny how that works, sometimes it really seems like tall men aren't that comfortable with very tall women, but short men are...  Go figure. I'm fine with a man a few inches shorter than myself (I'm 6'2") but no more than that. Again I commend that attitude of yours :)

Liz wrote (June 27th 2007)

My boyfriend of nearly 9 months is 5'3". I love him more than anything in the world. We are so happy. For our prom picture, he stood on a box. It was so cute. Point is: "Accept the heights." There's nothing you can do to change it and if you pass up on someone because of their heights, you can and will miss amazing guys and a chance for an amazing relationship. I'm 5'11", by the way.

Sarah wrote (June 21st 2007)

Again 5'9" not 5'10", maybe 5'9 1/2", lol. Well, I think that to get to love your height you need to think of it more positively. I mean why not be like the friend in the group who has the extra inches around the bust - accept you have the extra inches upwards! Think of wearing heels like wearing a padded bra, you are improving yourself by doing so! And my mum always reminds me that she's never known a tall person who hasn't done well in life. We have the advantage of making an instant impression. Also, every tall woman deserves a man who is taller than her even when she wears her highest heels (and I don't mean physically taller) :). Then, surely, tall women will get the men who aren't hung up on insecurities!! I realise 5'9"-ish isn't much on a woman of 6'3" but still I thought I'd post :)

Jheri wrote (June 19th 2007)

I saw Elektra's note...

Such a pretty name! I was about your height at 15 in a very small town in Alberta. I was the tallest kid in my grade - male or female. I think teens are insecure about anything. Some are too fat, some too short, some have bad skin, some are too tall...

The trick, and it was really hard for me, is to just be comfortable with who you are. Easier said than done, you say - and I agree.

One thing that really helped was figuring out that many people, particularly people who are seeing you for the first time, are a bit insecure themselves and don't know what to say. So what blurts out is the same stuff we are all used to. What I do is say something very positive and nice about them. You would be surprised how well this works.

I still compliment whoever comments on my height. I'm 24 now and feel very good about myself.

So try the positive "make people happy" approach and see how it works. Oddly enough I ran into some little people a few years ago. We started talking and they have the same problem - but worse because it is even more difficult for them to fit in. One woman used the positive approach too and said it really worked well with her.

People are just people - when they see something different, they can act stupid without really meaning it.

The other thing is boys. I basically didn't date until last year and that was a mistake. Don't worry about a guy having to be perfect, but think about a date as a learning experience. Some of us think height is very important in a guy, others don't really care (I'm in the later camp - my steady guy is 17 cm shorter than me, but he is an astronomer and makes me laugh and feel very good about myself... btw... I asked him out the first time). For casual dates I would make a point to not worry about that and just have fun.

Good luck to you!

Jheri

Sarah wrote (June 19th 2007)

Great site... such an improvement over the years!! I am 6'7 and love my height, but the ONLY downside used to be looking so hard for pants and nice shoes! Now the world is finally catching up :) and it is also a great way to connect other tall women. I have never had any issues with being tall because I come from quite a vertically blessed family and grew up around learning how to appreciate our height, but it is important for young girls to feel the same way even if they are not around it! My mother's famous quote (and she is only 5'7): "If you've got it, flaunt it". Well done and thanks again for all the info you provide!! Take care, Sarah

Elektra wrote (June 18th 2007)

I am 15 years old and I am 6'2". It is really hard being in high school and knowing that everybody is judging me and whispering, saying "Oh, she's so tall" and after looking at this site it is starting to make me feel better about myself. I used to never want to stand up and I would avoid going into public places because I was so insecure. I still haven't gotten over it and I get crushed and feel like crying everytime someone makes a comment about me height. I don't know why I am having such a hard time getting over the fact that I am really tall. It's just a number, your height and it shouldnt matter. I hope that I can grow out of my insecurities and reading the comments by other women who are so comfortable about their height really helps! Thank you

Hannah wrote (June 18th 2007)

I have a question: "What is the average heritage of tall people?" The question probably can't be answered, but it's worth asking. I'm twelve and 5"11". I got the height from my Dad and Grandma. My Mom is quite short compared to me. My dad isn't that tall, but he is considered tall, he is 6'6", I don't know how tall my Grandma is.

Joerg says: The average height of women who visit this website and write to me is about 6'3".

Sherry wrote (June 16th 2007)

I am 6'4 and although I have my insecurities with my height, I have a husband who compliments me! He is 5'10 and absolutely adores me. He loves it when I wear heels (the odd pair that I can find that fit!) because he likes to see the attention I receive from the public. Then he says, "THAT is my wife".

Because, he is proud of me, I feel more confident in myself, I forget how large my feet are and how long my legs are. It does not matter the height difference in couples, it is how you compliment each other. Feeling comfortable with the one you love is the best feeling in the world!

And for everyone who hears that coment "WOW, you're Tall!" turn to them with a shocked look on your face and then say "WHAT?! I'm tall... I can't believe it... I just thought you were short!" The reaction you will receive is priceless! Of course I need a few drinks in me to pull it off. But it's priceless just the same.

Vicky wrote (June 15th 2007)

I have read some of the postings and wish I could feel the way most of you do about men that are shorter than you are. At 11 going into the 6th grade I was 5'2, came out at 5'6 and by the time I was 12 and going into the 7th grade I was almost 5'8. That made me taller than my dad in his cowboy boots. I eventually hit 5'12 and though because I am almost 48 and have had 4 back surgeries I have lost about an inch in height. I am still uncomfortable dating men that aren't at least my height. I realize that there are many many men out there that are great guys if not Mr. Perfect, I am still uncomfortable dating men shorter than myself.

Sarah wrote (June 9th 2007)

Hello Joerg, my name is Sarah.

I just finished exploring your site and would like to thank you for making a website available for us TALL women!!! I think it is so important for others to know that they are not alone in the daily difficulties and comments that we go through. I am 6'2, my inseam is 44 inches and I weigh 170 lbs.

Comments (and compliments ;) are given to me daily for being so tall. I would like to submit my pictures for your approval for the site to show other young ladies that you CAN be tall, elegant, and proud.

I love your message of "Stand tall and be proud" . It makes me very sad when I see a beautiful tall girl or woman slouching.

We must remember that being tall is a gift, not a curse. With the help of people like you we can show countless other women that they are part of an elite, and elegant group, not something to be ashamed of. Thank you sooooooooooo much Joerg!!!!!

With much and support! 
Sarah

Joerg says: Thanks a lot, Sarah. I really appreciate your comments and insights. I have taken a radically new approach and decided to put one of your pictures onto the Tall Quotes page. I hope that's alright with you - let me know.

Louise wrote (June 9th 2007)

It occurred to me that instead of looking at ourselves as abnormal, maybe us tall gals should feel like we're the norm, and everyone else is abnormal! Isn't that a cool concept? Imagaine our society as being one in which tall women are the ultimate, most desirable female form, and the shorter women just didn't make the grade! We can't help it that they don't 'measure up' or understand how sweet our world is 'up here', looking down at them. They're in the majority, though, so they manufacture most of the clothes and shoes to fit their shorter selves. We just need to convince manufacturers that it's in their best interest to cater to us tall goddesses, so let's get busy sisters!

P.S.: I just re-read Shelle's comment from January. Love what you said and love your communication style -- funny but right to the point. Made me laugh and feel inspired and confident. How refreshing! I think you should be our poster goddess! (and put your dog in the poster, too!)

Tracy wrote (June 6th 2007)

Hi, I just wanted to say what a great website this is! I can relate to every that was written here. I'm 28 and always have felt awkward about my height. (I'm 5'11'') Sometimes, I think that's all people see. I was 5'10'' when I was 22, but I grew an inch the next year! Weird!

I find that I get more attention from shorter guys than tall guys. That's totally fine with me. I don't care what height a guy is as long as he is a good man. Shorter guys seem more confident when aproaching me (which I love! :). I'm starting to learn to embrace my height more. I'm starting to see that people make comments because they are either jealous or stupid or both! I've started complimenting myself on my awesome legs! It's sounds corny, but it's ten times better than putting myself down! Thanks Joerg for the wonderful website!!! Tracy

Shoshana wrote (June 4th 2007)

This message is for Marie and Katie, especially Katie though. I know you are young but you have to realize - although it is not always easy - your height sets you apart from the rest and you are unique and special. Do not let people decide how you feel about you only you can decide how you are going to feel about yourself. Also bullies can sense when someone is insecure and when someone has confidence. So if you walk with your head high like you dont give a **** (excuse my French, people) will say wow look at that confidence striking tall goddess, but if you walk with your shoulder slouched it not only makes you look even taller and ridiculous it also draws negative people to prey on you because they can see you don't feel good about urself. So stand tall and feel proud of your uniqueness because do you know what 5ft4 is? Average - and trust me being average is ok but being extraordiary is even better. Oh and Katie: I was 5ft9 once in the 5th grade lol so trust me you are not as tall as you think you are and I know when you get older you will appreciate it much more.

Marie: I know it's hard to have people stare at you wherever you go, I have been there my entire life. I was 6ft when I was 12 but what helped me was turning the unwanted stares into a positive thing. You see I look at all these people who stare at me and ask me how tall I am, as my fans in awe of my fabulousness and I know as you get older you will get there to. As far as guys are concerned: they come around as you get older. Remember you want a man that will love you for you and your height is a good way to weed out the losers. I said it once and I will say it again: "A shorter man who has the confidence to approach you is always a keeper because it shows he feels good about himself and he is not gonna try to make you feel bad about you." Stay strong, tall sisters and remember it's not about fitting into other people's ideas about what normal is, it's about excepting your own norm

Susan wrote (June 3rd 2007)

Hi everyone-

I want to address Christine's comments and Krystle's comments in general. First, I can relate to alot of what Christine refers to regarding taunting from other kids about my height. Adolescents being such a fun stage anyway, no matter how confident one is esp. a girl (I grew up in the Chicago, IL) and there were not alot of girls my height until I joined a tall club which was not until I was 21. I don't care how confident one is, even WBA, Lisa Leslie, spoke about what she went through as a preteen through teen. But, I don't pity myself and would not change my height. This is the way the Lord made me. My height is part of who I am. Also, my family supported me while growing up and encouraged sports in general. I dont want to sound like a Pollyanna, but, really we should be supporting each other as much as possible. We all go through different journeys in life i.e. family life differs and life experiences in general are different.

Take care.

Krystle wrote (June 3rd 2007)

Christine, I indeed said this great outlet here attracts tall women who "suffer" with their height. But this is not the same as saying, "100 percent of the women who post here are suffering with their height." Some, like me, post to express love of their height. Please read more carefully my message. This board has also attracted women who relish their height. But so unfortunately, it seems as though the sufferers outnumber the relishers 8 to 1. And the rest are neutral, discussing height preferences for men. It's one thing if you simply wish you were shorter. Gee, I wish my hair was a different color, and I wish my skin was naturally darker. It's okay to wish you looked a little different than what you were born with, and this includes height. It's also okay for women to wish they were taller. HOWEVER... it's a whole new ball game when this wishing becomes an obsession that a woman thinks about constantly, to the point where she is depressed, walks with bent knees, threatens to permanently ruin her posture by always slouching, cries about it, hides from people, etc. This signals a psychological problem, not just a mere preference for a changed physical trait. And it isn't just the teens on this board who are like this. Many of these sufferers are adults.

Joerg, you made an interesting point not too long ago, that the most bitter, depressed women/teens are only "on the fringe" of being tall (5-10 and 5-11). I don't know where these women/teens live, but where I live (Colorado), there are hoards of women this size; they don't stand out at all. I think there are more tall women out there than you "sufferers" all realize, but you are so consumed with self-criticism, that you don't even notice that there are many others out there just like you.

Joerg says: That's why I've come up with the "Famous Tall Ladies", the "Tallest Known Living Women" and, more recently, the "Tall Woman of the Month" features. It does seem to me that the taller a woman is the more at peace she is with herself. Maybe you have to really stand out in order to appreciate it. I don't know. I wish I did. I keep saying "Look at 6'9" Caro from Berlin and see how she's taken her height into her stride even though she's still only 20 herself." Caro's making it work for her and that's why I say: "Good luck to her!"

Louise wrote (June 3rd 2007)

To those of us who do struggle on a daily basis with being taller than the majority of females around us, I have a couple of helpful hints: 1) Take a good look at all the people around you whenever you're out in public. It's amazing how broad the range of height and size differences is in the human body! Tall woman and men who tower over the much shorter, sometimes tiny, specimens! Sometimes I think it would have been so much easier if humans had all been created cookie-cutter fashion, with all men pretty much the same height and all women very close in height. But that's not the way it is, so all we can do is accept our vast differences in size and height. 2) When it comes to struggling with what other people think of you: I, too, receive comments about how tall I am, and I'll admit, it does get tiring. But then I realize that these individuals simply haven't been around tall people very much, so to them we are different. (Especially for Katie:) When you think about y our discomfort with your height, those thoughts start multiplying and eventually take up all the space in your think tank! The only cure is to STOP THINKING ABOUT IT. Easier said than done? Not really. All you have to do is THINK ABOUT SOMETHING ELSE. The minute those bad thoughts crop up, think about something that makes you happy: your pet, a hobby, a favorite place to go. Better yet, DO something that you enjoy: play with your pet, walk to your favorite park, listen to music you love (or at least hum it to yourself!). You can only have one thought at a time, so if it's a positive one, there's no room for the negative one to sneak in! And to Christine who was upset by what Krystle said, all of us are simply voicing our opinions. We are not cookie-cutter replicas of each other, so we DO have a wide range of opinions and communication styles. You can certainly agree or disagree with someone's opinion, and like or dislike her way of expressing it (blunt or sugar-coated), bu t you don't have to let it affect you. Switch your thoughts to something positive and throw that last negative snapshot in the dumpster!

Christine wrote (June 2nd 2007)

Hi all, this will be short; hopefully lol. I probably shouldn't have said very heavy people don't get rude comments made about them, ignorant and thoughtless comments are made all the time. But Krystle, remember some of us are more sensitive than others, and I certainly didn't grow up with a lot of tall girls, (the vast majority were between 5 feet and 5 feet four), so yeah, it was tough. Maybe you were encouraged by your family about your height, which is also a big plus; and you were fortunate. I'm just asking you to please have some sensitivity to others. Great if you didn't have a lot of pain about your height, lucky you! As for the heels things, some of us very tall gals would like to able to walk under a doorway without having to duck, if you don't mind that, good for you. You said that this board attracts "suffering women" well you visited this site, and posted, so what does that say? We are all entitled to our own opinions, but again, please, have some sensitivity. I for one, had a very tough time growing up very tall, and if you didn't, count your blessings. We should all count our blessings more :> This site should be about caring, sharing, encouraging and loving, not berating people for their different viewpoints or feelings. Take care all :)

Joerg says: I do agree that a lot of tall women have issues with themselves for no good reason whatsoever. As a matter of fact I believe most people have issues with themselves but only a few hate themselves because of it. I must say I don't understand why a healthy 15 year old who is, say, 5'10" should lack confidence or hate her height but that's what teenagers are all about, I suppose. I think Krystle makes a few good points but I'm not sure bluntness helps when you're dealing with young people.

Krystle wrote (June 2nd 2007)

I have to take issue with a recent poster to this board (as well as many others) who point out that nobody would ever dream of asking a fat person about their weight, commenting about someone's being overweight or heavy, or making rude remarks to the face of a fat person. Where on earth did you ever get the idea that fat people don't get comments and questions right to their face? They get it all the time! Ask a fat adult, who was fat through their school years, if they were "tortured" and ridiculed. A lot will say it was pure hell. Have you read message boards by fat people? Well into adult hood, they suffer cruelty, discrimmination, mean comments, etc. I also take offense at Charisse here, who clearly implies that EVERY tall lady has been "tortured." I have never, ever been riduculed or given a hard time because of my height. Yes, I get asked how tall I am. (6-1) But I hardly consider this to be torture or ridicule. It's like someone asking me if the long thin braid on the side of my head is my real hair or an extension. It's just a question! Get over it. I also grew up with a lot of tall girls and I never witnessed anyone mistreat them, ever. I have a suspicion that this board attracts the women whose personalities invite ridicule, and they are far more apt to post messages here than the tall women who did NOT endure "torture" and "suffering." I'd like to think that only 2 percent of tall women are in this suffering boat, but this board attracts them like crazy and this creates the illustion that most tall women are miserable, self-conscious lost souls who slouch with shame. "Courage" to wear heels? You've gotta be joking. I wear the things all the time. How dare I let strangers dictate to me what kind of shoes I should wear? With all the women out there letting their huge boobs hang out, with tattooes on their big bellies and faces, and pierced foreheads and wild hair, who the heck's gonna be looking at my shoes? When I went rock climbing for the first time was when I needed courage. The "torture" ultimately is created by the victim herself. You can choose to go through life throwing a pity party for yourself, which will attract all the bullies and rude people. They are always on the hunt for people like you. They stay clear of the tall women who love their height. My oh my, from the way some of the women here talk, you'd think that being six feet was as bad as having AIDS or something. And to Katie, you are headed for disaster and need some professional help. I'm sorry for being blunt, but you sound on the verge of suicide over what...being an inch and a half taller than your sister, whose height you'd like to have? A whopping inch and a half! With all the 250 and 300 pound women out there, how can you feel too big? Do you realize how many famous actresses are TALLER than you? Jordin Sparks would tower over you. You are hardly too tall, compared to the rest of us here, including some other 13 and 14 year olds here who are over six feet! Good Lord, I will pray for you all.

Charisse wrote (June 2nd 2007)

This is for Marie and Melanie:

Being content with your height should not have to come from guy’s approval or from the shoes that you wear. It takes courage to stand up to a boy and show him that you are better than snide remarks. It takes courage to wear heels. But no matter how many boys come up to you or let you know that they would rather date someone shorter…honey!!!! It’s not you….it’s THEM!!!! First of all, you are dealing with boys that haven’t yet discovered who THEY are! They have yet to learn about being themselves, much less know the first clue about how to be men. They don’t have a clue as to who they are and until they have been exposed to the outside world, it’s a whole different ball game. They are still young and immature and believe it or not. And they are out there and are receiving enough rejections from those of their height selection, they will realize that tall women are stronger than they give us credit and that we know how to give it as well as take it.

But the bottom line is that yes it’s hard and if you were to read all of our testimonies, you can clearly understand, every last single one of us have been tortured in our own way. We have faced hardships on levels that even you would not even comprehend. All because we were born to be something that we were predestined to be. And a lot of all the aggravation that shorter persons express stems from emulations and jealousy. How many men wish to God right now that they were their favorite athlete for ex. Lebron James or Kobe Bryant? Not just because of their skills, but because of their height! For men, it’s reversed physcology. The taller you are, the better you are. To each it’s own, but there is nothing like it.

Most often times, people are people and you can’t waste your time wondering if such and such will like me or approve of me b/c of my height. People are going to think what they are going to think regardless. You just have to simply change your point of view. Change the way that you see yourselves. Know that all of us before this wonderful website were created; we had to use ourselves as support. But I love the fact that from teenagers and grown women…we can come together to encourage, enlighten, and fortify anyone that needs it. That���s what we are here for. To reinvigorate each other. There’s no need to look for surgery to reduce your height… and then, if you think about it. What are the risks involved?

We are all here for you!!! We can do our best to answer your questions and offer all the support that the two of you need. We can’t promise that your height will be reduced, but we can certainly try to help you through your difficult times. We know what you are going through and we want to make your road a little bit easier. Besides, take a good look at some of the world’s tallest women. They are all beautiful in their own right.

Stay strong and know that we are here for you.

Christine wrote (June 1st 2007)

Hi Gals :> This is my second time posting a quote here, and I just wanted to comment about how the "ignorant" people always make comments about us very tall women, and they don't make them about very short people, very heavy people, people with bad skin, etc. etc... have you ever thought that MAYBE they think that being tall isn't such a bad thing, and that it's not "insensitive" to comment on it? I'm trying to put a positive spin on it, because it's good to encourage each other, and I want to encourage my fellow tall "sisters". Of course we have feelings, but sometimes I think "certain" people forget that; they think "She's big and tall it won't bother her", but again a lot are ignorant, but not all people are. There are some good people out there :)

Yeah getting clothes and shoes can be a "B***h" but it's wayyy better than it used to be. I remember when I was about 18, and I had to dress like I was 50!!! So, that's part of my venting; at least tall girls today can get fashionable clothing (a lbeit it's expensive) but who said life was fair?!? The shoes they had "back in the day" were really ugly too; no wonder us tall gals had insecurities. So young tall girls, be lucky your tall now, and not a 6 foot tall girl in 1979 like I was, THAT was hard! To end on a positive note though :) I'm now 42, and many people think I'm 10-12 years younger! :):> When I was younger everyone thought I was older, but hey it's very cool when many think I'm much younger than I am :>, it's like some things have balanced out in a way. Wow, I've said a lot lol... but hey, we can encourage each other and Joerg I think it's awesome that you're into very tall women :>. In fact, I've had shorter men stick up for me, when taller men (several inches taller than me) have said something ignorant! I was at the subway and this very tall man said "Look at how tall that girl is", and the much shorter man said "Yeah, but look at how pretty she is"; maybe I should look closer at shorter men, in fact in my past relationships (most of the men were a bi! t shorte r than me) but it worked out better than the 6'6" guy I dated briefly. So, maybe height doesn't really matter all that much afterall. As long as the two of you are into each other, who cares what others think? I better take my own advice eh? Yes, I'm Canadian :>. My last boyfriend was 5'10" though, so I'm a bit more comfortable with shorter men than I used to be.

Take care gals, and remember you are NOT alone! xxx

Katie wrote (June 1st 2007)

Hiya! I am 14 and 5 ft 9" or 10" I think and I am not happy about my height. I know I am not as tall as most of the women on here but I still slouch all the time when I walk and am really self-conscious about my height. All my friends are around 5'5"ish and shorter and I hate how much I am jealous of them for it. I feel no matter what they do they can't look stupid because they're normal and they can go up to boys and have a cuddle and look cute and pretty and NORMAL. Some of my friends take the piss because I bend my knees a bit when I walk, and I know it's a joke but I cant help it. I've tried standing up straight but I hate it, I feel like a freak. My sister's 5'8" and I would happy to be that height. Tall but ok. But I am 5ft 9" and a half ish and I am worried how tall I'm gonna get and whether I will get taller. Both my mum and sister stopped when they were around my age. This brings hope but I am still so worried and paranoid and think about it NON STOP and I am sick and tired of not being myself because I don't want to be noticed because of my height.

I also get the questions to :@ and would like to know how I can help myself and when do girls normally stop growing?

Thank you and I think this site is great and "Go!" all you tall women out there!!! xXkatieXx

Jewel wrote (May 31st 2007)

Joerg, I was touched by Holly's story and she is just a little baby as well. It's just that I could feel her spirit coming out of that letter, her gentleness and youngness. My heart went out to her cause she is just a baby and wants to be like everybody else. She wants to fit in. I wanted you to pass the message on that she is beautiful and that she is going to be successful and marry a beautiful husband and is no less cause she God made her that way. She is has a strong spirit and because of this she will succeed. I'm 6'0", by the way.

Hattie wrote (May 30th 2007)

Hi people, I hope all you fellow tall girls are OK! Stand together, we are even stronger together.

However, clothes, shoes and 'heightism' is a pain in the neck. No matter how proud you are of your height these things never seem to change. Why is it that once you go over a size 7/8 shoe in the UK you have to pay a lot more, or all the shoes are gawky/ugly/too high or boring and 'long' sizes in jeans etc are actually not 'long' at all! I'm only 6ft here, and I have to de-hem or alter a lot of trousers, and because of having a longer body tops are slightly tricky too. So why is this STILL happening? The world is getting taller, women especially, and if in the fashion world height is desirable why don't they make the clothes in those sizes, for the SAME price, why should we have to pay more because we aren't average :s It's not fair, is it?

2nd thing, heightism, as people have already said, I don't comment on peoples colour, sexual orientation or facial features, it's rude and I don't want to be at the recieving end of it either. If i did do that I would probably get told off, beaten up or dealt with, but how come I can get teased and questioned (and pinched, to see if i could feel things) and no one sticks up for me. People seem to think that tall women have no feelings, this is simply not true.

Anyway, despite this, and what everyone else thinks, you are all beautiful, learn to love it, because it wont change - but we are exceptional - be proud.

xxxx

Krystle wrote (May 28th 2007)

I stand 6'1" and am a young adult, and I gotta tell ya, I absolutely LOOOOVE it! In a world where men still try to dominate, control and abuse women, my height is a deterrent. No man can look down on me, and they don't even bother trying to intimidate me. I wear two inch heels (comfy shoes) as much as possible so that even the really tall guys see me as their equal, someone not to be pushed around! Grrrr! No, really, I'm a nice person, but in a society where women left and right get raped or beaten, sometimes ya just gotta be tough, or look it, anyways. If I was just a measely average height, I don't know how I'd come across as someone you better not mess with. One time I lived in a noisy apartment complex and some people across the way were really loud late at night. I had no idea what they looked like. I donned my two-inchers and strutted over there and knocked on the door. Now, if I was some little 5'4" body, they'd just laugh me off. But a guy answered and looked UP at me with a hung-open mouth. I stood as tall as possible and requested they lower their 2 AM pounding music, and he sure obliged! My height kind of gives me free reign to just go up to people and set them straight, because I know they won't pick a fight with me. I mean, like if someone is being rude, I say something. Or if a man is slapping around his girlfriend, I just go up to him and tell him to knock it off. He's 5'10", 5'11" or even six even; what's he going to do, try to knock me down? Or some woman beating on her child, acting tough. I go over to her and order her to stop. She's shorter than me by a whole head. She doesn't give me any flak. So tall ladies, stop acting like you have the plague. It's the shorties out there who have to work extra extra hard to get some respect and influence people. If being tall is such a bad thing, it sure didn't stop Jordin Sparks from winning American Idol -- the girl's gotta be a good six feet or more, wears huge heels, towers over all the men on the show, and she won anyways!

Joerg says: You bring up some very interesting points. I try to tell my lady friends that sometimes it's good to be intimidating (you can learn to switch it on and off). If someone decides to threaten you kick him in the b**** - they're much easier for you to reach.

Linda wrote (May 28th 2007)

Hi everyone,

I regularly shop on the internet through www.tallwomen.org and I have discovered that one particular site is taking money from customers without sending out their goods. I am advising everyone to not shop at www.tallandall.com and if you do so make sure you phone up and not order over the internet. I ordered a top from their site, received a call a week later saying that it was sold out and that I could have an exchange or a refund, I asked for a refund and a month later I still have not received my money. I have called and emailed and no one has replied or called back, this is unacceptable behaviour and they need to be stopped.

To all the tall women out there be safe and aware of sites like this!!! 
*Linda 6ft 1*

Joerg says: Because of the high number of complaints I have removed tallandall.com from the Clothes International page. Any comments are welcome!

Jheri wrote (May 27th 2007)

Just a little note for Marie:

Being a teen can be really tough if you are tall. I was the tallest kid, boy or girl, in my grade and guys wouldn't touch me. What helped me was when my aunt helped modify some stylish clothes (I was really thin too, so getting anything to fit was hard). And I got involved in some school activities. The drama club really helped because you were around the same people all of the time and you could make friends, even some guys.

One thing that helps me still (I'm 23) is when someone makes a dumb crack about my height, I realize they are probably nervous about the situation, so I give them a good positive compliment. LIke "you're so beautiful" or "I love your hair"... anything, but it has to be positive.

Try asking some guys out. Believe me - most girls, it doesn't matter what height, are really insecure. It takes quite a bit and you may get rejected, but try it. And don't worry about certain types of guys. Consider it just getting to know guys in general. You'll be surprised.

good luck! Jheri

Myisha wrote (May 25th 2007)

First off, I want to thank Joerg for this wonderful and well-designed site. I first discovered it while searching for tall clothes. Thankfully, clothing selection is better nowadays, but I'd love to open a tall specialty store that specializes in longer versions of trendy teen/young adult clothes. When I was groing up, I HATED the 'tall' clothes. What 16 year old wants to wear pleated-front slacks and turtlenecks?

Like a lot of women here, I was uncomfortable with my height for a good chunk of my life. No, I hated it. I've always been tall for my age. As a kid, I was expected to act mature, when actually, I was just a kid in a taller body. I'll never forget this one. I'd been wanting a Barbie Car (you know, the ride-on power wheels kind) for months. Finally I got one for Christmas, but I was gutted to find out that my legs were too long to fit in it properly. It had to be returned! My 7th birthday was ruined because I wasn't allowed to play in the "ball pit" at the various kid places, even though I was young enough (they'd imposed height restrictions, probably to keep older kids out).

Growing up, I thought it was neat and funny that I was taller than most kids, and I was actually a little arrogant about it! I don't think I became insecure about my height until one day, when I was 12, my dad jokingly said "you're tall, and look at how big your hands are! People are going to wonder if you're a man!" I don't think he meant any harm, but this made me start to think that more height = less femininity.

Highschool pretty much squashed and arrogance that I had left. I was interested in guys, but most of them seemed to like my short friends. I'd hear countless times, "you're pretty, but you're too tall with it... who's your friend?" I think that's one reason why a lot of taller women may overlook shorter guys, because they seem to dish out the cruelest comments. I was called lots of nasty names, like "bigfoot", "slinky", "the big show..." and I dared not wear anything green, lest I be dubbed the dreaded "jolly green giant." I still don't buy green giant food products to this day LOL.

I felt like Lurch standing next to my short friends, and I longed to be a cute little pixie like they were. I'd even looked into getting surgery to be shorter. I was miserable and depressed, with no self esteem. I was tired of being ignored by guys, tired of being harassed for no reason... but then, I graduated! Seriously, there is life beyond high school. I want to warn the younger girls out there though - being tall might attract older men, but don't make the mistake of trying to date someone who's much older simply because he's more 'mature' than guys your age. A guy in his mid-20's doesn't want anything deep and meaningful with a highschooler. I made that mistake, and I wish I hadn't. You just get your feelings hurt in the end.

I didn't instantly start liking my height after school, it was a gradual thing. But now I love being tall! I think my favorite part is standing out, which is ironic, because it used to be the thing I liked least. I also like when people come at me with those "classic" comments. I didn't know how to reply before, but now I have tons of snappy comebacks - it's fun! I wear the highest heels I can find, just to add to the effect. What's more, I'm engaged to a wonderful, caring man who loves everything about me. Granted, he's 6'5, but we met over the internet, and looking at his pictures, I thought he was around 5'10. I was so in love with his personality that I didn't care about his height. I was pretty surprised when we first met though!

One more thing I want to say. I'm 21, 6'2 1/2, and it took years before I learned to fully appreciate being tall. Everyone experiences height love in their own time. So, when I see a tall woman who slouches or slumps, I don't scold her or bellow "STAND TALL." People, I know you mean well, but it doesn't help. I always found it condescending, especially coming from a shorter person. If you want to do something, give her a smile, or say something nice. Simple kindness goes a long way.

Marie wrote (May 25th 2007)

I am 16 and 6'4". I am tired of people always staring at me in malls and everything. I can never go out without people making rude comments, laughing, gasping or staring at me. I cannot handle it. It is so discouraging and as much as everyone tells me to embrace my hegiht and love the attention, I can't.

Even in school I feel completely out of place, because my height always comes into account... and none of the tall guys want to date the school's "TALL GIRL".

Susan wrote (May 25th 2007)

Hey Christine, I can relate I am 6'2" 1/2 and 39 years old. Alot of what I went through trying to find stylish clothes and shoes, etc. was pretty difficult. It seems like it got considerably better around the late 80's as far as mail order and better resources in general. I was the tallest in my schools period until about sophmore year of high school. That is when the boys began growing. But, really because I did not really embrace my height until out of college. I thought you know, I am pretty special. (not to sound vain) But, I have a great personality, sense of humor, intelligent, down to earth, and attractive. But, basically, you need to love yourself and be at peace.

Take care
Susan

Dawniece wrote (May 21st 2007)

Hey Ladies! Firstly, I want to thank Joerg for this fabulous website. I wish I would have stumbled upon it in middle school.

So my story is similar to most of the ladies' here. But I have to thank my grandfather for preaching the importance of standing up, being proud, and letting 'em look. By the time I was in third grade I realized that I was taller than average, but it was amusing. I enjoyed the fact that I could wear my grandma's shoes, and that my third grade teacher had to look up to me. Even the whole "leave her alone b/c she can kick your butt" thing worked in my favor for a while. (I was the oldest child to a family of sisters, so I was the protector).

My height only started becoming a problem around fifth grade. I was a talented softball player (pitcher and 1st base), but the league I played for wanted me to play with kids 2-3yrs. older because of my size. My mother didn't agree and neither did I, so I stopped playing. Then, it was really nerve racking in middle school b/c I was taller than everyone, so boys weren't interested. Older men would come onto me because I was 5'10 at 14, but it was confusing. (Like some of the other ladies stated, people expect you to be more mature just because you are tall). I didn't play basketball, but everyone asked me, and then when I finally attempted to in 8th grade, I made a fool of myself b/c they automatically put me on the good squad due to my height (but I had no fundamentals).

Anyway, to cut a long story short. Older people told me to be proud of my height. But my peers saw it as a point of ridicule, or antagonism (though I was one of the nicest people). I was called green giant, grasshopper, lanky, amazon, giant, etc. I'm sure the fact that I couldn't find properly fitting clothes, my hairstyle was too old for me, and I wore huge glasses made me an even easier target. But I was fine by high school. People still commented on my height, but it didn't phase me. I worked, so I made it a point to buy my own clothes and read the latest magazines for current trends. I even started dating, I found guys near or at my height (6'0) at the time. But shorter guys were interested too, my mother already told me that I would have no problems, she told me that in her experience, lots of men love taller women (she is 5'10). The only self conscious issue I was dealing with was my weight. I was thin looking at 165lbs and 6'0, but my basketball friends were only a couple inche s shorter than me at a super small 130lbs (it took me forever to realize that 1. black girls are built differently, and 2. I had a natural athletic build). I either wanted the scale to weigh in that size, or I wanted the beautiful curves my momma had.

I just graduated from college, and I am completely confident in myself. After gaining weight my freshman year, exercise finally let it even out, and I am sportin' the curves (I get it from my momma). I stopped growing at statuesque 6'1 1/2, but I love to throw on my fire engine red pumps, because I love me and so do others when they see me strut my stuff proudly. I am over dating men taller than me (that never worked out), and I am happy with my boyfriend of over a year who is only 6'0. When other people ask me my height or make comments, I just flash them a grin, say "yea, and I love it", and keep on going. My grandpa was right, as long I stand tall and be proud, people wont help but stare...in admiration :) God is Good!

Marie wrote (May 19th 2007)

What's up y'all. Like Kaycee I am also 16yr in the 9th grade but I am not the tallest girl. I swear I used to be short. In the 5th grade I used to tease the boys because they were short - I was only 5 feet. And there would other girls who were taller than me and I used to be like "Whoa!" but so now I am 5'10. You see my school friends are different from my home friends. At school I have two friends - Taylor and Jazmyne - we are all the same height and wear the same size shoe. But my home friends are short - no taller 5'5. All I know is that in 2002 my family was going on a trip to Daytona Beach, Florida and I was 5'3. When we came back and school started I was going to the sixth grade I was 5'5. When school ended I was 5'7. 7th grade I stayed at 5'7. My family and I thought I wasn't going to grow anymore. So 8th grade I entered at 5'7 and ended at 5'8. I started summer at 5'8 ended at 5'9. 9th grade 5'9 about to end at 5'10. Now I wonder what will this year bring. Sometimes boys think it's hot that I'm tall cause I guess they're into long-legs. It's funny how - when I was 5'7 - I was going out with a guy named Joe, he was 16 and I was 14. He was taller than me. Then when I reached 5'9 we broke up because I was taller than him and it hurt me so bad. That was when I got really uncomfortable with my height. I have pretty feet and legs and all I want to do is wear sandals with heels. My sister is 26 and is my height. She is so confident. My short friends always gets the guys and the "Ay, baby u so fine" and I get the "Damn, she's tall. She's cute but I like short girls"

Laura wrote (May 19th 2007)

Hi. I am 6'1" and 20 years old. I am in one of my best friend's wedding in two days and the guy I am walking with is 5'9". However, I really wanted to wear heels. So I am. I bought a pair of 2" heels to wear. I am not going to let my height keep me from wearing heels and feeling good about myself. God made me tall for a reason and I am going to embrace that and you should too!!

Jheri wrote (May 19th 2007)

To Ula: I also tried tallandall. About a year ago and I lost my money too.

To several of the others. I'm taller than 6'2"... I'm 190 cm on a good hair day. I used to be hung up on only dating taller guys, but had some very bad experiences. My current guy is quite a bit shorter than I am and the fact that it doesn't bother him is just great. We do get attention in public, but neither of us care. He makes me laugh, is kind and gives amazing kisses. So I'm very happy.

So I can get a better selection of guys by not caring about height as much as I did. If I could only get a better selection of clothes! The list here is good, but I would love to walk into a store and walk out with something really new and cute that fits.

Christine wrote (May 19th 2007)

Good site. Young tall girls are lucky this site exists!! At 6'2" obviously, I can relate to a lot of what you girls go through. I'm 42, and when I was young, there were virtually no really tall women, today I see tall young women and I think it's great! In fact, I was bugged so much about my height, I was sure I had "giantism" (I went to a doctor, my bones had stopped growing) and she said that I was completely normal, and my height was genetic (my mom is 5'10 1/2" my dad 6'4" and my "little" brother; he's 40 lol, and 6'5". True, it will always be harder for taller women, than men, but God did make us tall, and hey let's face it, supermodels are not 5'0", and being tall is trendy these days :>. I've heard everything in the book, including "are you a model?" and that's a compliment :>. Be proud girls, and be happy there's this forum. Stand tall and be proud... God Bless u all...

Louise wrote (May 17th 2007)

To Kira: Consider yourself blessed to have met a man who's not afraid of dating a woman taller than him. It's so interesting how average height or shorter men can appreciate the beauty of tall women, unlike many of their tall male counterparts! My boyfriend is shorter than me and, while it's been somewhat of an adjustment for me, he doesn't care in the least. Never sacrifice a potentially sweet relationship because of something silly like height difference. If you're attracted to him, go on a date. And please let us know how it turns out!

Melanie wrote (May 17th 2007)

Hi everyone. Firstly I just want to say I think this site's great. I'm 6ft tall and aged 18. I HATE it. I was looking on Google to find surgeons that can make me smaller. I hate being taller then guys and love wearing heels which I can't all that often'. I wish I could stand tall and be proud just like you girls xxxxx

Suzanne wrote (May 15th 2007)

This message is for Sophia in the UK especially, but for all other tall girls and women. I have been 6'1" since I was 14, and always had pants that were slightly too short for me until gap came out with their online extra long sizes (which fit me perfectly!!). I always get asked whether I played basketball in high school, and when I say no, they ask if I played volleyball. I am now 25. Believe me, you grow into your height. There is nothing better you can do for your self confidence than walking around with great posture. Nobody likes seeing a tall girl look like she wants to hide her height. Several people told me that when I was 14, and I have done it ever since. I love my height, and I look great. I (like you, Sophia) am pretty thin. It's not lanky. It's beautiful, and it only gets more beautiful with age. Guys will stop teasing you. As you get older, guys become more comfortable with you and your height. I hope nothing more for anyone than to be comfortable wi th their height! Tall women are beautiful, and there is nothing un-feminine about us!

Shoshana wrote (May 15th 2007)

Well, Kira - I feel like you should give this guy a chance. It's not like you are marrying him, and speaking as someone who has a boyfriend who is shorter - I am 6ft2 or 6ft3 depending on the shoe and my boyfriend is 6ft even - you should never let society decide who you are going to date only. You should have that power. I agree it's all about preference and if you prefer a taller man because you are more attrated to them that is one thing but if you are saying no to him based on what other people will say, well, that's something to think about. In closing I never dated a guy shorter then me until now and what attracted me to my boyfriend was that he had more confidence and self assurance then all the tall men I have dated and didn't care what anyone had to say. So I say you give the date a try, you never know how it might end up... Good luck

Kira wrote (May 14th 2007)

I am 6 feet tall in my bare feet and a guy who is only 5'8" asked me out recently. He is extremely confident and told me that he actually prefers taller women. I am proud of my height and wear heels, but have never dated a guy shorter than me and I am unsure about saying yes. Does anyone have any advice?

Aimee wrote (May 14th 2007)

Hey all! I'm 15 and 6'3". Like all of you I get tired of getting asked the same questions... "How tall are you?", "What sports do you play?", "How tall are your parents?". I am one of those tall girls who refuses to date shorter men... I mean kudos to those of you that do but it's a personal thing. I have dated many guys that are taller than me and they don't seem to mind. But I'm wondering if I'm in my weight zone. I mean my whole life I have been told "you're so skinny" - but I know I'm skinny but it's hard to compare weight with your friend who's 5'8" and weighs 116... But I do put my height to good use - I play volleyball and would just like to ask: Where do us tall girls find jeans? I have to order mine but any suggestions?

Joerg says: Start with Alloy (click the banner which is near the top of this page). You haven't checked out the Clothes USA page yet, have you?

Ula wrote (May 14th 2007)

Hi everyone... first of all I would like to say to the girls who say that they are 5'10 and say they are really tall and can't find clothes and stuff like that.. what am I supposed to say?! I am 18 and 6'5 and every day I start to like my height but at times it is hard... also the second thing is did anyone buy from Tallandall.com?? Because I believe they are people that will scam you. I bought something there and after 2 months they did not send me anything, but they did take my money though!!!

Emily wrote (May 13th 2007)

Tall people have a lot of problems. Some have to mentally grow up along with their height. That kind of thing can cause depression. I know it did with me. When you're 5'8 and 11 years old, everyone looks at you like you're supposed to be the "older, more respectable" one. I had a lot of problems like that. I couldn't act like a kid when I looked like a young adult. I don't even really know where I'm going with this... I'm just kinda telling you the outline of my story. Anyway. People still call me "sasquatch" and "ogre" because I'm tall.. and that pisses me off. Expecially since most of the people who do that are short. I thought they were jealous, but I guess it is really weird to be so taller than average teens... boys included. Which is more problems. But yeah. Most tall girls aren't as educated as they look, and can turn to older guys as a substitute for peers their own age, and this can cause problems. I just want girls to know that... because I don't want bad things to happen to them. 'Kay?

Jennifer wrote (May 12th 2007)

Girls out there stay strong you are beautiful, God didn't make everyone the same so realize how special and important you are to him and to others out there going through a whole lot worse.

Natosha wrote (May 7th 2007)

So I was walking to get some dinner and passed some black guys. One of them said, "I like short girls, not tall" and I was enraged at this!! I looked back and gave them a dirty look but I was literally seething inside. I was on the brink of yelling back "I like white guys, not black," but I refrained. Why is it that I keep getting this? Why are people so ridiculous? And it always seems to be they make these rude comments when they're in a group. They won't say it when alone because they're cowards. So how am I supposed to love myself, supposed to be grateful for my height and all that junk when I get these asshole comments? How come I can't walk around saying "You're ugly" or "You're fat" or whatever just like people feel free to say that I am tall. It is so frustrating!! I did nothing but walk by. Minding my OWN BUSINESS. It is terrible that I cannot expect this from others.

Joerg says: It's always good to keep a cool head and not be rude as well. Being rude as well just makes you angry and probably even less self-confident.

Susan wrote (May 6th 2007)

Hi, everyone!

Just to reiterate, on the "short man's envy" if you ask someone that is into psychology the book term for that is "Napoleonic complex" - and I have used it from time to time. Not that often, but, when someone was getting out of hand. Sometimes it really bugs, when people dont think before they speak... As I have said before, the Lord, made us in all sizes, shapes, colors, etc. This world would be a very boring place if we were all the same...

Take care - Susan

Joerg says: I'd call it "Dwarf Syndrome"... As most of you know I'm 5'8" and enjoy it. I don't think I'd treat you ladies differently if I were even shorter. Here's virtually grinning up to you - as always!

Kaycee wrote (May 5th 2007)

I am a 16yr old girl in grade nine (and 5'11"). Let me tell ya, I've been bugged constantly through elementary school, Junior High School, so I hope next year in High School will be better. It hurts alot when other teens call me names like "beast", and - omg - the famous question/comment, "you're so tall" and "why"??. It's like, well, um, how do I put this cause my dad's 6'4, I couldn't give a hoot about what anyone says about my height! I'll be loud and proud about it! Yep, I was on the senior girls basketball team at my school this year, I had a blast! I ride horses, they're big horses too! LOL. Being the tallest girl in the class for so many years is hard, but hell I got 3 more years of school to go and a whole lifetime of love, laughter and height to overcome, so bring it on!! Oh, yes - I'm sixteen and have never dated a guy. I always thought it was because of my height, but you know I think guys are ckicken shit of gurlz with height and confidence!! So here's to all the tall girls in the world, STAND TALL!!

K.T. wrote (May 3rd 2007)

Height is a gift. So in counting your blessing tall ladies, be sure to acknowledge how your height has open doors for you. You are turning heads and setting new standards for the upcoming tall girls. Remember live for today and plan for tomorrow. KT (6ft 3inches) in VA.

Sophia wrote (May 3rd 2007)

I'm 17, 6ft1 and I hate it. It seems to me that people in the USA seem to accept taller girls than they do here in the UK, because I have been stared at and told by total strangers "gosh aren't you tall". It's hard to permanently say "yeah I know" and grin moronically in an apolagetic manner when really I want to say "Holy s*** really? I hadn't noticed thanks for pointing that out you have enriched my life." Or when people ask "How come you're so tall?" - "Oh I don't know" again grinning moronically in apology when I want to say "Why the hell are you so short?" or "Oh I don't know... maybe it's because I accidentally ate a magic bean one day and grew in manner of beanstalk". I guess I shouldn't complain because I am fairly slender, a UK size 10-12 which is a USA size 6-8 (I think) and my legs are rather lovely (apart from the top 4 inches or my thighs) but I do have a serious confidence issue and always feel bigger than people who are the same dress size only 7 inches shorter. Even when people say "I wish I was as tall as you" all I can think is "No you really don't". I hate it that people stare and I hate it even more when guys say "God you're so tall... hey wait, I think you're even taller than me!" Even my male friends who are taller than me comment!! One guy who is 6ft5 is always telling me how lanky I am! I know that people are only joking and when people tell me I'm tall they don't mean it as an insult, but hearing it day in, day out is tiring and wearies the soul. Although being tall means you can be elegant (well at least if you're not as clumsy as I am) I long to be small and considered "cute" or at least 5ft10 so I can still be tall but not what is considered here as "giant" or "lanky" or "freak". Looking at this website has helped me a bit, but I still can't accept myself as I am and don't think I will ever be happy with my height. I'm sure there are other girls who can relate.

Keep up the good work Joerg, nice to know there is somebody on our side! x

Katie wrote (May 2nd 2007)

To Bethany: My name is Katie and I just turned fifteen. I am 6'0". I am pretty proud of my height. At least when I am with girls or playing basketball. I feel like it makes me stand out when I am with my beautiful friends. But I have had the same experiences with guys. We live in a world where the guys are supposed to be taller. And although that will never change, we can just accept ourselves as different. I have dated guys shorter that me, and although it didnt bother them, it bothered me. But if you act confidently nobody will ever say anything about it to you. You will always have the guys that think you're beastie or too big, but if they go that much on your height, you're better off without them. There are many couples today Tom Cruise and Katie Holmes, and Adrianne and her husband Christopher off of "My Fair Brady". And a tip for your guy: they makes shoes that make guys taller. You could accidentally leave an article about it on your desk. Also flats are a great and very in right now. So if you act like it's no big deal, then other people will think that too. B

6'0" Jemma wrote (November 14th 2013)

Always try to wear fantastic shoes! When people see a tall girl they always seems to check out her feet to see if she's got heels on or not.

My best friends are between 5'0" and 5'5" - I still wear heels when I'm with them as I'm going to be taller than them anyway so any inch or three doesn't really matter!!!

I did struggle with the usual being tall insecurities when I was younger (I'm now 32), but now I love it! Us tall ladies don't have to wear tons of makeup or really skimpy clothes to be noticed like other girls do - we can just walk into a room. You can make an entrance without even trying!

You can't change your height so embrace those long legs! Shoulders back, chin up and strut!

5'11 1/2" Jewel wrote (October 22nd 2013)

Joerg, just been doing some reading and really appreciating the fact that humans will generally "reject" or overlook at first anything that's not marginal. I know on this site people struggle with being too tall. Others struggle with being - Too heavy, too dark, too light, too short, too thin. On this basis they feel physically unattractive to the opposite sex. I am proud however, of those who have not let themselves be defined by their height, skin, race, size etc. As you know, I think there is only a "select" 40% of people who do not fall outside the margins of normality as it were. So the rest of the 60% of us who are different are somehow "losers" - I dare say no! Embrace and accept who you are. There are lots of people out there who have one issue or another, just google "I am too short" or "too dark" or whatever. In closing, read this to broaden your horizon, to show you that feeling left out can affect all sorts of people and not just you. Nice day.

http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/dating-advice-for-short-men-life-is-unfair/

6'1 1/2" Catherine wrote (October 17th 2013)

At 34 I should care less about my height right? Wrong. It is a never ending thing day in and day out. Didn't have a boyfriend till I was out of high school (he was 5'7"). I'm guaranteed to NOT be hit on anywhere I go. Why do people feel the need to point out the obvious? Why stare? I don't care if kids do but when grown people do it its just sad. I'm sorry I don't really consider you all that tall if you are 5'10". At least you can still wear cute heals, buy pants at any store, find shoes. Not I! No. I order all my pants online. Lucky me!! Don't come up to me and wish you were tall. You wouldn't last one day in my shoes let alone a lifetime. If there was a surgery to shrink me by 5 inches I would be the first in line! Sorry I'm not the most positive person but it's how I feel.

6'5 1/2" Amanda wrote (October 16th 2013)

Hello! I'm 27, an a proud mother of 2 beautiful boys. My entire life I've had people inform me on how tall I am, or if I played basketball. I found it quite insulting and often have insecure moments, when people only have to comment on my appearance instead of a simple "How are you?". General society likes to keep the same, where as I see us vertically blessed people as someone worth noticing, with the biggest warmest hearts and a beautiful smile for everyone to see :)

5'10" JoAnn wrote (October 6th 2013)

I don't feel tall anymore. I am 65 years old and growing up in Brooklyn, NY in a neighborhood where people tend to be shorter than the average. I felt like a giant. I was always by far the tallest girl and the tallest kid in the class. I did not like being tall as a teenager at all but ever since my twenties I first accepted and then began to like it. I feel powerful when I wear heels. I have no trouble with clothes as my legs are not really that long. However, I am extremely long waisted so one piece bathing suits and jump suits have always been out for me. Also, when I was in my 20s it was nearly impossible to get a size 11 shoe and that is not a problem these days. Every day I always see young women who are taller than me. For years that never happened. I believe that women are getting taller. I am so happy to read these quotes from very young women who are over six feet tall and are proud and comfortable with their height. I believe that young women in general have much stronger self-esteem and confidence than women did in my generation and certainly tall women feel better about their height nowadays.

5'11" Sarah wrote (September 4th 2013)

The famous line I ALWAYS heard growing up was "when you get older you will LOVE your height and flaunt it." Now that I am about to be 23 I still am iffy about my height (.....wearing heels) but I am finally learning to love it! My boyfriend and I go to concerts and seeing over everyone's heads is never a problem, I was in a group interview and I was interviewing next to two people who were shorter than me and I ended up getting the job because they liked my strong and confident presence, we carry weight better than half of the women in this world who are shorter than us! You get the men who are insecure with their masculinity and feel the need to point out that you are taller than the average male in the United States but then I pipe back I'm sorry I make you that insecure that you feel the need to put someone down based on their height just because you're down about being short doesn't mean I have to be about being tall! I am one of four girls and its funny all my other sisters are 5'5"-5'8". We get the usual basketball and volleyball questions and I love to throw people off and say no I am actually a college cheerleader. My BIGGEST inspiration is Kate Middleton she is the poster child of femininity, class, and beauty in our world and she is 5'10"! Only downside to being this tall is finding a dress that is normal length on a shorter person but ends up being wayyyy too short for me. And the next time anyone says "how's the weather up there?" just respond no different than it is for you or anyone else who has said that since third grade.

6'0" Antoinette wrote (August 20th 2013)

I am 18 years old. I hated being the "only tall girl" throughout my school years. I thought I may have been the only one out there that struggled with this problem. It was really hard trying to find a guy that was intimitated about my height. Since I have recently graduated high school I have gained alot of confidence. I found this page through google. I'm actually really happy I did. I can see that I'm not alone out there with my height. Yay to all tall women, don't be ashamed, EMBRACE your height and yourself. Thank you for making pages like this for us tall women.

5'10" Louise wrote (August 17th 2013)

Lisa Leslie, former professional women's basketball player, is 6'5" and beautiful! She was on a recent episode of "Whose Line Is It Anyway?" The only person as tall as her was Ryan Stiles, and even he made some "tall" jokes, but she didn't seem bothered at all. She just smiled and did her bit on the show. It was awesome! We should all carry ourselves that way.

5'11" Chrissy wrote (August 12th 2013)

"When are you going to stop growing?" It's the one that has always driven me nuts. I'm in my 30s and I just had somebody ask me that not too long ago. Seriously, you can't find anything else to say. I said uh yeah, I stopped growing about 15 years ago. I said it really dry and it made them stop for a moment. They changed the subject. A classmate had a really good comeback (really tall guys can get it too) this girl asked him "How's the weather up there?". He looked down at her and said "How's the weather down there?" I have a co-worker who is tall too, about an inch shorter than me. We walk everyday at lunch. She told me "you don't know how nice it is to walk with a fellow tall girl". I don't feel like I am towering over anybody. She is in her 60s which goes to show you that you can have your tall girl issues at any age.

5'10" Taylor wrote (July 29th 2013)

To Alicia: As to feeling comfortable in heels... everyone needs a little practice in heels to feel comfortable I think even shorter people do. But one thing that I think helps is to go out to a store to shop where you dont know anyone, and wear heels, gradually you will get to the point where you feel comfortable anywhere in heels... just a suggestion that might help you get to where you want to be.

5'10" Savanna wrote (July 24th 2013)

I love being tall. I love when people ask me how tall I am. I find it hard at times to find jeans and dresses. But I love how I can wear any size in tees and gyms shorts. Ha. The only thing I can't stand about being tall is that my legs look weird. See I'm bow legged and pretty skinny. People trend to make fun of my legs because their bent. But I can't let that get to me! I was made like this in the image of God!

5'10" Sydney wrote (July 19th 2013)

"Are you a basketball player?" Nope, I have the coordination of a baby giraffe. "Oh, well you should be a model!" Just because I'm taller than your son doesn't mean I should be a model -_- People are only worse because I'm 15" and my boyfriend's mom is 4'10".

6'1" Alicia wrote (July 18th 2013)

I'm 24 years old and I used to feel like I was the only tall girl in the world (sarcastically speaking) but I found this paige by googling "tall women with confidence" and since then my confidence level went up a little, but I still want to feel comfortable in heels. I would feel better if I had tall friends also but looking at all these comments has made me feel special and that I'm not alone and that feels I'm still struggling with the whole man issue, but one day I'll meet a man that is not insecure about my height.

6'3 1/2" Shannon wrote (July 10th 2013)

I really like this page on the site because girls are sticking together and helping eachother out which is something you don't see all that often anymore.

I'm from the UK and being just over 6'3" is hard. It's hard trying to fit in when you don't and growing up is hard anyway without being the 'odd-one-out' but peace with who you are comes with age. Not only that, I'm mixed race and ALL clothes in the UK made for 'tall women' are made for tall, skinny white girls. And they class tall women as 5'7" - 6'0". I'm sorry, but when you're 6ft at 12, then talk to me about being 'tall'. I hate women under 5'11" complaining it's hard to find clothes ect. Most tall clothes these days have an inside leg of 33"-34" and sometimes 36"-38", so why are you complaining when my inside leg is 40 and i've had to resort to buying 2 pairs of trousers and cutting the bottom off of one to sew onto the other. Even the bigger sizes are for the shape of a caucasian female. I couldn't find clothes anywhere and when i did i had to fork out well over the odds for something a short girl could find anywhere for less than half the price (anyone else find this??)

I'm now a graduate and hold a BA (hons) in fashion design so I can bring tall women of different cultures and backgrounds fashion that is not only flattering but AFFORDABLE. I mean, you can't buy a pair of tall leggings for much less than £40 and our short gals can buy them in Primark for £5 - What's up with that?!

I'm happy with who I am these days. At 21 I've finally got to the point where people say 'look at her she's massive' or 'oh my god you're so tall' and I even have to think 'oh my god, I am!'. I don't watch for people's reactions anymore or walk with my head down because I don't care what they think (always remember half the people you see in a day when you're out and about you will NEVER see again so who cares what they think. The second you've walked past them you never have to think about them again.). It won't take any of you young girls long to become happy with just who you are and start living life how it should be lived, with smiles on all of your faces :)

6'0" Donna wrote (July 7th 2013)

Being 56 and 6'0" and now 250 pounds I was always odd one out. I was shy and had a hard time being this tall. One of the biggest problems I encountered were men that had a bad attitude with me. It took me a long time to understand why but once I did I enjoyed being tall.

6'0" Jasmine wrote (June 5th 2013)

I think this website is great. It gives tall girls like myself a new perspective about being tall. I use to hate my height because 1. All my friends are 5'7" or shorter and 2. Dating was a pain in the butt, but now I'm loving every inch of me and even though my friends are short (one of my good friends is at least 4'10") they're still very supportive and loving :). Thanks for giving me more reasons to love my height and be proud of it! Tall girls rock! I wouldn't change my height for anything, and neither would my boyfriend ;D.

6'4 1/2" Amanda wrote (May 29th 2013)

I'm 15 and I used to HATE being tall because I basically had it all. The problems every tall girl had when she was young. People being jerks and insensitive and treating me like an outcast because I didn't "fit in". I was even pressured by family and friends to play basketball (typical, right). Now that I've come to realize that being is just a part of me and frankly, I'm grateful I'm tall because I wouldn't be me without it. HERE'S TO ONE MORE YEAR OF GROWING!

Joerg says: That's one of the best I've read so far... considering you are only 15. Keep your head held high, Amanda!

6'1 1/2" Pinky wrote (May 23rd 2013)

I am proud to be a tall woman. I have was told my entire life, "the boys will catch up, they boys will catch up." Guess what? They didn't! I don't really mind so much though. I'm cool with who I am. I'm tall, and I'm fat, and I'm beautiful. That said, it would be nice if I were attractive to men.

6'1" Avril wrote (May 16th 2013)

I have been tall all my life. Once I got through my teenage awkwardness I have loved being tall. I emphasize my height with my clothes, stand up straight and wear look at me colors.

There are downsides, of course. I struggle with clothes just like everyone else, and my dating pool was limited. When I pose for a pic with my girlfriends I am a full head taller than they are.

But I found a plact to shop, learned to show my long legs off around my petite friends, and discovered that the internet makes it easy to find a tall man to date. :)

I have three sons, two are already over 6'3" and they don't mind having my genes, at all. Height is an advantage in sports and business world, for men or women. I hope all of us can learn to appreciate our fantastic statures and show it off.

When you are taller than the crowd, you are going to stick out. So throw on your red lipstick and own it.

5'11" Chloe wrote (May 12th 2013)

Being 12 years old and 5'11" attracts a lot of attention. Although I like being tall, its a pain sometimes. I'm the second tallest in my grade, and I am therefore told I am tall 10+ times per day (like I didn't know already...). Just thought I would share my thoughts on being super tall :)

5'10" Melissa wrote (April 21st 2013)

Whoops. Yesterday at the mall I accidentally hit a girl in the face with my shoulder. THE GREEN JOLLY GIANT STRIKES AGAIN! Mwahahahahahaha

6'3" Jheri wrote (April 18th 2013)

April 18 is High Five Day (there are probably days for everything). My friend Colleen sometimes gives people high fives when she sees them start to look at her, so rather than a stare and a comment she could do without, she gets a smile or a laugh. I tried it here a few years ago and it does make people smile, but I think it works better in the US. She says the trick is look at someone's elbow as you give it. Here is her little video on it :-)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dy8qaXblebE

Give it a try and see if it doesn't bring smiles and makes your day.

5'10" Jackie wrote (April 9th 2013)

Thanks so much, Susan for encouraging me, even here some people view being plump as pretty. For example for years I never used to wear a trouser or jeans because whenever I would wear one men (and even some women) would tell me to stop wearing them because I don't have a butt and they are made for people with big behinds, to show them off and that am too tall at 5'8"' to wear a trouser or jean. You can imagine what that did to my self esteem as a teenager back in the 90s.

Then I tried to wear short skirts and I was told that my legs were too long and small so I don't look good in short skirts either. Actually a certain teacher during my last year of primary school (I was fourteen years old at the time) made fun of my long legs in front of the whole school, which made my self esteem go down more.

So as an adult (I am 36 now - yes I made 36 in March) I have learned to embrace what God gave me. In Sudan they are so lucky tall is considered beautiful but unfortunately because of the war many have migrated to Uganda and they are mercilessly being laughed at for being tall.

My daughter who is 8 is also tall for her height and it has started. Recently she asked me what she can do to be short... Can you imagine that? An 8 year old asking to be short because of being ridiculed for her height by adults? Well, I told her she is the most beautiful girl and being tall rocks.

I am glad I went through what I did,because I can be able to help my tall daughter. My advice to the teens who are being asked dumb questions like why are you so tall? Duh! Just ask them why they are so short and make sure you have loads of confidence. You will see, they will start admiring you.

If they ask you why you wear high heels yet you are tall ask them why they wear flat shoes yet they are short. If high heels were meant for short women as they like saying ask them why they don't wear them all the time and wear flat shoes that were meant for tall people. That will do it. They will never ask you dumb questions again and if they do just strut your stuff. I have come to realize that being tall rocks! You look good in everything, you will look good in flat shoes and you will still rock wearing high heels.

6'4" Susan wrote (April 2nd 2013)

This message is for Jackie from Uganda. I have a dear friend from Kenya who believed for years she was ugly because she is slender and shapely and in Kenya, plump women are preferred. It wasn't until she moved to the States that she realized that many, many men find her extremely pretty. In fact, when I would tell men here she once considered herself ugly, they would squeal, "Julia thinks she's UGLY? She's so pretty!". I bet the same is true for your height! If you could immigrate here to the U.S., you would get looks of admiration. And wait, isn't height really valued in parts of Africa, too? I once had a tall grocery store clerk, fresh from the Sudan, I think, or Somalia, walk around me in an admiring circle and say, "Wow, in my tribe you'd be you'd have a 300 cattle bride-price!" I know I feel a lot prettier in the Netherlands, where lots of women look like me, and many are my height. Maybe you just have the right height for the wrong culture!

I remember when I was young, my tall girl cousin and I kept getting criticized for being "too tall". So we started asking people what height we "should" be. The response was always "5'10"- we were both around 6'4"". So I drew out six inches on a piece of paper, we looked at it together, and said: "Should we let that small a distance ruin our lives?" We then burnt the paper and never looked back.

5'11 1/2" Vanesssa wrote (April 1st 2013)

I'm now 32 years and I would just like to say to every girl in her teens that's 5ft 10in and over - its tough being a teen! Even a pimple can seem like the end of the world. Being tall is just something that's a stepping stone to an awesome personality and a well rounded character. Being tall is your blessing! Be happy in it! You'll attract the right kinda attention then, for sure. Some guys don't like bones, some don't like curves. Some like legs, some like smiles, etc etc etc! Stop looking at yourself through every other pair of eyes RIGHT NOW! You have a unique perspective on life - excuse the pun lol. I GUARANTEE you my darling girl, there is nothing worse than a beautiful TALL GIRL / WOMAN who doesn't love herself. Start with loving yourself before you want the world to "love" you. Be there for yourself before expecting a "man" to do it. Be strong, confident, happy! Personally I've never been more confident about my size and believe me I practice what I preach. You're iconic AS YOU ARE - JUST STRUT!!!

5'10 1/2" Dionna wrote (March 31st 2013)

Hey! I'm a 16 year old basketball player, and I am 5'10 1/2". People always come up to me saying "Oh my God, you're tall", "Why are you so tall!" , but after a while I got used to it. It may be hard finding jeans, shoes and ESPECIALLY dresses that don't look so short when they're not, but at the end of the day being tall is so awesome! Embrace the tallness ladies! We STAND OUT! Our legs, our body shape, the way we walk, EVERYTHING! Don't let any one tell you other wise. Tall girls ROCK!

5'10" Louise wrote (March 16th 2013)

I highly recommend Long Elegant Legs for clothing. I have purchased several items from them online. Great styles, quality and truly designed for the tall woman.

5'10" Julie wrote (March 15th 2013)

I used to feel awkward about my height as a teenager. I was 5 ft at ten, 5'5" at twelve, 5'7" at fifteen and now 5'9" at 27. I have come to realise that tallness is an asset for women, in view of the following facts:

1. Short women (especially those with much taller husbands) have an above-average risk of childbirth complications. Ask any health professional you know, or google-search, for confirmation. Tall women fare better regardless of their partner's height.
2. Tall women show later in pregnancy because their longer waists can accommodate the baby vertically for a longer period of time before bulging out. This means a better post-natal figure.
3. High heels damage the legs and other parts of the body over the years. They lead to bigger and more prominent calf muscles. It is therefore an advantage not to need them.
4. Still on high heels, if tallness is good for men and not for women, men should be the ones wearing heels but the reverse is the case. Short women wear heels to look like us.
5. Tall height = long legs and long legs are considered sexy on a woman.
6. Tall women naturally look slimmer than shorter women with the same vital statistics. They can also eat more without putting on weight.
7. Models and beauty queens have to be tall (at least 5'7"). There is no maximum height.
8. Long legs enable you to walk and run faster. This enables you to escape from danger and even have an edge when competing for seats in an overcrowded lecture room.

On the issue of finding clothes and shoes that fit, I have discovered that skirts and dresses are a tall woman's best friends. They don't have to reach her ankles and they help to differentiate her from the guys. No woman can be mistaken for a man in a skirt or dress. Also, sandals of the right size are easier to find than covered shoes,which need an extra space in front for easy walking. I buy my shoes in bulk once a year from wholesalers; it is not easy to find bigger sizes with retailers.

5'10" Taylor wrote (March 14th 2013)

To Jewel: Great comments, and so true!

5'11" Jewel wrote (March 13th 2013)

Ladies, it looks like I have to start up a blog on how height is not such a bad thing. I am serious about this.

Catherine Zeta Jones once said that everyone has insecurities, the only thing is you can't let people see this.

I am not saying be a fake, it's only for you to see that everyone - yes even in Hollywood has issues that tend to dominate them all day long if they let it.

Just try and google "I am too short" (in inverted commas so it comes up exactly that way). You will even notice that being too short as from people's experiences is worse than being too tall. No really, think about employability and the projection of power when it comes to high paid jobs.

Also yes, with the sexes it causes issues but not when you look stunning. Looking stunning somehow forgives your height or causes people to overlook your height. Sorry to put it that way. Yes, tall and short guys will both be after you.

Google even "I am too fat", "my nose is too big", "my head is too big", "I hate my teeth", "I am self-conscious" - yadi yadi yada.

85 - 90% of people have an issue. I have however seen an extremely fat guy walking around and living life to the max and not letting things get in his way. Even having "normal" friends. People gravitate to people like these.

The key is, if you are self-conscious due to your weight height or whatever - they all smell it miles off and treat you or tease you accordingly.

Just love and accept yourself.

Not to brag but I have come to a point where I wear heels to work all week and Sunday to church if I feel like. I walk about all in town. I am currently looking to wear 5 inch max to go out etc and to work sometimes. My work average is 3-4 inches weekly.

I think 5 is my maximum though. You are free to have your min. and max. - it's a free world. However, I dont believe in platforms (they give you too much height versus the exact same heel with no platform - this would even land up shorter. Just google this). So I look for thin 5 inches without a platform - now those take mastering to walk in.

I tower over everybody but I don't give a chocolate what anyone thinks. For some reason I can now walk around and no one would even butt an eye. In fact I get guys giving me their numbers. LOL.

This is my world, my look, my heels and I am living it up to the max!!!! Give it a shot - you won't look back.
Jewel

6'1" Carys wrote (March 11th 2013)

Well, hey girls. I'm 6'1" and 15. I have always struggled with my height, whether it was not being able to wear heels at my school prom, or feeling like the only girl in my year who's going to be single forever. I'm just starting to realise that no matter how tall you are you should wear heels. If you feel like they make you too tall just wear smaller ones and gradually increase. Just think even if you are afraid of the whole boy situation, if you don't mind being with a guy shorter or if you're like me and don't like feeling bigger than my boyfriend. Most tall guys are hot and they only want tall girls. So yeah, be who you are and strut those long legs :D

5'10 1/2" Christal wrote (March 2nd 2013)

Being tall has always been something that I hated about myself. I hated not finding jeans, shoes and my hands are even large. I feel like an alien most times when I'm in a social crowd. Oh, don't let me where a pair of heels, "how tall are you", "you're tall!!". Uh duh, I think I know this, you don't have to say it. I'm not sure how to feel about being tall, but I'm learning to love myself for who I am. I am searching for clothing that will accentuate my tall height as well as my big booty!!! I get a lot of stares but I'm not sure if I want them. Men gawk and women admire but I have to love me and exude my confidence! Tall girls rock!!!

5'11" Deshanta wrote (March 1st 2013)

I have a low self esteem because of my height. Everyday someone asks me "why are you so tall?", "how tall are you?", "you're too tall to be a girl!" and I dont like it because it makes me feel tall girls are ugly or just not wanted. But reading these comments made me feel better about myself because I'm not the only one who thinks that way. I'm going to love my height and my flaws because there's nothing you can do about it but accept it. #TallGirlsRule #LongLegs #StandsOut #BEAUTIFUL

6'0" Katie wrote (February 25th 2013)

I am 21 and I have always hated how tall I am since I'm also chubby. Dealing with height and weight has always been very hard for me. But I am trying now very hard to love my body and to accept it for what it is. This site and all the women involved have been very inspirational.

5'11" Jewel wrote (February 25th 2013)

Ladies: Wear your heels. Although I tend to say I am 6ft (seemed to have shrunk). I strongly believe in wearing heels. Once you wear a high pair for the whole day you will never look back. There is a secret about heel height. It is not what is stated. If it's 4 inch you may only stand 3 inches higher because of the pivoting of your foot. The lower the heel, the more height you will rip from it. Ladies wear your heels. Start low and increase gradually.

6'0" Emily wrote (February 18th 2013)

I am eighteen and I've been tall since the summer before my sophomore year of high school. I grew half a foot in that summer alone. Sometimes I hate my height but there's nothing I can do to change it. I hate when people start a conversation with "you're so tall!" - really? I didn't notice. Something that I've learned is that it doesn't matter if you're tall you can wear heels if you want to. I do, and I always get compliments about not being afraid to wear heels. Tall girls can wear heels.

6'1 1/2" Dani wrote (February 17th 2013)

I am 15 and nearly 6ft 2, up until a year ago my height got me down a lot. I wouldn't want to meet new people because I always got comments about how tall I was, especially because the lack of muscle makes me look particularly lanky. But what I have realized recently is there is nothing you can do about your height, and being a tall girl, what do you have? Long legs, loads of other things that shorter people don't have, so you may as well embrace what you've got because you're stuck how you are. Be confident. I bet you any money you want all your shorter friends are envious of you, all short boys are intimidated by your height and there is absolutely nothing to be ashamed of! If you've got it, then flaunt it!

5'10" Sophie wrote (February 14th 2013)

Hi, I am 5'10" barefoot, 37, 135 pounds. I have always been considered beautiful, strong and have had confidence my whole life. I always was conscious of my height because I come from a family of short women and grew up in an area with predominantly short people. I never wore a heel over 2 inches ever! And I am married to a man that is 5'10" also. Since we have been together, 5 yrs, I wear all flat boots! Never a heel! Why do I care if I'm taller than him? Really bugs me this late in life! Again I know I'm attractive, in great shape, have always been confident and complimented yet I hate hate hate towering over my husband in 2 inch heels! Petty problems I know but being 5'7" would have been great, Mother Nature!

5'11" Trix wrote (February 13th 2013)

To Adrienne: Since the age of 13 I have the same height as now (46). I am taller than the rest of my family even some sisters children. But I recognize some of your problems, I felt the same when I was an teenager. When I was 13 to 15 people my age hadn't had their grow spurth yet, when I had mine already. It was all arms and legs for a while and no figure to speak off. People can be envious of your height, have you thought about that. What worked for me (childish) why are you so short, when people asked about my height. Learn to embrace it, it meant for me power and standing out to be different and not a sheep. And yes I wear heels and I love wearing my own handmade hats.

5'8" Jackie wrote (February 11th 2013)

Hello Joerg, I thank you so much for this website. I am 35 years old and 5'8". I am Ugandan and women here are between 4'0" - 5 6". I have always been considered very tall and have always hated my height. When I was younger (in my teens and early 20s) I used to pray that I would be shorter in the morning. Then I would cry over that. I have always dated shorter guys but felt more comfortable with guys taller than me. But they seem to like short girls more. I was feeling low about my height and I googled something that lead me to your site. I have been blessed by this site, as I read the quotes from other tall women. I felt better. Some of you have so much confidence. Some of you are much taller than me but wear heels. Most of you wear high heels despite of your height which is very good. I used to slouch a lot but recently I am so proud of my height and if someone comments negatively about it I tell them it's not my fault they are short. I am on a dating site so I met this nice guy who came over to visit. He had told me that he was 5'9" but when I met him physically he was shorter than me and I was wearing high heels which even made it worse but I didn't care because I had confidence from reading the quotes on your site. He had a problem with it but since I was confident he got used to it and I don't mind wearing heels when I'm out with him. If he feels bad about my height then he is not worth it. I want a man who wants me for me. Thanks so much, Joerg!

6'0 1/2" Laura wrote (January 16th 2013)

To Adrienne: I'm 19, soon 20, my older sister is 5'4", my mum is 5'6" and I am taller than my dad. I too find the confidence of the other women on here awe inspiring and some what difficult to comprehend, I hit 6ft at your age too and as much as I wish I could offer words that will make it all change, I can't.

We're tall, we won't ever really wear heels, finding a guy is and will always be harder, and we will have down moments where we just feel as if life is unfair, as if we were dealt the bad hand.

How to fix this? Simple, we get over it. Even people bursting with confidence everyday will have moments where they just hate this height, but you know what? There are so many worse things out there. So many birth defects, or life altering accidents, people who actually suffer.

As much as I too try to be confident and have a loud personality , I will still feel down occasionally, so will you and most the people whom ever look at this page; but in all honesty, life could be a lot worse. My words of advice? We are what we are, and it could be so much harder. So on the days where you can't be upbeat, be grateful. x

6'3" Ali wrote (January 12th 2013)

Adrienne: The way you feel now won't last forever! The reason everyone else seems more confident about their height is because they're older. Being 15 sucks and being tall on top of all the other insecurities really doesn't help! I was 6ft2 at 15 and HATED it, used to wish at night that I would wake up 5ft5. My attitude changed drastically when I got older, guys around me were far more grown up (and massively taller) and I started to feel good about it. I'm now 21, 6f3, am the only 'newbie' on my uni's volleyball team because of my natural ability (insaine height), I have been playing for a few month whereas my teammates have been for over 5 years, and I have previously sucked at ALL sports due to lack of coordination and balance - so there are perks!

I also now have the perks of tall guys being interested, singling me out because they love tall women, I get more attention from guys than all of my shorter friends because I stand out. It has become normal for me to have strangers telling me I'm beatuful just because they feel like it - am not saying this to sound arrogant, but people think of a tall woman as beautiful, aspirational! I never get nasty comments anymore, only 'aren't you lovely and tall!' and 'you should be a model!'

After that long essay I now conclude; being a tall teenager is appalling and you will have the piss taken out of you constantly. However, being a tall woman is awesome!

5'10" Taylor wrote (January 9th 2013)

To Adrienne: Try not to always compare yourself to others is one way to gain self-esteem. You will never look short. Try to enjoy yourself the way you are, instead of the way you want to be. That's not attainable so sort of a waste of time. Find something you like about yourself and try to focus more time on that, rather on what you dislike. Try out different styles to see what looks best on your body type. Think of yourself as special because you are. You are not just off the 5'3"'' to 5'7" assembly line... you are different... so focus on how to make yourself a nice different. People do ask about height, true, and can be annoying. You don't have to answer though... say "Personal thing. Hope you dont mind." They get it. LOL.

5'10 1/2" Emily wrote (January 9th 2013)

"Embrace the legs!!!" Keep them toned and looking sexy... Guys will drool all over them. Be around women who are about your same height, you'll feel better about yourself.

I always felt like a giant because my friends were only 5'5" or so. But, later on, I found me some tall girlfriends to hang with and it boosted my confidence. And once that happened, going after the guys felt easy.

I'm not saying the guy has to be shorter or taller than you. Just find someone that makes you comfortable. For me, I only feel comfortable with really tall guys. But on the flip side, I've got a ton of shorter guy friends who could all be my brothers (love them; great friends). Just be with who makes you comfortable.

6'3" Jheri wrote (January 7th 2013)

To Rusti-Lynn: I run a lot and recommend that you have a good thick sole for proper shock absorption. Concentrate on a great fit and a quality sole or you may be looking at an injury. If you are doing sports it really pays to get fitted by someone who knows what they are doing - at least until you can find the right shoe. You might bring up your question at a good store. With running shoes there is a slight difference, but not much.

There are walking shoes that have much thinner soles, but they don't give proper support for athletics. I would only recommend them to a casual walker.

Of course there are the new almost barefoot shoes like Nike Frees, but they are very easy to get injured in unless you can adapt your style to them. I wouldn't recommend them for anything other than light jogging.

I'm not at all bothered by my ASICS :-) I just wish I didn't have to buy three or four pair a year. If you go with a barefoot shoe, you'll be wearing them out even faster.

One of the best athletic shoe sites is Jenny Sanders - she really knows what she is doing. You might try writing her if you are worried about a few millimeters: http://drshoereviews.com

5'11 1/2" Rusti-Lynn wrote (January 6th 2013)

Does anyone know what brand, if any of athletic shoes have thinner than normal soles. I find myself not wanting to work out because athletic shoes tend to add 1 1/2 inches, which puts me over 6'0" and makes me very uncomfortable. Thanks ladies if you have any suggestions. Rusti-Lynn

6'0" Adrienne wrote (January 5th 2013)

I just turned 15 four months ago and I am so tired of my height. If there was one thing I could change about myself, it would be my height. I see the people posting here with so much confidence and I wonder if we live in different worlds. I really hate being as tall as I am.

I'm tired of hearing "You are so tall!" or "Why are you so tall?" every single day of my life.

I have real self esteem issues because of it. I attend an all girls institution so I am mostly around girls the average height. Most guys I know are shorter than me or prefer short girls. I'm really tired of being taller than everyone around me, even my mother, and my 20 year old sister. I'm like almost my father's height. My height is beginning to annoy me. I feel really uncomfortable around other people because I'm always the tallest in the room so I normally try to sit down and I don't even wear heels to church. Sports is not my thing because I'm sorta clumsy but people say I may have a shot at modelling. I really don't know what to do because I really want to get rid of this height. I'm tired of feeling like a giant.

I really came upon this site after googling how to be tall and confident as a girl.